i do feel the pressure to be perfect like you have to be skinny, pretty, and popular. to many girls have so many self cofidence issues. some girls will go to any thing to be perfect.

No, I dont, because I listen to what Demi and Selena say. I always read what they say because usually they make you feel like you dont need to be. So when I feel like that, I think of them because I wont feel that way anymore. And Taylor and Joeslyn are the same people I can tell.

Erin: Nope, because even though I have zits, I have good posture, and that takes attention away from the acne. And me and my friend Angela keep a slam book that we share with each other.

Angela: No, I dont because I write in a diary. And Erin and I keep a slam book to share with each other.

no but i am olny 9 sooooooooooooooo who really cares? not me!

Yes, alot.my problem is worse because i just moved to PUERTO RICO from california were all my best friends are. there are alot of skinny girls at my scool and it makes me feel pressured to b skinny to. but i learned this quote that goes "dont worry about wat ur body looks like but wat it can DO.

no, why care? live for you and not for others. its your life do with it wat u wish. if u wanna be someone who puts people down cause ur insecure go ahead but it will end up against u. and if u wanna be someone who thinks so what?? thats probably the better choice. think wow u think i dress ugly or wow u think im fat etc.. like um thanks for ur opinion glad im not ur friend!! ohh and when ur friends with those kind of ppl u feel pressured to be accepted by them.. AHA wow this is cheesy ;) but people who can put most pressure on u sumtimes is ur family... just remember one thing YOUR FABULOUS!!! ahaaa cheesy!! :P

- xxx - Maddie

Yep. All the time. Theres always a pressure build up about doing good in school, and being popular, and just being "normal." I'm always good in school, my brother calls me a browner even. I'm not that popular, but thats really okay with me. I'd rather have time to myself to do things I want to do then have too much time spent on friends and no alone time to myself. I still do have friends, just not too many that I can't count. And then there is the pressure of people telling you to slack off and be late for class and badly behave, because that is the "normal" thing to do. Basicly , if you don't do that, then your considered "uncool" and "not normal" I totally feel that an education that gives you tons of opportunities is way better than an education that just has a few. So i'd rather be a "browner" and "uncool" and be myself instead of being "stupid" and "cool and popular" and not being true to who I am. and there is also alot of pressure to be skinny too. I'm not that skinny, I have more of a muscular build. But i'm fine with that.

Yes sometimes, expecially because all the girls at my school are twig thin and wear all the coolest clothes that I can't afford. I am not as tiny in size as them, I am way taller and heavier, sometimes it makes me feel like I don't fit in with everyone else. But I never want to be in the popular group because at my school most of them aren't nice. And a lot of people at my school are all stuck up and i know I would never want to be like them. So I just remember I can be the better person and I don't have to be that perfect because I know they aren't either. I shouldn't waste my time on being someone I know I could never be.

I have the exact opposite prob as you people. Im way too skinny, and get teased. Thats the way I am, I eat a lot of junk, and gain no weight, Im just a skinny person!

who doesnt feel the pressure to be perfect ya know with all these magazines saying all this stuff and overly skinny girls come on everybody feels it but sometimes you just gotta shrug it off and remember that your you and thats the best you can be

YES!!!! I always feel so pressured!! I have a boyfriend I need to keep up with and homework!!! Plus friends!!! Plus every thing else in this world!!!!! I am always pressured!!!! The only time I am not pressured is when It's Saturday!! Go to friends house on Saturday.

No i havn't felt that way

YES!!!! I always feel so pressured!! I have a boyfriend I need to keep up with and homework!!! Plus friends!!! Plus every thing else in this world!!!!! I am always pressured!!!! The only time I am not pressured is when It's Saturday!! Go to friends house on Saturday.

YES!!!! I always feel so pressured!! I have a boyfriend I need to keep up with and homework!!! Plus friends!!! Plus every thing else in this world!!!!! I am always pressured!!!! The only time I am not pressured is when It's Saturday!! Go to friends house on Saturday.

Yes I feel Like That All The Time Like If I Have 2 Be Skinny And Popular 2 get Boys And Be Cool. I always Take Nick Jonas As An Example I always Feel That If He Ever Came 2 My School And Date One of Us He Would Pick The Popular Skinny Girl.Now I don't Call Me self Fat AT ALL! But I'm not Super Skinny Like A Stick.... I Luv How Nick Jonas Says He Looks At A Girls Attitude Because I have A Better Attitude and that's Mostly All That Matters. If You really Think About Why would You wanna Be Perfect????

yes way yes. im like trying to be famous and all that but seriously its not working. people tell me and fat, ugly, cant sing. its very unfortunate.

yes!! I feel Pressured every day of my life!! I get pressured over homework, boys , brothers, parents, everything! I have friends that I usually lean on if I am stressed, but now when I say I like a guy, they dont support me!! So if you ask me everyone gets pressured sometimes, and NO-ONE is perfect! I don't think us girls,or anyone for that matter can help it, we are only human!!!

i definately feel pressured by guys at school about how i look. but i just ignore what they say but some how i always go down to their level.

yes. in fact i do because popular girls are always skinny and popular and im not so much.
I think that you should just be able to be yourself and not have to worry at popular girlz.

oh and by the way Jessie is just mean and she iz a poular girl. you can tell.

yes i have probs like i wanna be popular and stuff but
oh well

no cuz i know im perfect every guy in my class and school luvs me dont be hatin u know u want to be me

I have this one friend that says she's better at everyone at everything, and when I try my hand at something I like, she'd be like "You can't do this. Im better than you at that!" I'm trying to keep up, because we're at a breaking point, even though we've been BFFs for 7 years.

My crush found out I like him. I totally faked it out for the next couple weeks, but I feel him noticing me again. I'm trying my best to ignore, but he's getting back in my life. I wish I could block him out. Truly, some of my friends are pushing his back too! What should I do??

-Carly

DEFINATLY! I always worry if I'm to fat, if the guy me or not,do i look ugly,am I out of his league,and lot more!Recently I wrote a note to my crush saying i like him and put it in his desk when I saw him read it I felt totally stupid for doing that he was so blushing I didnt know what to think!When one of my bf's told him she liked him to i was so annoyed.He went up to her the next day and said what are u thinking dont have a crush on me I dont like you! It was really funny but I kind of felt sorry for my friend.I dont know why but it didnt seem like she herd him cause she was just staring and smileing at him.Then he just walked away.I always wondered why he never did that to me...after that my friend said she didnt like him anymore.I was so relieved.But then my other friend said she liked him and i thinking when is this gonna end!She knew i liked him 4 a year and i still did but she didnt care she asked him to be her boyfrind and he said he just wanted to be friends with her.Every time he looked @ me I wondered what was he thinking.I dont think he told anyone that I wrote a note to him saying I liked him.Everything was different from that say on he would look at me then blush then look away.I kind of thought he liked me but had second thoughts because he knew i liked him and if he liked me then why he didnt ask me to be his girlfriend.Every time I'd try to stop having a crush on him I couldnt stop likeing him.This is my second year having a crush on him.Thats my story...It sucks huh?

DEFINATLY! I always worry if I'm to fat, if the guy me or not,do i look ugly,am I out of his league,and lot more!Recently I wrote a note to my crush saying i like him and put it in his desk when I saw him read it I felt totally stupid for doing that he was so blushing I didnt know what to think!When one of my bf's told him she liked him to i was so annoyed.He went up to her the next day and said what are u thinking dont have a crush on me I dont like you! It was really funny but I kind of felt sorry for my friend.I dont know why but it didnt seem like she herd him cause she was just staring and smileing at him.Then he just walked away.I always wondered why he never did that to me...after that my friend said she didnt like him anymore.I was so relieved.But then my other friend said she liked him and i thinking when is this gonna end!She knew i liked him 4 a year and i still did but she didnt care she asked him to be her boyfrind and he said he just wanted to be friends with her.Every time he looked @ me I wondered what was he thinking.I dont think he told anyone that I wrote a note to him saying I liked him.Everything was different from that say on he would look at me then blush then look away.I kind of thought he liked me but had second thoughts because he knew i liked him and if he liked me then why he didnt ask me to be his girlfriend.Every time I'd try to stop having a crush on him I couldnt stop likeing him.This is my second year having a crush on him.Thats my story...It sucks huh?

Kaela:To me if you have a problem with the way that you look or if you feel "pressure" to be perfect then you need to seek help. Not trying to be racists here I am a black female and as most people know blck females have a certain kind of confidence about themselves so you could be 300 pounds and still be pretty or 120 and still be pretty. if you got a lil butt be proud of it flaunt it don't say UGH I AM SO FAT because some boy is gone like that lil waist and that lil stuff in the the trunk IT'S CALLED BEING THICK SO BE PROUD OF IT!!!!!!!! AND NO I DO NOT FEEL PRESSURE TO BE PERFECT I LOVE ALL MY CURVES NO MATTER WERE THEY MAY FALL

Chelsi:I don't feel pressure cause nobody is gone pressure me to be perfect.So to all you other girls you need to suck it up no use in crying over something so stupid.You need to say I'm big so what if you got a problem say it to my face.so when Little Susie talking her mess you need to tell her she ain't bout nothin' she must not like herself so she start talkin spit about you then you can tell her that she ain't no better than you so stay strong and be confident. so if she step to you again you need to slap the taste out her fonky mouth.

yea we girls hav so much self cofidnce but wen someone makes fun of u lose all of every thing u had some girls r heavy and some hav acney but that doesnt mean u put urself down i hav been called so many names but thats one persons oppinion that doesnt mean its urs. we think that we need to look good cuz theres guys and some guys want someone whos laid back. if u really r not cofident in the way u look then change that but if someone doesnt lik the way u look than who cares not like that person will be by u the reast of ur life. we hav so much preasure on us that wen some one tells u that u look good take that preasure away and look at ur self in a diffirent way nt the way bout wat thers think but wat u think and thats wat matters
luv who ever is better and thats u

oppps i ment the secound person from november 11th dont listen to her shes hatin on us

I definitely think that girls are pressured to be perfect. It's the media and magazine covers with air brushed models that AREN'T really perfect. Every girl should remember that there is no one that really looks like that and that you are unique and special and beautiful being yourself.

Aubri, you are so not alone. You are safe in your own house. Nobody can see you, just be whoever you want. And the most popular girl in school might be the same way. Nobody is fearless. And your mom might not wanna talk about it because she might have gone through the same thing and his really scared to remind herself. And just slow down. You have all the time in your life. You only have one life, one shot. And dont worry about being a good wife or parent yet. Worry about right now. Worrying about tomorrow takes time away from the moment, and sometimes its better to stay in the moment because you might learn something without even knowing it. But you can set goals. There is a difference between living in tomorrow and making goals for tomorrow that will give tomorrow a little excitement, and today a little break. You are NOT alone. There is a whole world out there, not just the US. And there are lots of people getting help for that right now. And if your mom wont help, get another adult you can trust, and tell them about your probs, and your moms gambling, everything. Just talk. You are perfect for being the way you are. You are beautiful. Dont forget it.

In my life just starting highschool I just feel like you have to be perfect but I know you don't. Like one day I was waring sweat pants and a bagie sweter and someone called me a hobo...and I thought she was my friend but the thing is I want to be liked by everyone and I think we should be yourself because we're all perfect in are own way. You should love yourslef for yourself and know that your perfect the way you are, never give up on yourself, if you feel pressured in to being someone your not then stop and just be yourself, if it's your friends or boyfriend then you shouldn't be in that group of people if they don't like you for who you are. Your friends should like you for who you are not for who your trying to be......Be yourself, your TRUE friends don't want any one else!

sorta... it seems that guys only like girls thay have perfectly white teeth, perfect outfits, and that look like beautiful celebs like selena and demi!! it drives me crazy!! i do make sure i have nothing wrong with me before i go to school so i'm "perfect"... it's crazy!!

Well no not really. I don't need to be perfect because there is no such thing. Perfection will only happen when everyone has the exact sam e opinion. Like, 10 zillion years from now that STILL will not have happened. Not everyone will think that curly blond hair with light brown streaks is the best hairstyle there is. Not everyone will think that black jeans and a pink blouse will be the perfect thing to wear on a date. So no I never feel pressured to be perfect. Everyone is different and I have my own style and my own way of life. I will never be perfect, nor will anyone else in the world. A girly-girl can go around and judge people by what they wear, weather it's the perfect thing for school, or the most hideous outfit they have ever seen. So no never do I feel I need to be perfect. Perfection doesn't exist in my world.

Honestly, I feel like girls should not feel like they need to be perfect. Everyone has their flaws. NO ONE is perfect. I have been overweight almost my entire life. I have been criticized to the point where I have been in tears. I overcame the fact that sometimes people are just immature and they don't see people for who they are, not what they look like. It is human nature to judge other people, sometimes just to make yourself feel better. I feel like magazines and television should not criticize people either because if young girls see that they will end up with things like eating disorders and wanting plastic surgery. I'm not overly religious but one thing I do believe is that God made us the way we are for a reason and if he wanted us any other way he wouldn't have made us this way.

i definatly don't. my fam's awesome and friends are too. i'm a perfectionist in school, but I like getting the best grades. Music is my inspiration (hopefully be up-and-coming singer) and I have amazing role models. I think the best role models are people who don't care what people say and aren't obsessed with looks. In Hollywood, it's completely the opposite. You have an obligation to look a certain way. this encourages fans to do the same. Guys seem to expect girls to look a certain way in real life so people are all pressured to be perfect. What's perfection is the personalities you have. BE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS SAY

i have a lot of pressure going on lately....
i have just came to california from canada.... and it's really different here... i sort of feel left at at school... but in my old school, i was the most popular person in the entire grade... i miss canada and my old school! =(

Yeah but every girl should know this "Everyone has thier burden what counts is how you carry it" I've used these words to get through tough times. I've been pressured to get high, smoke, drink, and so many of that stuff. To get out of that situation surround yourself with good people. and if anyone needs to talk please email me at elite_40@yahoo.com

yes it is i am skinny and i have the pressure that my body hasnt developed as much as other girls have and i look at all the girls in the magazines especially selena gomez whom is my idol and go like"god y cant i be more like her?"so i definetly have alot of pressure to be perfect

YES!!! defentialy i mean like you see all the stars and look at their lives and their all soo perfect.
I would (L) it if people stopped bugging me about how i look compared to the stars ex. Selena,Miley etc.
I hope one day that some ppl can actually have better lives than some stars.
Thanks J-14 that made me feel better cause now the whole world knows

Yes i actually do because im so differant from everyone else and for once i just want to fit in and be popular but that wont happen.I dont have many friends so i wish i could be someone perfect and be someone everyone liked.

Yes, me personally I'm under pressure. I'm pretty much around the age were everyone feels pressure...espeically girls.like the average day puts pressure on me. Going to school, trying to do good on tests,and clothes.I'm a girl with so many dreams, thats all I think about. Like all the possibilitys and everything I can achieve.my dream is to be famous.haha its pretty much everyones dream. :) but I just want to show all of the other girls out there you can come from a small place like glendale wisconsin, and still achieve your dreams. And my most important dream is that my parents would be happy. That they would come home one day after work without yelling or sleeping. I want the best for them.but they also want the best for us.
Boys, are on every girls mind thease days...including mine.
Sometimes I just wish that I could be perfect, but no one is. I wish I could wake up for once feeling beautiful. But I can't. I want to be able to go to school withour feeling concious about what I'm wearing.
Being a 11 year old girl is tough. Ill be 12 in 1 month, and I wish for the almost the same thing every year. Some times I wonder why wishes don't cometrue like out parents say they will.
Sorry I'm getting off subject:/
But yes, I'm under pressure...seeing all the gorgous and talented stars like selena gomez and demi lovato makes me wonder how they got were they are today.
Just an average day...is enough pressure.

Yes, I feel personally pressure to B perfect. I mean come on there is always a cute crush to charm over and school work can make you feel like a big weight is on your shoulders.And the popular girls and guys are always picking on you to perfect with them or be a loser and different.

when people just say your born perfcet it adds
alot of prasure but i don't because i know no 1 is perfect and you have to larn thatxoxo

yes! i do feel pressured because of magazines whenever i see a really skinny celebrity i think that i have to be like them and look like them
khadija xxx

yes it's easy to feel pressured around guys. Especially if one rejects you. but you (should) like the guy for who he is and if he doesn't like you for who you are then you shouldn't try and change and be perfect

it's also hard when you move. You wanna be all popular, but I think it's important to realize the more you think about being someone else the more shy and timmid you get. Again you want friends who like you for you are. Just be yourself.

Yea definitely especially with all the ads that say things like"hot" and stuff its totally pressuring. Also guys only look for well looks these days they don't really care for who you are. But the worst i have to say is being a younger girl in an older grade it sucks because nobody thinks your mature enough to date!!

Yes, ofcourse it is pressure to try to show the world that you are perfect! For instance, Miley screwed up most of her career, and now only 30% of people still love her! Nobody is perfect, but if you screw up one little thing the world gets mad at you!

i ve been having really hard times at school my firend likes these two boys i think there cute but albout a week ago i was asked out by a boy she like in the 6 th garde and yesterday she was asking this boy if he would go with her to a dance and he said no he asked me to the dance infront of her it made her cry

i ve been having really hard times at school my firend likes these two boys i think there cute but albout a week ago i was asked out by a boy she like in the 6 th garde and yesterday she was asking this boy if he would go with her to a dance and he said no he asked me to the dance infront of her it made her cry

i ve been having really hard times at school my firend likes these two boys i think there cute but albout a week ago i was asked out by a boy she like in the 6 th garde and yesterday she was asking this boy if he would go with her to a dance and he said no he asked me to the dance infront of her it made her cry iam not perfect

hi i kinda feel presure to do good in school because i want to get good grade and make my parents proud and i want tp help them more at home and i am really trying to do the best i can and i am really lucky to have great friends and parents. thanks j-14 wat u say in ur magaziene helps me alot!!!!!

No, because I really think that there is someone out there who likes you for you, and if you change all the people who liked you wont amymore. And if someone does like you and you become friends, then the whole time the friendship wont be the real thing. And I think that once you go to the extreme, you end up like Aubri up above me with the super long comment. I steer clear of lots of the people or things that make you feel that way. I really think that you are the way you are because nobody is friendless, only unfriendly.

yes cause i see all these people that are really thin and even though there are big people in the world doesnt mean that they are ugly they are just as beautiful as everyone else.

Bianca: I dont mean to sound full of myself, but I am tall, skinny, tan, and have tons of expereince with boys. Really, I dont mean to sound conceited, but I just feel fine with myself.

Nina: I am just like Bianca. And no, Im not full of myself, but really, I am happy with who I am, and what is happening right now in my life. It just seems like right now Im having a really fun time with all the things life has to offer. And with me and Biancas rich parents we really are having fun. And no, we are totally not mean, just here to show how SPANISH BABES HAVE THE MOST FUN!

Wheres my sandwich that I was eating a few minutes ago???? I dont know what happend.....well....G2G..........find my sandwich.

I think that there is a lot of preassure, but we all have to get past that. You want to be that bubbly girl but the more you think about it the more shy you get. Or if you succeed your secrets will come out eventually.

It's so hard to move schools and have no one like you and you just want to have friends, but do you want to have friends who like you for another person?

and the same with a crush. Girls can want to be pretty, and charming, and popular and everything to a guy, but if your just like everyone else then you'll never stand out

I've learned that when you try to just be yourself and throw away your pride everything works out.

omg yes well alot of the people at my skool are realy judgemental so i feel insecure sometimes so i feel the need 2 be perfect to get the guys 2 leave me alone or just keep my name out of there mouth

yes of course i'm pressured with boys, family, friends , plus i feel the need 2 look good every minute of everyday to get guys 2 like me , i feel the need 2 look skinny , pretty and popular .....and on top of all that i have schoolwork so i can have my family be proud of me i'm the youngest of three so i have to try to be the perfect little sister and pretend it doesn't bug me to be called ur daniel's little sister or ruth's little sister instead of my actual name ... i have many haterz checking everything i do so i have to worry about them to . uhh my life is complicated

Well, at school and at home, yes. But you know what? I make mistakes and I know how to prevent them from happening. But the thing is, when you are just by yourself you can forget about that stuff. Its life. Something was supposed to be this way. Like Aubri who basically has depression, someday something good is really gonna happen for her. Hard times come so you have something exciting at the end, because you fix the problem and know youve done good. And BTW Kassandu, you left your sandwich at my house! LOL!

i do feel pressured.with family, friends ,school its like i want to be so perfect for everyone.The onlt person im real with is my best friend.My own family i act like someone im not.They dont know the real me.I have Been growing up a lot lately,But i still try to be perfect and it soo freakin hard!!!I want to be me the real me but im afraid.over the summer i wanted to be super skinny in time for school i thought it was the perfect time to almost stop eating.Thank GOD i got ahold of my self.I wish all this pressure would just stop!!!!!!

yes everyday well not everyday but it seems that way but i dont feel like im being pressure i push myself to be perfect because i try to because i'm tryingto make better of myself.

Yes..I feel like I have to go through all this trouble in the morning to impress. I am made fun of for having a big nose and all that stupid stuff. I pretend to not hear the person saying it but its hard not too.

Yes, I do becuse peple make fun of me for beeing a bad speler. I am in sicksth grade and peple say I am not an avereg stodentt and that make me sad becuse I am very capabel I just have a hard time with speling. I have a normul amownt of frends and have a normul life, I just dont do wel in scholl. Their is a populer girl and she embaressess me abowt not beeing good at it that I am thincking abowt homescholl but my parents wont let me becuse they want me to be reguler and Im just noot.

I feel the pressure a lot becaus eim fat and i feel that way because my voice rox but my body sux i mean no fat girl ever makes it! and no guy ever likes me so the pressure ets overwhelmin!! xoxox ashley

no not really, i mean perfect is impossible, so why even try. people will like you for who you are, trust this one !111 :) :) :) :) :) :): ):

no not really, i mean perfect is impossible, so why even try. people will like you for who you are, trust this one !111 :) :) :) :) :) :): ):

no not really, i mean perfect is impossible, so why even try. people will like you for who you are, trust this one !111 :) :) :) :) :) :): ):

The only thing on my body that I am DEASPERATE to make perfect is..............................my eyebrows! I bey you thought I was gonna say boobies huh? Well no, that's gross. Anyway, I hate my eyebrows Cause they are so bushy and icky like! I hate it! But otherwise I'm perfectly happy with my looks...and everyone else should be too. If you think that not being absolutly hot means you're not going to have a good life or get married to a good looking guy then you're wrong. The only thing that will keep you from having a good life is if you stop trying! And it's really dumb and shallow to tell someone they're ugly just so you can laugh at them and have no one laugh at you. That's what I (and probably everyone else in the world) call being a stupid insensitive jerk! We all have insecurities and the is really no need to be extra saor depressed about them. Never ever change for anyone but yourself and only yourself! Otherwise you'll have something elese to be insecure about. Lack of selfconfedence!!!! And that's the worst thing to be insecure about!!! The piont is to be happy with yourself...don't change for anyone but you!
-Isabella Jackson

YES! I all was feel the pressure to be perfect but being perfect will change your feature because i went there i use to hang out with the popular cheer leading girls but if they tell you are a loser or a nerd or to get out of my way geek it will still make you perfect but there are just mad at you guys and when the popular boys or girls get older they will just be a geek and all of the not popular kid will make you popular know in a few years you will be popular

ps miley cyrus is stupid and she will be a nerd to!!!!!!!!!

yeah i feel like that. i feel like no guy will ever want to date me because im not the prettiest, skiniest, dont have the biggest butt or boobs etc.its just i cant stand it.
ps 7th grade sucks!![[DRAMA DRAMA AND EVEN MORE DRAMA!XD]]

no 1 is perfect every one gets pressured or hurt in life even me

Yes, My best friend is so pretty and she is always getting all of the guys. And so it makes me want to be perfect. Because when we were younger in like elementary school i always had a boyfriend and hanging out with the guys and as i grew older i got very shy and stopped talking to the guys. So i just want to be perfect so i can keep up with my bestie.

I SURE DO. THE THINGS IS THAT TODAY DAYS YOU OPEN A MAGAZINE AND RIGTH AWAY SEE SKINNY GIRLS. THE FACT IS THAT ONCE YOU OPEN IT YOU FEEL YOUR UNPERFECT AND WANT TO BECOME LIKE ONE OF THEM. IF THERE WERE MORE PLUS SIZE MODELS IN THE MAGAZINE I WILL PROBALY SAY "HEY SHE IS NOT SKINNY YET BEUTYFUL!"

I honestly think everyone has their own opinions on this but I truley believe that more than half of the girls do feel pressured. Skinny is in and everyone wants to be skinny. It has gotten to the point where I hate to gain weight because I want to stay how I am, because its perfect. Also I feel the pressure in my family because we are the "perfect family" and everyone looks up to us. And the other day my dad told me what I shouldnt wear but I honestly want to wear what I want to and It wasnt even inapropriate.

My name is Sasha-Sandra. I get made fun of for my name, so my mom said I could make up a two name nickname so I wouldnt get made fun of anymore. I picked Leeann-James. I thought that the combination of names flowed really good. But then they made fun of me for having a boys name. My mom said I could change it again. I picked Coral-Vivain. That one is better. There is pressure to have everything be perfect. I let my mom call be Sasha-Sandra again so she thinks I still like it. But everyone else calls me Anne.

ummm...yah
you are always under pressure in the morning trying to do you hair and figuring out what to wear. especially me, i hate my hair it is so long and thick and has split ends all through it. if i wouldn't have got it cut last week, i would look like a dirt ball! when i wear my hair up i feel like im bald. its soo embarrissing but i still wear it like that every day! but then other days ill straighten it to make it look pretty. but if i dont and i just let it hang, then im doomed, i am constantly trying to get knots out of my hair. oh and hear is another thing, my teeth, i am constantly brushing them like im going to the prom, and thenn when i dont brush them at least once a day, my breath smells like fish sticks. it is so disgusting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yes i feel pressured. i feel pressured to be the best in school. sometimes i feel like a failure when i cant get something the first time. then there is the pressure of looking a certain way! SKINNY and beautiful. I have glasses and i dont feel pretty with them. I also feel like im not skinny enough! But then i remember you shouldnt be worried about being beautiful on the outside but being beautiful on the inside! My cousin i hate to say it but she actually makes me feel insecure about myself because she is pretty and super skinny! then i go to my house and im an only child so i feel better about myself. So i try not to feel that way but sometimes i cant help it!!!
*your beautiful and dont let anyone tell you differently!!

WHOA WHOA WHOA GIRLS WHATS ALL THIS TALK ABOUT BEING SKINNY CUZ AT MY SCHOOL IF YOU DONT HAVE A FAT ASS THEN YOUR ANEREXIC ITS SO TRUE BUT ANY WAY SOMETIMES I DO SAY TO MYSELF IF I WAZ PERFECT I WOULD HAVE NO TROUBLES BUT ALSO NO FRIENDS CUZ EVERYONE WOULD BE HATING RIGHT?

yeah i think that being a girl its self you have to deal with a lot not to metion the nature of growing up im not saying that boys have it easy either but i think that girls just go through a lot more than boys do

Hey,
Well sometimes i think i'm being a liottle to perfect biy not all the time and hardly ever!!!!!!!!!1

I feel the pressure to act older because I always have to take the mommy roll (my mom works a lot)and cook & clean for my little brothers. My big sis is such a baby she does not do anything she makes it hard by fighting with my two little brothers so I have to be mommy & big sis.

I feel pressure to be apart of the popular kids!

i think that there are a lot of girls under pressure these days. i know i am. im trying to get skinnier in order to be a cheerleader. i get up at around 5 a.m. every morning just to do my hair and TRY to look pretty! omg dont you just hate this!!!!!!!!

i think the main reason girls try to b perfect is bcuz of guys.
guys r always sayin that we are fat or ugly or something. they only do that bcuz theyr friends are wit them. guys r soooo retarted sumtimes...

yes! people are totally being pressure into being prefect. it may not be just by the totally amazing looking famous stars but it is alos pressured on by the people at school. the tighter the clothes the more pressure. and lately people have been wearing the tightest clothing.

i think there is definately a pressure to be perfect and to fit in
but really im in high school and its a whole new thing like im trying to just be me and noone is perfect no mattter who they are noone will ever be perfect everyone will have some kind of flaw to them its not tht easy to be perfect
everyone makes mistakes from time to time nd thts how we gorw and learn and everything if we dont make mistakes and think were perfect then were never gonna know truely how it is in life to try to get better in life

i definately made a new goal for 2009
and thts to be myself and now im not perfect but really how is

No way! i think that if you just be yourself then people will appreciate you for who you are. But, then again who I am is who everyone wants to be. I am good at sports, have a super hot bf, im in all pre ap classes, im a cheerleader, dance team, yearbook, band, and art i have like 50 bffs and they all love me! if you can acomplish that then u will be off to a good start! :)

yeah i do feel the pressure to be p erf ect. i mean, im the "anarexic" girl and i still get called fat. (im not really anerexic but im underweight :(...) but when someone calls you something for a long time, i guess you really start to believe it.... it sucks. "you cant kick me down im already on the ground"..........

Yeah like i went to twilight movie and seen it (off course) and now nobody belives me and i left the ticket in londen with my dad

I SO feel pressure to be perfect! I see people like Selena Gomez or Miley Cyrus and want to be just like them! Their so skinny ans pretty! I would do anything to be like them, even starve myself :(.

Katiie P.

Yeah, I think everyone feels pressure to be perfect, either to impress a boy/girl, or to be popular or something. But, I think trying to be perfect is a part of life.

I really feel the pressure.I see all these girls in magazines that are so pretty and I wish i was like them. I know the pictures are edited but this media craze to be size zero fake and beautiful with sugery has gone to far.Pictures are photoshopped to make even really pretty or handsome celebrities look not even like themselves I try hard every day to look my best , i put on make up spend ages with my hair and decide what to wear . Mostly sometimes to impress say someone at school I like or other people at school.Its stupid but its all the pressure getting to me and other girls.

:( x

she is so good

i really don't care because i' may be bigger than some people but your beatiful in your own way. i'm tierd of those popular girls who think there better than you but after you've been through it long enough you will evintrually learn to egnore them.

yess!! sometimes i feel like im not good enough for guys to like me. I just blow it off and hold it in but i feel so pressured to wear a lot of makeup and and all that stuff. I'm just going to wait until high school to get into boys. I know im beautiful in my own way and nobody can change that.

Who doesn't? In my school, we're full of skinny, pretty girls and if you don't apply to 'The Perfect Figure', you're dateless, backstabbed and sometimes, friendless and often teased. All of those 3 things apply to me and I'm sure-other girls. But it's different here. People will insult you for no reason. And they barely realize you're hurt.
It's become so bad for me up to the point where I've begged my parents to move but they can't until 2 years from now.
2 years of this? Will I survive till then? It's uncertain. And everybody will say I'm fine just the way I am, but no matter what anyone says, I still know that I'm fat, ugly and unlikable.
I like listening to Everything I'm Not by the Veronicas, because it reflects me a lot.
If the words 'Messed Up' was in the dictionary, you'd see my face. I'm ugly, people are racist to me, nobody ever liked me more than a friend plus my hair is all messed up and never stays straight and goes frizzy nonstop.
What's worst is me becoming ugly affected my behavior.
When I was young, I had perfect hair and weight. I was a quiet but smart student. I was pretty, no doubt, but even then no guys minded me. Then I became fat and ugly and the hair....that's when the quiet and smart student in me became the tomboyish prankster I am today.
And guys here really do care only about looks.
I should know, cause I have a pretty, thin best friend who has the same attitude as me, even worst, but is pretty and always has boyfriends and is rarely single. And the fact she keeps talking about me behind my back is far from helping.
I don't get it.
I was a perfect child back then, why did God have to change me? I don't know. Maybe I wasn't meant to be happy.
I wish I could take up homeschooling too except that my parents are never home anyway.
That's why my dream was to become famous so then I would feel useful and prove them all wrong.
I'd just feel better if my dream came true.
Besides, I write a lot of songs about my feelings mostly.
But the chances of that happening are 1 in a million.

ALL THE TIME ABOUT EVERYTHING!!!!!!!!

I think that everyone does at some point

If you don't you are lucky!!

I think the pressure to be perfect is really big now a days. A perfect example would be Miley Cyrus. She's not perfect. Everybody expects her to be perfect like little Ms. S. Gomez. It's cool to be your own person and do your own thing. If Selena lieks to be perky and perfect, that's her issue. If Miley likes to be tough and lead a rocky life, so be it. I highly doubt their actions affect you, unless you're a follower. Some people hate on Selena because she's RUMORED to be dating Nick Jonas. I'm not saying they're not. If they are, congrazt. If not, it is what it is. People think just because they like Miley they can't like Selena or just because they like Selena they can't like Miley. um, hate to break it to you, but you can like more than 1 Disney starlet. Don't worry! It's not against the law!

no i do not feel the pressure because i am not that kind of person and nobody is perfect anyways so i suggest the people who think their perfect they need to grow up with their immature self i cant stand it when people act like that it is showing that you are just into ur self and do not care about friends and family

I do all the time. Really, no one is perfect. People may judge you. About your size, clothes, religion, and other struggles. But yet, the people who are saying that to you, probably are going through similar situations. I know because i am large. My father passed away. And people make fun each year. But i fight for what i need. It made me fail math, lose interst in what i loved the most. I didnt tell people what people were saying about me. The smart thing to do that if someone is bothering you, tell someone, a trusted adult, and dont feel like your the smaller, or weaker person. Selena and Demi are great role models, they dont care about what other people think, they can be whoever they want to be. And it really doesnt matter if your perfect. because if you have friends and family that accept you, for you, that is awesome. If you ever have problems or need advice, im always open to talk. my email is Bop2thetop1220@yahoo.com

Yes i doo

I aint under pressure i think i'm fine the way i am just FINE

yes i do becuz of all these stars who look so perfect u start to yhink y dont i look like that

sometimes i do. but then i really dont. i have my friends to back me up. them popular pplz dont have real friends to do that. they will push the one person they think they can count on to the limit and BAM shell crack. and ditch her. and then shell b all alone and try and make u suffer. well dont fall for it. its stupid.

just be u no one else be your self i be my self and u girls and guys who think they are all that gess what YOUR NOT!!!!!!!!!!! so be nice!! if any one wants to talk im at sierrarocks@yahoo.com

yes i do from all at school who all always tease every body one time they put a loser sign on my jacket

Yes...I do feel pressured sometimes...but as long as I stay true to myself and my BFFs, that's what matters the most..:)
Do you agree?
xo

I totally feel that way! I love Selena Gomez (not like literally) and I feel like I need to be like her, perfect skin, perfect style, and perfect publicity, and my life is the exact same opposite. You can describe my life as Jordan Sparks's song "One Step At A Time"! I really wanna be perfect and impress a bunch of people and hopefully become famous and meet Selena Gomez and Nick Jonas some day, but my life is sooooo not perfect that way!:(

I feel a lot of pressure.
I sit in my room dark and alone
where nobody can see the tears I shed.
I tremble when I wake up.
I shake through the day.
Hide the dark place in my mind by putting
on a smile.
I write about my life
of being depressed and scared.
My mom works all day.
Gets home at midnight.
She has an alchol problem
and throws away the money she gets.
My stepdad can grab enough money
to put some bread on the table.
I dont open the shades in my room
I cant stand the rainy place we live in.
Ask God up above, why am I like this?
I walk through the halls.
Nobody knows how I feel.
Im scared to go to sleep.
Im scared to drive and fly.
I walk down to a parking lot in the store
by my house.
I stand in the middle.
I look at the sky.
Im lonely. Im gone for
two hours. Mom hasnt gone looking
for me yet.
I need help.

Yes, all the time! Whenever i don't do something right my parents say do better next time, which is just a little push. But, with all the "beautiful" people out there it's hard not to feel just right. Which is why i feel this way when someone else looks prettier then me. That gives me the extra push to say ok i need to work on my looks a little bit harder you know?

yes i do feel prussered into being perfect like u here how all girls so that they have to be skinny or pretty and popular to be perfect and if ur not like any of the then ur not perfect so i have been really stressted latly just try to be perfect and i do feel prusered to be perfect.

YES I TRY BUT IT HURTS ME AND MYSELF TO TRY I CAN NEVER DO OR BE PERFECT I WISH PEOPLE CAN HELP ME THAT LOOKS PERFECT

I definitely feel the pressure to be perfect and I'm not comfortable in the skin I'm in. I want soooooooo badly to become an actress but I feel I would have to get a complete makeover, like brows plucked, teeth straightened, face cleared of blemishes, i bite my nails and I also feel like I would need to lose some weight. I would say that ESPECIALLY now, the pressure of everyone's appearance is greater.

ya i do you because i try to act like every on else and that does not go great at all.

YES! I think that I need to lose a few pounds, but everyone I ask "Your so skinny" or "Your thin" they dont understand. I have about three zits right now, and they are volcanoes. I feel like everybody is staring at them. About my hair...somedays it looks good and somedays it is extremely frizzy. I have big jugs, and sometimes I get teased because my boobs are big. A lot of people in my class are flat chested or have a little bit of boobs.

I do feel pressure, but when people tease you, it says more about them than it does about you.

yes always bc well my friends i have to keep up with and homework and studying :P I HATE STUDYING AnD aLso BoYz U aLwAyZ have to lOok cUtE and stuFF all of us i think have stress one point sum more than others though!!! and i have tons of friends its hard to hang out with everybody whhen some of my friends dont like sum of my other friends so yeah its really hard to do stuff when ur all stressed out and stuff!!!! :D

heyy ya cause u have 2 look cute ANYWHERE u go u also got 2 look cute for boyys ttyl hav fun

Yes because sometimes you feel like you have to look like girls in magazines and on the big screen but i think you should just be yourself but if you feel like you have too look perfect anyone you should have to look perfect for yourself everyone has too look good you'll never know who you could run into

I don't really like being perfect. I'm just a crazy outgoing girl alot of my bff's think im totally weird sometimes but they are too. We sometimes pick on the preps(Morgan J. Shae M.) because they think they are so perfect. Being perfect is not always the best thing to be, I TRIED to be perfect. But then I relized it just wasn't me. So I just act how I act. Now people eccept me for my own personallity instead of a made up personallity

well....i depends...nobody is perfect but i will always try my best to be as close as possible!!!!!!!!1

I dont feel pressure to be perfect. At school, I tried to be perfect, but it didnt feel right being perfect. Im outgoing and active and I talk to everyone, but really, being popular is over-rated. You HAVE to be perfect, skinny, and have a boyfriend. You think its hard trying to be perfect, the popular people have to be perfect. Thats why you shouldnt feel pressure. You have to act like them to be popular, and in my opinion, the popular people shouldnt be popular because all they do is make fun of other people.

OF COURSE IM PRESSURED,EVRYONE IS!!

yes, of course! everyone feels pressured at some time in their lives. looking at selena gomez and miley cyrus, it makes me feel like i'm not pretty.

When I feel pressure to be perfect, I look at Miley Cyrus. She is my fave celeb. We all have flaws, and she admits to having them, which I think is the best a celeb can do. She is honest, like in a magazine she talked about not knowing who to hang with, and things like that. She is a normal teen, and acts like it! Selena and Demi are the same way, but in a 'now look where I am' thing. Miley is Miley Cyrus for God sake who doesnt love Mi?

I am afraid my friends will say I am to skinny.I am pressured to be the way they want me to be.

Yes...........I really like this guy but he is from the privie school and the only time i can see him is at lunch and recess i need advice................

If any one can give me some advice my email is (kiaralog@hotmail.com) just email me there

~Thanx~

My friends think that i get spoiled and i have th e most perfectist lif ever. i dont let us here the story.

My mom did bad things so i couldnt liver with her anymore. i never get to c her. it suxs. I need somebody to talk like a great friend. I have to ask you all a question, do any of u guys want to be my bff if so email me at Samanthaverga3@gmail.com and we will be best friends all the time. PLEASE HELP ME I NEED MORE FRIENDS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If any of u r Bailey, Hailey or Jamie
Please stop making front of me behind my back!@!

Yes i definitly feel the perssure to be perfect! We are pressured on a daily basis by parents,teachers and peers to be perfect. Especially nowa days with tv and celebritys people feel the pressure to be just like the stars they see on tv! I think that television gives a very un-realistc view of how people should look and act, people should just be themselfs and be happy with who they are but that is easier said than done! Also girls feel alot of pressure because today boys are very shallow not all but most are and make girls feel like they should be pretty and done up all the time just to impress them. The presure of perfection sucks!!!

Yes i definitly feel the perssure to be perfect! We are pressured on a daily basis by parents,teachers and peers to be perfect. Especially nowa days with tv and celebritys people feel the pressure to be just like the stars they see on tv! I think that television gives a very un-realistc view of how people should look and act, people should just be themselfs and be happy with who they are but that is easier said than done! Also girls feel alot of pressure because today boys are very shallow not all but most are and make girls feel like they should be pretty and done up all the time just to impress them. The presure of perfection sucks!!!

Yes i definitly feel the perssure to be perfect! We are pressured on a daily basis by parents,teachers and peers to be perfect. Especially nowa days with tv and celebritys people feel the pressure to be just like the stars they see on tv! I think that television gives a very un-realistc view of how people should look and act, people should just be themselfs and be happy with who they are but that is easier said than done! Also girls feel alot of pressure because today boys are very shallow not all but most are and make girls feel like they should be pretty and done up all the time just to impress them. The presure of perfection sucks!!!

Yes i definitly feel the perssure to be perfect! We are pressured on a daily basis by parents,teachers and peers to be perfect. Especially nowa days with tv and celebritys people feel the pressure to be just like the stars they see on tv! I think that television gives a very un-realistc view of how people should look and act, people should just be themselfs and be happy with who they are but that is easier said than done! Also girls feel alot of pressure because today boys are very shallow not all but most are and make girls feel like they should be pretty and done up all the time just to impress them. The presure of perfection sucks!!!

Yes i definitly feel the perssure to be perfect! We are pressured on a daily basis by parents,teachers and peers to be perfect. Especially nowa days with tv and celebritys people feel the pressure to be just like the stars they see on tv! I think that television gives a very un-realistc view of how people should look and act, people should just be themselfs and be happy with who they are but that is easier said than done! Also girls feel alot of pressure because today boys are very shallow not all but most are and make girls feel like they should be pretty and done up all the time just to impress them. The presure of perfection sucks!!!

Yes i definitly feel the perssure to be perfect! We are pressured on a daily basis by parents,teachers and peers to be perfect. Especially nowa days with tv and celebritys people feel the pressure to be just like the stars they see on tv! I think that television gives a very un-realistc view of how people should look and act, people should just be themselfs and be happy with who they are but that is easier said than done! Also girls feel alot of pressure because today boys are very shallow not all but most are and make girls feel like they should be pretty and done up all the time just to impress them. The presure of perfection sucks!!!

I dont feel like i have to be PERFECT
But skinnier, not like those models , those human stick figures but not too skinny, not to fat
and really pretty with PERFECT teeth! :/

PERSON#1-DUH im pretty sure everyone is!

PERSON#2---I want 2 look like vanessa hUdgens!!!!

PERSON#3--I AM SOO MAD iWANT 2 LOOK LIKE SELENA

PERSON#4--I HATE THAT FEELING!!!!

Yes i do. I alawys feel like i should be perfect. my hair should be perfect, my clothes and the way i look. i would love too look as perfect as Selena Gomez or Reese Witherspoon, i would love it so much. But 1% of the time i can look in the mirror i can think i am lookingg perfect in everyway, but the other 99% im so not lookingg perfect.

no i dont cause every thing is good

I did then i was like why do i have to stress myself out trying to look good for myself and for other people. I should be happy the way i look cause lets face it nobodys perfect . We can look good without being perfect. Rember our inner beauty is important too. We dont want to be like those girls who think that they are all that and they look down on people we just have to be comfortable in our own skin

hey ok so first of all... THOSE 'ILL KILL U IF YOU DONT SEND THEM THINGS' ARE SOOOO AMATURE!!!! FOR GOODNESS SAKES THERE IS NO POINT IN FREAKING EVERYONE OUT JUST TO GET THAT POSTED ON ANOTHER SITE!!! DOES ANYONE ELSE AGREE THAT THAT WAS REALLY ***STUPID*** TO PUT ON HERE???

I am not trying to be perfect its just because i like this boy but im not trying to be perfect well somtimes maybe i dont now im just being my self

Ummmm.....Well i use 2 but not anymore i dont care what ppl think of me........If you dont like the stuff i wear oh well i dont care as long as i like it:)

no i dont i meen i have great friends&family they love me so much i think i dont need to be perfect i meen some peeps think like that but not me umm..... well being perfect to me is not everything i meen nobodys perfect no one can be prfect so ya it is not everything to but dont get me wrong some times i do feel like being perfect=)no i dont feel pressure to be perfect @ all

I'm always so scared for being ugly or my skirt is messed up or something!! I'm scared embarresing myself and then my bf dumps me!!!!!! -Kelly :)/:(

yes it feels like everyday you have to be perfect or no one will like you

I feel the pressure to be perfect and flawless and skinny everyday. The POPULAR girls in my school are beautiful and get any guy they want and are flawless and skinny!!!!!! In my school, you're a loser or your one of them. One of them meaning the girls that think they're perfect. Some of those girls I am friends with, and others I just want to...UGH!!!!!!!! But I learned that the only way to deal with it is to ignore their comments. If a person has ALWAYS been mean to you (or used to be your friend then turned on you) and then just out of-the-blue acts like their your BFFL, I'm not telling you to not be friends in return, but, be careful with what YOU say and do and what THEY say and do. But most importantly, JUST BE YOUSELF!!!!!!!
Who cares what THEY say???? All that matters is what YOU say!!!!! Right????? I know that you've already hard this before.... but it's true!!!! If someone makes fun of you, they probably are jealous, because, they only have friends because they're pretty or popular or they're just....
well....jealous. And if you have a crush.... well, that's a different story!
Now, with a guy, that's when it's crucial to be yourself. If you dont he'll find out and tell everyone your a posuer. If you are yourself and he likes you... he'lln tell everyone you're a nice cool person. If you dont know if he likes you dont use messengers or notes or IM or texting or calling or any of that!!!! Just go up to him and say 'Hey. Um, well, I kind of like you and I was wondering if maybe you like me to? And... or we could hang-out sometime. You now, just you and me?'
Now, I'm not saying you have take my advice, but I've made these mistakes and did and said stuff I shouldn't have and now I'm trying my hardest to get forgivness from the people I've hurt, so, yeah. So don't EVER feel pressured to be perfect or any thing. And if you do, just laugh and say whatever, because beauty is in the inside not the out!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel like I have to be perfect even my best friends make funm of me and make me think im a loser! ppl always think I never talk and i'm the quietest person in the whole school but I KNOW thats not true and I've come a long way from shyness so it makes me feel really bad!and also im only like 10 and Im already starting to get oily skin and zits!
So u should make an artical about how to make ppl not think ur shy and quiet
and how to get rid of acne zits pimples oily skin or wat ev PLEASE

yes i do feel pressure . i dont wanna be just the pretty face, boy magnet, hot bod, ect. girl. i wanna be normal. i hate going to school. this is cause i get good grades, and people are mean becuase they are jeaalous. i wanna be normal!!!! EVERYONE want to be my BFF. they want to casue i might be dateing a guy they like and they want that excct guy. omg it is so hard

yea kinda sorta in a way but i feel pressure frm othr girls sayin im perfect hmm.not really.theres always the othr girl thats always purtyer than u!!!=)wer all purty in our own way!!how cheesy!jkjk ahahahahahaha!!

Hi again. Im perfect. You arent. Im better because I eat peanut butter as a snack. Out of the jar.

I feel pressured to be perfect at everything. I'm always afraid to mess up while playing basketball and volleyball and I'm always scared that I never look my best.

I think that Im fatter than all my friends, but when I say something to anybody they say you are so not fat and that I dont understand.

Being different is akward. I am Mexican in America, so I feel left out because of my heretige. I am accepted by other people, I just need to accept myself.

well, idk bout yall but i know dat i dnt fell no pressure from nobody! cuz if u dnt like me den u can eat crap;)

CUZ I DON'T CARE!!!

yes some times cuz there r alot of skinny ppl at my school so i do feel the presser

i am sometimes pressured 2 be skinny and pretty its like competing with every other girl in the school its weird and not fun but hey thats the way life is u cant have and do everthing u wish u could if someone says they dont want 2 be perfect there lying cuase everyone always tries 2 be perfect and thats stupid ..............these fucking teenage stars really cuase pressure on teens cuase they look at how wonderful they look and ask theselves why dont i look like that? thats really pathetic and girls instead of trying to fix ur self except ur self instead!!!!!!

I don't really care what people think of me you they just critisize others ,because their jelouse they didn;t care like me. Some people especially girls put to much pressure on themselves so look all perfect for guys. Sometimes guys don't pay attention to our bodies or our looks they look at what'a inside -feelings. :}:} You should be comfortable in your own body and not just look at the example of those skinny models in the magazines,come on their the 1's starving themselves not you.!!!! So enjoy life by being you don't let no one or nothing make you change your atitude or awsome personality --endless you want to ::}}
Guys are interested in layedback girl who are cool : just be yourself!!!!!!!!:];]];]

I LOVE UR MAG !!!!!

okayy ill admit i do care wat ppl think....ALOT!
but i'm like rly skinny and for all u ppl who are sayin skinny= popularty u are sooo wrong!! i'm kinda popular but not as popular as i wanna be so be proud of who u are stand tall and don't be afraid to be urself ppl will notice and like u for who u are!

STAY BEAUTIFUL♥

hi at is very good at it...........ahhhhhh.

I think everyday girls everywhere are being pressured no matter how small it is. I will always be pressured to be perfect. Although I may feel beautiful, someone may come along, and there I am, wishing I had their clothes or hairstyle.

yes! i mean, pop. girlz alwayz make u feel like a big fay lozr. and that jessie girl at the top- iz like sooooooooooo a pop. girl. u can ttly tell. she iz soooooo mean. u can tell that 2.

Not really around my friends and stuff but when it comes around boys I feel ttly pressured!!! Mostly around the guy I like. OMG! :)

of course i do i fell pressure to look perfect to be perfect around popular girlz and hot guys,to get good grades,to have a better body i just wish that for once all that s*** wouldn't matter!!!!

Who doesnt. There are 2 kinds of people at my school.
there are the pretty skinny flirty girls who get evry guy and everything they want and still complain about their lives
.Then theres us girls who acctually get acne that we cant cover up and boobs that are normal sized and stomachs that may be a litt less than flat and are always teased by the populars because we arnt always sucking face with some hot guy. Did it ever ocur to them that mabey we like ourselves and dont need a pile of cash and a hot guy to feel important. Why does there always have to be that opne gruop of girls who make every one else feel awful? people should be able to feel good about them selves but theres to much PRESSURE!!!!!

i do feel pressure. no guys or people like the people that are always alone at my school. to be popular, you have to be skinny, pretty, and at my school people ALWAYS cuss. ew i hate it. why can't people look inside, not outside

um... totally eveyday im bing pressure to be perfect or someone im totally not becuz when i look in the mirror i see an ugly 13 year old girl who is in 8th grade and is short i used to never look on the inside .my older sister all my friends are like shes sooo pretty she should be a model and then be like oops sorry but its true how come you dont look like her but then most times there like your so pretty and all this other stuff im pressured to be perfect and pretty every day of my life. its hard cuz i get bullied in school and teased and its not right.so yes im being presured to be perfect for me to cope with it is mint choclate chip icecream and "Demi Lovatos Song Believe In Me"that song helps me get through it but i wish people could see that its the inside that counts and not the outside. but the bulling part will never stop and i know that but ill cope with it .

Keep On Rockin J-14

From Stage

i always feel i need to be perfect because all of my friends are amazingly beautiful and feel like im the outcast.

Anna: Kind of. Everyone feels pressure sometimes, but I have all my friends like Katie, Leah, Cara, Linda, Molly, and Becca!

Katie: Thanx Anna. And yeah, pressure spreads like a cold. Your friend feels it, all of a sudden you feel pressure too!

Cara: Same as Anna

Leah: When I am I just call up Rebbecca, Anna, Katie, Cara, and Molly because they feel the pressure.

Becca: Same as Anna/Cara.

Linda: I dont feel pressure I am different and I respect that. I can see why people feel pressure, but I have a job and it is to have fun and not care what anybody thinks.

Molly. Same as Anna/Cara/Rebbecca.

no im not pressured at all!!!! even though i may be fat but i have a wonderfulk life and i wouldnt give it up to any popular gurl!!!! i acctuly enjoy my life so there

look i could really care less if im perfect. i hate people who try to be perfect its a waste of ur time.!

hey i am a big big fan of selena gomez can i just have her phone number every day i go to her web and see what's new about her so please please can i have her real phone number and win her signed mylo i will give u my phone number 9544376358 i will be waiting so you can call me bye merry christmas

hey i am a big big fan of selena gomez can i just have her phone number every day i go to her web and see what's new about her so please please can i have her real phone number and win her signed mylo i will give u my phone number 9544376358 i will be waiting so you can call me bye merry christmas

Here is a saying that I like to remember: You arent kind to someone because they are nice, but because you are, meaning that being kind to people who are nice is nice.

And when your mad: Swallowing evil words unsaid has never harmed ones stomach, meaning that after you say something evil to someone you get that feeling in your stomach, if you swallow it before you say it it wont give you that feeling.

And just to keep going: If your on the right track and you just sit there, youll get run over, meaning to keep going.

Hope these quotes help!

Here is a saying that I like to remember: You arent kind to someone because they are nice, but because you are, meaning that being kind to people who are nice is nice.

And when your mad: Swallowing evil words unsaid has never harmed ones stomach, meaning that after you say something evil to someone you get that feeling in your stomach, if you swallow it before you say it it wont give you that feeling.

And just to keep going: If your on the right track and you just sit there, youll get run over, meaning to keep going.

Hope these quotes help!

Here is a saying that I like to remember: You arent kind to someone because they are nice, but because you are, meaning that being kind to people who are nice is nice.

And when your mad: Swallowing evil words unsaid has never harmed ones stomach, meaning that after you say something evil to someone you get that feeling in your stomach, if you swallow it before you say it it wont give you that feeling.

And just to keep going: If your on the right track and you just sit there, youll get run over, meaning to keep going.

Hope these quotes help!

hey i don't mean to be rude but who is jenna?
In other words whats ur last name?

*Hey*

i hate the pressure girls are put under for entire reason . its not right that all teenage girls have to walk around under a spotlight and with such high expectations. im am person who doest care what people think of me and i am very honest. i think all girls are beautiful for who they are and its not fair to be juged under the hollywood spotlight.

Yes, because every time I think or look at Selena Gomez it makes me feel how I'm a grain of salt in a huge ocean. Selena is my fave actress and rollmodel, so it makes it worse. I just wish that I could meet her in real life, so I wouldn't feel so alone in this huge country. I just wanna be friends with someone who is famous or get on a TV show, its hard when you live in a low-life state like Connecticut! So I really dream to be perfect, but its really hard! I just wanna be like Selena!!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

NO WAY! O golly joy, dont even get me started. I hate those stupid idiots that think that they are not good enough to begin with. You know, the ones that stuff there bras and wear too much makeup..... and dont even make me start on being mean to become popular. I dont even talk to anyone who is mean to be because they wanna be popular! Just today this new kid and two other "popular" (notice the quotation marks) kids took my friends diary and read it in front of the entire class. NOT COOL! It was in FACS class, and my friend Dana was helping make cookies, and when she came back there she found them READING HER DIARY! I hate those butt holes. They only did it because they know that she is not strong enough to stand up for herself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But, it was the hour before lunch and when I saw her crying and she told me what had happenend........I ALMOST KILLED THEM! I went over to there table and I yelled in his face that if he ever coem anywhere near my friend Dana or anyone that I even PARTLY like as a frined that I would INJURE him. I swear I almost choked them! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yes. i am pressured t0 be skinny so much evey onetells me that i'm skiny but i dont beleive them i mean i hate my body and i've concidered going bulimic

yes i do feel the pressure to be perfect all the times..i just cant help cause the people around me expected so much of me..i just dont know wat to do..

AS MUCH AS PPL SAY UR FINE THEY WAY YOU R ITS NOT TRUE CUZ WE HAV DEFECTS AND IT IS HARD TO BE PERFECT AND YOU ANT TO BE SKINY, HAV THE LATEST TRENDS AND B POPULAR

HEY JUSTAGURL I KNO WE DNT NOW EACH OTHER BUT DNT IT IS HARD TO STAY THIN BUT U JUS HAV TO WATCH WAT U EAT AND DNT EAT JUNK FOOD . . . . WHO DOESN LOL YA I KNO WE AINT FREINS BUT YEA DNT TURN BELIMIC IT MESSES YOU UP I LUV NICHOLAS

yeah i definatliy do, since im in 6th grade we have a mini prom and i won like by alot and i get pressured all the time cuz everyone suspects that im perfect in every way just cuz i have money perfect clothes and skin and its so hard cuz somedays i just want 2 chill around the house with no make up and and just look crappy and no cares or minds does anyone have any advice fo a girl whos trapped in her own little not-so -glamorous life
plzz help:)!!

yeah i definatliy do, since im in 6th grade we have a mini prom and i won like by alot and i get pressured all the time cuz everyone suspects that im perfect in every way just cuz i have money perfect clothes and skin and its so hard cuz somedays i just want 2 chill around the house with no make up and and just look crappy and no cares or minds does anyone have any advice fo a girl whos trapped in her own little not-so -glamorous life
plzz help:)!!

I am always feeling pressured because everyone thinks u have to be skinny, pretty, and preppy to have a botfriend and if not ur out of the picture :(
and its not TRUE

i need help my bf and i are going out but he has not kissde me yet but these boys are telling him to kiss me should i kiss him or wait for him to kiss me?!?!?!?!

Yeah i think that you should wait to kiss him because
he would think you are moving to fast so wait 4 him to kiss you

I dont agree with you lori. I think that some people can truly be happy with who they are and not want to change, even if you are fat or dont have the latest trends

I sooooo doo!!! Im only a 6th grader but all the style is about is skiney jeans!!! I dont have money to keep up with all the lastest treands . And seeing miley cyrus and all the other celibritys shoe us u can be waring sweats and a hoodie is ok then no one will have to feel preshared into doing things. If j-14 had a advise callem bye a real celeb. we wouldnt feel preshared. I would like having like maybe jordan spearks!! you could call it the speark of your day i would read it. I choose jordan spearks cuz she is chubby but is still beautiful and a insperation. Telling us no one is perfuct but as long as they no who they r they r perfuct.

i do because 2 me all the gurlz that we some/most teen gurl want to be like like demi selena & miley r so skinny(not in a bad way) & pretty & look perfect all the time that we see them that we think we should look like that & in my case a guy i have a crush on lovez selena gomez & now i really feel like i need 2 look like that
well thatz how i feel :]

no, nobady is perfect but you can do your best by stand up hight and be like oh yeah i rock no matter what :)

omg yes!!!!!! i do cuz it seem thats alll the boys want is thin girls

Yes i think all girls do. If your not skinny or pretty none of the guys will like you at school. I bet girls get up way to early just to do are hair and makeup so no one can make fun of them if the dont look like a superstar. trust me i do know how it feels to be unperfect and sometimes i think to myself why am i so ugly nd then i reilize it just takes time to get to know the real you

i never in my life felt perfect cuz i always do course and i never win stuff in my life so whats the point of feeling perfect for my life when no one is perct all ppl do mistakes and all ppl have diffrent rights ppl have diffrent religon so if som1 here feels like they r perfect they r so wrong even popstras of celbs aren't perfect even if they think they r cuz in the past they have done lots of mistakes and we did alot more......but i have never felt pressure to be perfect cuz whts the point of feeling perfect its just a little prob and its not improtant lol im talking to muchhh.....XDD

Halie: yes, because people are so judgemental, you are either in, or you out. Middle school is tough because so many people want to be the center of attention, and will do anything to be in the spot light. To make themselves look better, people will make fun of others, not caring if it hurts their feelings.. I try to be myself, no matter who is looking at you, and thats important. However, i sometimes try to impress people by the way i look, still being myself, wearing my clothes. It is not always easy being in [our] posistons..It makes it bad enough that girls will tease you, but what about the guys?? Heck yes!! They want a.....girl and will make fun of you to your face, i dont wanna be the girl that the guys notice in the, bleh, ew! way..

i want 2 feel perfect i want 2 b skinny and pretty!! i dont xactly want to b popular but u know i want people 2 lyk me!!! =]

i feel pressured everyday to look my best. you see all these pretty girls on tv like demi selena miley nd so many more u cant help 2 think dat u want to b them. it gets hard sometimes. i been wearing makeup 4 a long time. even though i know i should fell my best nd all these stars keep tellin me dont change a thing about u ur beautiful da way u way bt still they put on the dress, nd makeup nd go struttin. doin photoshots nd all that too. everyone feels pressured

selena you are cool

selena you are cool

Girls always wanna be perfect and always get self-concious about there lookeven though they look amazing!!:D!!

I don't really get pressured to be perfect. Actually, I do what I like. So what I'm different? Nobody can possibly be perfect. Everyone has some quirks. i'm short.

I don't want to be perfect.
I like the way I am right now.
Yeah,maybe life gets complicated sometimes
but think about the good things you have.

No one is even close too perfect and everyone has their moments in the light so they could shine.
People should not be pressured about anything even though people are.
You should be happy with life, who you are and the people that care about you.

I know I am.

some people like Selena Gomez change for peopel to like her
and if i had the chance to tell her i would tell her that fans liked her better when she was the tom boy from Dallas and she LOVED converse and now we see her shopping wearing a dress !
whats with that ?
she use to look like you would want to meet her she looked like she was a normal girl now shes all GLAMED UP !
i dont like her anymore !

sometimes i feel pressured to be perfect at like school but i no that will always hav my family!

I definitely do feel the pressure to be perfect. I think every girl does. Except mine is a little different than others. I think I'am way to skinny and I get embarrassed that i don't fit into a lot of things and that when i walk into school everyone looks at me and think that I'm anorexic or something. I tried to eat a lot to gain weight but i just nothing seems to work. I just learned to love being naturally skinny.

I definitely Feel the pressure to be perfect. I think almost every girl does. I feel pressured at school mostly, Sometimes at home. But school i mostly feel the pressure to be perfect. I've Always felt that way I'm very self consious and i've always wanted to be considered "popular" But ive never even been close. And i try so hard to be "perfect" well as perfect as i can be but i always end up so far from it.

mostly its girls who feel like they have to be pressured to fit in.like i always have the pressure to be skinny and pretty and tall i started working out when i was like 10 years old and thats young.i even sometimes feel like starving to death.or just go on a diet but its life risking just to fit in and be just like al of the cool,cute,tall,skinny,people like for example popstars,moles,acters,dancers,famous people all arround.girls go crazy about how they look i even have to half a back up make up bag in the car with me.also most girls do this becouase of guys and to impress guys.but they only like tall beautiful SKINNY girls.guys once even came up to me and said i was fat and i let thoughs things get to me.i have really frizzy curly hair too so guys at my school like girls with straight hair.i dont get y guys have to be picky it doesnt matter whats on the inside it matters whats on the outside and if a guy ever says like your fat or you not pretty don't just walk away(well maybe if a teacher or someone is standing there)but come back at them dont let that small little word ruin your world.like the guy who called me fat i came back at him and said well then i sure know why you dont have a girlfriend because your a selfish,anerexick,buttwholed,jerk who can't tell up from down.then he said i was ugly so i said well then why are you the one who is stuck without a date and if you keep acting like that way to girls then you'll grow old and have 30 cats and die alone.now was that harsh.................................NOOOOOO.and i take teasing seriously so y do guys do this stuff its either there flriting with you or they just dont have anything better to do.but one thing is right here us girls can and will never find out what goes through guys minds.

i dont feel the pressure anymore because i think i am perfect the way i am

most girls feel the pressure to be perfect because of how celberties look, how they might not feel secure in their own body or how guys look at them I feel pressured every day. Every one around me is skinny, has a good complexion and seem like their comfortable being who they are, but everyone has there own flaw. So I've learned to just love myself for who I am and the little things I don't like about myself, I can change in a healthy way. Most girls,all shapes,colors and sizes feel pressured to be something there not but the best you can do is be your self. (:

i feel so pressured, i cry every night. knowing that im ugly, and all my friends say that im not. but knowing that a few years ago i had a "friend" that was saying that i was and saying i need braces and new clothes.[i have buck teeth and she made fun of that!!]
she was saying that i was a bad singer, even though she knew that i wanted to be a singer. i feel like really fat even though im losing weight by the week! i want to say that im pretty, but everytime i try tears come out and i cant say it!!!
and espically guys only take chicks for looks and not personally..

so yes i guess you can i feel pressure by being prefect!! :(

Yeah,I fell pressured,especaily becaus I have a bobyfriend and tons of friends.But you dont have to be pretty have good clothes anfd be skinny to fit in,all that would matter to me is if i coulsd have a friend who likes me for who i am,not for what i look like .

everyone feels pressure to be perfect at one point in there life. everyone feels lyke they have to be skinny nd pretty to be "cool" but if being cool means losing urself wuts the point. i think ihts great to just act lyke urself cause EVERYONE is perfect just the way they r!!!!!!

I think it is pressure to be perfect. I look around at my school and everyone has their makeup done and the best clothes and perfect hair. I feel kind of jealous because I don't look perfect like them. I have acne and glasses and I feel like im the only one that has that problem(even though I know there are other people).

Of coarse i feel that same pressure as that. but i TRUELY -DEEP DEEP DOWN INSIDE - know that nobody is perfect!!!
DO NOT let that pessure get to you!!! :)

Im not saying that any of you do this, but sometimes the pressure is so strong that you take it out on other people and it spreads the pressure like the flu. But calling someone fat doesnt make you any skinnier. Calling someone dumb doesnt make you smarter. Calling someone ugly doesnt make you prettier. Making someone feel bad doesnt make you feel any better. My point is that you can tell other people about their flaws, but that doesnt make your flaws go away.

Yes, i love this guy and my feel like in order 2 get his attention and 4 him 2 notice me that I have 2 b perfect! I love u!!

i tryed to hard to fit in in my school but then after i heard la la land my demi lovoto it inspired me to be my self and after i just be my self one of my guy friends from last year sall me in the hall way and he said "erin is that you you look fine". I used to be all giry and hood but then i be my self and be the skater girl that i am by changeing my hair like how i am and byeing converses i just fitted in when i be me self i just thank demi for making that song and changing my life she is a true role model

yes. everyone feels pressured to be perfect, and fit in. i think that even when you try to embrace yourself, and who you are with all your flaws people end up shooting you down. we cant all be exactly like our favorite tv star, we cant let those types of people get to us. i think is immensely tough though

i do feel the pressure to be perfect because about 1 or 2 years ago i wasn't the best looking person and i was called ugly. but now i dress differently, got a haircut, straighten my hair, and wear make-up...sometimes i don't even remember who i am and i hate that. if i go back to how i was i'm not sure if it'd be the same =(

Yes i do I feel like I need to be like everyone else skinny, popular, and have a boyfriend. boys dont even like me i hate it everyone makes fun of me except for my friends

Actually, i'm not under pressure at all about being perfect, cause first, people would take you as you are and second, perfect can be REALLY ANNOYING

Actually, i'm not under pressure at all about being perfect, cause first, people would take you as you are and second, perfect can be REALLY ANNOYING
And also, you can look good without being perfect

Actually, i'm not under pressure at all about being perfect, cause first, people would take you as you are and second, perfect can be REALLY ANNOYING
And also, you can look good without being perfect

I do not feel pressured to be perfect by my friends. But sometimes you can feel it from guys. Some boys will be like she's ugly or she wears to much make up, etc. When really you do not need to be perfect. No one is perfect. Just be the best you and thats enough.

I do not feel pressured to be perfect by my friends. But sometimes you can feel it from guys. Some boys will be like she's ugly or she wears to much make up, etc. Boys do not make who you are. When really you do not need to be perfect. No one is perfect. Just be the best you and thats enough.

totally like girls have it so much worse then guys,guys like fit in automaticly and girls have to work so hard and if we arn't perfect we get made fun of i have been called a twig because i am so skinny i have a fast matabilism i eat so much caus ei hate i think i am pretty but i got called ugly only once and i never let it go so now i try way to hard to look my best and i am not that tall for my age i am almost 5 foot and i am 14 some boys still like me but i don't want to ever be called ugly again
girls are more emotional then guys and i don't ever want anyone in my class to see me cry so when someone hurt my feelings i hurt theres and i hate that so i try so hard not to and they tease me even more i know they only do it cause they like me but it really hurts
i am pretty smart but i have this thing if i am not the smartest in the class i feel stupid it is like a competion in my school so i have to study my brains out so i can prove that i am really smart
you see girls can be competitive and if a girl in my class is smarter then me they will rub in my face
i am pressured at about everything to be perfect

Yes,I Do feel the pressure to be perfect!
because,everone knows i am perfect!
On tests,On Friends,On Everthing!
People Who Dont Feel Like This Are Really Lucky.
I Mean Im Only In 3 Grade.But,Everthing Is Super Hard!

yes,definintly all the time when i think oh the people at my school wont like this shirt or they will think im a brat because i got a 899 dollar coach purse and its not a knock off so they will think that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am pressured to be perfect, I want guys to like me and notice me!

Nobody is perfect. Heck, some people have cancer, but are they still confident? HECK YES!!! so like I said, nobody's perfect. Even your crush and that girl who thinks she's all that even though she's not. I'm not perfect either.

i cry alot

i cry alot. peace out homies. its ok 2 b different.

Ya 100% No doubt!!!

yes i do feel like i need to be prssure to be perfect
i see all these girls at my school with coach purses pretty clothes i try to be exactly like them and look cool, but it never works out nobady would be my friend

ever 1 whants 2 be perfect but its hard..
because its like this boy but he dont like you because he likes some other girl.that is the same thing happend 2 me i like this boy at my church but he like girls with big boobs and stuff like that..do yall know what im sayin....some 1 out there has 2 know what i am talkin about.........

I feel it because my best friend is saying that i'm ugly and other mean things behind my back to my other best friend.:(

I sometimes feel the presure 2 be lyk my friends or 2 be lyk a snob or something lyk that lyk be pressured in2 something im not.

Yes all the time. My parents are so strict they like flip out when i get a B.The only fun i actually have is on my computer,cause i have no other electronic games or anything.

No. I don't feel pressure to be perfect. I don't think looks and stuff are everything. think about education and your life! Maybe think about the magazine, J- 14! Just maybe have perfection be at the least of your worries.

Sometimes, yes, with all the media out there advertising these super skinny girls. I feel like I'm overweight every time I turn on the TV or look through a magazine.

im 99.99% positive that EVERY1 is pressured into feeling like they have 2 b perfect. NO1 is!!...every1 is beautiful in their own way. you may not hav a model's looks but honestly, models aren't that pretty either. they hav lots of makeup and they r WAYY 2 skinny!!. another thing.....if you feel like you have 2 b gorgeous 4 dat one guy 2 like yiou...its nt worth it...there is sum1 out there that likes u jus the way u r!.....DNT CHANGE 4 NE1!!!!....its nt worth it....u will change 4 dem && wen that "fling" is over....u'll wish u hadnt changed.....belive me...u will hav pressure to be "perfect" but what i ALWAYS keep in mind is:

{NO1 is perfect. every1 has IMPERFECTIONS and our IMPERFECTIONS are what make us PERFECTLY US}

try nt 2 let that pressure get 2 u and remember:

♥♥U R GORGEOUS JUS DA WAY U R!!!!♥♥

-ashlerz {perfectly imperfect♥}

well i dont only because im considerd a loser at school cuzz well if i wanna be silly il be silly and im not populare because aparently the ppl i hang out with at school arnt "cool Enuf" and they did offer to make me populare at the price of not baing me and giving up my sisters/BFFLS and i dont see the reson to give me and them up to be a snobby egotistick person when im fun care-free and loving but when i need to be im a bit protective of my friends and the thing i've done to keep my friends safe no way im given them up now lol so yeah why would i wanna be so stressed to be perrfect when i have the most awsome and silly super some times rude friends but hey even when there mean there fun haha
Love:the Care-Free Sometimes Shy sometimes not always her self, Daylynn

yes! i feel that way alot... sometimes i feel like being someone else better then me! but then i have to realize that i just have to be me and do the best i can and then i feel better, alot better with who i am.

i think that everybody feels pressure to be perfect. almost nobody in my family has gone to college and my parents are pressuring me to get into a good college and get a usefull degree. i want to be a film producer but my parents want me to be some boring accountant or something. i just want to scream at them that they are putting down my hopes and dreams.

I don't like to be perfect because my friends like me for who I am and we don't like people who try hard to be someone their not. I don't dress to impress boys so if they like me their not going to get a girl who dresses up just for them. So girl just be yourself around boys and they will like if you be yourself!

I AM ALWAYS FEELING PREASURED TO BE PERFECT BUT I SHRUG IT OFF. I DON'T CARE ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK OF ME&&IF YOU DO YOU MIGHT HAVE SOME PROBLEMS IN LIFE.ALWAYS THINK WHAT ARE THEY TALKING ABOUT,I HOPE ITS NOT ME, DOES MY HAIR LOOK FINE DO, I HAVE SOMETHING ON MY SHIRT, DID I SIT ON SOMETHING,BUT IF YOU SHRUG IT OFF YOU START TO NOTICE THINGS DIFFERENT,YOU GO UP TO THE PEOPLE AND TALK TO THEM. MAKE MORE FRIENDS.YOU HAVE MORE CONFENENCE WHEN YOUR CONFORTABLE. YOU NOTICE YOUR MORE POPULAR BEING YOUR SELF THEN NOBODY BUT A WANNA BE! BECAREFULL WHO YOU HANG OUT WITH IF YOUR PREASUED YOU SHOULD CHANGE YOUR FRIENDS.ITS ALWAYS GOOD TO TRY SOMETHING NEW.

yes of course every 1 at my school expects me 2 know every1 2 care about how i look and go on as many dates as possible i been asked but i never say yes cause i way2 young and i dont see da point people r always pressuring u 2 do some thing u dont want 2 do and be some 1 ur not

I dont feel presured to be perfect because...........

IM ALREADY PERFECT!!!!!!!

Yes,Definetly.Most girls are constantly feeling pressured to be perfect to wear cooler clothes or wear make-up.I do feel pressured sometimes but it`s normal for girls all the way from 9 to Adult ages.The popular girls are alway made fun of behind their backs but they never care ay my school.Just keep your head up high and you`ll make it out of middle school!

uh. no. I really don't care.

SELENA GOMEZ IS PERFECT!

Hey yall this is Miley (im not lieing im serious) i just wanted to say that were not made to be perfect! Just live life to the fullest and be happy thats all you need mabey even a best friend like me and Mandy!

xoxoxoxo

I agree with Miley Cyrus. Thats how my best friend Madi and i are!!

Talor thank you! You see how to be happy about youself! This is Miley (IM NOT LIEING)

xoxoxo

Yeah i have a lot of pressure to be perfect because well my brothers have it all but no one likes me at all so yeah i try to be perfect but still not even my girlfriend likes me she cheats on me and she doesnt even bother to lie anymore she just says im gonna go cheat on you and walks out the door.

yes so much.Do you know how much i have to try to be prefect. You have no idea.

Girls go2 skl everyday worrying about what other people will say nd think about them. Girls should know that it's not all about what other poeple think about you. I don't think that any1 should have an empression on any1 else. Whether it's a good1, or a bad1, it doesn't matter. The only people you should want2 act for is no one. Be your true self. Live your life aye aye aye aye......

love ya misses *_*

½ evil

Not really, because first of all, no body can be perfect, and i realized that you don't have to be like everyone else, and just be yourself, because people will like you for who you are.

Being perfect isnt really perfect
when people say are you perfect they think about your looks. You can have perfect hair, but what if you have bad face features, you could have perfect grades and be preetty but people can think your a brat. Perfect people are the ones that are the nicest and most thoughtfull being perfect dosent mean you are preety. It means that you are a pefect friend that has a good heart.

hey nobodys perfect in life you can make mistakes but you always learn from them but if you have like pefect grades it really feels great for that accomplishment

i feel that everybody is trying to be better then everybody else so i think ppll try to be perfect! they try to kinda better then each other in away i think so i think we girls feel more preesure then boys

yeah all the time. usually skinny people are popular at my school but im skinny and some of the guys make fun of me and theyre best friends are skinier than me and they never get mader fun of.

hi i dont really know the questin so ummm thanks by

i personally feel a HUGE pressure to be "perfect". i am the youngest of 2 much older brothers and they constantly pick on me and my looks get the most attention, i am infact a pretty girl i just have a few extra pounds i feel need to be taken care of. it is hard living my life, i make it seem so perfect around other when infact im getting to the point where im down right depressed. i have tried even starving myself and/or pukeing.. i just dont know what to do anymore. i have tried going fartherand at this point im scared for my well-being.

I only feel the pressure to look good, but not to be perfect. Perfection does not exist, no matter how perfect they may seem, they aren't. Everybody has flaws, even famous people. They are just like us, and you have to stop trying to be exactly like them. It doesn't matter if you are short or tall, or really skinny or fat. Be who YOU are. I am short, and i really don't care i like my height!

I don't feel the pressure to be "perfect" beacuse nobody can really be perfect. I'm my own person and I don't need to be like everyone else. I have my own style than everyone else and I don't care what people think of it or of me.

I do feel the pressure to be perfct because everyone put pressur on you. The pressure makes you put more pressure on you. Finally you actually have to do it.

So you really have alot of pressure on you.

I think pressure is bad.

Yeah, I feel the need to be perfect! I mean what girl doesn't? When I am with my bffs I am the biggest slob and I have to care of how I feel or act, but when I am near my parents, a big group, or a guy I like I have to be perfect no matter what I have to do!

I do feel pressure to be perfect. Especially at school and around boys. And since i want to be an actress i have to be perfect or at least i feel that way.

Uh YEAH! Of course, because ,like, first of all theres tons of models out there that are barely a size zero that look like a twig. Then theres thethe fact that you hardly ever see plus sized girls on TV I mean there just as beautiful as the rest of us.If young girls like me only see size zero people on TV then some of us starve ourselves to look like them.Hello give plus sizes a chance to.

yes because all these girls think they are perfect and preps and popular, im popular but i dont brag about it.

i think yes because selena and demi always go out perfect and i think they are very bad role models and miley cyrus is the preson i would look up to and i think miley is more natural and she wears things that not just her to wear and i think selena and demi can look fake then everyone copies
=] xox

i do feel the pressure sometimes!!!! like when at skwl when you see these older children with there make up on and straight hair you always hear them saying "i wish these brats would grow up".

I know I shouldn't but sometimes I do! but I always remember like Hannah Montana says "Nobodys Perfect I Gotta Work It"! You can always strive 2 be perfect but that takes a while! SELENA GOMEZ IS AWESOME!!!!

i think everybody does and i think it's just horrible we all say we want to stop it and we think it needs to stop the things we do for prefection so why hasn't it stop already i know i am trying to be perfect in my own was and i think that the inside of our bodys is all the same just not on the outside i mean we all have the same oragans and all but being perfact is being healthy and happy

Sometimes I think boys can be weird because when they like you they talk funny and they st st st urder and they never get what they wanna say be cause that is what they do!!!

at my school you just have to be who you are becides if the actually beleive that popularity is important they are just being stuck up snobs!!