How do you deal with mean girls?

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Nada abdallah on February 19, 2009 2:32 PM

Mean girls are poeple who are jealous or poeple who humiliate someone that has something they cant have.... i would never just take it if someone is mean to me.. i stand up and defend my self , who are they to treat others this way.. and i think every person should switch shoes in the meaning of switch places with someone and check if what they said would hurt them... and u can always talk to a friend or a sister to help u with those situations like selena gomez and demi lovato...they always help each other
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I just ignore them, they want you to respond. It how they deal with not having a good life at home. Don't listen to them, it works.

i COMPLETELY ignore them!!!

Morgan Cullen on February 19, 2009 3:19 PM

don't worry about them because if they are mean no one will want to be friends with them in the end so dont pay attention to them they will be the ppl who are lonely and here is one of my favorite quotes "someone will always be prettier than. they will always be smarter. their house will be bigger. they will drive a better car. they will do better in school. their boyfriends will do more for them. so, let it go and love you and your circumstances.think about it. the prettiest woman in the world could have turmoil in their heart.and the most highly favored person in you class, your job,your house may feel and be lonely. so again love you. like who you are. look in the mirror and say"i am too blessed to be stressed and to anointed to be disappointed" winners make things happen. losers let things happen. pass these thoughts on to encourage. to the world you might be one person,but to one person, you may be the world!!" so remember that when a pretty or popular or mean girl comes up to you !! i hope that helps

you just have to let it go. Don't let it get to you.Just ignore it and leave it be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you just have to let it go. Don't let it get to you.Just ignore it and leave it be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you just have to let it go. Don't let it get to you.Just ignore it and leave it be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you just have to let it go. Don't let it get to you.Just ignore it and leave it be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you just have to let it go. Don't let it get to you.Just ignore it and leave it be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Flip em off! Lol! JK! I just try to ignore them most of the time and sometimes I just end up laughing at them because they're so pathetic!

I stand up for myself and don't take anything they say.

Mean girls look for a reaction. The best way to deal is to not give a reaction. It is that simple.

When i was at a new school i hated beng bullied, and look wher ei am now! I have nice freinds. Not freinds who bully me around

~Lauren Faye~ on February 19, 2009 5:54 PM

mean girls are insecure about themselves, so they just lash out at others who are confident. they just want to feel better about themselves. i just totally ignore what they have to say. they're not worth crying or worrying about. :-)

Mean girls are so annoying and they just do the things that they do to get attention and make other jealous. The are so stuck up and don't care about anyone except themselves. I usually ignore them and wait until their done pretending to be cool and in the "fit in" crowd.

manateeblues on February 19, 2009 6:02 PM

well usually with mean girls, i just ignore them... they can be meaner than snot (gigz i have always thought that was a funny saying) but the only reason they tease or make fun is because they are insecure... i have faced lots of mean girls, but the best way to deal with it is to remind urself ur beautiful and they just put u down cuz they dont believe they r pretty or strong enough... i just always stay strong!!!

I HATE BULLIES THEY'LL PICK ON E U 4 ANYTHING

MichelleMarie on February 19, 2009 6:17 PM

I'd just be mean back.They would deserve it!

in about 4th grde the word BULLY turns to POPULAR and i hate it

Just let them say their mean things. If they say your a dork, think ofa stupid come back to make it funny. think about this
BULLY: your a loser
YOU: i know you are buy what am i
Another thing you could say: thanks, losers really are great, huh?

i don't really pay attention 2 them... i am very confident and i have a very high self steem so i don't really care what others say bout me cuz i know i'm awesome and they probably say all those things just cuz they're jealous

i just dont listen 2 em! if they have nothing better to do then be snotty, then let em waste their life on it! it will ruin their life in the long run! but, if it gets way 2 outta hand, i would confront em, and i have be4 and it made a difference!

well i really just ignore them because they are insecure an feel "secure" making people feel insecure or ashamed of themselfs. i really just like to let it go cause theyre really not worth it. for girls that are bullied by mean gurls
heres my advice:
DONT worry about them
theyre TOTALLY NOT worth it
and gurls remeber you are BEAUTIFUL those gurls also may be pretty
but are they pretty on the inside?? and everything they say; doesnt really matter; cause theyre jealous cause YOU have what they will NEVER achieve so girls i really hope this helps and DONT forget
ALL OF YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! and even if theyre are beautifull to just remeber youve got the intenal beauty!!(K)

I don't really have to deal with mean Girls in my school. It's more mean boys!!!!!! But there are a few and I just try to be there friend

well that depends theres a whole bunch of twofaced people i no and i am not a mean girl but im still popular i love life and i live it to the fullest and i am loud and people shouldnt care about that stuff
they should just be freinds with the people who are nice and not the mean be positive not negative about ur self be fraNS with people that pull u up not bring u down

you takk back to them DUH tou dont let those girls walk over you yiou have to stand up

Dealing with mean girls is sort of hard but what i do is just avoid them.Their only jealos of something you have or something someone has that she cant have.Usually they are only mean because there is something wrong in their life so they take it out on other people.

I can't DEAL with them. If they start stuff, Im not going to just lay down on my back and let them talk about me. You start it and i'll finish it, k?

I can't DEAL with them. If they start stuff, Im not going to just lay down on my back and let them talk about me. You start it and i'll finish it, k?

When people are mean to me i say "think you" and walk off. When you do that, thay get mad cause you didn't.

i just brush them off and ignore them their either saying wat there saying becuase they're jealous of u or just dont get enough attention so they pick on you to get it. just remember you are obviously a higher person then them emotionally and socially. just dont worry about it and try not to intimidate them. soon they will notice that you aren't really bothered by them so they will pick a new target. just dont stoop down to there level by trying to get back at them.

Taylor4Taylor on February 19, 2009 9:35 PM

mean girls are people who just want attention!!!! the best way to deal with them is just ignore them!!! of show them you dont care what they think!!! during my 1st year of middle school people made fun of my hieght. so one day i went up and told them i love my hight!!!!!!! your just jelos!!!!!!!!!! then i walked away and they never botherd me again.

i hate mean girls why do they think they are better than everybody else. They want attention. Now the popular crowd i cant deal with but the plain mean girls i say wat a nice comment thanks alot. Or how nice of u. One time a girl said to me u need a pill that makes you get the basket everytime you shoot. I said well u need a pill 2 make you a nice person.

I just tell them how it is......They're jelous of me cuz i have what they don't
They need to suck it up and get over them selves.

1 - let it go!!
2 - try to crack a joke that only you and your friends get
3 - when girls are mean, usually something is going on in their private life, so don't be too mean back

there is a time for revenge

Fight Back! Nobody puts me down and gets away with it!

just let it go and if that doesnt work and they still keep tessing you tell some adult you trust. but NEVER threten them because they will brobaly snitch (tell on) but if they tease you about something personal then DONT try to let it go AMIDLETY tell an trust-worthy or not adult. thats what i do. SO TRY IT IT WORKS

Mean girls are so hateful. I was targeted for a long time but I finally learned to ignore them. They stopped when I didn't fight back. Don't ever be a mean girl. They are just mean people trying to make the world miserable.

i beat em back!! haha not!! a bully is like a little "Fly on the Wall" like Miley would say!! they'll eventually give up and leave you alone! just don't crack under preasure and you'll be fine!!
xoxo P

How I deal with mean girls is super easy I just look at them sqare in the eye and say in a gentle voice creap I do not handle bulling very well but when I am forced to handle it I do not make it sound like a comaption because I do not want compation because then someone well get hurt and I could talk for hours but it is 8:41 pm and I still have lots of letters on this site to write but I think we all need to just give it our best shoot and just take it.


-michelle:)

How i deal with mean girls?hmm...very tough question...for me it's hard to deal with them especially does who live there life to be mean forever..all i can say they are just insecure about themselves, that's why they do such thing..for all those people who are so harsh and mean bebebebe......

xoxo.....

I JUST BLOCK THEM OUT!! AND I DON'T LET IT GET TO ME CAUSE OTHERWISE THEY WOULD KNOW THAT IT BUGS ME!!!

Mean gurls are just jelous of you what you have is what they want they want what they teas you about

I got pick on for just about 5 years btu i had enough just ingor them and just be yourself i just found out this year i may not perfect but i shure am somone who need to stande up for what i beleve in!
Mean girls are poeple who are jealous or poeple who humiliate someone that has something they cant have.... i would never just take it if someone is mean to me.. i stand up and defend my self , who are they to treat others this way.. and i think every person should switch shoes

Well for me personally I try not to let it bother me. I just ignore them, because mean girls just thrive on getting you worked up. It's not even worth it to act humilated or retaliate, because that's what they want.

But I actually know alot of girls who get really worked up about these things and it destroys them. I try just to blow those things off, but I guess it really depends on the person.

Fallon Delaney on February 20, 2009 12:40 AM

Tell them to back off or they will never have freinds.Every ones is mean sometime but,being mean to someone that did nothing wrong is plan mean.

Well.........once in 5th grade(last year)
this girl named Marissa called me stupid and I just ignored her, but she kapt calling me stupid and I just gave up.
She was kind of fat so I called her fat. And I got in troble.!!!!!
Hahahahaha
And that was my first time dealing with mean girls. And now I kinda laugh about it.I don't really deal with mean girls now.
I think everyone in my class treats me nice and they all think I'm really nice.

Love me, nelsy!!!!!!
PS. And now me & Marissa are good buds.

Ok this is how i deal with mean girls i wait till they say something about me to my face or just about me then i go up and im like B**** say it to my face and then if they say something els i say shut up oh and watch ur back iam jujst getting started


love stacey


p.s i have had plenty of experince when ur in jounir high youll need this :)

I usually say somethin sarcastic when they TRYYYY 2 insult me, and hen just walk away........
like this one time when this ABSOLUTELY mean girl said somethin 2 me:
Im a really sportygirl and she is 2, but she cant jump fences and i can so i jumped one to look for a volleyball that went loose, and then she said 2 me:
Oh look, Kayla the monkey!!!!
and i said:
If im the monkey then what r u?
and then IGNORED HERRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!


just let them HATE ON U and ignore it... brush ur shoulders off cuz ur 2 good 4 them

Mean girls are just jelouse of you. They have nothing better in their lives to do then too humiliate people its pretty gry but just brush it off people dont like mean people so cheer up because they are just going too lose in the end. Trust me i know its happened plenty of times to me and the mean girl ended up hurt.

I can't stand them! they get on my nerves!!
"you have to talk louder" or "you have to pass them quik" ugh! I just let it goo!!!

many of the girls that are mean
have a lot of things going on in their life
the jut let it out on other people
but stay away from them and the won't bother
you

i think mean girls are jelous of what their so called "losers" have because their little jerks and theythink they can get everything they want but if they dont they hurt people and when the girls in my class do that to me i get them mad by either ignoring them or taking it the other way by doing the same thing to them.

Autumn White on February 20, 2009 12:25 PM

I usually confront them and i realize how much of a coward they are and i thank my self that i am not insecure that i have to put others down to make myself feel better.I think if they they don't like me then they shouldn't care what I do. Only God has the right to judge! I feel bad for people like that.I just don't understand them and i am still friendly to them. I think they need a hug! LOL

Well I would say, ignore them. They want attention, so don't give it to them. Being mean isn't going to get you anywheres in life.

Give it right back. If they see you taking what they say in offense then clearly they will continue harrassing you for the fun of it. Show them your not going to take it, being mean is usually just a cover up for feeling insucure about yourself.

you know what i would do? I'd sock them rigth in the face and theni would flip them off so bad they would go home crying for there mommmyy SO IF YOU THE MEAN ONE WATCH OUT !!!

You just need to let it go and not let it bother you. Mean girls are just people who get pleasure from putting someone down and are most likley jealous of you. If their bulling becomes excessive then you should talk to someone you trust. My school is very big on anti-bulling and we have lots of anti-bully speakers come in and this is what they tell us about mean girls. You shouldn't fight back because then you just stoop to their level. Show that you know better then them and believe in yourself. Hope this helps!!!

its hard to deal with them

i be mean back!!!!!!!!!!

i just come up with a good, sassy comback

I deal with mean girls like mean girls should be dealt with. Mean girls are mean because they have no confidence in themselves so they make fun of other girls to make themselves feel a little better. I don't make fun or act mean to mean girls because I would be just like them and i have confiedence in myself. I just ignore them. Let them say what they want. It might be true it might not be true either way I don't let it get to me.

see here da problem girls out there think there big and bad and just cuz' they look bad. talk about people , say smart stuff and do things to people. but that not goin to fly wit me.

BIGST TWLIGHT FAN on February 20, 2009 4:58 PM

just ignore them they realy just want to be like you.

i hate mean peaple ...i have this 1 friend her name is jessica and out of the 6 of us me and jessica are the only 2 who fight and we just got into a big fight recently and it got out of hand i was about to cry if she said somethin that was out of hand!!!!!!!! but we made up and became friends again !!!!!!!!!!!

gena (pronounced jenna) on February 20, 2009 5:13 PM

well not like sounding mean but if someone really gets on my nerves and asks me if they cud punch me i will beat them up. lmao. like im not one of those mean girls but if they really get on my nerves and are not my friend i will go out to get them. haha.

I hate bullies! They only are mean to you because they are jealous!!!!!!!!

I hate bullies! They only are mean to you because they are jealous!!!!!!!!

Well. How I would deal with a mean gurl is dat i would stay calm when they talk to me but as soon as they say some thing i dont lik i would go behind her and pull her hair and star socking her in the face and slamming her on the ground and start punching and kicking her until som 1 breaks it up. That how i handle my mean girl

I would ignore them until they sai the rong thing and when they do say the rong thing i will go behind them and pull ther hair and start choking and punching them and slam them into the ground and start punching and kicking her and choking her until som one breaks it up. works every time thats how i handled my mean girl.

It depends on how I'm feeling, if I'm mad I'm going 2 be mean back, I know I shouldn't, but I hate it when some 1 makes me mad when I was already mad. If I'm happy I just look at them like they're the moron idiots they are. But most of the time I just say mean things 2 them. I've never really had 2 fight with mean girls, but if I did, they better pray that they'll be alive after the fight, because I fight with my boy cousins and I always win! My dad taught me how to defend myself! ♥ §

They make people feel bad but,it's SOOOOO
FUNNY TO TEASE THEM BACK!!!
Their like "No I'm not" and "No I didn't"

i used to have problems with some people.... i thought i was " high and mighty" and with the best, it turned out, they were just my friends so that i would give them answers to homework and stuff like that, once i figured out they used me, i stopped hanging out with them. I dont agree that being popular means othing, because in real life, it really does, and now, i am friends with them, but i no longer let them take advantage of me, and i know not to trust them, because eventually, ill be backstabbed, but since i dont trust any of them with anything, ill be ready. :) it wont hurt me.

U should really just try to ignore them.They obviously arent worth the trouble or ur time.

I know. Everyone says to just ignore them, but it's a lot easier said than done. Mean girls want you to feel pain. If you show them, (or at least act) like it doesn't bother you, they'll leave you alone. If they say or do something, say something like, "Is that the best you can do? Wow. sad", or "If your opinion mattered to me, that would have really bothered me, but it doesn't, so i'm sorry for you!" You can try just being sarcastic like, "Great!" or "cool!" Whatever you do, don't let them walk all over you. Fight back and eventually, they'll leave you alone!

I usually just try to ignore them. Most of them are the way they are because they want attention. It's so stupid!

Usually these girls just want to see you get hurt. If you show no reaction they won't care. When a mean girl disses me I just roll my eyes and if it's really annoying I just grab my BFF if she is nearby I just say so she can hear, 'Wow. I wonder if she notices that big zit on her face'. Also try to not to put yourself in a sitch that a mean girl will insult you.

i ignored them i no they hav no lives

I ABSOLUTLY can't stand a mean girl! I mean don't they have anything better to than pick on us? It's rediculous! They'll be all smart elecky and be all you gat a problem or you want to leave. All I say is no or I'm good right where I am. It makes them so mad and it looks kind of funny to watch their faces!! Then they try to make up a come back but you are long gone before they can think about a clever comeback, if they even can!:^)

hi am dumb so dumb aaaahhhhh i know about mean girls they are mean they also they get u in trouble with the teacher. so i think that u r a mean girl u sould stop being mean but.. that not go to do it to people that has mean to people.

so i think the teachers need to tell them to stop.

p.s. mean girls r mean and a brat to them so u also think about people u love so love ur mom and dad.

Who doesnt deal with those kind of people?! you just have to learn to ignore them. They are probably just jealous anyway.

FIrst i think that mean girls are girls that choose makeup and gossip over fun and friends. I think you guys should ignore them and have fun with yourself. Soon enough they will turn to someone normal.

im a punk and the strongest girl in my class so i would beat her up but first i would be all bitchy

People who are bullies are jerks and if they bother that much tell an adult. Besides after ignoring them, they semmed to change into human.

"WOW" it's really hard to explain mean girls are always mean because they aren't getting enough attention at home or because they are not happy with thereselves sometime they are so mean and rough becaause they had it rough at home so they share how angry they are with the world and take it out on others i would know i used to be one untill i found out that just because i was unhappy i shouldn't make others the same:(

Mean girls,God. I have reading, Science, Social studies, and home room with the meanest girl in school! How to deal with them, Well just fight back. Stand up for yourself and others by saying "I dont care what you think, and by you thinking that your better than me, Im better than you." It should work!

Mean girls,God. I have reading, Science, Social studies, and home room with the meanest girl in school! How to deal with them, Well just fight back. Stand up for yourself and others by saying "I dont care what you think, and by you thinking that your better than me, Im better than you." It should work!

WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO:
1.Think positive
2.Ignore them
3.Stand up for youre rights!!!!!
GO GALS!!!!

hailey tranchitella on February 21, 2009 10:47 AM

ignore them and just for get about it because they have no control over u.

Actually I dont deal with them!!! We always just kind of got along at my school. Its awesome. Nobody but the really big geeks get picked on. If you are normal or popular you dont deal with that stuff.

i ignore them and in the end they look like idiots for talking to someone who just keeps walking.

mean girls r insecure they want 2 make other people insecure 2. i can think of a lot of mean girls from when i was younger, and now they r not popular, no one is their friend, and they sit around feeling sorry 4 themselves.girls r mean!face facts, but un don"t have 2 be one of those girls if u have self respect u can go far

When I'm dealing with mean girls at school, first of all, if they would call me stupid or worthless, or something like "You look so bad in that outfit." In their minds, they're saying, "Omg, she ooks soooo great in that and is prettier than ME! I'm going to tell her she looks bad just to make my self feel better." I just remind myself that I KNOW im not stupid or worthless. Mean girls are just losers if they have nothing better to do than make fun of me. Mean girls also look for victums. If you don't stand up to mean girls, they will continue to make fun of you. If you DO stand up to them, they will back down. If it gets to far, I go to my school guidence counsler for advice. Remember, NOBODY is worthless or stupid. Always keep your head up high:)

TaylorLautnerLover on February 21, 2009 12:27 PM

STICK UP FOR YOURSELF DON'T LET THEM CONTROL YOU DISH IT BACK THEN THEY LEARN NOT TO TOUCH YOU AND ALWAYS STICK UP FOR YOUR FRIENDS

Well, when you see a mean girl or you know one thats not treating you right go up to them and tell them to stop you totally have the right to defend yourself. Also if your friend or someone you know is getting treated meanly by a mean girl stand up for them to. Mean girls just like to act popular and treat others to feel small. I have dealt with a lot of mean girls i don't know why. Girls in my school think its cool trying to act like a mean girl and they just go up to someone and make them feel like there not important but something i always do is stand up for myself and you should too.

What I do is... I simply just don't let it get to me.. If they are making fun of me or talking about me or my friends... Obviously they have nothing else better to do or they're just jealous..

lets just ask loretta

Honestly what I do is just say o.k to everything they say to me. It makes them feel less powerful and if the o.k doesn't work then I ignore them.

I have dealed with mean girls but you know what u should just foreget about them and move on with ur life and leave them alone and i have just walked away from people who have just been so mean and so i just walk away

i just treat them the way they treat me or my friends! i usually avoid them but i get sick of them after awhile then confront them!

i just ingore mean girls and let them say what ever they wont to about me and it don't hurt me. And they keep talk about it and they will lay off

I just either ignore them, or I tell them how rude they are being. And I tell them that iI am lucky I am not like them. I also tell them what they are actually doing wrong.

i just completely avoid them! they'll eventually get off ur back! wat else advice is best?!?

joneva frady on February 21, 2009 5:05 PM

You say " never mind what haters say ignore them til they fade away

Just be nice to her!!!

The Bible says, "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head."

By being mean to her, just like she is to you, you will only make things WORSE! Be as nice to her as you can and it won't seem so bad. In fact, if you do that, the only person she will be hurting will be herself! If you try to be a good friend to her, how can she STILL be mean? And even if she IS still mean, you won't be guilty of the same thing. You don't have to be her best friend, just don't be mean back.

WOW USUALLY SOME PEOPLE THINK OF THERE BUGGING YOU TO GO UP TO THEM AND BEAT THE GUTS OUT OF THEM BUT YOU GOT TO BE THE BIGGER PERSON I USUALLY JUST GO UP TO THEM AND TELL THEM HOW RUDE AND ANNOYING THERE BEING AND EVENTUALLY THETLL LEAVE YOU ALONE AND MOVE ON

First of all, you need to remember that whenever she insults you, SHE'S MAKING IT UP! IT'S NOT TRUE!!!! Don't ever listen to her when she talks bad about other people! Most of the time when people are bullies, it's because they've had some hard times in their lives and they deal with it by putting other people down to make themselves feel better. So don't be mean to her.
Confront her. Is it possible that she doesn't know what she's doing is wrong? When you do talk to her, DON'T SAY ANYTHING MEAN. And she's bound to make some smart- alleck comment; just don't listen to her. If that doesn't work, just try to avoid her, and when you do see her, do nice things for her (that should get her shorts in a knot!). If what she's doing is really hurting you and she doesn't stop, talk to a teacher, school counselor, principal, or parent. It may seem like you're being a tattletale, but you can't just keep letting her walk all over you, can you? And remember, she's not targeting you because you're inferior or worthless, etc, just because she's either jealous, thinks you did something wrong [to her], or she thinks you're vulnerable (don't be).


The Bible has a lot to say about loving your enemies. It says that when someone makes fun of us, we should just let them and not return the favor. This doesn't mean you should allow everyone to use you, just DON'T BE MEAN. The Lord has a way of dealing with everyone justly. "Vengeance is mine, says the Lord." "Love your enemies." "Love your neighbor." "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head."

"You are fearfully and wonderfully made!" "I have a plan for your life, to give you a future and a hope." (that's God speaking) "Do not let anyone look down on you because you are young, but rather set an example..." "...And you have OVERCOME, for He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world."

When people find out how mean she is, she won't have any friends anymore.


God loves you. I do too!!! :D

Wow, "Alexa25," you're kinda mean.

I've dealt with a lot of that in my childhood. Trust me. I hate it. All i did was ignore it. And sometimes when i got annoyed of the "mean girl" keep on giving me nasty looks and mean gestures, i just fought back. Meaning I told her to leave me alone and step away because she just wanted attention. And by saying that in front of alot of people, all of her drones or followers stopped praising her. ByeBye "mean girl"! ;)

-abbey

deal with mean girls???????????? yaha right im one of them and if u mess with me u no wats comin 4 ya

Im Ashlie and i had an expirience with a meangirl recently. She told me she was going to fightme and she hated me. But i let her cool off for a few days then i talked to her. Weactually became good friends. We talk and text almost every day . i know it doenst happen like this all the time but my suggestion for u girls who r having problemswith bullies is dont fight back be nice to the if they physically try to hurt u tell an adult or some one you trust.

dealing with mean girls isnt that big of an issue with me. cuz alot of people dont hate on me. cuz im just very nice to everyone...well except the ones i dont like. but if there is sumone who who be's mean to me ill tell them right to there face to stop messin with me and ill tell them like it iz. i dont like it wen ppl mess with me. wen im around my friends i can be sweet but if there mean to me i dont take it so seriously but if they keep goin at it then ur breakin my thick wall to psyco mode. if u cross the line with me ill throw a bad frickin tantrum. i will throw sumtin at u! becuz sumtimes ill have anger management problems. teehee! if u dont mess with me i wont wess with u. dats my catch phrase.

Audrey Lillie on February 21, 2009 8:02 PM

the hardest time in any girls life is in middle school.I know that I spent alot of time crying when I was in 6th grade, but scince then I have learned that if you tune out or ignore the girls that are mean to you soon they will forget about you, and leave you alone. Maen girls act the way they do because they want people to like them and somethimes they were treated the way that they are treating you.But mean girls are just the same as you and me. sometimes they are sared just like you but they dshow it by treating horibly. I guess what i am trying to say is dont let mean girls get to u. and dont cry over what they say to you.most girls who are popular and have lots of friends and are crule end up with lives so different from the ones they had is school but some have the same types of lives that they had in school.

mean girls are girls that are haters and dont like you because you have better stuff than they do or Jeolous

heyy-
ive had this in many expirences
this girl kirsten
urghhh
lthats all i have to sayy
this is what i do
- go to my bestie emily
-ignore her fer a bit to get all my feeligns tward her clear
- then go on with my life

I would ge abck at them thaey have no right to treat others this way i was teased by mean people but i stood up for my self and no one really helped me but i got rid of the teasing really really fast hopefully it never happens again if it does i would tell people to look away and then i would step on their foot and then i would run to get a Teacher by me that is not to far away i hope no one ever gets teased again in this world or i would just pretend to tell on them and then walk away and not be or hang out by that group the rest of the year or the next or the next or the next unless they straighten up and be more nice to me and my friends and everybody because if they did i would satnd up and defend me and my friends but i think no one deserves to get treated bad or meanly aound here i am in mIddle School and there is a lot of fights going on and i dont like it IT NEEDS TO STOP RIGHT NOW OR SOMEONE NEEDS TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well there not very nice so i just igrno them!

I WOULD JUST IGNORE THEM BECAUSE
THEY DONT EVEN MATTER PPL LIKE THAT
JUST WANT TO BE NOTICE OR TRYING TO SHOW OFF
AT OTHER PPL
SO BULLIES LIKE THAT REALLY DONT MATTER
WE SHOULDNT LET ME GET UNDER OUR SKINS,
LET THEM GET TO US,ALSO RUIN OUR DAY
BRUSH THEM OFF AND SHOW THEM THAT THEY
ARE NOT GETTING TO U IF U DO THAT
THEN MAYBE THEY WONT BOTHER U
ANYMORE..IF THAT DOESNT WORK JUST STAY
POSITIVE!!!

WHO CARES ABOUT BULLIES!!! WE SHOULDNT LET THEM GET TO US CAUSE THEY JUST WANT
ATTENTION..JUST BRUSH THEM OFF

FORGET ABOUT THEM!!! INGNORE THEM!!!

If girls are mean to me........sometimes they are my friends.....i will usally just walk away or throw a comment or comeback right back at them!!!

I deal with mean girls by, well, there are a couple different ways. Sometimes I ignore them. It really depends on the girl. When it is someone I don't know then I'd just ignore them, but when they mess with my friends or me I'd have to stick up to them. I'm not afraid to stick up for myself.I wouldn't be mean or anything, just tell them that I don't want this to be happening and that it's got to stop. If it's someone I know then it's really easy. Like for example. There is this girl at school, and she is really annoying. She tries to make herself look good in front of everyone by making fun of me and calling me names. I just keep fighting though. She told me right to my face that she dosen't like sitting at the same table with her at lunch because for some reason she just doesn't like me. So I told her that it didnt bother me. Infact, it bothers me to sit with her. I ignore her. What she says dosent bother me at all. Especially coming from her. And that is how I deal with mean girls.

If they make a snoddy remark i just ignore them but if i do have something to say right away ill say it im not as afraid to stand up for myself anymore i used to be shy but now im like "Back off!!!"

Ashley Diaz on February 22, 2009 2:59 AM

Mean girls trust me they r so weird!? They r just jelous bout wat u do N they r just agh! I hate them they think they r all that

from my experience i would just ignore them. but i have always wondered y they did tht. and now i have a pretty good idea. at some schools or places to be popular u have to be mean, dress right, act right, and hang wth the right ppl. some ppl want it so bad tht they will change everything one min they will be ur friend and then the next they will ignore u. when they relieze tht wht they have become they be.come jealous of the ppl tht had wht the used to have and so they treat them wrong and thts when u relieze who ur true friends r the ones who will stand up for u. so really thier just jealous ppl or have a hard time at home and need to get all of the bad energy out of thier system.

shoot im the last person 2 coment!!!! any way, 4 ex i f they call me stupid i say, ur right i am stupid evan if i no im not. btw i agree with chritina. :)

OMG a mean friend? Well, I say they aren't my friend if they're mean. Most mean girls are in a cliche or posse but I hang out with more boys than girls so I can't tell much but I know this one person I normally ignore her but she talks behind my back so sometimes I talk behind her back. I barely do that now, because it's the wrong thing to do- but if I write down my opinion and feelings in a secret notebook or journal I feel much better because it feels like all the stress just jumped off your shoulders. NEVER SHARE THAT JOURNAL.

Try to ignore them. They're just being mean because they want attention

emilie liberatore on February 22, 2009 10:07 AM

i ignore them

when i dell with mean girls my friend and i go on a i hate mean girls strike jk we just ignore them

shaquasia adams on February 22, 2009 11:33 AM

i just ignore them and dont let them get the best of me im to good of a person to let any mean girls try to take over my wonderful life!

i dont really have a problem with mean girls because im just friendly to everyone and everyones the same back to me. i actually dont think i have ever met a mean girl, but i've heard a lot of them before.

no one really has to deal with mean girls its all about the way you carry yourself...if you have low self-esteem you have a better chance of being picked on but if you carry your self with confidence they see that you have no time in the world to deal with immature behavior

Most mean girls are just jealous of what you have. They believe if they bring you down they will get all the attention, but guess what! they just become the outcast since no one likes them. Whenever some girl is mean to me, i usually ignore her. A saying my mom told me by Eleanor Roosevelt is
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent"
This means if someone makes fun of you or says something negative about you, you dont let it get to you because you know ur better than them. I stick by that saying whenever someone is being negative to me.

I say, If you wanna say something mean,say it to my face and then just walk away!!! When people r mean to me I just ignore them and move on to someplace else!! Just ignore them and if it does not stop, then it might be time to tell someone!!!!

the clock is off!!! Right now it is 10:52 not 1:50!!!!

i just ignore them.... thery r just soooo stupid ...


ughhhh i hate them ..... me andmy friends never did them soething but welll.... we just ignore theyr stupidness

i just ignore them.... thery r just soooo stupid ...


ughhhh i hate them ..... me andmy friends never did them soething but welll.... we just ignore theyr stupidness

Just ignore them. They're either jealous, insecure, or immature. Don't let them get to you!

well idc but if the have problems say it to my face that is all i have to say about it

Its not kewl to be mean to some one, thats bullying. If people want to bully some one then they have problems cause they are just trying to make them feel better inside. If some one was mean to me i would say to them "your just jelous of me because i am the bigger person". I want our world to be nice but people dont make that happen, especally in middle school!!!! Well they would get realy mad , and i would just walk off, away from their negitive atitude. :p i am just keepin it fresh!

TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE!! Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. There negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone.

i stand up to them and give them a rain check on their attitude and let them know no is scared of them at all

well if it was me i woulkd have a talk wit them because mean girls i heard that if they are a bully or something means that they have a promblem at home so i will jus ignore them and move on maybe try to make freinds but if u knoew me u know i am not worryed about girls orr boys bein a bully really so.........................

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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. There negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp.

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The meanest girls I know start out being your friend. Then they start the backstabbing and turn your whole group friends against you. I have two friends like this, and the girls in my group only hangout with them because they're scared that the "mean girls" will turn on them. I try to avoid them as much as I can during the day, but it's really hard when all your best friends hangout with them. If they do something mean to me, at least I know that the only reason they're being mean is because they're jealous of how cool I am♥

The meanest girls I know start out being your friend. Then they start the backstabbing and turn your whole group friends against you. I have two friends like this, and the girls in my group only hangout with them because they're scared that the "mean girls" will turn on them. I try to avoid them as much as I can during the day, but it's really hard when all your best friends hangout with them. If they do something mean to me, at least I know that the only reason they're being mean is because they're jealous of how cool I am♥

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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

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i think most girls tolerate mean girls bc most the time they're the most popular girls in the class or the prettiest but i have somthng to say if this is the reason u tolerate mean girls they don't have to be the most popular just get together a group of girls and have ur whole class ignored the mean girl

there's a girl @ my school who's really bratty and rich (seriously, just think stupid, rich, snooty girl). she would pick on one of my bffs and me and my bffs found out and we decided to support her. Like we started looking after her, like keeping her away from the snooty girl and standing up for her. Sure it still happens sometimes but we always support her and never let her down.

oh...wait..wanted 2 add that my group of bffs is like 14 strong...even tho the rich girl is the most popular @ our school we totally outnumber her!!!

all i do is just ignore the mean girls because they r the ones with the problem and i just goes to show how immuture they r

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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

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PS i wrote this bcuz i didnt have anything else to do and i want to give all the awesome gurls out there a good messageand also i have mucho experience wit this stuff:) OMG this message is super long! lolz!
Oh and that girl Stacey she's tough and that's wut some of my friends and I wood do.

LIVE*LAUGH*LOVE WITH PEACE*

PLEASE READ THIS OR SKIM THROUGH IT! :)

TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

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PS i wrote this bcuz i didnt have anything else to do and i want to give all the awesome gurls out there a good messageand also i have mucho experience wit this stuff:) OMG this message is super long! lolz!
Oh and that girl Stacey she's tough and that's wut some of my friends and I wood do.

LIVE*LAUGH*LOVE WITH PEACE*

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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

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PS i wrote this bcuz i didnt have anything else to do and i want to give all the awesome gurls out there a good messageand also i have mucho experience wit this stuff:) OMG this message is super long! lolz!
Oh and that girl Stacey she's tough and that's wut some of my friends and I wood do.

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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

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PS i wrote this bcuz i didnt have anything else to do and i want to give all the awesome gurls out there a good messageand also i have mucho experience wit this stuff:) OMG this message is super long! lolz!
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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

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Alyssa Newkirk on February 22, 2009 6:11 PM

I stand up to them and say, "Do you know what?", "Your just jealous of me and thats why your saying all these bad things to me." or I say, "Why dont you just be quiet once in a while?" and walk away.

I'll ignore them & see their reaction. They end up looking stupid in the end.

Dont even bother. They're NOT worth it, trust me(:

i just say what did you say and start a fight hahaha

i am a mean girl so i don't have to worry about it

Audrey Hamilton on February 22, 2009 7:04 PM

Ok this what I do. I LET IT OUT!!!!! I just tell them like it is. I say look u have been a HUGE brat and a sassy person. So from now oon I'm not ur friend. That, is how u do it!

OMG!!!!!! Mean girls r so, well... MEAN! (LOL) I am sooooooooooo lucky i dont have 2 deal w/ them!!! but if i had 2, i wud NOT let them get 2 me. (at least id try :)}

Mean girls are part of life. Three options are to ignore them, even though you may get hated on for the rest of your life. Two, Get in good with them, that is if you can stand to be evil. Three, my personal favorite (this worked best for me.) three simple words. Carry. Pepper. Spray. try ladiez!!!

Peace!

At our school we dont have mean girls we just have people that talk behind your back.
there just nice in front of your face.

I just don't let them make me feel bad.

at school what me and my friends do is say "hay get a life because r life is already hard as is so if u dont ill kick ur but in front of this whole school so go away!" and they do! i never thought they would the first time we sayed that,and that was in 5th grade at the last fild trip of the year!

at school what me and my friends do is say "hay get a life because r life is already hard as is so if u dont ill kick ur but in front of this whole school so go away!" and they do! i never thought they would the first time we sayed that,and that was in 5th grade at the last fild trip of the year!

at school what me and my friends do is say "hay get a life because r life is already hard as is so if u dont ill kick ur but in front of this whole school so go away!" and they do! i never thought they would the first time we sayed that,and that was in 5th grade at the last fild trip of the year!

Just dont let them get to you, i know its like really hard, just know that you arent alone, celebreties like taylor swift and demi lovato were picked on throughout middle and high school, i know they can be totally vicous, BELIEVE me i know, but you gotta learn to deal, forget them!

I bite back at them i call names ill even hurt if its a really bad fight . i cant stand gettin picked on i hate it.

Just ignore them!!!!!!!! They r way too full of themselves i just tune them out most of the time its better that way!!!!! Believe me i know!!!!!!! So dont listen to a thing they say u r who u r and tahts what makes u unique!!!!!!!!

I just ignore them. Their just mean people that`s what life is about.They are just geeks. There just trying to be cool but there not. i deal with it all the time. I`m blind in one eye and they tease me about it.But i just ignore it.

Well see ya!

Hey Jenna. You are totaly right, Just ignore them.

i dont really pay attention lik i wasnt even doing anything once and a girl just comes up to me and says wow ur ugly i just shrug it off cuz i no if i fight back im giving them exactly what they want

i beat them up and talk back last time i roke a person's
leg and i almost put my teacher in the hospital

i just ignore them.
they're not worth my time. i HATE drama.

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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

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Thank u for ur agreement if any one agrees wit me:)

PS i wrote this bcuz i didnt have anything else to do and i want to give all the awesome gurls out there a good messageand also i have mucho experience wit this stuff:) OMG this message is super long! lolz!
Oh and that girl Stacey she's tough and that's wut some of my friends and I wood do.

LIVE*LAUGH*LOVE WITH PEACE*

like i would ignore them they make fun cause or their jealous or that makes them feel more better about themself there so bad but their not!

don't ignore them it just makes you feel like a big loser and them feel like they won, if you ever want to be cool all you have to do is tell them off infact if you want to cuss them out. They will be shocked by your great backbone and respect you

I try to ignore them, but sometimes it get though to handel! There will always be mean girls, but there are always more good friends!

ive had a huge experience with mean girls because i picked the wrong friends!! lucky i got some genuine ones that ive had for a couple of yrs now!! yay
ive figured that u cant say it will all go away cos some people will hate u! and some girls just dont change but dont get me wrong it is possible for some to really change!!
to deal with it youve got to
1 firmly tell them what u feel but also reasonably nice (NO YELLING AND GETTING URSELF WORKED UP!!)
2 stay away from them and dont let them get to u
3 be the bigger person!! its like when an adult says"i dont care who started it" its a good thing to say. it doesnt matter who starts it, its who ends it, if u carry on the mean conversation then ur just as bad as they r(even if they r using stronger language!!)!!!!


remember!!!

I just dont talk to them ingore them. Mean girls are people who are jealous or people who humiliate someone that has something they cant have.

Amber Gillon on February 23, 2009 9:00 AM

It's hard not to become a mean girl when stopping one.

When I am face to face with a mean girl, I act the more mature one and just walk away.Usually they are mean because they are either jealous of you or you are just picking the wrong friends (I personally have done that).Luckily I have friends that love me for who I am. Luv u Steph, Kristin, Krystal and the rest of my gang!

I deal with them by ignoring them! But sometimes i talk back but it just makes the argument worse so just ignore because it is not worth it! Love Jennie

chocolatemonster on February 23, 2009 12:06 PM

if a mean girl tried 2 mess with me i would try 2 ignore her. but if that doesn't work then i would start baggin' on her all day 'n' night.then i know 4sure that she'd leave me alone.

pammy spanos on February 23, 2009 1:10 PM

omg i have so many mean irls but all i do is be myself and ijnore whateveer they say because i dont care what people think about me anymore i spent so much time trying to fit in but i dontr really care anymore whatever people think about i can really not care any less

I just try to remember that these girls are not my friends and are probably very insecure. If you show that you are upset it fuels them to be meaner to you. They are regular girls like you. I try being their friend.

i think every body is a mean person

i just pushed a "mean girl" into a FREEZING pool yesterday at my friends pool party!!!!!!!

ii completly ignore them. cuz if theyre mean to u, theyre jus jelous of u. so take them bein mean to u as a compilment♥

i was just say something nice to them and they would stop because it would not be fun no more or just ignore them

i was just say something nice to them and they would stop because it would not be fun no more or just ignore them

ok so i have this frenemy and it was early this school year and we were at a party and she was being all rude and telling us to play this game a certain way. So i went up to her and said that this is Andrea's party and u dont make the rules and so when she got/gets mad she goes around the grade telling lies about the person and then she turn everyone against you so me and leah were sitting together at lunch a lot and madison wont let me sit by her anymore. Wat do you think about that!!!??? isnt it rude and mean??!!

Well I had this girl hate me right off the bat at the begining of the school year, and I couldnt figure out why. She thought I spread this rumor about her but I didn't and so she TRIED to turn my friends against me but since I have nice friends who care about me, and she was new this year and only this girl beleived her so obviously she wasn't a true friend, she didn't get the revenge she was planning on. So instead of coming and talking to me first she jumped right to conclusions, so that started a whole big fight with her trying to drag people down into it. So I just ignored her only that made it worse, so i ended up giving the guidance councellor (did I spell that right?) all the notes (4) plus my other friend who she dragged into this was on my "side" had notes too (3) and he talked to her and she hasn't done anything else...yet. Do you think I made the right choice?
P.S. I'm always looking for new friends so if anybody needs a friend let me know! :) *And I'm not a creepy old dude pretending to be a kid...eeewww*

actually 4get what i said about the whole friend thing, that sounds weird. Lolz!

well, I have friends, and I have enemies. Not to sound all mean or whatever, but I hate most of the people I go to school with. Thet are just annoying and mean, seriously, thery are always like that. I wish there was ither people there. But anyway I usually ignore them, but if they try to bug me, I let them know that. I will act nice to them, but I wouldn't like them, it just shows that I'm nice and mature, while they're mean and abnoxious. Key words, don't let them drag you down!

i think mean girls just like making themselves feel better about themselves by picking another people.
they want you to respond but if you just walk away and show them no interest. they wont have fun with you and they will leave you alone.
and you could also use clever comebacks cause those are always fun (: !
especially if you win the comeback fighht..
(:

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TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

IF U AGREE WIT ME PUT THIS ON ONE OF UR MESSAGES: **8**

Thank u for ur agreement if any one agrees wit me:)

PS i wrote this bcuz i didnt have anything else to do and i want to give all the awesome gurls out there a good messageand also i have mucho experience wit this stuff:) OMG this message is super long! lolz!
Oh and that girl Stacey she's tough and that's wut some of my friends and I wood do.

LIVE*LAUGH*LOVE WITH PEACE*

PLEASE READ THIS OR SKIM THROUGH IT! :)

TELL THEM OFF OF COURSE AND GET REVENGE!!! See,i would do that but it isnt right. Most gurls do this and it doesnt work out the way they thought it wood. Really you shouldn't do that because it will only get worse. The simple way to handle this is just walk away or ignore them. As an 8th grader, I would do that and then do something really fun or text my friends. "The Mean Girls" is just jealous and being EXTREMELY stupid. Being mean to some1 isnt right because something might have ten times worse to that some1 who is being mean. Their negative attitude could reflect on you if you dont do something good to get away from "The Mean Girls". Right now, nobody is being mean to me now because I consider them all friends. My friends think I'm all popular and everything...but i just say no..lol! Sometimes "the mean girls" do tricks without being caught. For example, they wood put ketchup packets under the toilet seat and once the next girl sits on the toilet seat ketchup got everywhere on the girl's pants and legs (poor girl. I feel relly sorry for her).All im saying is that you dont want to be "the mean girl" because things will eventually be worse for u now and l8er on. So just keep it fresh with a nice attitude and be a good friend to everyone. But one of the mean girls i know is name Alyssa Munoz she probably is not you guys who left comments because i know you guys r nice by telling by ur messages. Anyways keep being positive all the way and dont let any1 hurt by the horrible comments they tell u bcuz they r not true. No matter wut they do u just stick ur head up and b glad u r not the mean girl is bullying u. You just need to stay away from them and being ur self and hang wit ur TRUE friends:)Also dont respond to there lil scams or teasing they do to you. Oh and u shood stand up 4 urself;dont b the wimp so that way they wont get to u with there immaturity or insercurity :)

Love Julie!!

IF U AGREE WIT ME PUT THIS ON ONE OF UR MESSAGES: **8**

Thank u for ur agreement if any one agrees wit me:)

PS i wrote this bcuz i didnt have anything else to do and i want to give all the awesome gurls out there a good messageand also i have mucho experience wit this stuff:) OMG this message is super long! lolz!
Oh and that girl Stacey she's tough and that's wut some of my friends and I wood do.

LIVE*LAUGH*LOVE WITH PEACE*

Mr. Bunny!!! on February 23, 2009 7:33 PM

You have to realize that the inside is what matters!!! If they make fun of the way u look just remember this: God loves me and I am excepted by him and my family.


PS:MR. BUNNY LOVES YOU TOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

i just ignore them nut if they come up to u just give it ur all prove UR BETTER THEN THOSE BRAT DOLLS

Rosie Vecchione on February 23, 2009 8:39 PM

I either just ignore them, or in a very nice way, get them to realize what they are doing. So that they know how they are acting to me.

I dont deal with men girls cuz I rule the skool and im ike sooooooooooooooo popular and PRETTY and I dont tlk to losers like yall.


xoxo (sike no on hug yall ugly boies or kiss yall custy lips!) BYE STUPID LOSERS

mean girls are girls who have nothing to do better with there time but to make other people feel bad about themselves so my advice to you is to ignore them as much as you can and never let there mean words get you down because what ever they say its problay not true

Most peole say, "if you can't beat them, join them." Well in this case it's wrong. If your having trouble with mean girls, you shouldn't become one. Be yourself! Stand up to them and you know your friends will stand up for you too! You have to know that mean girls are mean because they are either jealous of you or have nothing better to doo with their time!

I just ingore them if they say something Im dont speak to them

the mean girls at my school are the the group of friends that dress the same and wear their hair stick straight every day. the thing is about them is THEY ARE ALL THE SAME. you can just tell by how they look. i think its really easy to just ignore them because they are just critisizing you because you dress or act different (as in you are more original). i dont think anyone should take a word they say seriously if its gonna be coming out of the mouth of a clone. who wants to be the same as them anyway?

Beat the meanies at their own game

ive dealed with mean girls and all u have to do is just ignore them! Completely ignore them!!!

if u wanna, u could start a rumer about them, im thinking about that...

First, just ignore them. Usually, they stop when they see you're not responding. But if things crazy, don't let them walk all over you! Stick up for yourself. If things get physical (hopefully they don't), then tell an adult. If you don't want to seem like a cry baby, tell an adult secretively and they could probably move your seat or locker away from that bully.

Don't get me started ok. I deal with mean girls by just ignoring them. Mean girls say things that make you feel less confident about yourself. They try to make you feel like your nothing. But just ignore them if that dosen't work out go face to face and talk to them and mabe get a friend to back you up. Trust me I have been face to face with a mean girl but in the end it worked out. Stand up for yourself and beilive in yourself.

martha maldonado on February 24, 2009 9:09 AM

if mean girls are bothering me i would just say "leave me alone". if they dont, then i would fight back with words even though i get in trouble

beat them up and win

i Am totally mean right back to them. not to there face but i am really good at spreading rumors.

1st of all i try and ignore em!if that still doesn't work and they still tease me or so i just get even by findin out bout 1 or 2 of their TOP SECRETS and then TELLING EVERY 1!!!!!!!!!cuz thats wat they desirve!!! i mean who do they think they r???????????plus i hav a huge temper!!!!!!!!!!!!!!can't help it!!!!!!!!!!!hey i mean seriously i just give em a taste of their own medision!!!!!and i know it may not be da best way 2 deal wit it but i'll do it anyways!!!!!!!!!!!!!!don't judge me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ignorance doesn't always work u know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!but mosta times i just DON'T CARE BOUT WAT THEY SAY OR DO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! UNTIL THEY CROSS DA LINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I deal by being mean back :p

You have to think to yourself how much you hate that person and then if you have a facebook, blog about it. there is this girl that I know and her name is Kelsey. everybody hates her and she is still popular! I don't get ti and neither does my friend Noelle. I have to tell her to go suck and egg or go die in a whole! Take that Kelsey!!


They just bully people bcause they look 4 reaction. If u dont giv them a reaction they wont bother u.

What I do is, I let the girl(s) know how I feel and tell her to leave me alone. I don't usually have to deal with this problem but when I help my friends, that's how I know. If the girl(s) won't leave you alone tell a responsible adult. If your afraid to snitch, then tell the girl(s) something that will make her want to think twice about bullying someone, like; you wont have any friends, it's a bad habit, people are not gonna want to remeber you when they look back in thier school yearboook, no one will want to work with in groups or in partners in school, don't you bored of bullying people, things like that. If this doesn't work then just ignore the girl, don't talk to her, don't look at her don't wave to her, don't respond to her. Act like she 's not even there, then she'll get sick and tired of bothering you when you don't even care. If that still doesn't work, then there is something totally wrong with her.

P.S.
It will probably work, if not, check if she's human!

Mean girls are mean. they only say what they say because they are insecure about them self's and have nothing better to do with their time. If people are being mean to you don't listen just know they're saying that to make them feel better.

Alicia Rivera on February 24, 2009 6:01 PM

My bff and I had everything GREAT! until the new girl came and told her lies aboute me that im a
"man stealer" i told her i SWARE i never said that ya she does not belive me now shes ignoring me!
lesson dont trust your friend too much they twist your words and say lies about you= [

Alicia Rivera on February 24, 2009 6:02 PM

My bff and I had everything GREAT! until the new girl came and told her lies aboute me that im a
"man stealer" i told her i SWARE i never said that ya she does not belive me now shes ignoring me!
lesson dont trust your friend too much they twist your words and say lies about you= [

i just ignore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
there the 1s who are the #!#@$@#!

mean girls dont bother me unless they really call me somethin mean or get up in my face. they want u to be upset or respond but i ignore them completely. i just giggle and walk the other way with my friends.

mean girls dont bother me unless they really call me somethin mean or get up in my face. they want u to be upset or respond but i ignore them completely. i just giggle and walk the other way with my friends.

mean girls dont bother me unless they really call me somethin mean or get up in my face. they want u to be upset or respond but i ignore them completely. i just giggle and walk the other way with my friends.

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Mean girls really dont bother me unless if they mess with me. When they come to me and insult me sometimes I ignore them but when they start to bother me lots of time I just look at their face and laugh at them. Sometimes they feel emberrased. Or I just looked at them and tell them I dont get their language. You dont have to be afraid of them, they are just trying to be the cool girls but they bare acting stupid. :)

Mean girls really dont bother me unless if they mess with me. When they come to me and insult me sometimes I ignore them but when they start to bother me lots of time I just look at their face and laugh at them. Sometimes they feel emberrased. Or I just looked at them and tell them I dont get their language. You dont have to be afraid of them, they are just trying to be the cool girls but they bare acting stupid. :)

Mean girls really dont bother me unless if they mess with me. When they come to me and insult me sometimes I ignore them but when they start to bother me lots of time I just look at their face and laugh at them. Sometimes they feel emberrased. Or I just looked at them and tell them I dont get their language. You dont have to be afraid of them, they are just trying to be the cool girls but they bare acting stupid. :)

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Mean girls really dont bother me unless if they mess with me. When they come to me and insult me sometimes I ignore them but when they start to bother me lots of time I just look at their face and laugh at them. Sometimes they feel emberrased. Or I just looked at them and tell them I dont get their language. You dont have to be afraid of them, they are just trying to be the cool girls but they bare acting stupid. :)

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Mean girls really dont bother me unless if they mess with me. When they come to me and insult me sometimes I ignore them but when they start to bother me lots of time I just look at their face and laugh at them. Sometimes they feel emberrased. Or I just looked at them and tell them I dont get their language. You dont have to be afraid of them, they are just trying to be the cool girls but they bare acting stupid. :)

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Azia SHUT UP U CANT BEAT UP NO ONE!! Ur just a little weakling stop trying to act tuff! U cant beat me up first of all! and second of all your just a loser so u just need to get over and live on with miserable lives!

If u popular like me comment back!!!

Hi,
am jamie if you have a proble with mean girls I no how you feel.I had a proble with mean girls ever sents jk.You should just forget about them.Tell a friend you can trust.In my school there was a girl that got a mean note on her desk everyday.The techers tried to mach the wrighting with three classies and couldnt mach it with anyone.All the girls said it was this one girl, so they called her parints and her mom and her said it wasnt her, so her mom took her out of our school.It was her, they know this bacause her new school it hapened agen.
Tell someone you trust, it will help alot, or agnor them.
Jamie

hayley ukalaley on February 24, 2009 7:26 PM

the way I look at mean girls is they have a horable life at home. Just a few weeks ago this girl in my class named morgan was being really mean. Her locker is right below mine so I decided to put nasty notes in her locker. I put about three. I left a really bad one that made her really mad so she went to the deans. Thats when I got a little scared. During my 3rd period class the dean found out it was me. The other girls started getting all up in my face saying I was going to get expelled. It was raining out so I was crying and running in the rain to the deans. When I got there I grabbed the seat next to morgan. I was really scared. The dean sat us in a room and left us to talk. I explained to morgan everything. Me and morgan are now friends. I learned that being mean back only makes it worse. Instead try to either ignore them or try to be nice and make friends with them.We are all unique in our own way.The only way we can be more pretty is by being nice.

hayley ukalaley on February 24, 2009 7:26 PM

the way I look at mean girls is they have a horable life at home. Just a few weeks ago this girl in my class named morgan was being really mean. Her locker is right below mine so I decided to put nasty notes in her locker. I put about three. I left a really bad one that made her really mad so she went to the deans. Thats when I got a little scared. During my 3rd period class the dean found out it was me. The other girls started getting all up in my face saying I was going to get expelled. It was raining out so I was crying and running in the rain to the deans. When I got there I grabbed the seat next to morgan. I was really scared. The dean sat us in a room and left us to talk. I explained to morgan everything. Me and morgan are now friends. I learned that being mean back only makes it worse. Instead try to either ignore them or try to be nice and make friends with them.We are all unique in our own way.The only way we can be more pretty is by being nice.

i just try my best to keep my distance,
but if they threaten or keep bullying me,
i'd probably tell my mom or something(:
she knows how to handle everything!

There is this one mean girl in my school. She stares at me. We used to be friends.She stole my best friend. And even though my (EX) best friend knew i didnt like the mean girl and that she was really mean to me she still went with her!!! I just try to ignore them though it is hard cause they ALWAYS stare at me. Don't be mean back. You WILL regret it.

MileyisRockin! on February 24, 2009 8:10 PM

I just tell them strait up that I won't deal with them. I also tell them "You know, it's really sad that you have to be mean to people just to make yourself feel better!". But when all else fails, I just ignore them.
-MileyisRockin! a.k.a Rebecca

sometines i am the mean girl but wen im not you just have to get over it and forget about whatever it was the person said.

sometines i am the mean girl but wen im not you just have to get over it and forget about whatever it was the person said.

I ignore mean girls,but if the keep being mean I tell them that its rude. But my friends are always there to back me up! Its funny to watch them when they don't have power over every one, they wont do anything.

Me and Megera are best friends. when we have problems with those dumb girls who think they are all that!!!!! We turn to each other for help . Some people are scared of us though because we are a little wild . It is weird how when we come back with something they don't have the are just fakes . we are loved by many peeeps but peace . love you meg.

I ignore mean girls. They hate that most; I know from many experiments. Fighting back is exactly what they want. You shouldn't be a doormat - defend yourself when you need to - but pretending they don't exist makes you look good and them look like immature brats.

i know this may sound totally crazy but LOOK CUTER THAN THEM and FEEL better than them lol... go shopping and buy new clothes and feel like a new person. do ur own thing. my older sis has been taking me shopping and its been soo much fun! she just made me enter this thing on closet couture too lol, u can win $2009 worth of cool new clothes!!! so shop and hopefully win and strut ur stuff, who cares!!! they are the girls who think everyone loves them when everyone hates them! http://www.closetcouture.com/sweeps/BeThe2009th.html

I ignore them.

Mean girls are normally mean because they make fun of people just to make themselves feel better. To deal with them by ignoring them because if make a comback she'll probably turn it against you .

mean girls are cruel gossipy rude evil nasty freaks of nature who steal your bf's and make your lifes miserable.i dont go to school its so bad.i dont do anything cause its useless they will not stop

Just ignore them!!!!Oh wat ever ya do dont react if ya react tey bug ya more!!!

mean girls are unimportant and dont have a good life at home.all they want is a reaction,just ignore them

all u have to do is ignore then cuz they want u to say something and they want to make u mad so if u ignore them then they will get tired of picking on u and go to someone else there just jelous it will work!!!

I do not like mean girls. I have a mean girl in my 10 class she is a real mean girl. Her style is black and blue. she is so no a good girl. I will do a bad thing.

I do not like mean girls. I have a mean girl in my 10 class she is a real mean girl. Her style is black and blue. she is so no a good girl. I will do a bad thing.

Im really independent,but they only care about how u act,they care about how u look...and thats why JUST BE YOURSELF!what harm can it do!I TOOK THAT ADVICE FROM AN AMAZING PERSON...Vanessa Hudgens:)

Im really independent,but they only care about how u act,they care about how u look...and thats why JUST BE YOURSELF!what harm can it do!I TOOK THAT ADVICE FROM AN AMAZING PERSON...Vanessa Hudgens:)

i will do say stopppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!! picking and being mean to me or if you say something like give me you j-14 mag if you dont i will beat you up at recess but i will not i will say noooooooooooooooo i dont care she/he will pay or i tell the teacher or get me girls in it not to get yell at but they are my friends sooooooooooooooooo i will ge meannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to the BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i will do say stopppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!! picking and being mean to me or if you say something like give me you j-14 mag if you dont i will beat you up at recess but i will not i will say noooooooooooooooo i dont care she/he will pay or i tell the teacher or get me girls in it not to get yell at but they are my friends sooooooooooooooooo i will ge meannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to the BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i will do say stopppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!! picking and being mean to me or if you say something like give me you j-14 mag if you dont i will beat you up at recess but i will not i will say noooooooooooooooo i dont care she/he will pay or i tell the teacher or get me girls in it not to get yell at but they are my friends sooooooooooooooooo i will ge meannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to the BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i will do say stopppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!! picking and being mean to me or if you say something like give me you j-14 mag if you dont i will beat you up at recess but i will not i will say noooooooooooooooo i dont care she/he will pay or i tell the teacher or get me girls in it not to get yell at but they are my friends sooooooooooooooooo i will ge meannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to the BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i will do say stopppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!! picking and being mean to me or if you say something like give me you j-14 mag if you dont i will beat you up at recess but i will not i will say noooooooooooooooo i dont care she/he will pay or i tell the teacher or get me girls in it not to get yell at but they are my friends sooooooooooooooooo i will ge meannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to the BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i will do say stopppppppppppppppppp!!!!!!!!!!! picking and being mean to me or if you say something like give me you j-14 mag if you dont i will beat you up at recess but i will not i will say noooooooooooooooo i dont care she/he will pay or i tell the teacher or get me girls in it not to get yell at but they are my friends sooooooooooooooooo i will ge meannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 to the BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

abi-quail97 on February 25, 2009 5:34 PM

ok mean girls. well one thing NEVER EVER snoop down to there level. they make them selves feel good when they put u down. so dont act mad or sad if there mean. just say thnx and have a nice day. But if ya think the mean girls are popular u thought wrong.

wow this is really good advice! I promised myself i wouldn't get mad if sum random girl insults me and look i'm still trippin on wat happened at skool 2day! i wonder why, not all the time but sometimes girls be mean 2 me 4 no reason! it's soo friken dumb it's like don't they have anything else better to do! but now i realized they're not worth it actually their not worth anything! i try really hard not to say anything back to them cuz they love it when you're mad and they'll just keep being mean 2 you! so frm now on im'a carefree girl!

I just IGNORE them they try to act all cool and trying to make u look like a fool when they are really makeing a fool of them self


Love,Alyssa :]

charvi gulatii on February 25, 2009 6:19 PM

omg everyone in my grade hates me!! i dunoo wat to do?!?!?! is it cause i am fatt =( or because i am hairy ??!!?!?

charvi gulatii on February 25, 2009 6:20 PM

omg everyone in my grade hates me!! i dunoo wat to do?!?!?! is it cause i am fatt =( or because i am hairy ??!!?!? send me a message at


charvigulati@hotmail.com

charvi gulatii on February 25, 2009 6:21 PM

omg everyone in my grade hates me!! i dunoo wat to do?!?!?! is it cause i am fatt =( or because i am hairy ??!!?!? send me a message at


charvigulati@hotmail.com

emily farliene on February 25, 2009 7:09 PM

well ignoring may work in the end but while your ignoring is in process it gives loads of stress which inst at all worth it soo defend yourslef and no i dun mean knoch em dead like talking to somebuddy can help teacher or parent a sibling or temporary freind can help aswell. dun let the bully have there fun while your having the stress really not worth it that s my advice for people out there anoyed by "mean girls"

emily farliene on February 25, 2009 7:10 PM

well ignoring may work in the end but while your ignoring is in process it gives loads of stress which inst at all worth it soo defend yourslef and no i dun mean knoch em dead like talking to somebuddy can help teacher or parent a sibling or temporary freind can help aswell. dun let the bully have there fun while your having the stress really not worth it that s my advice for people out there anoyed by "mean girls"

emily farliene on February 25, 2009 7:10 PM

well ignoring may work in the end but while your ignoring is in process it gives loads of stress which inst at all worth it soo defend yourslef and no i dun mean knoch em dead like talking to somebuddy can help teacher or parent a sibling or temporary freind can help aswell. dun let the bully have there fun while your having the stress really not worth it that s my advice for people out there anoyed by "mean girls"

emily farliene on February 25, 2009 7:10 PM

well ignoring may work in the end but while your ignoring is in process it gives loads of stress which inst at all worth it soo defend yourslef and no i dun mean knoch em dead like talking to somebuddy can help teacher or parent a sibling or temporary freind can help aswell. dun let the bully have there fun while your having the stress really not worth it that s my advice for people out there anoyed by "mean girls"

TwilightRox397 on February 25, 2009 7:58 PM

A bully in 4th grade well now is your popular kids.When you get to 6th grade.... cliques take over. They just stay toghether making you feel bad since thay probally don't get what we get at home.They might be rich but their parents might not be loving! They are saying, "well, since i don't feel good today i am going to take it out on that girl wearing the same top i am. no one can copy my fashion statement and look acceptable". They are just BRATTS!

AngelForever10794 on February 25, 2009 8:21 PM

I totally went through TONS of drama. It rly is hard, escpically when your own COUSINS r your enimies. so, basically it was always my 2 cousins and there mean friend. my cousins friend has ALWAYS been mean, snotty, and a bully. she once pushed me down the stairs, tryed 2 punch me, and threatened me. I of course told a grownup, and my bffs were by my side. these girls r either jealous or plain mean, but they bullied me for 2 years. 2day, i got over it. its sad that my cousins USED 2 b my best friends, and now they hate me. i dont kno y, but the best thing 2 do is ignore it. ppl that r bullies just may have a bad life, or feel insecure. but thats not the case. u can also confront a bully. tell a grownup if it gets physical. just dont ,let bullies ruin your life.

hi i've have had problems with the mean girls but a lot of problems. They are always saying things that make you cry. If this is happening in the internet just dont answer or just go ok ok ok and if they see it does not bother you they'll stop. If you really want to answer back STOP YOURSELF! They can be meaner so just ignore them or walk away and maybe they will apologize if they don't forget it but if you do something mean to them they'll get stronger so DON'T!

hi i've have had problems with the mean girls but a lot of problems. They are always saying things that make you cry. If this is happening in the internet just dont answer or just go ok ok ok and if they see it does not bother you they'll stop. If you really want to answer back STOP YOURSELF! They can be meaner so just ignore them or walk away and maybe they will apologize if they don't forget it but if you do something mean to them they'll get stronger so DON'T!

If I see a mean girl I usually ignor them. It depends on who they are. If they bully you tell somone about it. Hear is a trick. If they always hit you some where tame tackes there so when they hit you they will get hurt. If they are just thoes 'populer' girls try to be their friends. You can sct like them too and show them how stupid they look. Oh ya and if they care more about looks then grades/ they are not smart, you can do some "dumb blond" jokes or stuff like that. Tell your friends about your prob and it will help. I have the same prob but I just ignor it.

mean girls are people who are just jealous of other people. They want what other people have. If a mean girl was picking on me I would just ignore them. I wouldnt even care becuase I'm confident about myself I really dont care what mean girls say about me. If they start a rumor about me I know what is true about me n whats fake about me. why should i care what a mean girl says about me. she is so fake as that rumor that she probably started herself.

Mean girls can REALLY bother people. I used to be someone like that. I figured out that all they want to do is hurt you. Soon, I decided that I have to learn how to stand up for myself. So when I get in an arguement with a mean girl, I just give them a taste of their own medicine!!! After that, they know not to mess with me anymore!!!

Through life, I realized the only true way to deal with mean girl is to simply ignore them, or even better reply back with a smile. It completely kills them because you are showing that you are the better person. What is really important is that you keep your head up and live your life. Don't give them the satisfaction of letting them bring you down. Be strong and confident and remember they are mean to you because they want something you have :)

just remember that mean girls r probably abused by there parents, so, they never learned how to be nice, they only know how to be mean witch is kinda sad:( i know a mean girls friend, and shes tired of her!

I.. really don't take it as an insult. Seeing that every person is different, and everyone at least gets picked on once in a lifetime. But, I mean, it's often where an adult tells a child or a teenager that they should ignore it, is not always a positive or smart choice. Ignoring it reflects upon the target feeling strong, but the "mean girl" in this case, would think she should try being extra tough. I, really don't think it's bad being insulted, because, if someone insulted me, maybe what he or she said was true. I would take it and think of what I could do to stop that from happening, or change a little so that the "mean guy/girl" would run out of insults. But, normally, I would just diss and walk away.

hi i think that i deal with mean girls by not being in the spotlight . but if they give me trouble i would just try to ignore it or tell her to stop it
btw when is j-14 going to put any posters of just joe jonas not all 3 or all 3 and 3 pictures of each by themselves

just let it go and never act like them

just let it go and never act like them

just let it go and never act like them

THEY NEED TO GET LIFE THEY HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO

well i am just nice to them, and if they're not nice back, who cares! Idk why they are like they are. but it doesnt matter cuz they have no life and no friends. =)

mean girls are there to make themselves feel better by making people around them feel bad. Just ignore what they say and sooner or later they will realize you arent goiing to react and they will just leave you alone.

Well to be honest. I just walk away or just talk to them and say what you need to say?

ps. Just don't even bother with them. They say something about you or even A FRIEND (keep you mouth shout so they don't get hurt and you don't your friend feelings.

OK.........UM,THERE ARE THEASE GIRLS IN MY CLASS AND THEY CALLED ONE OF MY BFF'S AND I STUCK UP,CONCEDED,WE ACT OLDER THAN WE ARE AND ALL OF THIS OTHER STUFF.BUT THEY TOLED US AT ONE OF THE GIRLS SLEEPOVER PARTY.AND THE TRUTH IS MY FRIEND AND I DO HANG OUT WITH THE 7TH GRADERS SO WE DO ACT A LITTLE OLDER THAN WE R.BUT OTHER THAN THAT ALL OF THOSE THINGS THEY SAID IS DESCRIBING THEM.ITS SOOOOOOO ANNOYING TOO. AND BEFORE THIS THEY WERE MAD AT THIS OTHER GIRL AND ONE OF THE GIRLS THAT WERE MAD AT HER WAS HER BFF.THEY WERE LIKE SISTERS.NOW IM OVER THE WHOLE THING.I JUST LET IT GO.AND IM KIND OF HAPPY BECAUSE THEY PRETENDED TO BE MY FRIENDS AND NOW I KNO WHO MY REAL FRIENDS R!

pfffff i am the mean girl..... JK JK JK JK im like the mean girls main target but i just give them a worse diss or i just ignore them and if u have a frend trying to b part of the "popular" group and they keep ditching you and ur always nice 2 them and ur always there for them but they rnt for u ditch them FOR GOOD cuz they dont deserve a frend like u! =) bye bye

Just try to be the better person in the situation. If someone is bullying you, never lower down to their level. They are either just insecure because you're obviously prettier than them or they're just plain mean people. The best way to get rid of them is to ignore them the best you can, and pretty soon they will get tired of trying. You could also go see a guidance couselor, and tell them about your situation. Bullying is never the right thing to do. Bullying is just showing your inner immaturity.

i hate them my ex-bestie turned into a mean girl she tried to tell me what to do but i told her to back off and she got new friends and is two faced by i am SOOOO over it

mean girls they sometimes make me want to scream but i shake them off and tell them "i'm sorry you choose to judge people to make your self feel good you should probably talk to some one about that low self esteem is'nt good for you "

im popular , at my school so no one is ever really mean to me . and ive never been like bullied , but one of my really good friends is like mean to people . . alot . and i feel bad for them . so sometimes i'lll b like thats a bit harsh . . or something like that . but i have found that with her if the people shes mean to ignore her she gets bored and goes and is like whatever ! and leaves them alone .
but theres one girl who shes mean to everyday and i feel so bad for her , but my friend is right about her , cause shes rude and annoying n stuff , but she shouldnt make fun of her cause shes really overweight .
and i must admit i have made fun of people before , but i feel bad about it , and have gotten alot better at not being judging about people .

well...i handle mean people by punching them in their face or start rumors about them. or i cry and i make all the boys feel bad for me and make them hate the girl that did that to me!

i try to ignore them and stay out of there way. usually it works and rumors are only spread about me like 12% of the time.

you really have to forget about them. because there has to be a reason behind why they are being mean. like maybe the guy they like, likes you. and you have to just say whatever. You have to show them you don't care and chances are they will stop. But don't have all your friends turn on them and hate them, because that shows a sign of weakness. Like if you made fun of them you wouldnt want them to have everyone in school turn on you. If you show no signs and stuff and they keep teasing you and making fun of you and calling you names, confront them and say "I know you don't like me, and your making that clear. but you don't need to make such a big deal, because it just makes you look stuck up. And it doesn't do anything to me because you are just being insecure, and you making fun of me, well it doesn't bug me. and if you are trying to get pleasure out of teasing me and making everyone "hate" me. well it doesn't help your reputation." But don't let it get to you, because chances are they don't like you for a reason. But then you have to think, you don't like them either beacause they are mean to you, and you dont like everyone in your school. Some people are just more upfront about it.
My point: just blow it off. because they can't get pleasure out of teasing you for so long when you don't care and they WILL stop. and just think your friends still love you and thats all that matters. not everyone is going to like you, and you arent going to like everyone. even popular girls are hated. And that's just the way life is.

mean girls are mean so if yuo have a prob with them just ignore them and be betterr than them like if they were trying to tric you pull the frank on let them be sad and lonely they will learn their leson

when mean girls tell me something really mean i tell them what i really feel straight away for example a mean girl told you that ur ugly tell her ''FYI I'm not ugly before u tell someone like that make sure u look @ the mirror cause u don't know that many people HATE u and u think everyone loves u well think again" or ignore them cause they r just jealous of u or they thought its so cool to do that well its not cause mean girls are the one who are just adore themselves and think that being mean is sooo not good. if a mean girl tell or do something bad 2 ya there's always a way to stop her or tell ur teacher about it.

when mean girls tell me something really mean i tell them what i really feel straight away for example a mean girl told you that ur ugly tell her ''FYI I'm not ugly before u tell someone like that make sure u look @ the mirror cause u don't know that many people HATE u and u think everyone loves u well think again" or ignore them cause they r just jealous of u or they thought its so cool to do that well its not cause mean girls are the one who are just adore themselves and think that being mean is sooo not good. if a mean girl tell or do something bad 2 ya there's always a way to stop her or tell ur teacher about it.

when mean girls tell me something really mean i tell them what i really feel straight away for example a mean girl told you that ur ugly tell her ''FYI I'm not ugly before u tell someone like that make sure u look @ the mirror cause u don't know that many people HATE u and u think everyone loves u well think again" or ignore them cause they r just jealous of u or they thought its so cool to do that well its not cause mean girls are the one who are just adore themselves and think that being mean is sooo cool. if a mean girl tell or do something bad 2 ya there's always a way to stop her or tell

I totally just ignore them. And If they're so popular why does everyone hate them, I mean come on people!

I have had alot of mean girls. Most of them are jealous of you. Or something is wrong in their life or they don't have no self-esteam.
I've had girls call me fat BECAUSE they think they are to fat.
Jealous cause maybe you have the boy of your dreams and they can't even get a nerd or whatever.
Maybe their parents don't love them enough and they take their anger out on you.
But one thing they are look for is satisfaction.
They think they can be satisfied if they make people feel as bad as they do.
Don't cry if they call you mean things
don't punch them if they insult you
DO NOT let them get the best of you either
if they call you fat don't think you are that is what they want
Confront them ask why they are soo mean.
if they don't tell then use come backs

If I see that a girl is not so cool with me and she's mean I try not to listen to her...but even if you don't mind about her opinion sure you'll be scared of being bullied even if have ever been.And I think
It's normal in our age because teenagers just wanna be accepted,have friends,being happy!
But if someone bullies me one day a lot (hope not) I will not stay in silence!I will ask for help or just say to her that she's being ridiculous!
Hope i've helped! =)

Just Ignore them! They obviously are jealous or insecure with themselves if they have something to say. If you are comfortable with yourself do not listen to the "mean girls"

Just Ignore them! They obviously are jealous or insecure with themselves if they have something to say. If you are comfortable with yourself do not listen to the "mean girls"

Just Ignore them! They obviously are jealous or insecure with themselves if they have something to say. If you are comfortable with yourself do not listen to the "mean girls"

dontmesswitme123 on February 27, 2009 4:39 PM

well all the girls at my school no not to mess with me cuz ill tell them off in front of every one but what i would do girls is dont let it bother you if they talk about you you talk about them just ignore them for the most part g2g love ya dontmesswitme123 aka gabby

I just deal with it.I'm not the one to fight about it because I know I won't win.I just move on and not feel sorry for myself.Because if I do I won't get anything done I will be just wasteing my time.Cause I there not worth it.I have friends that will be there for me and I'll be there for him we may not be the most popular but IT DOESN'T MATTER! And I just trust in God that there not worth me crying and being depressed.

-AnnaNiggcole =0

i laugh at mean girls when they say something to try to make me feel bad. When I do that i start to think it is actully funny and i dont care anymore!:-)

i PUT ON ATTITUDE. BUT NOT IN A REALLY MEAN WAY

Wel I deal with them and you should to is ignore them because they are jealous aka U got something that they dont

well there is this girl at my school and it seems like she gets everything she wants.Well 2 of my BFF's said she mouthed stupid at me well it ain't that bad ,but I still think she is kind of mean and she brags all the time ugh it makes me mad.I'm not going to say anything so I'll just ignore her. It would be better if she stopped bragging that would be better oh well.

I Ignore Them! But Really I'm A Real Female Dogg Even if My freinds Mess With Me! If They Uhhmm ... Ohh Even If they Hold On..Lemme Think Of What To Say... OKAY! If They 'Push My Bottons' I SMASH theres Im not A Bully! I get Along With Evreyone But People Just Can't Mess With Me! But Like I said If My Freinds Push My Buttons They'lll be The One Who Ends Up Crying!...I Don't Push Them Or Punch them tho I just...I'm Not Afriad To ...Share My Opinion..And im Not Great At Words Eaither...And Yes I go On And On Like Now but Ummmm Thats All I Ignore Them And If They Mess With me I Mess With them! :D

samaia the bomb on February 27, 2009 10:37 PM

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i ignore them and sometimes i just yell at them

I don't pay any attention to them. Because if you do then they are just getting what they want.....attention. And most just make others feel bad because they don't feel good about themselves and so for them to make fun of others makes them feel good. They think they are better when all the friends they have are fake and most likely talk behind her back anyways. So the best thing is, to avoid them and not care about them and move on with the important things in your life.

i would ignore it. eventhough it hasn't happened to me i always stand up for my friends, and let me tell u onces your in their face standing up for yourself or a friend they always back down.

i laugh @ them

my and my best friends have each others back u mess with 1 your messing with all of us- once this dude was messing with my friend and she was getting really mad so a few of our guy friends had a little'' talk'' with the dude that was bugging her

I would just ignore them because if their talking behind someone's back or yours then they are the one's that are going to feel bad about when they have someone talk behind their backs too. For payback!

I just dont let it get to me. If they know it really makes you mad or something then they will keep on doing it...

The best way to deal with mean girls is when they say something mean be nice.It is really hard to do that because you feel like you want to hurt them,but they will get confused.Toward the end they wont think the mean words are getting to you so they will give up!TRY IT I DID IT WAS THE BEST THING!
Love ya always Brittany!:-)

Every bully has a reason for it....like if something is bothering them at home,or if they're just doing it bcuz they think it funny,or they're just jeaulous.Just ignore it,or alway remind yourself how great of a person you're.And if the person is to get violent with... then just don't fight back and go to an adult about it.Oh and almost forgot, for all of ya bully, whatever ya thinks is funny, well it isn't

Every bully has a reason for it....like if something is bothering them at home,or if they're just doing it bcuz they think it funny,or they're just jeaulous.Just ignore it,or alway remind yourself how great of a person you're.And if the person is to get violent with... then just don't fight back and go to an adult about it.Oh and almost forgot, for all of ya bully, whatever ya thinks is funny, well it isn't .it's just hurtful.

You should just ignore them there probaly jealous of you trust me I have a mean girl too!

I just stand up to them. Because if they want to be mean i will be mean back. I don't let them get away with calling me things or doing mean things to me!

yeah same with me

Jazzer-rae Engel on February 28, 2009 9:19 PM

In the last year or two I have been dealing with this group of these popular mean girls. They were picking on me because I dressed how I wanted to dress. You know hwat I did? i just IGNORED them. they were only jealous of me. I could tell because a little afterwards they started wearing they same ind of clothes I wore. So ignore those girls who think they are all that because they are usually just jealous of you!

hey I get bullied a ton

Well they are probabily people who are jelous or are just stuck up so you ignore them and move forward with your life

I beat them up.

the mean girl at my school, are the ones with really good grades! Their very annoying.... alls i do is be myself and let them think what they want to think

ThreeDaysGraceRocks on March 1, 2009 1:01 AM

Hmmm....I have violence problems so they leave me alone. But I'll tell you how I WOULD deal with them if I didn't have these issues.

IGNORE THEM. they aren't worth it. why should you risk getting in trouble for something everyone'll have forgotten by tomorrow?(well unless it's HUGE) Eventually they'll get bored and leave you alone.

Wel I just ignore them. Even if they go on at you all the time just dont respond, then they'll just leave you alone. The mean people are usually the one's who loves themselves too much and think that they're really clever.

i just step up to the plate with an amazing comeback

its no biggy...mainly people who are mean usualy just want the attention and by you reacting like you care if they are just gives them what they want. mean girls just seem the need to be drama queens, if you just walk the other way or stick up for yourself and end it as that, everything should go smoothly.

I just ignore them. they try to bring me down and sometimes they do. but the key thing to remember is that they are only mean and point out your flaws because they are scared other people will notice theirs.

What i would do if I was in this position i would just ignore them becuase the only thing they wanna see is that you get embaressed and that you are gettin hurt with what there telling you. they can bring you down once a while but always have in mind that the only reason there bothering you is becuase there jealouus of something you have and they dont so they think that the only way you wont enjoy it is by making you suffer....just enjoy life at your fullest!!!!!

What i would do if I was in this position i would just ignore them becuase the only thing they wanna see is that you get embaressed and that you are gettin hurt with what there telling you. they can bring you down once a while but always have in mind that the only reason there bothering you is becuase there jealouus of something you have and they dont so they think that the only way you wont enjoy it is by making you suffer....just enjoy life at your fullest!!!!!

What i would do if I was in this position i would just ignore them becuase the only thing they wanna see is that you get embaressed and that you are gettin hurt with what there telling you. they can bring you down once a while but always have in mind that the only reason there bothering you is becuase there jealouus of something you have and they dont so they think that the only way you wont enjoy it is by making you suffer....just enjoy life at your fullest!!!!!

Wow.

Mean girls are such a drag! Everyone just seems to let them do what they want when they want. I always try to stand up and give them a bit of their own medicine.. Just not AS mean and just tell them how to treat people. :)

Wow.

Mean girls are such a drag! Everyone just seems to let them do what they want when they want. I always try to stand up and give them a bit of their own medicine.. Just not AS mean and just tell them how to treat people. :)

Bridgette on March 1, 2009 1:20 PM

I just ignore them... They want you to respond, so if you don't...they won't bother you anymore( it doesn't always work... sorry!!!!)
Being mean is how they deal with there own personal issues.


mean girls are those girls who are actually jealous of everyone else. they hide behind ten pounds of make up and are reall insecure. just ignore them.

Jennifer on March 1, 2009 4:38 PM

Mean girls are sooo stupid:) they think they know u like that, kind of like how a criminal gets into ur personal account and claims they're u. But in the end, they get caught - and severly punished. laugh it off and think of it like this. U may be teased by them, but others are teasing them because mean girls are well known - for the wrong reasons. Let's just say that they're an easy target with the people around them holding a dart in their hands. It may be hard to get the bulls eye, but then again it's very noticable so don't be discouraged. Have fun and laugh at them. chances r, everyone will join you and they will be publicly humiliated. Seeeee ya buddddddheyyyyyyzzzzz;)

FLIP THEM OFF AND MAKE THEM HAVE A MSERABLE DAY BY PUTTING UGLY CLOTHES IN THEIR BAG AND TAKE THEIR CLOTHES AND WET THEM UP REAL BAD

I normally ignore them, but if it gets to the point of rumors or backstabbing then I confront the mean girl and tell her off.

personaly i dont let the mean girl peps get 2 me cuz i no deep down inside they hav nothin better 2 do and there just jelous of u so they try 2 make everyone else hate u so they dont c how kool and kick buttie u rly r!

ps just stay true 2 ur self daaa

i just ignore them there so like whαt's the deαl. ?!

there like so i think im hot but your just stupid, and just keep on wαlkin when she pαsses..

but if she stαrts rumors αbout you living your BF, now don't ignore her αnd go see her.
even if it just α little rumor go see her becαuse thαt's your privαite life.

just ignore the mean girls. don't waste your time and energy on their games. they find entertainment in being jerky snobs, and i dont know who wants to be a part of that...so just stay clear of the meany preps and you're good to go

PeAcE

brooke ashly rains on March 1, 2009 9:24 PM

if Im in a fight with a mean girl I first her off but if I gets to far I will get in their face!!!!!!!!!

rodnecia on March 1, 2009 9:50 PM

i deal with mean girls by breaking there face fighting them

ignore them im bullyed lots and i know how it feels... it hurts but dont let it get to your head... who cares what other peepz think!! not me

at my school, in my grade at least, there 3 "crowds." there's the popular kids, everyone else, and then there's me. i get ignored alot, but i also get bullied alot. when ever someone insults me, i just ignore them. i am me, and that's all that matters.
and im not kidding about the "crowds," those are seriously it.

at my school, in my grade at least, there 3 "crowds." there's the popular kids, everyone else, and then there's me. i get ignored alot, but i also get bullied alot. when ever someone insults me, i just ignore them. i am me, and that's all that matters.
and im not kidding about the "crowds," those are seriously it.

i ignore them for the most part. but if they really get to me or my other friends we will say something to them. my friend and i have this girl who is always messing with us ever since 6th grade. my freinds and i just stick up for each other. sometimes they go way to far.

What I do about them is just ignore them. THe reason their picking on you is just because there not happy with their life.

Don't @ all pay attention,they think they're it all. They think they're special,so other ppl think they're special,don't let them take control of you.

well, a whole lot of people say that i'm a mean girl so i never had to deal with them. BUT if i had to deal with 1, i would ignore myself

i just walk away. But my ex friend used 2 be mean 2 the rest of my friends i couldn't walk away then. So i talked 2 a councelir and everything is better. (counslers really smell!!!!)

Skittles on March 2, 2009 7:12 PM

What I would do is try to make them feel worse than I do or make them think I don't care.

I dont deal with mean girls....i just ignoe them and walk away sometimes it doesnt work...but its better than coming up with a dumb come back and get made fun even more!!! Realy try!!!

I dont deal with mean girls....i just ignor them and walk away, sometimes it doesnt work...but its better than coming up with a dumb come back and get made fun even more!!! Realy try!!!

CAROLINA on March 2, 2009 8:12 PM

JUST SAY F .... YOU THATS REALLY IT AND IGNORE THATS REALLY IT NO FIGHTS

CAROLINA POPULAR GIRL on March 2, 2009 8:17 PM

AZIA SHUT UP SO CALLED POPULAR GIRL YOUR A B.....CH

CAROLINA POPULAR GIRL on March 2, 2009 8:24 PM

AZIA SHUT UP SO CALLED POPULAR GIRL YOUR A B.....CH

lover6785 on March 2, 2009 9:07 PM

OK I stand up for any one being teased or insulted beacause it is just RUDE!!!!! unless youre just playing around with your friends. Why people can be mean it is beacause they want to be cool. It never works. Everyone just HATES mean people. I either just walk away or stick up for myself. Dont let it bother you thats what they want to do bother you.

usaully mean girls r mean of jealosy.not let it bother u be nice to the make them feel guilty1 its another day move on!

Well useually they are just jeliuos of you. If you are being called names then walk away. But if its like harrasing you and elgial stuff then you need to go to the prinsable or the police. That way they know if they mess with you they are going to get in trouble.

i don't worry about it.they are just jelly of something that they don't have.plus they are just a small speck in you life

ignore them. s'long as i have my good friends im fine and btw all you mean girls out there you guys really dont have much of a life iof you have fun putting hate on people and making them miserable

well i don't really have any mean girls to deal with bcuz (not to sound like im in love with myself or anything like that) but at school im friends with alot of differnt people i dont just hang out with one group so that solves a lt of problems but i have friends who have people that bully them and i tell the to just ignore them and act like nothing is going on bcuz all mean girls want is attention and the way they do that is by making people feel bad
so if you have a mean girl thats bugging you just ignore them bcuz all they want is a reaction and if you don't say anything back to them they'll leave you alone

michaela on March 3, 2009 2:00 PM

i dont have a problem with mean girls cuz if u mess wit me ull regret it

Mean girls? don't sweat it, they only act the way they do for ATTENTION .. They're the ones making themselves look bad!

Mean girls? don't sweat it, they only act the way they do for ATTENTION .. They're the ones making themselves look bad!

ther are these mean girls at my schooland i just dont let them walk all over me, and dont talk to them.

ther are these mean girls at my schooland i just dont let them walk all over me, and dont talk to them.

ther are these mean girls at my schooland i just dont let them walk all over me, and dont talk to them.

ther are these mean girls at my schooland i just dont let them walk all over me, and dont talk to them.

ther are these mean girls at my schooland i just dont let them walk all over me, and dont talk to them.

I know that any time you have trouble with cliques and mean girls this is probabally what what your mom tells you, but it really is true: just ignore them! Trust me, the one thing they hate more than not being cool is when the person they're trying to make jealous or get hold of ignores them and couldn't care less. And really, the only reason they make fun of people and mess people around is because they're insecure about themselves and it makes them feel better about themselves when they can make someone else feel worse about themselves.

BreakDancingBraniac98 on March 3, 2009 7:03 PM

mean girls r people who have nothing better to do
i just ignore them or backstab them the the walk away

i would say that i do deal with mean girls but i just ignore them now.it's wierd that they are considererd "mean girls" to me cuz the main girl used to be my best friend but wen i started to drift away from the they just suddenly got mad at me or look 4 reasons to get med at me and they TRY to make my life miserable. wen i drifted away(lol) my fried went with me so now wenever they say something that is suposed to be mean we just start cracking up.and i think that they were more affected od me laughing than i was wen they were trying to hurt me.lol

love val.=]

59874938023 on March 3, 2009 8:03 PM

400 COMMENT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

who cares duh !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#

Mean Girls are girls that want to show off and tell people how shes in control I handle mean Girls by being even meaner. Find some nice gossipe share it to the world, but you can't be friends with the mean girl because she might spill your secrets too. Don't be afraid of a mean girl, whats the worse they can do, break your nail. I know it sounds pretty immature but some girls are nasty and gossiper's. In the world of mean girl you have to stay alive or you'll be the nerd till some one goes...

Mean girls are bullies and bullies are jealous. If somebody tells you that you look stupid, just say
''What is it like to be soo jealous of someone that it sickens you. I wouldnt know because I'm not a JEALOUS EGOMANIAC''
Then, just smile sarcastically and walk away.

Peace, love and hugs.

Caoimhe Burke.

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO

Mean girls are like milk.. good when they start, but when you leave them out too long they get nasty spoiled.

They are jealous girls, that think humiliating people is funny, and they think they are cool.
They are actually shallow jerks, that life's revolve around teasing and gossiping. They make you cry, but you shouldn't cry. All you have to do is blow it off, because what they say to you doesn't matter. They have nothing better to do than insult and gossip and wanting you to cry! But if you don't they will back off.
Ali

I am a men girl ;P

I am a mean girl :P

Mandy :) :) :) :) on March 4, 2009 8:28 PM

Who cares???? There Bi-yotches! Brush em' off, and go back to partying!
Mandy :) :) :) :)

I dont like mean girls all they are ,are people who dont feel good about themselves so they make other people
feel bad about themselves i just igno it even though it does hurt sometimes remember there just jealous!!!

I hate dealing with mean girls! They are just basically girls that are jealouse of you and envy you. the hate u because u have what they dont have and they take it out on you. i deal with them by just ignoring theeir rude comments by telling myself that im better than them and i will always be. i have had a girl that has been mean to me since fith grade! but i just ignore her cuz she isnt woth my time. i have better things to do then to just sit there and listen to her go on and on. even though she stole both of my bffs from me i dont really care. i know that i deserve better friends if they choose her over me. its their decision. just remeber everyone that ur bff doesnt have to be pretty and u dont have to hang out with her cuz she is popular. hang out with someone that u know who is always gonna be there to catch u. i learned the hard way. well ttyl! :)

i would just fight back thats what i always do or i will make fun of them so they know how it feels. But the only thing is your not supposed to fight fire with fire.

when im in a fight with a girl and they start screaming you just slap them that will show them that your tuff

when im in a fight with a girl and they start screaming you just slap them that will show them that your tuff

WHEN THERES A MEAN GIRL PICKING ON ME OR MY FRIENDS I JUST TELL THEM OFF, WALK AWAY, AND NO MATTER WHAT FLIP THEM OFF! :)

I beat mean girls up cause im a bully!!!! lol

i fight them

I deal with mean girls by SOCKING THEM IN THE FACE!

I deal with mean girls by provoking them until they hit me, then run to the office "crying" and demanding they be expelled. which they usually at least have to get community service hours.

ST@R!S3TT! on March 5, 2009 6:20 PM

LETM HATE

ST@R!S3TT! on March 5, 2009 6:20 PM

LETM HATE

ST@R!S3TT! on March 5, 2009 6:21 PM

LETM HATE

Morgan c. on March 5, 2009 9:49 PM

Mean girls. A touchy subject. I just let myself know the they're only being mean to make themselves feel better about themselves. Like once this girl named Savanna (who just to let you know does notscare me) kept trying to pick a fight with me finally I went and told the teacher that she woulnt leave me alone. She didn't get in trouble but she did lay off. So my advise is if someone is being mean to you just tell a teacher. A no, people won't think your a snitch, so get it off your chest and tell someone!

coolio personette on March 6, 2009 11:40 AM

i hate them i just go to the girls washroom too cry and never and i mean never take their crapp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! because they are gonna end up rich with everything they want but they wont have any friends ... will they be happy with how there life turned out.... NO THEY F ING WONT!

well i try to not let them get to me...but its hard because no matter how hard i try to ignore them it still hurts....
but these days im trying really really hard to just ignore them and not care what anyone thinks about me...as long as im happy then im fine and its been working most of the time :)

i just smile at them cuz it really ticks them off & u dont get in trouble 4 it.

i dont get bullied i am a bully so suck it!!

Jazzeeee. on March 6, 2009 3:06 PM

I take it and stand up for myself i dont let nobody hurt me physcially or emotionally!

OYU JUST HAVE TO IGNORE THEM AND DEAL WITH IT. ITS JUST LIFE.AND SOMETIMES WHEN THEY SEE YOUR IGNORING THEM THEY WONT TROUBLE IF U KEEP TRYING TO GET REVENGE THEY'LL JUST KEEP TROUBLING YOU OVER AND OVER AGAIN

Samantha Medrano on March 6, 2009 9:10 PM

OMG!! THOSE girls are just jealous of you! Dont let them get to you. I go to school with these girls that are always gettin in trouble and one day there your friends and the next day they hate you and they call you names. The thing that i did was ingnore all the words they called me and the stuff they did it makes them so mad! lol! :]

na-na im*so*cute on March 6, 2009 9:45 PM

i dont deal wid mean gurls mean gurls deal wid me!im a very social person and when somebodys pickin on someone i kno they deal wid me.and if they try 2 get on my case i shoot rite back at them.but i dont mess wid nobody unless they mess wid me.

The way to deal with mean girls is to just ignore them and not talk to them.oh i forgot and pretend their INVISIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

violet blake on March 7, 2009 12:55 AM

i am the mean girl.
and the other girls should just deal.

I deal with mean girls by stepping up to them I don't care if they are mean or popular. I don't care if they think they are tough or the prettiest girl in school I would step up to them and tell them to lay off the attitude and quit messing with everyone.

I have some friends who are like the mean girls. I am one of the popular girls in my grade, and i know how they act. They will be nice to your face then when they r having a sleepover and your not there they talk about you.

I can't stand mean girls!! They are the kind of people that have no life and have to ruin other peolple's life's!!

OMG! i live in a plce with a ton of mean girls!!!! so i basically ignore them but its hilarious to mock them!!!!! One time me and my friends were mocking this on meaning girl and she walked up right be hind me! and we started laughing so hard and she got so red!!!! SHE GOT WHAT WAS COMING TO HER!

Pinkbunny7 on March 7, 2009 9:07 PM

OMG THERE R SOSOSOSOOOO MANY MEAN GIRLS AT MY SCHOOL!!!!! I put them in their place ok heres a story one day me and friends took turns imatating this 1 mean girl and it was my turn and i was pretending to be her and turn around and she was right there! and me and my friends started to laugh and she was all like " um excuse me can u repeat what u were just saying bout me?" and i say in her tone of voice still pretending to be like her " um no thankyou i GOT to go get my 2nd nose job" (everyone knew she had gotten a bad nose job) and her face got sosososoooo red! it was hilar!

I ignore them. If mean girls approach you, act completely confident even if you aren't, Hold your head up high, DON'T CRY, it'll make them have more confidence.

First you have to try your best to ignore them. If their biotchiness ecsalades (i know this sounds lame) but you absolutly have to go to the school counsilor or principal.

i ignore them or if thier messin with me i will fight that d*4&**2g8* fire ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ps ( ha ha ha peace )

Samandahhhz on March 8, 2009 3:02 AM

i dont

hey these girls at my school think they're ALL THAT!! when one of the girls, who used to be my friend, looks like casper because she is REALLY REALL PALE! the other girl (they're is 4) is going out with this boy but likes 2 other boys! and the 3rd and BIGGEST girl is obsessed with herself!! and the las girl is new and im totally suprized they let her in! but me and my BFF r the only ones who stick up for ourselfs!

ignore dem will i dont have any mean gurls in mi lyfe but advice 4 other pplz ignore dem dey dis jeqlous of what u have and how pretty u r
_good luck

i just tell them to stop. and leave me alone. and tell them your just making yourself look bad being mean to people. and then walking away.

theres no way to get around them. sometins a mean girl can be your ex-best friend. thats happened to me before. we used to have a nb that we wrot evrything in and once we got in a fite, she ripped out all the pages she wrote and showed evryone the ones i did. wherever you are theres always one mean girl. just get over it.

I ignore them!

Jayce :) on March 8, 2009 2:25 PM

What else would I do? I am mean back! Either that or me and my friend are there and when they are 'mean' we start cracking up!! I am the mean girl sometimes, but not always and when I am the mean girl I look like a nerdy dork!! Lol but my advice to anyone with probs with mean girls just stand up for yourslef and don't let them walk all over you!!

~Good luck!! :)

ok so just today amean girl kept on say mean thing to my boyfriend about me.. such as how could he like.. was he blind becaus eim so ugly... stuff like that.. but what i do is not ignore. them or else they will kkep on going tell they get what the want. and dont pay them back eather.

kill them with kindness.. witch means be nice to them

i know its hard but trust me on this a mean girl dosnt know hoow to react to kindness. so smmile say hi .. because is you show them that your hurt.. then you guve them the saticsfactory that they won.. that they have more power over you.. and noone wants that

i just say after they said what they have to say i said are you done then jus walk away or i just say that there haters and just jeulous of every girl they talk about for no reason......... plus thats pretty lame talking about other people knowing that they talk about people jus so they can get what ever they get out on somebody that didnt even do anything to them plus they are getting everything out on other people cause they cant handel what they have inside and talking about other people doesnt even make them populare it makes them or him or her an idiot or them idiots.

I just ignore them and walk away. I don't pay any attention to them.

%CutiePie% on March 8, 2009 11:02 PM

i jus ignor dem. im nt gna let dem gt da satisfaction. if dey r hurten plp dey r only hurten dem selves. jus go n bite urself!!!!!! lol jk jk. lata plp:)

snickers13 on March 9, 2009 1:11 PM

To deal with a mean girl is easy. All u have 2 do is tell dem off! Show dem whose boss. get respect!

Well I just stand up to them and tell them the consiuences they could get if they continued to pick on me or someone else and those would be: you could get a detention or get suspendid.:(

Well I just stand up to them and tell them the consiquences they could get if they continued to pick on me or someone else and those would be: you could get a detention or get suspendid.:(

Mean girls = popular girls

the ones that think their the prettiest in school and always have their little 'clique' and like, no one else is allowed in exept if they like you.

My bff Lauren used to be a part of them last year but she's not friend with then anymore cuz she knows all they care about is how they look and being popular.

btw, ppl don't mess with me cuz sometimes when someone bumps into me i will actually push then out fothe way or if they insult me i slap them lol

Carrington on March 9, 2009 7:27 PM

I go up to them and tell them what there doing is not cool and tell them to stop and then just ignor them

Brittany :P on March 9, 2009 7:59 PM

DONT JUST STAND THERE!!!!! Stand up for yourself! The mean girls are no better then you are. You're probably so much better then them!!

Well, I wouldn't try to care. Mean girls only bother you to see what your reaction is. I've been there. Just ignore them, and if it gets worse, tell a teacher. Don't be afraid.

I've delt with a mean girl who used to be my bestest friend. Just ignore them. Don't let them get to you. But if it keeps on happenning stand up for youself, don't be afraid of what might happen. you need to show them that you are not going to let it happen again. If it doen't help you then go to your parents, or sibbling, or a teacher, they will help you a lot.

THEY CAN SAY WAT EVA THEY WANT 2 SAY! I'M NOT GUNNA CARE!! IF THEY AVE A PROBLEM WIT MI THEN IGUESS THEY HAVE TO DEAL WIT IT! IF THEY LAY A HAND ON MI I'M GUNNA KICK THEIR A$$!

tikiman987 on March 10, 2009 10:32 AM

OK guys seriosly... it's life. If your a goody two shoes, tell a teacher. If your normal, cuss 'em out. If your a bully, beat 'em up. Whatever you are, don't take their nonsence. Like Happy Bunny says... When life throws you lemons...chuck them at your enemys, and add some of your own.

tikiman987 on March 10, 2009 10:33 AM

OK guys seriosly... it's life. If your a goody two shoes, tell a teacher. If your normal, cuss 'em out. If your a bully, beat 'em up. Whatever you are, don't take their nonsence. Like Happy Bunny says... When life throws you lemons...chuck them at your enemys, and add some of your own.

I just ignore them , and know that they are just trying to get attention , and if you react to it badly..they know they are getting to you , so just keep it kool.

oksana cullen on March 10, 2009 7:21 PM

mean girls are people you should not even pay attion to but some say that i can be a mean girl but thats only if someone starts first. but other than that i can be the sweetest person u ever met.

oksana cullen on March 10, 2009 7:21 PM

mean girls are people you should not even pay attion to but some say that i can be a mean girl but thats only if someone starts first. but other than that i can be the sweetest person u ever met.

hahaha mean girls are funny jus smak em! lol

What I do About Mean Girls is I ignore them because they are not worth my time. I also try not to let the things they say bother me because I know it is not true and if it is I act like I don't know what it is they are talking about. trust me it will make them shut up or make them mad and they will leave you alone. but if it bothers you tell someone like a close friend parents teacher councilor ext.

Mean girls just try to bring you down. That's why you have to have your feet nailed to the floor.

Toodles :P

I ignore them.

well how i deal with mean girls is that i just ignore them. for example there is this one girl who has the same name as me and we sometimes hangout and when she gets upset she has all the girls go against me and i just ignore it and i don't really care what she thinks and i think she realizes it because the next day she comes up to me and hugs me and says hi. I'm like I thought you were mad at me and she's like no and then she just thinks i'll be friends with her just like that. yeah right then she really isn't my friend.

Mean girls are the people who betray you or they call you name or they even push you into corners and threaten to kill you online. I have dealt with mean girls before and the are NOT fun to deal with. At all. Here are some tips to stay away, and keep away or stand up to mean girls.

1. When they make fun of you, don't do the same thing to then. Then YOU become the mean girl. Instead say something like, "Thanks that was very nice." It confuses them. Also you can just walk away.

2. If they are bullying you online, just don't email or i.m. them back. Talking to them just makes it worse. If they start to threaten to kill you, that is when you should get your parents or a counselor. It is illegal to do that.

3. If you are "friends" with them and lets say you tell them a HUGE secret. What do they do? Go around and tell other people. "Oh did you hear? Megan likes..." Telling one of THEIR secrets to get back at them is not the way to handle it. In fact 90% of girls who do this say that it just makes it worse. The best thing to do is, again, walk away or just not be friends with them. If they tell other people your secrets they are NOT very good friends are they?

Those are some tips about mean girls. Thank you for taking your time to read this long letter. Remember that mean girls are not so mean when you use these tips on them. -Lydia Lamport

Well i guess I don't know how to ignore them!
Like the dance snobs! and the kids who think their all cool and popular because they are rich and smart! I even used to get picked on because I watched a TV show that everyone thought was for geeks! The show was called Avatar so people called me an AVATAR FREAK!


help.....

Sarah smith on March 11, 2009 7:07 PM

I deal with mean girls by saying whos in charge once i pulled off a mean girls pants and under waer in front everyone she hasn't messed with me cince

dont worry about mean girls. if they start getting on your nerves just tell them off. dont try to be mean but say it like you mean it! or you can just ignore them and act like they are not even there. Just remember to EMBRACE YOUR AWSEOMENESS AND ATTITUDE!

dont worry about mean girls. if they start getting on your nerves just tell them off. dont try to be mean but say it like you mean it! or you can just ignore them and act like they are not even there. Just remember to EMBRACE YOUR AWSEOMENESS AND ATTITUDE!

I make the mean girls feel like the children they are. Noone has the right to make anyone else feel inferior or wrong about who they are what they look like or where they come from. Shame on all of the mean girls out there for acting like stupid idiots and making a fool of themselves trying to act all preppy and cool but God created us all the same and we all come into the world the same way and we all leave the same way. Who you are is just an accident of birth it is what makes you who you could become but the goal is not to act like that is the only thing that matters. Mean girls could be kicked out of school or charged for harrasment. It is just not worth it. There are more important things in life than making other people feel like dirt when on the inside they feel like dirt. I was talked about by the mean girls and I know firsthand that it really hurts. I was picked on out of pure jealousy. They were jealous that I was the best singer in the entire school and was above all of the rest even the mean girls so they became threatened and tried to gossip and talk about me. Jealousy fuels mean girls and they cant help it. If they learned how to handle jealousy it would be better for both sides of the argument.

what i do if i have problems with bullies i just ignore them i use my wits

Mean girls? I dont really have to deal with them they dont really encounter with me but if i had to deal with them then i wouldent stoop to thier level, i would be mature and realize that they have no life to be concerned in drama.

Mean girls or popular girls just think they ar4 the best and also in my school they are all good at sports. They always get in trouble and make fun of me and my friends but i just ignore them. Some times i want to like scream at them but i learned that they are just sorta like wanna-be's

They get on my nerves

I hate mean girls. If they make fun of you dont suck it in!They just think they are all that and act popular.If one of them calls me a dork then i stand up for myself and say that i can proudly adimmit i am a dork and people who cant admit it are big fat losers.Its ready hard and its up to you to fight back(not like punch punch but ignore) or suck it in for the rest of your year

I hate mean girls. If they make fun of you dont suck it in!They just think they are all that and act popular.If one of them calls me a dork then i stand up for myself and say that i can proudly adimmit i am a dork and people who cant admit it are big fat losers.Its ready hard and its up to you to fight back(not like punch punch but ignore) or suck it in for the rest of your year

Tianna Elias-Kuptana on March 12, 2009 5:34 PM

I just walk away and think that what they said I turn it into advice:P

I just walk away and think that what they said I turn it into nice advice:P

I know that mean girls are just compensating for something that they're insecure about, putting others down for things they can't help. I just know that inside, they're just as scared, embarassed and overwhelmed as I am, they're people too. Sometimes, I laugh it off or ignore their comments, because mean girls just try to humiliate you and make themselves bigger and better than anyone and everyone else, one victim at a time.

I deal with mean girls by just leaving them alone. At our school I hang out with a bounch of my closest friends at lunch. The oth girls seperate everyone else into groups and call us different names like "The Regulars or "the wanna be popular. But we all have people in our lives that are probably like that. All they want to do is make your life misserible and make their life seem like it is better than everyone else's.

I deal with mean girls by leaving them alone. Usually the girls at my school make fun of people when they don't even know them.

Girls are never mean 2 me!!!!!!

well, i jus ignore them i mean come on if you want them 2 stop botherin u, dont give them the satisfaction

i got into an argument with a girl cuz she was talking about me & my family so i wanted to fight her but i let it go.(i still yelled at her and almost slapped her)

I deal with mean girls by not hanging around.Try to stay away from them.If you have to get close to them,make sure you have a friend with you.If you have a friend,you will have someone there that will,hopefully,stand up for you.If the mean girl attacks,not hitting and kicking attack but mouthing attack,both of you both of you can come up with mean comments faster than just one person can.Mean girls will do anything to make you cry or tattle.Make such you dont cry in front of the mean girls,that's what they want to make them stonger.If you tattle,it makes you look like a sissy so the best way to do it is,tell your best friend,sister,brother,cousin or even a trusted adult.Mean girls can be very hurtful but every single one of them has a good side,weather it's way,WAY,deep in side....some day the world will realize that we should make peace and get rid of mean girls....the only way we can do that is if we all stick together and stand up for our selfs......

well what i do to deal with mean girls is when they are telling me to cut my nails or hair because they are long is that i tell them you know what stop bugging me go bug someone your own size and they tell me like who like your mom. they stay quiet and bug off. Just like killing a fly with a fly swapper.

All you have to do is laugh and make fun of yourself really if you dont know how to laugh at yourself you will never get through life..Im short and i know im not the most beautiful girl and i get teased all the time but I laugh with them and it really turned my life around nothing really bothers me anymore.:P
xoxoxoxoxoxo

The Mean girls in my school are rich and think that they are better than everyone they go and whisper about everyone! What my friends and I always do is we just act like we don't even hear them. If they say anything like about us we just trun to each other and say "can you hear that?" and one of us replies "nope I can't hear anything what are you talking about!" lol Then the mean girls get so mad that they leave us alone...for t eh day. lol

when a so called "mean girl" wants to be mean with me...i usuallyshow them what a REAL mean girl is. i tell them straight & forward that if they don't leave me alone someone will be sorry(sometimes they'll back off). & if not i'd notiffy a school consiler & avoid her. it's i the girls hands now.

i just ignore it cause i would rather be hated for who i am than be loved for who im not. Everyone has something unique about them. You shouldn't care about what people think of you thats their opinion not yours. And always remember when you fall down in life just get back up and walk it off and just be who you are and know else. ^_^

you no parents always say their jelous but its so much more. basically they are 2 bored living their own lives so they have to make fun of others. but they also don't relise they're doing this- sometimes. but there are those ones that have mean parents and all that other stuff. they have counselers so i don't thiunk that they should be a brat terd about it though. RIGHT

i just tell them 2 leave me alone cause the rlly ain't pretty. they can just shut up!!!

I just aviod them. Who cares what they think.

aviod them or.... punch them in thir ugly face!

If they make fun of me or a friend,I just think of a witty come back that will make people laugh and will be a total burn.

if they talk about u just say "don't like don't look" and get over it because u know who u r and they don't. they r just mean cuz they know they can't be u.

so i would say let them and confront them.


*good luck to every one

mary baker is in my class she is popualar.mary thinks she is all that.she is mean so next time she bullies me i will punch her.

Sometimes ignore them but alot of the times they dont stop so then I usually confront them and ask them whats there prob?

I dealt with mean girls all my life. what I did was basically ignore them. the only reason they pick on people is because they themselves are insecure about them selves so they make others life a living heck to make up for what they lost

The best thing to do is just ignore them. But if you just can't do that you try to fight back but not like hitting or kicking them. (Well not unless they hit or kick you.) Observe...
Bully: No body wants you here!
You: Yeah they want me in Hollywood.
Or...
Bully: You so dumb, you got a B- on the math test.
You: Well I saw you change your F- into a A+ but you acidentally spelled B.

You know what I was a mean girl and I was mean but the thing is is that no one gives them chances once i did one thing wrong no one would accept me again. Its like since I didn't apologize because I didn't understand now everyone has the right to tell me what to do and to tell me who I am. And you know what I dont think that is is fair because although even I get back lashed so do my friends the people who we tried to become friends with again after what we realized we had done just will walk up to my friend and say I hate you. Or tell someone to tell me and my friend to **** off. It just doesnt make sense. Ok all you people who keep talking about the mean girls and all they do what would you do in this situation: The means girls had been mean they gossiped and cliqued together. But after they got in a fight with another person all of them decided to not be cliquy and what not so they branched out sat at everyone else's table and were super nice but instead of at least one nice smile after 2 months at doing that one of the people walked up to the one person and said **** off. Do you really think that they deserved that???

I simply try to ignore them. I understand that they might be mean to other people because of insecurities, so I don't let them get to me. One lesson that I've learnt from experience is to never befriend the people who might betray you one day. When the mean girls come around, I am extra careful with what I say. Sometimes, I just feel like I don't need to mind what the mean girls do, it's their own business.

I simply try to ignore them. I understand that they might be mean to other people because of insecurities, so I don't let them get to me. One lesson that I've learnt from experience is to never befriend the people who might betray you one day. When the mean girls come around, I am extra careful with what I say. Sometimes, I just feel like I don't need to mind what the mean girls do, it's their own business.

Personally, if I was dealing with mean girls for the whole popularity thing I would deny it even if they'd ask me to join because it leads nothing but trouble. Trust me been there done that. When mean girls bother me I either ignore them or tell someone i trust about them. I do not let nobody get in the way to my social life or if they wanted to mess with my feelings because i honestly don't acept it. Last time I was hanging with the populars everyone that were the unpopulars turned against me and than so did the populars. I thought I would never make any friends again but everyone understood how I was feeling and they came to an understanding but as for the populars they didn't. Eventually summer was over for me and I meant tons of friends here in middle school. Now I don't let no one take over me again. Because only I can take control over myself. Remember popularity means nothing ZERO!! Your popular in yopur own way. And becareful of what you say just walk away and ignore them.

Personally, if I was dealing with mean girls for the whole popularity thing I would deny it even if they'd ask me to join because it leads nothing but trouble. Trust me been there done that. When mean girls bother me I either ignore them or tell someone i trust about them. I do not let nobody get in the way to my social life or if they wanted to mess with my feelings because i honestly don't acept it. Last time I was hanging with the populars everyone that were the unpopulars turned against me and than so did the populars. I thought I would never make any friends again but everyone understood how I was feeling and they came to an understanding but as for the populars they didn't. Eventually summer was over for me and I meant tons of friends here in middle school. Now I don't let no one take over me again. Because only I can take control over myself. Remember popularity means nothing ZERO!! Your popular in yopur own way. And becareful of what you say just walk away and ignore them.

Personally, if I was dealing with mean girls for the whole popularity thing I would deny it even if they'd ask me to join because it leads nothing but trouble. Trust me been there done that. When mean girls bother me I either ignore them or tell someone i trust about them. I do not let nobody get in the way to my social life or if they wanted to mess with my feelings because i honestly don't acept it. Last time I was hanging with the populars everyone that were the unpopulars turned against me and than so did the populars. I thought I would never make any friends again but everyone understood how I was feeling and they came to an understanding but as for the populars they didn't. Eventually summer was over for me and I meant tons of friends here in middle school. Now I don't let no one take over me again. Because only I can take control over myself. Remember popularity means nothing ZERO!! Your popular in yopur own way. And becareful of what you say just walk away and ignore them.

Personally, if I was dealing with mean girls for the whole popularity thing I would deny it even if they'd ask me to join because it leads nothing but trouble. Trust me been there done that. When mean girls bother me I either ignore them or tell someone i trust about them. I do not let nobody get in the way to my social life or if they wanted to mess with my feelings because i honestly don't acept it. Last time I was hanging with the populars everyone that were the unpopulars turned against me and than so did the populars. I thought I would never make any friends again but everyone understood how I was feeling and they came to an understanding but as for the populars they didn't. Eventually summer was over for me and I meant tons of friends here in middle school. Now I don't let no one take over me again. Because only I can take control over myself. Remember popularity means nothing ZERO!! Your popular in yopur own way. And becareful of what you say just walk away and ignore them.

I just ignore them. Thats what my mom always tells me. The're just jealous of you. I dealed with it all my life. What did I do? Just ignore it. Don't listen to the negative things people say. It may hurt your feelings but there's something called KARMA. What goes around comes around.

......Ignoring them is best, but sometimes after u 'pretend' to have not listened to one word they're saying, it still hurts when you think about it again. Don't feel bad if you still think it hurts because everyone feels that they're not good enough, its a part of life :D

i usually go up to them and punch them of rip there face and hair so ya

I am one of the mean girls well the HEAD mean girl I control my school and every group that I am in. Deal ith it I can't help that you aren't as good as me. I know i'm the best. IN my family I am THE princess and nobady tells me different. I want it I get it with in reason im not rich but with my self confidence great grades and exseptional taste in clothes i got to the top with in a month I am in japenese school I am one of the only americans i dont speak much japenese I rock my uniform. They still follow me and I am THE mean girl that you dont EVER want to cross paths with.

I am one of the mean girls well the HEAD mean girl I control my school and every group that I am in. Deal ith it I can't help that you aren't as good as me. I know i'm the best. IN my family I am THE princess and nobady tells me different. I want it I get it with in reason im not rich but with my self confidence great grades and exseptional taste in clothes i got to the top with in a month I am in japenese school I am one of the only americans i dont speak much japenese I rock my uniform. They still follow me and I am THE mean girl that you dont EVER want to cross paths with.

i fight back i all ways win :)

lexy dont act all chola

Ya'll know what i will do. I will beat them up so badly they would be in the hospital for a month.Or i can just do gossip, rumors, or even THREATEN them!!!!

:I

amanda salinas on March 17, 2009 8:17 PM

i deal with them when i could just ignore them or go up to a friend and say something thats very bothering me. + i dont have to tell the teacher or do anything thats very childish. hey im not a dumbdora.which means apractical idiot or just a dumb person.

Mean girls are usually popular. They become so popular because they think they are perfect so other people believe it too. If they are making fun of you like laughing because you have pimples (I get teased because I have pimples) just ignore them!!

Well i dont like mean girls at all their usually jealous of me.Like yesterday at school their was this girl she started talking about me. I said to her why you talking about me she was like im not talking about me isaid yes you were.Then she said do you want to get slapped. I started crying. But i didnt want to fight because i never fought in my life.Well she got in trouble and got a report on her.

well I don't I don't really know any mean people

xXxIrishgirlxXx on March 18, 2009 5:18 PM

What mean girls??!! :-)

i just tell them off. make them look like stupid ppl. my friends and i tell the truth like all the time, so we just say everything to mean brats.

i dont deal with mean girls because theres really no means girls at my skool so yea if i deal with them oh well

i dont deal with mean girls because theres really no means girls at my skool so yea if i deal with them oh well

i dont deal with mean girls because theres really no means girls at my skool so yea if i deal with them oh well

i dont deal with mean girls because theres really no means girls at my skool so yea if i deal with them oh well

all I do is say F**k off......

all I do is say F**k off......

all I do is say F**k off......

all I do is say F**k off......

Nathalie rosil on March 19, 2009 9:22 PM

Personally, I think mean girls are just there to hurt everone else's feelings because they feel that they are lack of attention and they do so to get attention!

I deal with this kind of matter every single day of my life, matter of fact, there are girls with discusting personalities EVERYWHERE!

So if they try to hurt you, always keep in mind that your strong! And you shouldn't listen to what people say about you because you know more about yourself than anyone else in the whole wide world.

You can ignore them and do not let the things they say bother you! So therefore , if you ignore them after a while they will start to get frustrated and move on to another person.

If it really bothers you and if it gets too out of control, remember that you have friends, family, teachers to depend on if you need someone to talk to whenever you have a problem. And once you do so, it will start to get better!

And if any of these don't work, you should maybe call a kids help phone and tell them about what is going on because they have encountered such things as you are experiencing right now! And they know a lot and they know how to help you out and the things they can do to help you out.

`always here for help : )

-Nathalie Rosil

personally, i just ignor and dont pay attention i just talk to my frinds and act like there not there,but nody is mean to me im cool like that jk.

Well you just gotta remember to be yourself because I've been told some mean things but if you show that your proud to be who you are, they will leave you alone and have respect for you. Especially when guys make fun of people I just say to them "Ur not cool" or "omgosh shut up." hahahaha

ya i know this will sound mean but if u be mean back they no how it feels...adn some of them learn its not worth it.....but others r just gonna be outsiders even longer then they alreafy have been... byes

melissa & janay on March 20, 2009 2:28 PM

OOOOOO HELLLL NOOOO!!!!!
SLAP THAT FIELTHY HOE

1. they are jealous
2. they makes them feel good

I REALLY DONT CARE FOR THEM THEY CAN BE MEAN ALL THEY WANT BUT MORE AND MORE PEOPLE WILL HATE THEM EVEN HOW THEY THINK THEY R SO "popular"...GOSH DANG I HATE THOSE GIRLS.....

ANNA~BANANA
XOXOXOXOXOXO
TEAM JACOB

me and jenn just usually ignore them. i, gabi, sometimes giive them a taste of their own medicine:) jenn backs me up all the time

shut up fu....in popular girl ur dumb stupid and ur a bi.....ch i run the school to kidinng but need to stop its people like you that get beat up im i right i know i im so shut up

Okay well, I've seen ur comments, and some of them don't work, I kinda am the mean girl at school, but I'll give you guys advice (I know what we look for) it's usually if u diss them back, don't put too much attitude and don't move ur head too much or else they think you're looking for a fight. Or, if you don't wanto to do that, just laugh with your friends (if you have any) and/or say something like: wow, do you think ur cool? And hopefully they'll back off. O wait, don't say Back off too much, because eventually they'll stop backing off and make fun of you more.

Well..what I do is to ignore them and if it still goes on I pretend im gossiping about them. They come up to me and say,"What?"I just ignore then while they're talking and after they get alittle phisical I run away laughing (of course they dont follow us... Well sometimes)and we go to the restroom and lock ourselves.It seems a little harsh but this is only if the bullying is really bad. If this doesnt help ask your teacher for a girl circle. This is when all the girls(no boys) get in a circle and talk to the people who hurt you ormaybe thhe people you hurt.sometimes they don't know how much it hurts you.You'll see that eveything will work out.This never fails. Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

Well what my class does is a circle. You sit down in a circle and talk to the people that hurt you or the people that you might of hurt. Sometimes they dont know how much it hurt you. I bet you dont know how much it hurt the people you mightofhurt. This can help frienships and bulling prob. My friendship with my BFF's got saved.You will see it will help. Revenge is NEVER the answer.Speak out.

If its @ skool then i tell the teacher. But if it is @ home then i tell MOM.I mean you cant really control whats wrong with them or in there minds they must be stupid or somthing like my enemy Ayron B hye is so stupid she keeps asking people to buy her a snack @ lunch

I ignore all mean girls. If they have nothing nice to, say why listen. They always act sooooooooo popular it annoying.

why deal with them when you can ignore them sometimes they are jealous becuase of what you are maybe because you are skinny, first honor student, or it just might be that you are prettier, i had experienced a lot with bullies and well "the mean girls" who think they know everything but i'm writing this from the bottom of my heart don't let anyone judge you for who you are. you are unique just being yourself and not being dumb like "the mean girls" so stand proud of WHO YOU ARE. and i always say the popular people should be the people who do their homework, that get first honors, and the people that don't get sent to the principles office

Minely! tokio hotel! on March 21, 2009 5:15 AM

i ignore them.. just look at them for a second and look away and walk away with a smirk because i know im better or if they actually kinda make me mad i just think of things i am capable of doing to them ;] hehe
i know thats a bit sadistic and evil but thats the best part of the smirk!

lolza ich liebe tokio hotel!!! <3<3 on March 21, 2009 10:26 AM

yo if you are in need of some adice well here are some... ignore them, or tell em off oh and MORE TOKIO HOTEL!!

well i deal with that every day and i just talk bad about them and pretent to be there friend and stab them in the back well then again if that dosent worck theres always PRANKS yup i no i evil but im not mean to any one i like only if that ask for it and ya.

I just ignore those girls and some of them were my friends. I realized that the only resone they r mean is because they r jealous. DONT let them make you fell bad about urself

How to deal with the mean girls. What I think is that the only reason why they pick on us is because there jealous of us 4 some reason. Or something may not be going well in their life and want your life to be sad like their's. But the best thing to do is not be afraid to tell them how you feel and to so them " You are not about to pick on me and get away with it. Us girls, and teens need to stay strong and be tough but not to where there's a fight.NO WAY! Or just ignore them and act like they don't matter to you which they don't . With that they will leave alone and know not to mess with me.

Well,if there is someone making fun of you or being mean,They Are Just Jealous of YOU,Trust Me,
People make fun of me every single day

They Are Jealous,I Get Made Fun Of ALL of the Time.

well me i think mean girls are just jelouse of who you are and who you stand for. like they say hunny im me and thats something youll never be thats all you say.
so you have any problems like that just tell them off or call them something.
well if my advice works please contact me and let me know.

Thankyou, Angelica

well me i think mean girls are just jelouse of who you are and who you stand for. like they say hunny im me and thats something youll never be thats all you say.
so you have any problems like that just tell them off or call them something.
well if my advice works please contact me and let me know.

Thankyou, Angelica

well me i think mean girls are just jelouse of who you are and who you stand for. like they say hunny im me and thats something youll never be thats all you say.
so you have any problems like that just tell them off or call them something.
well if my advice works please contact me and let me know.

Thankyou, Angelica

well me i think mean girls are just jelouse of who you are and who you stand for. like they say hunny im me and thats something youll never be thats all you say.
so you have any problems like that just tell them off or call them something.
well if my advice works please contact me and let me know.

Thankyou, Angelica

Ok, I'm not going to lie, I am a mean girl. I speak the truth. And alot of my friends are called mean girls. Just to let you guys know, we get bad mouthed too. I think before you guys are gonna go off on us mean girls, you need to get why we are being mean to you. And FYI is not becasue we are inscure it's usualy becasue you bugged us and we want to get back, or because YOU don't like US so we are gonna start not likeing you or becasue we just speak the truth. We don't do it to hurt you randomly, we do it for a reason. So before you go off on us, think of what YOU have done to deseve this!

Hey. It's Taylor again. I want to know what you think about me as a mean girl. Comment and tell me how you feel about mean girlz and tell me why you think you get made fun of. I may be mean but i really care. So i know your responding to me start with Dear Taylor, plz i want to know how it can hurt and if im going to far!

haili ma..... on March 21, 2009 9:53 PM

if some biotch is mean to you fn ignore them and do what they do. who gives an f about bullies
fer~sure
=D

i deal with them just by ignoring them or saying okay maybe you do think that but your way to inscure to have friends, your lucky you do.

i deal with them just by ignoring them or saying okay maybe you do think that but your way to inscure to have friends, your lucky you do.

mean girls can say wut ever they want they're either jelous or have problems i just ignore them nd move on

I tell them exactly what I think of them. If they say something I dont like, I tell them how it is. Because really, I don't care what they think! Your never gonna get rid of them so you have to deal with it! :)

I let them know that they dont intimidate me and I stay friendly with them.

Seriously, girls who pick on other girls have NO life.
If you just Ignore them, they'll get bored pretty easily and stop being mean to you. ;)

constance on March 22, 2009 4:04 PM

i ignor them and dont tell on them that normally only makes maters wores just ignor them and they'll get tired of it.

constance on March 22, 2009 4:06 PM

i ignor them and dont tell on them that normally only makes maters wores just ignor them and they'll get tired of it.

constance on March 22, 2009 4:06 PM

i ignor them and dont tell on them that normally only makes maters wores just ignor them and they'll get tired of it.

constance on March 22, 2009 4:06 PM

i ignor them and dont tell on them that normally only makes maters wores just ignor them and they'll get tired of it.

constance on March 22, 2009 4:06 PM

i ignor them and dont tell on them that normally only makes maters wores just ignor them and they'll get tired of it.

I just ignore them. It's usually hard because they say they are "just joking" when they are around teachers.
But if it gets to where it's an everyday thing. I go and tell a counselor or a teacher. This one time I kept telling this girl who was really mean to me, to leave me alone and she said, "wow, now i know you can't take a joke, what a wimp!" and then she kept bugging me about that too! So I went to the counselor. The counselor called her in and told her what she did was wrong and if she did it to me or anyone else she would get into alot of trouble for harrassing another student.
After that I felt a little better for not being bullyed again.
But my feelings were still hurt. Over the years I have been stronger with my feelings, so its a bit harder to hurt them, but it girls still don't want to be bullyed so I have no respect for bullies. They get what they give.

I just ignore them. It's usually hard because they say they are "just joking" when they are around teachers.
But if it gets to where it's an everyday thing. I go and tell a counselor or a teacher. This one time I kept telling this girl who was really mean to me, to leave me alone and she said, "wow, now i know you can't take a joke, what a wimp!" and then she kept bugging me about that too! So I went to the counselor. The counselor called her in and told her what she did was wrong and if she did it to me or anyone else she would get into alot of trouble for harrassing another student.
After that I felt a little better for not being bullyed again.
But my feelings were still hurt. Over the years I have been stronger with my feelings, so its a bit harder to hurt them, but it girls still don't want to be bullyed so I have no respect for bullies. They get what they give.

HAY
girls that is just it!!!!!!! they want to make your life misrible because they are.i mean seriously dont they have enything better to do.wat if they whold student body turned on them they would still think they are cool but there NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im am 13 years old and i have been new at five diffrent school this year and i have so much going on but wat made me feel better is when i would call my boyfriend in PA.his name is anthony and he is such a good boyfriend and he is the one who gave me the edvice and my best friend that goes to WVU collage and her name is carrie.i love them both and i love all you too sorry for it being so long and thank you for reading this!!!!!!$!!!!!$

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jasmine s. on March 22, 2009 8:03 PM

mean girls are just jealous about the way u look and when they make fun of you, they feel superior or popular than you but what i do i just say, "so what i have a great personality and have great friends."
and just walk away. they just think their so cool that they just want to make fun of people. but their the losers.

jasmine s. on March 22, 2009 8:03 PM

mean girls are just jealous about the way u look and when they make fun of you, they feel superior or popular than you but what i do i just say, "so what i have a great personality and have great friends."
and just walk away. they just think their so cool that they just want to make fun of people. but their the losers.

jasmine s. on March 22, 2009 8:04 PM

mean girls are just jealous about the way u look and when they make fun of you, they feel superior or popular than you but what i do i just say, "so what i have a great personality and have great friends."
and just walk away. they just think their so cool that they just want to make fun of people. but their the losers.

jasmine s. on March 22, 2009 8:05 PM

mean girls are just jealous about the way u look and when they make fun of you, they feel superior or popular than you but what i do i just say, "so what i have a great personality and have great friends."
and just walk away. they just think their so cool that they just want to make fun of people. but their the losers.

jasmine s. on March 22, 2009 8:05 PM

mean girls are just jealous about the way u look and when they make fun of you, they feel superior or popular than you but what i do i just say, "so what i have a great personality and have great friends."
and just walk away. they just think their so cool that they just want to make fun of people. but their the losers.

jasmine s. on March 22, 2009 8:06 PM

mean girls are just jealous about the way u look and when they make fun of you, they feel superior or popular than you but what i do i just say, "so what i have a great personality and have great friends."
and just walk away. they just think their so cool that they just want to make fun of people. but their the losers.

One of the mean girls are kind of my friends, but she's mean to me and i try to leave her alone. But every time i write my b.f.f. a note, she shows her!!! But that's when we were in a fight over nothing. She thinks she's so good at everything and she a teachers pet and they all favor her. But i'm the best basketball player in the whole school. Shes a ball hog!!! The only reason she thinks this is because her brother is good at basketball.But I average about 15-17 points a game!!! I'm even better than the boys!!!

Girls can be mean and cruel but the reason they do it is because they are either insecure or jealous of you! So the best thing to do is to ignore them because the things they say are not important and dont mean anything to you!

Girls can be mean and cruel but the reason they do it is because they are either insecure or jealous of you! So the best thing to do is to ignore them because the things they say are not important and dont mean anything to you!

Dealing with mean girls can be tough, trust me I know. Even though I am homeschooled, and never went to a public school, I still dealt with these sort of things. You just have to stay true to yourself, and you cant let whatever they say bother you. If it does, you just have to remeber that you are your own person, and you have the power to ignore them. Remeber, High School heroes are Real Life zeros.

OMG! stop hitting on the mean girls. we are not inscure and we don't have a messed up life. we just like being mean, we are better then you and many people are just dorks. and btw EVERYONE loves us! they wanna be us, they just dont wanna cross are path!!!!

so what evers you peeps hitting on peeps like MEE!

THERE IS THIS REALLY MEAN GIRL I KNOW AND SHE THINKS SHE CAN CONTROL EVERYONE AND SHE TAKES RANDOM SPAZZ ATTACKS AT EVERYONE AND THINKS SHE OWNS THE WORLD...SO ON THE BUS WHEN SHE STARTS YELLING AT ME FOR NO REASON, I KEEP TALKING TO MY FRIENDS BECASUE ALL SHE REALLY WANTS ME TO DO IS LOOK AT HER SO IT'S EXTREMEMLY IMPORTANT THAT YOU DON'T AND THATS EXACTLY WHAT WILL SHUT THAT BULLY OFF.

***TIP**NEVER LET THE BULLY WIN, DONT BE AFFRIAD TO LOOK HER DIRECTLY IN THE EYES AND LET HER NO THAT SHE DOESN'T SCARE YOU. BE STRONG!!

THERE IS THIS REALLY MEAN GIRL I KNOW AND SHE THINKS SHE CAN CONTROL EVERYONE AND SHE TAKES RANDOM SPAZZ ATTACKS AT EVERYONE AND THINKS SHE OWNS THE WORLD...SO ON THE BUS WHEN SHE STARTS YELLING AT ME FOR NO REASON, I KEEP TALKING TO MY FRIENDS BECASUE ALL SHE REALLY WANTS ME TO DO IS LOOK AT HER SO IT'S EXTREMEMLY IMPORTANT THAT YOU DON'T AND THATS EXACTLY WHAT WILL SHUT THAT BULLY OFF.

***TIP**NEVER LET THE BULLY WIN, DONT BE AFFRIAD TO LOOK HER DIRECTLY IN THE EYES AND LET HER NO THAT SHE DOESN'T SCARE YOU. BE STRONG!!

Mean Girls..are around my school. Obvisously they are the most popular people and when they are involed with sumthing thier friends usually are to. I just ignore them..and what they say. If they talk about you their just jelous and insecure about themselves. So they need to make fun of someone else to make themselves feel better.

there is a really mean girl at my school me and my friends keep away from her she once went up to us and asked us random questions.we were like hello back off leave us alone and she gossips about us but it's fine we just ignore her

to things number one if you are online talk to me because i am so so bored and to i have these girls kara and kayla and they are so mean i was talking to my friend outside and they would not leave us alone a was about to punch them they are so mean to us all the tttttttttiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiimmmmmmmmmmeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Don't woory about them because the only reason they are being mean is because they are jealous of you!! Or they think it will make them feel better. But, you don't have to put up with it talk to them ask them to stop if they don't go to a parent or guardian, they will know what to do!

LMAO. Okay well first im gona start by saying i would consider myself one of the mean girls. but i don't sit here and make other people feel bad on purpose. Im just really honest about any and everything. if youre feelings get hurt o well. dont be so touchy. thats your fault. I dont see anything wrong wif the life i live so you can't sit there and say we have bad lives bc you're the ones sittin home doing nothin conplainin about how mean we are. GET OVER IT. mean girls are NOT concieted--we are VERY CONFIDENT in our selves and maybe you should try that too :] mite do you some good. I have alot of friends and they just say im the mean one out the bunch but they appreciate me bc they know ima always be honest. so get over it. Mean girls dont make it a point to come at you. we have better things to do:) got that!! good

so think again before you judge a "mean girl"! bc we not jealous or insecure sorry if thats wat you are :)

LMAO. Okay well first im gona start by saying i would consider myself one of the mean girls. but i don't sit here and make other people feel bad on purpose. Im just really honest about any and everything. if youre feelings get hurt o well. dont be so touchy. thats your fault. I dont see anything wrong wif the life i live so you can't sit there and say we have bad lives bc you're the ones sittin home doing nothin conplainin about how mean we are. GET OVER IT. mean girls are NOT concieted--we are VERY CONFIDENT in our selves and maybe you should try that too :] mite do you some good. I have alot of friends and they just say im the mean one out the bunch but they appreciate me bc they know ima always be honest. so get over it. Mean girls dont make it a point to come at you. we have better things to do:) got that!! good

so think again before you judge a "mean girl"! bc we not jealous or insecure sorry if thats wat you are :)

LMAO. Okay well first im gona start by saying i would consider myself one of the mean girls. but i don't sit here and make other people feel bad on purpose. Im just really honest about any and everything. if youre feelings get hurt o well. dont be so touchy. thats your fault. I dont see anything wrong wif the life i live so you can't sit there and say we have bad lives bc you're the ones sittin home doing nothin conplainin about how mean we are. GET OVER IT. mean girls are NOT concieted--we are VERY CONFIDENT in our selves and maybe you should try that too :] mite do you some good. I have alot of friends and they just say im the mean one out the bunch but they appreciate me bc they know ima always be honest. so get over it. Mean girls dont make it a point to come at you. we have better things to do:) got that!! good

so think again before you judge a "mean girl"! bc we not jealous or insecure sorry if thats wat you are :)

LMAO. Okay well first im gona start by saying i would consider myself one of the mean girls. but i don't sit here and make other people feel bad on purpose. Im just really honest about any and everything. if youre feelings get hurt o well. dont be so touchy. thats your fault. I dont see anything wrong wif the life i live so you can't sit there and say we have bad lives bc you're the ones sittin home doing nothin conplainin about how mean we are. GET OVER IT. mean girls are NOT concieted--we are VERY CONFIDENT in our selves and maybe you should try that too :] mite do you some good. I have alot of friends and they just say im the mean one out the bunch but they appreciate me bc they know ima always be honest. so get over it. Mean girls dont make it a point to come at you. we have better things to do:) got that!! good

so think again before you judge a "mean girl"! bc we not jealous or insecure sorry if thats wat you are :)

Kaitlan.:D on March 24, 2009 12:20 PM

Mean Girls...Ugh!.
Well, i really don't care what they think or do cause i am who i am and i'm never gonna change that for them...

Yours Truely :] on March 24, 2009 12:33 PM

How i deal with mean girls is mostly just ignore them..but if they keep being really beeotchy then il usally confront them. Like this one time i started dating the hottest guy in school named Tyler. His bestfriend happend to be the biggest beeotch ever. She kept calling me fake and tried to make him break up with me (it eventually worked) but i kept ignoring her but then i wound up confronting her after we broke up and guess what..He never talked to me again. I heard they started dating but whatever if he wanted that over me...its not worth it..

I HAVE THESE MEAN GIRL ON MY STREET THAT LIKE TO MAKE FUN OF ME BECAUSE I AM A 200 POUN 11 YEAR OLD GIRL AND I PLAY SOFTBALL AND RIDE BIKES BUT THE HOLE THING IS I AM AN ACTIVE PERSON AND A AM A BIG BIG BIG BBBBIIIIIIIIGGGGGGG GIRL SO I IGNOR THEM BUT THEY TALK TO MY FRIENDS AND THEY TELL ME WHAT THEY SAY IT IS SO SO DUMB WELL BACK TO SCHOOL BYE.

i have 1 mean girl i have 2 deal with amd most of the time i ingnor her she's in my grade and om my bus she says stupid stuff like nobuddy likes u, u have no friends and thats on the bus when i have one of my bff's sitting with me and i just think to myself your mean to me cause u want to be like me and even if i hade just one real friend its better than having a lot of fack friends like her and because i'm nice i have a lot of real friends

IN MY SCHOOL THERE ARE ALOT OF BULLIES!!!!
all you gotta do is ignore them
if they make fun of you just laugh at it
if it gets violent tell on them
or if they try to tesse you when there talking talk when there talking
WORKS EVERY TIME!!!!
trust me

If there is a mean girl that seems to always bother you, what I would do is ignore them. They're just jealous people who think what they got is not good enough. Sometimes they make fun of people because something traumatic is going on in their life and they want to put their problems in the back of their head. Whether it's a divorce, abusive parents, etc.

I would just say "get away and I hate you. you are snobby,rude and get youur own way every body is afraid to stick up for you because they thought you wouldn't be nice to them for there rest of there lifes burt guess what I am not afraid of you and I am sticking up for you and if she trys to suck up tpo you just egnor her

I just ignore them. I mean a ton of people say that doesnt work but it does. i have never really had a problem with them but they think they are all that and they arent. All they do is put down other people to make themselves feel better. they are all just low life selfless people who dont care about anything but their looks and how many friends they have on myspace. firing back usually doesnt do any good because they will probably bring up something from the past and make you feel bad. JUST WALK AWAY!!!! it is the best thing for you and your real friends will be proud of you for standing up for yourself. Show your true beauty and let them know that you are not as low as they are! :)

I just ignore them. I mean a ton of people say that doesnt work but it does. i have never really had a problem with them but they think they are all that and they arent. All they do is put down other people to make themselves feel better. they are all just low life selfless people who dont care about anything but their looks and how many friends they have on myspace. firing back usually doesnt do any good because they will probably bring up something from the past and make you feel bad. JUST WALK AWAY!!!! it is the best thing for you and your real friends will be proud of you for standing up for yourself. Show your true beauty and let them know that you are not as low as they are! :)

jocelyneee on March 24, 2009 8:20 PM

i shoot them onee i aint up for their smack !

I am just like you guys. I try to ignore them. Sometimes it doesn't work, I know it's easier said than done. Today my so called BFF Jackie was being a total snob. She was sooo mean. I just started the track team. Woo hoo! I told Jackie, and she's like, "Why?"
like a snob and she didn't want me on the track team. Ugh! I asked my BFF Maddy what was going on with her, she's like, "She thinks your being really crazy." And I don't care. They find stuff to be mad at you about. They are all like "EWWWW!! I hate trans fat! That has like, 2 grams of it! GGGRROOOSS!!!!" I mean, I am older than them. Be their friend anyway.

uh, yes i stress with mean girls. sheesh. there's a girl that hates me and my best friend, Lauran. she's in 2nd grade, and we're in 3rd, and i told her one day at school at morning meeting to stop teasing her, and she started to tease me. but days passed and she was at my rehearsal talent show. the girl she was performing with was one of my friends Grayce, and i had no choice but to cheer for her. but anyway, days waaay after the real talent show, she said to Lauran, "I like Eme, not you!" How could that be possible? It must have been my talent or something!

Be as nice to them as you possibly can....they get confused.lol

i am not one to be picked on by girls cuz if i am i try to be nice or ignore them or try to become their friend but i do get picked on by this one boy i just try to ignore it or change it

when i do get picked on i usually say u must really want to hurt me or something cuz u r trying really hard

christine on March 25, 2009 3:06 PM

I always defend myself and fight back if i have to because i am not putting up with people like that

You know what i do!?! I go up to them, and be like y u gotta be like that and kinda go off on 'em.:)

chloe tavares on March 25, 2009 3:52 PM

1.don't listen to them
2.try an make them jealous
3.stand up for yourself

Ugh. I just Ignore them. There are a lot of mean girls in the world and whoever they are, they are just jealous. They know that you/me are better and they're trying to compare it. Mean girls are just JERKS. They should know that other girls are people too ;D

JUST DEAL WITH THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dfhgdsgsh on March 26, 2009 3:39 PM

I figure that if they make fun of me, their opinion isn't worth being valued.

Alejandra on March 26, 2009 6:37 PM

I just dont pay attention to them. If they want to say something than they can go ahead and say because they dont know what your saying about them behind their back. Plus whenever a mean girl says something to me i agree with it cause i gets them mad and then they have nothing else to talk about.

OMG! where do it start!
well 2things to do.
1.ignore them.(soon they might just move on to a different person.)

2.agree w/ them.(if they say something mean sortoff laugh it off or be like "thank u i'll take that as a comment."or somin like that.)

3. also u could think off a comeback that well make them be like okay!

but IF U DO THIS ALL IN ORDER I WELL SURE U THEY WELL BACK OFF!because if u ignore them they well keep saying stuff(sometimes!) then if u agree w/ them or laugh it off they'll be like okay!
and a comeback well make them feel like they should of never did it.

LOVE,
Sam

p.s. NEVER! tell lies about them like if they are super skinny DONT call them fat other wise they well probably tell the whole school then that makes u bad!

OMG! where do it start!
well 2things to do.
1.ignore them.(soon they might just move on to a different person.)

2.agree w/ them.(if they say something mean sortoff laugh it off or be like "thank u i'll take that as a comment."or somin like that.)

3. also u could think off a comeback that well make them be like okay!

but IF U DO THIS ALL IN ORDER I WELL SURE U THEY WELL BACK OFF!because if u ignore them they well keep saying stuff(sometimes!) then if u agree w/ them or laugh it off they'll be like okay!
and a comeback well make them feel like they should of never did it.

LOVE,
Sam

p.s. NEVER! tell lies about them like if they are super skinny DONT call them fat other wise they well probably tell the whole school then that makes u bad!

really i never deal with mean girl cause like i'm a popular girl so but even if i'm popular i don't be mean to other girl unless they start it

its hard to ignor bullys i know people r always making fun of my size cuz im 13 & look like 8 it bugs laugh, along with them thats the reacton they dont want and alwas bring an x-tra pair of clother if they like to steel ur stuff

well you see, i am one of the mean girls. And to all the people who are saying we're looking for reaction we don't. We only pick on certain people because they look at us wrong. SOME people can't stand to be looked at wrong.. So stop eye ballin everybody stupidd girls. And if some girls were mean to me, which i highly doubt; i wouldd punch them in their faces.

I wouldn't consider myself a mean girl. But people know dont get in my way and we won't have a problem. As for dealing with them NOBODY messes with me

i do not have 2 deal w/ mean girls right now!!! THANK GOD!!

if they want to fight me then i usally tell them to bring it on. and usally they just sit there and run their mouths about me or to me. sooner or later they find out that i am not scared of them and back off. it really doesnt bother me much. i really could care less about what people thinks about me and what people say about me. really the only reason they talk about my life is because they dont have a life to talk about. thats what everyone has been teeling me. i just ignore them and it bugs them. then they stop.

when somebody talks c*** about me i ignore them 4 awhile and tell my friends. they help me especially my friend keyshla she is A REALLY NICE FRIEND BUT NOT MY BEST FRIEND. I BELEIVE THAT WHEN PEOPLE ARE MEAN 2 YOU IS JUST BECAUSE THEY EITHER FEEL INSECURE ABOUT THEMSELVES ORTHAT THEY HAVE NOTHING ELSE TO DO. DONT LISTEN TO THEM IS WHAT I THINK YOU SHOULD DO. ITS BEST THAT THEY DONT GET TO YOU ITS NOT WORTH IT. ITS BETTER THAT YOU IGNORE THEM CAUSE IF NOT YOU CAN DO SOME STUPID THINGS.

Do you want to know how to deal with mean girls?????
Just today I hate it when mean people are around you.... like I have this on friend or I think she is my friend we have been Besties for 4 years straight in school but now in fifth grade she has gotten to my last nerve I have come home crying because of her but now she uses me :! well she think she is but she is not I do not let her treat me like that anymore when she is mean i just walk away but i dont trust her though i have my real best friend...The truth is we were the three musketeers but now we all went seperate ways now I have my own friends and she has hers and the other one is still hanging out with me but when you have a situation like mine just walk away I hope you like my advice for more advice keep on reading my coments on J-14.com!!!!!!!!!!!!

The eisiest thing to do is ignore it and walk away or you will give the satifaction she want's. If you over hear her saying some thing about you it means she needs somthing to do with her spare time, or there is something about you that makes here intimadated. One of My friends had this problem and she had been following her home after school calling her names. The easiest thing is to ignore it and if she still wont stop tell an adult it will help much more than letting it happen repetivly

yes i deal with mean girls im the type if they mes with me they will get HEART BAD!

yes i deal with mean girls im the type if they mes with me they will get HEART BAD!

mizz.loso on March 27, 2009 9:55 PM

them girl r jus haters because u got somthing they dont have and to me it jus dumb and silly cause not a hater

punch her in the face

There was a girl who used to be my friend. Every year that I've known her she would go behind my back, or say stuff about me that wasn't true. This year I finally just said, forget it. I have other friends and I don't need to be unhappy because of one person.

There was a girl who used to be my friend. Every year that I've known her she would go behind my back, or say stuff about me that wasn't true. This year I finally just said, forget it. I have other friends and I don't need to be unhappy because of one person.

There was a girl who used to be my friend. Every year that I've known her she would go behind my back, or say stuff about me that wasn't true. This year I finally just said, forget it. I have other friends and I don't need to be unhappy because of one person.

you just need to ignor them and they will stop bothering you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you just need to ignor them and they will stop bothering you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you just need to ignor them and they will stop bothering you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i don't take anything from them. i will get even. girls need to be strong and stick up for themselves.

Jennifer Chung on March 28, 2009 5:13 PM

Girls are girls. They can be really mean. A lot of girls hate me but I just learn to ignore them. I just know that it's their loss to not get to know me and I have a lot of friends who care about me. Honestly only your opinion of yourself matters

Do not just take it! Do not give a reaction because they will get doing it! Or stand up for yourself and your freinds.

Last year there was this girl that made fun of me. She called me the nazel girl from "Ned's Declassified"! It was horrible! I couldn't help that it was around allergy season. However, a lot of girls don't like her because of her mean personality. I told my parents about this, just to let my feelings out. I didn't want them to tell the school though. The one girl gets in trouble enough. This year however, she doesn't bother me. I know how to stick up for myself without hurting anyones feelings. :)

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tHE ONLY WAYS TO GET RID OF THE GALS IS THAT U HAVE TO IGNORE THEM AND SHOW THEM U R BRAVE AND YOU NEED TO LEARN TO DO THAT BECAUSE THATS WATS I DID AND IT WORKED!!!! lolololololol tHANK LUV AND BYE-BYE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

I don't let it bother me, but I'll go up to her and confront her to stop.

nessie(vanessa) on March 28, 2009 11:35 PM

i tell them that they are being really mean and tell them to leave me and my friends alone! then i ignor them and try to walk away dramatically!(i usually fall flat on my face) (i have terible luck!)

Stephanie on March 29, 2009 1:00 AM

When I get home, I draw on her yearbook pic.

First of you all, if you even pay attention to those mean girls, then you need realize that they are just jealous. They may be skinnier, prettier, more popular, and all the loser guys might like them, but you have one thing that they dont... real, true, friends. All the friends that they have, aren't their true friends, there're probably just their friends because their popular. while in the other hand, your friends are your friends because you have an awesome personality!!! Dont pay any attention to them, YOUR BETTER THAN THAT!!!!!

psh.....u dont need to know my name! :] on March 29, 2009 4:44 PM

We really don't have "mean girls" @ r school (i go to a catholic school). Usually the mean girl is ur best friend when u get into fights. I just have my space from them and ignore them.

I deal with mean girls by no listening to any thing they say and ignoring them.If you listen to them it will tempt you. I also stay by my friends.If the girls come up to me I say I don't wan't anything atr all to deal with them.

well i used to be a mean girl but i quit the clique because they talk about every1 and every1 at sko hates them. And the mean girls r gona get bad karma. so ya.

ive been teased ALOT almost my whole life. its very hard and u wanna give up but dont because ull have bigger and briter things ahead of you. and to tell u the truth the good people are the ones that are going to go far in life not them.
if someones bothering u stand up for yourself. people say telll someone but that only helps sometimes trust me ino! so stand up for urself and be strong its honnestley better to fight someone than to get pushed around...

ive been teased ALOT almost my whole life. its very hard and u wanna give up but dont because ull have bigger and briter things ahead of you. and to tell u the truth the good people are the ones that are going to go far in life not them.
if someones bothering u stand up for yourself. people say telll someone but that only helps sometimes trust me ino! so stand up for urself and be strong its honnestley better to fight someone than to get pushed around...

I don't get in to many fights I'm hard to get in a fight with. I keep to myself. I try to be friends with everyone!:) I don't get mean people. Why are they so mean to people? Either they're jealous have issues with eachother or think it's fun to be mean? That is what I think.

I have actually no mean girl except for one.If she come where I am i will leave and go somewhere else and if she get all up in my face i will pop her in the face with my hand.

Mean Girls are just girls that are jelouse of what you look like bassicly all I do is say hay stop hating and get over it. That works for me all the time. If thay don't stop and thay want to fight, I'm not trying to sound wimpy because i can fight, just report them.

hotest female in the world on March 29, 2009 11:09 PM

i try 2 be invisable so they dont know me but the sad part of being invisable is that know one knows you like my spring fling is coming up and know one has asked me yet so im sad but this week i am dressing the best i can. so dont let mean girls or boys (hope cuite boys) bother you.

I just say something clever. For instance, a lot of the "Popular Bullies" hate my sense of style. I understand any average girl doesn't like hot pink with red: that's just me! If a mean girl ever commented on it I'll just tell them what I think. Never let a stupid prissy girl tell you what you should do! Lots of girls would just ignore- but you seem weak. Stand your ground!

How i deal wit mean girls is show dem dat u dnt care wut dey hve 2 say nd wen arnd dem act lyk der apperance dsnt bother u nd hve a great tyme nd if dat dsnt work go up 2 dem nd ask dem wut wrng wit dem

How i deal wit mean girls is show dem dat u dnt care wut dey hve 2 say nd wen arnd dem act lyk der apperance dsnt bother u nd hve a great tyme nd if dat dsnt work go up 2 dem nd ask dem wut wrng wit dem

How i deal wit mean girls is show dem dat u dnt care wut dey hve 2 say nd wen arnd dem act lyk der apperance dsnt bother u nd hve a great tyme nd if dat dsnt work go up 2 dem nd ask dem wut wrng wit dem

Ha ha. Mean girls? Usually I just say thank you. Over and over again. With a big smile on my face. You know what they say: Kill 'em with kindness.

Ha ha. Mean girls? Usually I just say thank you. Over and over again. With a big smile on my face. You know what they say: Kill 'em with kindness.

so ive had some problems with some girls at school and what i do is i talk to my bffs bout it and ask them if the person has said anything bad about me and if so then i comfront the person and ask wtf is up and if they said "they never said that i say well i herd someone say that you did if they still dinie it i ask my friends if there sure and if they say yes i go back to the girl and say okay im for sure u said that. then if they still say no i go to my school office and fill out a peer mediation slip then we go to the peer mediation room and we work it out. ive never done that so its better said than done for me. but im a peer mediation so i hear stuff about he said this and she said that but all u really need to know is forgivness. if you have any troubles just right back on here saying to brooke. thanks for reading. byee

in my school the "mean girls" are the preps. every buddy hates the preps because they are the most stuck up and annoying people. ofcourse my group and there group have got into fights....they are all talk and no action. just try 2 ignore them and if that doesnt work confront them and speak your mind cause if there the mean girls aka preps at my school they wont do a thing about it and leave you alone, ok they might give you they occasional uhh! look but just ask them if their constipated talk about eachother to your friends and get on with your life!

I SIMPLY IGNORE THEM!!!!!!! if they even try 2 say stuff about me i walk away!!!!

Just ignore them. My mom said even though she's pretty on the outside, she is very ugly in the inside. Don't fight fire with fire. If she says something mean, just say "ok..." the walk away. Don't make your life emo because of them. =)

PUNCH THE FAGET

green apple on March 31, 2009 6:35 PM

I take till a certain point but when they make me really mad I talk back and don't take it anymore!!!!!!!

NeekaJezelYO(: on March 31, 2009 7:58 PM

how wud i deal wit mean gurls?

well ders diffrent ways i wud go depending on my mood. like either mad.sad.snitch?

if a girl is makin funn of me and saying ooh shes so skinny i wud go up to them and say i wudnt be talking how wud you like if someone picked on u?!!!!

or all u gotta do is ignore them.
cuz the bullies they just think that ooh their in charge of the scool and think der all that and think everyone will worship them. thats wat they think but never follow that. forget them!!!!(:

NeekaJezelYO(: on March 31, 2009 7:58 PM

how wud i deal wit mean gurls?

well ders diffrent ways i wud go depending on my mood. like either mad.sad.snitch?

if a girl is makin funn of me and saying ooh shes so skinny i wud go up to them and say i wudnt be talking how wud you like if someone picked on u?!!!!

or all u gotta do is ignore them.
cuz the bullies they just think that ooh their in charge of the scool and think der all that and think everyone will worship them. thats wat they think but never follow that. forget them!!!!(:

destiney says ill sock um talia say be mean back

Beautiful Kassandra on April 1, 2009 2:07 PM

Ingore them until they fade away just like T.I. said, but also if they put they hand on me, thats sumthing different but far as I know, they can say watever they want.

don't let it get to you and ignore it

i just ignore them until they leave you alone.
Once they know that you are not bothered
by them making fun of you,thay will stop and leave you alone.
you can also tell and adult if it gets really bad .

i just ignore them until they leave you alone.
Once they know that you are not bothered
by them making fun of you,thay will stop and leave you alone.
you can also tell and adult if it gets really bad .

first of all i totally H8 mean girls they r such brats they r all like o look at me cuz im better than the rest of u so i just ignor them and that really makes the mean girls at my school so mad there all like y won't u talk 2 me!

I have to admit, the mean girls are ussally the "popular ones." But in my school there is only one girl. Out of all the popular's she the only mean one. My friends say to ignore her for what she called me 2 years ago, but it bugs me so much!!!!! she called me a bi*ch!! Like all her friend aren't mean, there pretty nice, but her UGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just want to punch her, but i found out that the ones that make fun of you are not confindent in them self's, so to make them feel better they put other people down. So next time, just let it go, walk away, and say w/e.

When girls are mean to me i laugh.They want to see you get mad which is why they do it.As much as i would love to yell at them I laugh.If i notice them angrily staring at me I smile and that gets them even madder. I fight back the nice way :] and get to them without even cat fighting.It hurts them more to know their mission at getting me mad and embaressd failed and i'm still having fun

Kiley Shaye on April 2, 2009 6:58 PM

how do you deal with mean girls? well, you just do what every other girl does, ignore them and remind yourself that you are the better person,(;

Kiley Shaye on April 2, 2009 6:59 PM

how do you deal with mean girls? well, you just do what every other girl does, ignore them and remind yourself that you are the better person,(;

I agree wit all of yall. Mean Girls act like they all that. They try to get an attitude with u. You have to ignore them. Just know that u have to have confidence in yourself.


LUV
YALL

Ugh! mean girls sooooo annoying. They make fun of me . But im like " I dont care you van keep on doing it but just to let you know i dont care at all". Then they stop being mean and give me the respect i deserve.

Try it they will tottaly back off like the losers they r

Well.Mean girls tend to like me alot.Because they always pick on me.& i use to really let it get to me.
But thats why i moved schools.

I am a very good girl! im 16,dont drink,smoke,have sex, or party.I dont want, nor do i have time for a boyfriend.I am staying pure till marriage,yes i have a purity ring like the jonas brothers & i have a dream.that dream is to be a singer.Im working my tail off to get there!

Mean girls use to ALWAYS pick on me.for no reason.
and sometimes they still do.But i just think what would jesus do.And i ignore them.they might do it to make themselves feel better,or simply cause they like to be mean.I have always been talked about,lost friends, picked on.

But now i know that their just jealous.And i help out my other friends when they feel down cause some girls are picking on them.Cause now i dont really care what people say or think about me.I know who my real friends are and i have them.

I am not a mean girl at all.but i WILL defend myself.
Never fight,doesnt solve anything.seriously,it will just get you a broken nose,& make you hate each other more.Girls go about this everyday and violence is not the answer,no matter who tells you.So be apart of standing up against violence.lets stop it!

anywho....need to talk to me?

my twitter is twitter.com/tieranyjonas


thats the only thing i feel comfortable giving out.

:):):):):):):)

if they get in my face i start getting mad and go after them i dont know why they just get to me:s

*punch,punch,punch!*

*punch,punch,punch!*

At first I was bullied a lot because a lot of the girls were sport fanatics , also some of my best friends are boys , I love Twilight, and that I read a lot. At first I didn't know how to handle it and as soon as I got home I would run up to my room and cry. I noticed there is no use crying and that they are pathetic and stupid!!! And now I learn to ignore them and fight back!!!!!!!!! I keep to my acting and I LOVE it!!!!! It is my passion and I plan to go to the top!!! I got the main part in my Way Off Broadway show!!!!!!!!! SO KEEP TO YOUR TALENTS AND DO NOT LET ANYONE BRING YOU DOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Everybody gets bullied by mean girls...I just give them a taste of their own medicine and see how they like it..Normally girls try to pick a fight with me, but i can't accept their invitation to a fight because im being held back by my friends..So i just throw a comeback over my shoulder while i walk away..

Ok if you thing they bully you alot leave them and if they get mad and do more solft to you like tell youer BFF that if she seaks to you or goes to youer house youer BFF has to give them a $1 then you have to talk to some bobby adout it

I dont let nobody mess with me or my friends, u dont respect me i dont respect u back, it might seem kinda childish but thats just the way i am. u get in my face i'll get in urs no joke. -clayton

Well all you have to do is cuss them out and put a good fight so you better not mess with me!!

maybe they r jealous of you and they want to make u feel bad but all u have to do is be mean back dont cry. Because ur not standing for ur self if you cry so they be mean to you. You mean to them so they know how it feels to be bullied

TeamJacob on April 5, 2009 12:30 PM

Um...How do I deal with mean girls?First of all,I stop them imediately as soon as they start to f*ck with me.Second of all,I show them who's boss.Third,I walk away like I just one the Olympics.That'll show them B*tches.

Well, we have a mean girl in our school and me and my besty stood up to her and said "We really don't want to talk to you!" Then it all just kinda of went on from there. Anyways, I would deal with them by standing up to them and you shouldn't care if all of the other kids are mad at you! Just do what you feel like you should do! That is the best way to go!

Well, we have a mean girl in our school and me and my besty stood up to her and said "We really don't want to talk to you!" Then it all just kinda of went on from there. Anyways, I would deal with them by standing up to them and you shouldn't care if all of the other kids are mad at you! Just do what you feel like you should do! That is the best way to go!

Well, we have a mean girl in our school and me and my besty stood up to her and said "We really don't want to talk to you!" Then it all just kinda of went on from there. Anyways, I would deal with them by standing up to them and you shouldn't care if all of the other kids are mad at you! Just do what you feel like you should do! That is the best way to go!

victoria:) on April 5, 2009 5:48 PM

i think the best way to handle the mean girls at school are to ignore them like this
BULLY SAYS:your such a loser ect
YOU SAY: well i dont think im a loser and yet you came all the way over here to tell me that but i dont care so next time you want to insult me you better think twice about wasting your breath

,victoria

I will deal with mean girls by telling them how i feel about them!
Brittany:"Have u ever looked at ya outfit?"
Raven:"Ya i have but have u?"
Brittany:"U know u are just a wanna be!"
Raven:"No, I am not i am popular"
Brittany:"That is what u think"
Raven:"Whatever"
Brittany:"Nothing to say huh"
Brittany:THAT IS HOW U HANDEL IT DO IT INTIL THE GIVE UP!

BRITTANY:GOOD GIRL
Raven:BAD GIRL

I will deal with mean girls by telling them how i feel about them!
Brittany:"Have u ever looked at ya outfit?"
Raven:"Ya i have but have u?"
Brittany:"U know u are just a wanna be!"
Raven:"No, I am not i am popular"
Brittany:"That is what u think"
Raven:"Whatever"
Brittany:"Nothing to say huh"
Brittany:THAT IS HOW U HANDEL IT DO IT INTIL THE GIVE UP!

BRITTANY:GOOD GIRL
Raven:BAD GIRL

I don't have to deal with mean girls. : )
Its just not an issue for me

I don't have to deal with mean girls. : )
Its just not an issue for me

mean girls are fun!

at school when they just stare at me
i look at them and smile and wave
and they just look away!

after there expressions on there faces
are priceless...
its really funny...
&& after a while they'll stop.

mean girls are fun!

at school when they just stare at me
i look at them and smile and wave
and they just look away!

after there expressions on there faces
are priceless...
its really funny...
&& after a while they'll stop.

when i was much smaller and girls were mean to me i would cry about it but i when i started growing and girls were mean i didnt really pay attention to them i waould get mad but not cry anymore its dumb to cry then they will bother you way more so i just ignore them

Mean girls just think they are pretteir and cuter than you, they are like the paparazzi, and your the star. They will do anything 4 ur picture, its sad. you see those girls in magazines.

popular people have suckish jobs like cab driver or working at McDonalds. smart people have awesome jobs, like scientest or singer, and they get lots of money.

BOTTOM LINE:
DON'T LET THEM GET TO YOU!

I usually either ignore them but, sometimes i tend to fight back.

I HATE MEAN GIRLS THEY TALK ABOUT PEOPLE .TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE IS JUDGING PEOPLE. ALL PEOPLE ARE BEAUTIFUL FOR WHO THEY ARE YOU ARE LIKE THIS SPECIAL BRAND OF SOMETHING AND THEY BOSS YOU AROUND LIKE YOUR THEIR DOG AND THEY ARE TRYING TO TRAIN YOU TO SIT OR SOMETHING.AND HOW THEY WALK ARE THEY TRYING TO WALK AWAY OR ARE THEY TRYING TO WALK UP THE STAGE AND MODEL!!!!!!?????

tell 'em to back off!!!

tell 'em to back off!!! just 4 get 'bout 'em:)

tell 'em to back off!!! just 4 get 'bout 'em:)

Mean girls make you furious, and I think that the best thing to do is to kinda ignore them, but then again, don't. When they walk by in the hallway, I just give them a little wave. You don't have to get up in their face about it. But when you are busy or don't want to talk to them, just kinda smile or ignore them completely. One mean girl in my school tried to get buddy-buddy with me and tried to give me a hug........I just backed away.

Kimberlyn on April 7, 2009 3:52 PM

For me i just give it right back but ten times worse. I know its not the thing to do but i have zero tolerance for stuck up girls drama. Its annoying. They learn a lesson after thinking they can mess with me. lol.

I just tell them to freak off and leave me alone, and it works :]

How i deal with mean girls i wont start a fight with them by just comin out front if they say somethin about me and my friends cuz then it'll end up a fight really quick. What i would do is wait like a week and if they still bother you or tease you about somethin then just admit the truth and say somthin like "yeh i did it so what you gonna do about it, you might be very cool and have many friends but your not the boss of me and you definetly dont control my life so stay out of my buissness and i'll stay outa yours."

How i deal with mean girls i wont start a fight with them by just comin out front if they say somethin about me and my friends cuz then it'll end up a fight really quick. What i would do is wait like a week and if they still bother you or tease you about somethin then just admit the truth and say somthin like "yeh i did it so what you gonna do about it, you might be very cool and have many friends but your not the boss of me and you definetly dont control my life so stay out of my buissness and i'll stay outa yours."

How i deal with mean girls i wont start a fight with them by just comin out front if they say somethin about me and my friends cuz then it'll end up a fight really quick. What i would do is wait like a week and if they still bother you or tease you about somethin then just admit the truth and say somthin like "yeh i did it so what you gonna do about it, you might be very cool and have many friends but your not the boss of me and you definetly dont control my life so stay out of my buissness and i'll stay outa yours."

well i havent really had to deal wth a mean girl but i know that i wouldnt fight her or anything! i just think thats not the way!

but... i wold just pretend that it doest bother me and move on cuz those r th people tha always end u eeding ur help in the end!

well i havent really had to deal wth a mean girl but i know that i wouldnt fight her or anything! i just think thats not the way!

but... i wold just pretend that it doest bother me and move on cuz those r th people tha always end u eeding ur help in the end!

I had mean Girls and they were mean to me I talk back to the them I was my self and that felt good about me.

I had mean Girls and they were mean to me I talk back to the them I was my self and that felt good about me.

I had mean Girls and they were mean to me I talk back to the them I was my self and that felt good about me.

I had mean Girls and they were mean to me. I talk back to the them I was my self and that felt good about me.I was shy the first time. I became friends with them the first time they talk rebeind my back. I stop it and i told them what they and what they do thats why i stop it.

I had mean Girls and they were mean to me. I talk back to the them I was my self and that felt good about me.I was shy the first time. I became friends with them the first time they talk rebeind my back. I stop it and i told them what they and what they do thats why i stop it.

I am rude and mean back to them you cant let them walk all over you

just forget about them dont let them get to u!!!

just forget about them dont let them get to u!!!

i stick up for myself without gettin in to trouble....but they need to no they cant pick on people and just say anything bout someone....thats what i think:]

Victoria on April 9, 2009 8:17 PM

I deal by ignoring,being myself, and knowing who i am and where i come from!! I never let people get to me! Know matter how mean they get! Like i'm serios i smile almost every 5 sec of my life and sometimes i can be really insanely random and when people say mean things about me or try to tell what to do i say thank you for making me the #1 thing on your mind! I just don't get hurt by that stuff and i'm proud of that!

I deal by ignoring,being myself, and knowing who i am and where i come from!! I never let people get to me! Know matter how mean they get! Like i'm serios i smile almost every 5 sec of my life and sometimes i can be really insanely random and when people say mean things about me or try to tell what to do i say thank you for making me the #1 thing on your mind! I just don't get hurt by that stuff and i'm proud of that!

well am just going 2 say don't listen to them their just jealous and have nothin better to do but lower themselves bein mean.IGNORE THEM!!! and dont lower yourself like they do!!!be a nice person and be friendly so you can make a difference.:-)

i hate those type of people ! I JUST DONT LIKE THEM STEREOTYPING PEOPLE!!!!!!!!! They are just jealous of them!!!

I think that mean girls are stupid because the only reason that they make fun of people is because they have nothing better to do and they are insecure of themselves so all i do is i try to forget about them because seriously they really arent worth my time so i really dont give one for them and if they make fun of me and laugh i just laugh along with them and they will eventually give up

I think that mean girls are stupid because the only reason that they make fun of people is because they have nothing better to do and they are insecure of themselves so all i do is i try to forget about them because seriously they really arent worth my time so i really dont give one for them and if they make fun of me and laugh i just laugh along with them and they will eventually give up

twilight rocks on April 10, 2009 10:07 AM

just leave them alone .(they do it becausethey are jelous of you)

twilight rocks on April 10, 2009 10:07 AM

just leave them alone .(they do it becausethey are jelous of you)

I just laugh at them,
means girls are gay, and they are just jealousss(:

When a mean girl is in my face i play two for two and get up in their face. If they want to be that way they can, but they better understand whats comin for 'em!

i ignore them. they're either jealous or jealous. or maybe they just want to see how you react to their "mean-ness". but ever take it personal.

i ignore them. they're either jealous or jealous. or maybe they just want to see how you react to their "mean-ness". but don't take it personal.

i ignore them. they're either jealous or jealous. or maybe they just want to see how you react to their "mean-ness". but don't take it personal.

sarah madrigal on April 10, 2009 9:30 PM

The best way would probably be turning the other cheek........but thats a little hard for me (i have BIG mouth)

well, i'll be censored here. i tell them to go get laid, even though that's impossible because they're dirt and ugly. they are the gum on the bottom of my shoe. and it's almost cute how they think they're important.

Just remember that you know who you are and you know your place. The only reason they're being haters is 'cause they're jealous. Just pick yourself up, brush it off and get on with life because in the long run you'll climb way higher than they ever will, and that makes it all worth it.

I don't bother myself with mean girls. I just ignore them. If they're close friends with me i try to talk it out and if they get mad I leave them alone for a while. Things usually cool off. Honestly i could care less what people think. I do what i think is right.

I don't bother myself with mean girls. I just ignore them. If they're close friends with me i try to talk it out and if they get mad I leave them alone for a while. Things usually cool off. Honestly i could care less what people think. I do what i think is right.

i deal with mean girls by by being mean to them its very easy

Well there's this mean girl at school her name is mackenzie and i well tell you how i deal with Her if she say's anything mean to me i just ignore her so shekept doing that and all i did was Just igoner her so she got tired of teasing me saying bad staff to me but then the next year We became really good friends so from this lesson what you learned is just ignore mean Girls/boys even though you feel really really bad in the inside.
bye

I just ingore them cause they just trying to get u mad.I just dnt let it get to me cause wht cumes around gones around n it iz true it really work give it a few days or so

I just ingore them.cause they just hurting there self by picking on other people .n like they say wht gonez around cumes around it really work

I just remember that God blessed me in a different style whenever they tease me.So, everyone, thank God 4 what you have and try not 2 let them get to you. =)

All I do is ignore them. I show them up and show that I won't break down no matter what. Once they acknowlege that. they see that they are no better than anyone else. Then they realize that when you think you are better than everyone else, everyone else is better than you because they don't tease or down on you.

do not let them get 2 u they most likely r jealous of who u r

do not let them get 2 u they most likely r jealous of who u r

steph is the best

I just punch them and fight them and I don't care what the schools say I will just say they did it. By the way try having 6 brothers and they pick on me a lot of time so I just fight them. And I was mad at my BF because he had another girlfriend so lets just say he was in the hospital.:)

P.S. he still wants to go out with me.

I waz raised 2 ignore them ( by dad) or punch them in the face and risk getting expelled ( by mom)

I waz raised 2 ignore them ( by dad) or punch them in the face and risk getting expelled ( by mom)

I waz raised 2 ignore them ( by dad) or punch them in the face and risk getting expelled ( by mom)

I waz raised 2 ignore them ( by dad) or punch them in the face and risk getting expelled ( by mom)

mary angeline on April 12, 2009 8:54 PM

i have some one who gives me a hard time and the way i deal with it i tell her to just let me have some time alone and she will
just go away most of the time but if she does not i talk it out nicely


love
MARY ANGELINE

mary angeline shaw on April 13, 2009 10:47 AM

u should just stay away from the person who is bothering you.

When it comes to means girls i just try to stand out of the way. Its not good to get in the mix because sometimes some pretty awful things are said. Sometimes if you just understand that most means girls are either jeolous or have some other issues that they have going on and are picking on other people to hide them. Its no exuse but sometimes if you looked in their position would you feel the same?

When it comes to means girls i just try to stand out of the way. Its not good to get in the mix because sometimes some pretty awful things are said. Sometimes if you just understand that most means girls are either jeolous or have some other issues that they have going on and are picking on other people to hide them. Its no exuse but sometimes if you looked in their position would you feel the same?

When it comes to means girls i just try to stand out of the way. Its not good to get in the mix because sometimes some pretty awful things are said. Sometimes if you just understand that most means girls are either jeolous or have some other issues that they have going on and are picking on other people to hide them. Its no exuse but sometimes if you looked in their position would you feel the same?

When it comes to means girls i just try to stand out of the way. Its not good to get in the mix because sometimes some pretty awful things are said. Sometimes if you just understand that most means girls are either jeolous or have some other issues that they have going on and are picking on other people to hide them. Its no exuse but sometimes if you looked in their position would you feel the same?

When it comes to means girls i just try to stand out of the way. Its not good to get in the mix because sometimes some pretty awful things are said. Sometimes if you just understand that most means girls are either jeolous or have some other issues that they have going on and are picking on other people to hide them. Its no exuse but sometimes if you looked in their position would you feel the same?

When it comes to means girls i just try to stand out of the way. Its not good to get in the mix because sometimes some pretty awful things are said. Sometimes if you just understand that most means girls are either jeolous or have some other issues that they have going on and are picking on other people to hide them. Its no exuse but sometimes if you looked in their position would you feel the same?

i just go with the flow b-cuz if they dont want to be my friend thats their loss because who wouldnt hang out with me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

i just go with the flow b-cuz if they dont want to be my friend thats their loss because who wouldnt hang out with me?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

how do i deal with mean grls? i dont let them phase me people like tht r just jealous anyways.

Rachel Letta on April 13, 2009 6:12 PM

Wow umm idk I just have some issues with a few girls at my school! HELP!

what can I do? just let them. words shouldn't hurt anyways.

i would tell them off! haha!!

and/or
ignore themm

What I would do is I would stick up for myself. Sometimes if it isn't that bad like someone starts to laugh at u and look at your clothes UP and Down then I just ignore it. But if someone is always picking on me and start to make up rumors or some of my secrets I ould stick up for myself and say, "LAY OFF PUNK!!! WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM?! YOU PICK ON ME EVERYDAY AND YOU ALWAYS MAKE ME LOOK BAD AND YOU LOOK GOOD. IF YOU DO THAT ALL THE TIME.TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD.YOU MUST BE DEPERATE TO LOOK GOOD. I DON"T NEED TO DO THAT CAUSE I ALREADY LOOK GOOD!!!........................................... THAT PATHETIC!!! GET A LIFE!!!!

Oh and my parents say thatif you try to touch me I can kick you right where it hurts because I have to try to defend myself and I don't think I will get in trouble the person that tried to hurt me would because I was just trying to defend myself..........................................................................................................................................WHAT?!

What I would do is I would stick up for myself. Sometimes if it isn't that bad like someone starts to laugh at u and look at your clothes UP and Down then I just ignore it. But if someone is always picking on me and start to make up rumors or some of my secrets I ould stick up for myself and say, "LAY OFF PUNK!!! WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM?! YOU PICK ON ME EVERYDAY AND YOU ALWAYS MAKE ME LOOK BAD AND YOU LOOK GOOD. IF YOU DO THAT ALL THE TIME.TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD.YOU MUST BE DEPERATE TO LOOK GOOD. I DON"T NEED TO DO THAT CAUSE I ALREADY LOOK GOOD!!!........................................... THAT PATHETIC!!! GET A LIFE!!!!"

Oh and my parents say thatif you try to touch me I can kick you right where it hurts because I have to try to defend myself and I don't think I will get in trouble the person that tried to hurt me would because I was just trying to defend myself..........................................................................................................................................WHAT?!

What I would do is I would stick up for myself. Sometimes if it isn't that bad like someone starts to laugh at u and look at your clothes UP and Down then I just ignore it. But if someone is always picking on me and start to make up rumors or some of my secrets I ould stick up for myself and say, "LAY OFF PUNK!!! WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM?! YOU PICK ON ME EVERYDAY AND YOU ALWAYS MAKE ME LOOK BAD AND YOU LOOK GOOD. IF YOU DO THAT ALL THE TIME.TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD.YOU MUST BE DEPERATE TO LOOK GOOD. I DON"T NEED TO DO THAT CAUSE I ALREADY LOOK GOOD!!!........................................... THAT PATHETIC!!! GET A LIFE!!!!"

Oh and my parents say thatif you try to touch me I can kick you right where it hurts because I have to try to defend myself and I don't think I will get in trouble the person that tried to hurt me would because I was just trying to defend myself..........................................................................................................................................WHAT?!

What I would do is I would stick up for myself. Sometimes if it isn't that bad like someone starts to laugh at u and look at your clothes UP and Down then I just ignore it. But if someone is always picking on me and start to make up rumors or some of my secrets I ould stick up for myself and say, "LAY OFF PUNK!!! WHAT THE HECK IS YOUR PROBLEM?! YOU PICK ON ME EVERYDAY AND YOU ALWAYS MAKE ME LOOK BAD AND YOU LOOK GOOD. IF YOU DO THAT ALL THE TIME.TRYING TO MAKE YOURSELF LOOK GOOD.YOU MUST BE DEPERATE TO LOOK GOOD. I DON"T NEED TO DO THAT CAUSE I ALREADY LOOK GOOD!!!........................................... THAT PATHETIC!!! GET A LIFE!!!!"

Oh and my parents say thatif you try to touch me I can kick you right where it hurts because I have to try to defend myself and I don't think I will get in trouble the person that tried to hurt me would because I was just trying to defend myself..........................................................................................................................................WHAT?!

You just ignore pitiful and sadistic people.
they are just trying to seem important, but it is very sad.The harmful incessant dribble that pours out of their mouths is always constant, so....just shove the truth down their scrawny throats.
The end.....

You just ignore pitiful and sadistic people.
they are just trying to seem important, but it is very sad.The harmful incessant dribble that pours out of their mouths is always constant, so....just shove the truth down their scrawny throats.
The end.....

You just ignore pitiful and sadistic people.
they are just trying to seem important, but it is very sad.The harmful incessant dribble that pours out of their mouths is always constant, so....just shove the truth down their scrawny throats.
The end.....

Mean girls are just people who think that they are better than u. Well news flash, Their not! They only make fun of people cuz they are insecure of their self. I just walk away or if its really bad i tell them to cut it out. They really cant do much to u if u stand up to them.

Mean girls are just people who think that they are better than u. Well news flash, Their not! They only make fun of people cuz they are insecure of their self. I just walk away or if its really bad i tell them to cut it out. They really cant do much to u if u stand up to them.

i dont deal with them.everyone knows not to push me over the edge or theyre done.so i know youre thinking im the mean girl but im so not.people are just smart when theyre around me

all of the older girls in my skewl try to ''intimidate'' me bt nah...i dnt wrk because i kno that they have smtn goin on & they dnt kno how to handle it.so i just keep goin on with my life.yeah at times when they say real f'd up things i get mad and yeah..[[a little hurt]] but i get over it!so maybe thats what we shuld all do...dnt u think?

How do I deal with mean girls? I ignore them.

Mean girls are just jealous of you, or they like causing other people pain. If they get into your face, get into theirs! It's something you can speak to an adult about, but thatb sometimes doesn't help. If you show your self-esteem and keep your head high, they should stop bugging you.

i have to deal wit buttholes every day

Japri Love on April 16, 2009 2:31 PM

I Defend Myself Because Im Not Scared Of Anybody And Im Not Going To Just Sit Around Being Bullied On Cuss People Dont Like Me Or Something! I Would Be Mean Back To Them And Thats All There Is To It.
-Sincerly, GorgeousThickREDBONE

just know im smarter!!!

Selena Gomez on April 16, 2009 6:08 PM

Wow Girls, I'm really surprised how you deal with your problems so calmly I'm really glad to see noone saying things like swearing or anything dramatic. Like most of you said, "Telling a teacher or adult is the right thing to do.'' Well it is and I am so proud of all of you!!!

Kisses, :*
Selena Gomez

I think the best thing to do when you have drama going on with mean girls(or even guys) at school is just to forget them and be yourself, like my mom says "Their the ones losing out" haha for real though, you shouldnt base everything on what they think... its their problem, not yours.

I think the best thing to do when you have drama going on with mean girls(or even guys) at school is just to forget them and be yourself, like my mom says "Their the ones losing out" haha for real though, you shouldnt base everything on what they think... its their problem, not yours.

lots of people luv me so i dont have 2 deal with that stuff....but there's this one girl(but no one likes her anyway so keep it in mind...) and she is mean but shes just jealous.

well i have issues with some girls at school but like my mom says why even give them the pleasure to upset me ! so i go my own way i have my friends they have theirs. simple as that because if you ignore them they'll leave you alone once they get it through there head that you not going to be intimidated just because they are so called "popular"

well i have issues with some girls at school but like my mom says why even give them the pleasure to upset me ! so i go my own way i have my friends they have theirs. simple as that because if you ignore them they'll leave you alone once they get it through there head that you not going to be intimidated just because they are so called "popular"

I just dont pay attention... that really kills them! hehe xD I have a lot of friends, and good friends to have fun and "a shoulder to cry on":). Life is too short to spend it on fights and anger(about the mean girls)....They're so not worth it...thats why I'm just peaceful :P

chavez davis on April 17, 2009 11:36 AM

i deal with mean girlsn like this i just don't let it get to me i just make them even madder by just doing me meang girls that just sum dumb stupid girls who probably are rich and they don't have nuthin better to do and they put the word h@te in H@t3rs ya heard love ya all even you hater
i love it when you hate it make me stronger that let me know that i got sumthing going on that you like cuz you took yo precious time to thinkof me that why i love mean girls holla v3zzy boo ya gurl:)_:)

chavez davis on April 17, 2009 11:37 AM

i deal with mean girlsn like this i just don't let it get to me i just make them even madder by just doing me meang girls that just sum dumb stupid girls who probably are rich and they don't have nuthin better to do and they put the word h@te in H@t3rs ya heard love ya all even you hater
i love it when you hate it make me stronger that let me know that i got sumthing going on that you like cuz you took yo precious time to thinkof me that why i love mean girls holla v3zzy boo ya gurl:)_:)

AbercrombieBabe! on April 17, 2009 4:02 PM

I'm popular but i'm not mean! So don't define someone as popular to be mean. The mean kids are the ones that are insecure and want to feel better. That can be any one in the school not just the popluar kids.

I just ignore them and if the problem dont go away on its own then you need to tell someone. dont tell someone right away because that will only make the girls more angry with you. If your school wont do anything about it then talk to your family and see if they can help you. If not then even if you dont want to and it comes down to it then fight and before that give them a warnning. most of the time they will back down if you stand up to them. If they fight in groups then say to them that its just me and the person you are having problems with.

Claire <33333 on April 17, 2009 6:53 PM

i don't avoid the person i hate, need a good laugh once in a while :)

Claire <33333 on April 17, 2009 6:53 PM

i don't avoid the person i hate, i need a good laugh once in a while :)

Claire <33333 on April 17, 2009 6:53 PM

i don't avoid the person i hate, i need a good laugh once in a while :)

i ignorethem then if they want to talk back t me i stand up for myself

i ignore them then if they want to talk back tome i stand up for myself

i ignore them then if they want to talk back to me i stand up for myself

i ignore them then if they want to talk back to me i stand up for myself

ignore them

Well in my school, there are a lot of people who are being so mean to my friends and some of them are just two-faced. But i dont really stress about it because i could care less about what they think... theyre just doing that because they dont have anything better to do with their lives.

i don't mind if they just do something like tell people i'm weird or trip me in front of my crush. but if they do something like call me something or make a hole in my water bottle and make it look like i peed then i won't go down with out a fight. i'll maybe just tell them the turth like, "no one likes you. you might just think they do but thats only because they fear you. some peolpe hang out with you because you make them." then if they keep on bugging me i just tell my mother. she's a teacher and can tell the princapal so that everyone knows not to mess with me.

I think that if your having a problem with mean girls(bullies) than you should ignore them and if they keep bothering you to talk it out with them maybe theres something going on with them and they feel they have no-one to come to and after that if they keep bothering you than standup for yourself, but hopefully it won't have to come to violence. It's like I tell my friends why listen to someone who has nothing better to do with their time then spread rumors or I guess in this case scenario bully others

I think that if your having a problem with mean girls(bullies) than you should ignore them and if they keep bothering you to talk it out with them maybe theres something going on with them and they feel they have no-one to come to and after that if they keep bothering you than standup for yourself, but hopefully it won't have to come to violence. It's like I tell my friends why listen to someone who has nothing better to do with their time then spread rumors or I guess in this case scenario bully others

I think that if your having a problem with mean girls(bullies) than you should ignore them and if they keep bothering you to talk it out with them maybe theres something going on with them and they feel they have no-one to come to and after that if they keep bothering you than standup for yourself, but hopefully it won't have to come to violence. It's like I tell my friends why listen to someone who has nothing better to do with their time then spread rumors or I guess in this case scenario bully others

I think that if your having a problem with mean girls(bullies) than you should ignore them and if they keep bothering you to talk it out with them maybe theres something going on with them and they feel they have no-one to come to and after that if they keep bothering you than standup for yourself, but hopefully it won't have to come to violence. It's like I tell my friends why listen to someone who has nothing better to do with their time then spread rumors or I guess in this case scenario bully others

Revenge That Is All I Can Say Is Revenge

mean girls are people that can not get
over there self and think they are alll that.
i deal with them by ignoring them because some point in there life nobody is going to like them (if they dont already)

mean girls are people that can not get
over there self and think they are alll that.
i deal with them by ignoring them because some point in there life nobody is going to like them (if they dont already)

the mean girl at my school is like the queen she asked my bf to the dance and he said yes then they started dating and told the school that she is a whole lot better then me then madeout with him in front of me so i kissed him back

I just ignore them but sometimes i have to admit i slip and yell back at them i get so upset but i manage because i know with an attitude like that they will never make it anywhere in life. =)

I JUST CRACK A JOKE THAT I KNOW ABOUT THEM CUZ I KNOW IT HURTS CUZ THEY HAVE TOLD ME ABOUT!!! HA HA HA HA JUST KIDDIN CUZ I JUST LEAVE IT ALONE UNLESS IT GETS SERIOUS IF IT DEZ SELF DEFENSE WORKS

mean girls? puh-leez! they barely exist!!

they always make me cry but im tryin hard to ignore them but its HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

my friend told me the wierdest thing the other day..s ome one hates me cuz im too nice......... ?

I would just ignore them and if it gets worse, then I will tell someone. I have a social worker at my school and i will tell her and she will write it down and we would talk about ways we could ignore them. And if she doesn't help and they still be mean to me and then i will either laugh it off or be mean back.

I would just ignore them and if it gets worse, then I will tell someone. I have a social worker at my school and i will tell her and she will write it down and we would talk about ways we could ignore them. And if she doesn't help and they still be mean to me and then i will either laugh it off or be mean back.

I would just ignore them and if it gets worse, then I will tell someone. I have a social worker at my school and i will tell her and she will write it down and we would talk about ways we could ignore them. And if she doesn't help and they still be mean to me and then i will either laugh it off or be mean back.

I have been bullied alot of times and so have many other girls but one thing i learned is to ignore them and to not show any emotion like crying or screaming because then they will just keep coming back to you to get a rise out of you...There are some really mean people out there and obviously they don't know anything because if they think or talk so low about you there obviously low themselves so i always remember to not care what they think because their opinion doesn't matter.

Actually, us "mean girls" don't always do it because we are jealous or whatever it is you all think.Some of us do it just because we can and it gives us something to do. And if a girl is "mean" to me I am right back. People don't intimidate me.

i don't care much bout haters cause i am the alpha female of a "Pretty Committie" and i don't humilate people so which alpha should :) :( =:)

i don't care much bout haters cause i am the alpha female of a "Pretty Committie" and i don't humilate people so which alpha should :) :( =:)

Ok you girls want adivce message me (message me for any adivce) GIRLS ONLY!!
bff_lily07@hotmail.com

I know there are so many mean girls out there but 1 tip girls forget about them and just be yourself. They have nothing to do with you. But if it gets over control I gotta say that you have to stand up for yourself. If you do they will know that you can still do something. But if have a bigger problem message me. I have a newspaper and I'm in advice collum so I have some experience I guess. Well anyways Stay True and Stay Yourself! :D

MESSAGE ME IF NEEDED. :D

Ok you girls want adivce message me (message me for any adivce) GIRLS ONLY!!
bff_lily07@hotmail.com

I know there are so many mean girls out there but 1 tip girls forget about them and just be yourself. They have nothing to do with you. But if it gets over control I gotta say that you have to stand up for yourself. If you do they will know that you can still do something. But if have a bigger problem message me. I have a newspaper and I'm in advice collum so I have some experience I guess. Well anyways Stay True and Stay Yourself! :D

MESSAGE ME IF NEEDED. :D

What I do when girls are mean to me?
Well , no girl is really mean to me but
sometimes my friends get me really mad!
Example : This one day , I wad getting
ignored from everyone! Sooo then I got
mad and I told them off. Then they
realize that they were a bad friend soo
yeeep. :)

What I do when girls are mean to me?
Well , no girl is really mean to me but
sometimes my friends get me really mad!
Example : This one day , I wad getting
ignored from everyone! Sooo then I got
mad and I told them off. Then they
realize that they were a bad friend soo
yeeep. :)

I once poored milk ALL over the little skanks! I also put a smelly wax in their purfume bottle and even told them that chocolate was a proven weight loss suplement so they gained A heck of A LOT of weight.
so I said to those little Skunkbags "Ouch gained a few pounds?" They cried all week Good for those little SCUM BAGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I once poored milk ALL over the little skanks! I also put a smelly wax in their purfume bottle and even told them that chocolate was a proven weight loss suplement so they gained A heck of A LOT of weight.
so I said to those little Skunkbags "Ouch gained a few pounds?" They cried all week Good for those little SCUM BAGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i just remember that im as good as i can be and i feel 100% confidint about myself. I dont care what other people think of me! I ignore bullys... ALL OF THEM!

HAVE ANY ADVICE?
E-MAIL ME AT bff_lily07@hotmail.com
I WILL E-MAIL YUH BACK SOON

Mean girls are stupid cause they just pick on you because they're probably jealous.

HAVE ANY ADVICE?
E-MAIL ME AT bff_lily07@hotmail.com
I WILL E-MAIL YUH BACK SOON

Mean girls are stupid cause they just pick on you because they're probably jealous.

HAVE ANY ADVICE?
E-MAIL ME AT bff_lily07@hotmail.com
I WILL E-MAIL YUH BACK SOON

Mean girls are stupid cause they just pick on you because they're probably jealous.

Well first of all ignore them. Sencond I would try to look better them at all times and never worry about what they have to say.

Sarah Haack on April 26, 2009 2:37 PM

Me and my friends took there stuff and through it all over the locker room it was soo funny and now they leave us alone :)

Amelia LaFleur on April 26, 2009 3:42 PM

I am not the most popular girl at school,i am bullied!!! this one girl (lets call her ''b'') is really popular and she hates me more than the devil!!!!! she is really snoby and stupid!!!! she gets everything just because her mom's a teacher!! she picks on me ,and frankly, i don't care because all she wants is attention!!!! so i gave her some; i went up to her and said " I don't care if you pick on me 'cause all ou are is a BULLY!!!!'' the next day, she didn't pick on me!!!!! so all you do is tell them that you don't care!!!!!
-Amelia .M. L.

Amelia LaFleur on April 26, 2009 3:43 PM

I am not the most popular girl at school,i am bullied!!! this one girl (lets call her ''b'') is really popular and she hates me more than the devil!!!!! she is really snoby and stupid!!!! she gets everything just because her mom's a teacher!! she picks on me ,and frankly, i don't care because all she wants is attention!!!! so i gave her some; i went up to her and said " I don't care if you pick on me 'cause all ou are is a BULLY!!!!'' the next day, she didn't pick on me!!!!! so all you do is tell them that you don't care!!!!!
-Amelia .M. L.

Mean girls r funny their just insecure and want 2 make ppl feel bad just ignore them and laugh when they try to make u feel bad. who cares at least u actually have FRIENDS!

totalfan98<3 on April 26, 2009 7:46 PM

i wood just be mean bak! they were mean to u, so y not revenge?

totalfan98<3 on April 26, 2009 7:47 PM

i wood just be mean bak! they were mean to u, so y not revenge?

elizabeth on April 26, 2009 9:18 PM

i am emo and i get picked on all the time. like today my and friend and her frinds were outside and my little brothers was getting picked on so i when to my friends friends and i told not to pick on my little brother. but she just hit me. and when i am in school and i am walking in the halls i hear people talking about me and how i walk. but i just try and go around them and walk far ahead of them.

Well I would keep ignore her until she stops. I still fight back sometimes. But If she keeps insulting me, I would tell a teacher

Well I would keep ignore her until she stops. I still fight back sometimes. But If she keeps insulting me, I would tell a teacher

NICHOLE GONZALEZ on April 27, 2009 1:25 PM

I DON'T TAKE IT I JUST GET UP AND GO OVER THERE AND START TALKING STUFF BAKK.

LYK "DUDE BACK OFF UNLESS YOU STILL WANT UR FRONT TEETH."

(L@t3rz R@WK ON PPL)

NICHOLE GONZALEZ on April 27, 2009 1:26 PM

I DON'T TAKE IT I JUST GET UP AND GO OVER THERE AND START TALKING STUFF BAKK.

LYK "DUDE BACK OFF UNLESS YOU STILL WANT UR FRONT TEETH."

(L@t3rz R@WK ON PPL)

*MIRANDA* on April 27, 2009 4:37 PM

HEY U HAVE 2 STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AND DON'T LET YOUR FRIENDS GET BETWEEN U OR U WILL HAVE 2 WALK AWAY BCE OF THEM INSTEAD U WANT 2 TELL YOUR FREINDS U GOT IT AND TRUST U THAT YOU WILL WALK AWAY WHEN IT GETS 2 ROUGH OUR UNTIL THEY WALK AWAY LIMPING !!!!ALSO IF THEY MAKE FUN OF YOUR FRIENDS MAKE FUN OF THEM FOR THEM AND MAYBE THEY WILL TRY TO HELP U EMBARASSED THEM INSTEAD OF THEM EMBARASSING U SO GOOD LUCK AND DON'T LET MEAN AND DISGUISTING PEOPLE IN YOUR PUT U DOWN SO BAD THAT U WANT 2 KILL YOURSELF OR HARMFUL TO OTHER PEOPLE AND THATS NOT A GGOD THING AT ALL SO PUT THEM DOWN !!!!

Cheyenne ~T.J~ on April 27, 2009 7:30 PM

If a girls talking stuff about you or one of your bubs do what I do ask them why their talking about you or you can just sock them one. like this one girl at my school she was calling my names because im not white I asked her why she said because she can so I hit her a few times my friends had to pull me off I was so mad. I would call her a mean girl

ay ppl im just sayin yeh there's sme "mean" girls nd there r "jkin mean" girls like me im not mean 2 any one x cept meh friends nd they know we b mezzin round with each other so yah i hope u guys b hatin on mean girls not ur frendz if they went 2 far tell em that the jk was 2 much and not to strt on the sft subj. anymore
just a piece of my mind dnt tell me im wrong plez im just sayin wat i think say ur opinion not hatin mine ;]

XOXO,
asziian babii :]

ay ppl im just sayin yeh there's sme "mean" girls nd there r "jkin mean" girls like me im not mean 2 any one x cept meh friends nd they know we b mezzin round with each other so yah i hope u guys b hatin on mean girls not ur frendz if they went 2 far tell em that the jk was 2 much and not to strt on the sft subj. anymore
just a piece of my mind dnt tell me im wrong plez im just sayin wat i think say ur opinion not hatin mine ;]

XOXO,
asziian babii :]

ay ppl im just sayin yeh there's sme "mean" girls nd there r "jkin mean" girls like me im not mean 2 any one x cept meh friends nd they know we b mezzin round with each other so yah i hope u guys b hatin on mean girls not ur frendz if they went 2 far tell em that the jk was 2 much and not to strt on the sft subj. anymore
just a piece of my mind

meg justison on April 28, 2009 2:34 PM

i just egnor them and move on with my life and if they are picking on me i just walk away from them and if they follow me i tell a teacher

just blow them off there just jealous of you some of you my deni that and say "yea right" or "theres nothing to be jealous of of corse there is. like me for exsample im chubby and not very pretty but the mean girl at my school is jealous of my bff and that my perents are still together. if they get on your nerves and you just whant to punch them dont cuz their not worth it.

just blow them off there just jealous of you some of you my deni that and say "yea right" or "theres nothing to be jealous of" of corse there is. like me for exsample im chubby and not very pretty but the mean girl at my school is jealous of my bff and that my perents are still together. if they get on your nerves and you just whant to punch them dont cuz their not worth it.

i luv twilight on April 28, 2009 5:45 PM

well me and my friends call them the "6-clique" and they r so annoying! they're "cool" but they act like idiots! i bet at any normal school anywhere else they would be total freaks. for example they spit on eachother and put snot on eachother and they r just plain disgusting and eat like pigs and they are so mean 2 eachother! but they dont rly make fun of me (prolly only becuz me and their leader (whom they now worship like she's a GODDESS) used to be BFF's b4 we got to high school and she totally got too cool for me but she's not mean she just ignores me but its cool cuz im rly glad im not in that clique!!! they think their the coolest ppl in school but all the kids hate them and get so sick of them and yet somehow they r still popular cuz ppl r afraid of them spreding rumors or something. i love my friends and i know out of my friends and them, my friends are the ones who will grow up to be somebody and not just a sl*t! I know who's rly better and thats all that matters is that i know that me and my friends r perfect the way we are and we're not uncool cuz we dont hang out with the "popular" kids.

i luv twilight on April 28, 2009 5:45 PM

well me and my friends call them the "6-clique" and they r so annoying! they're "cool" but they act like idiots! i bet at any normal school anywhere else they would be total freaks. for example they spit on eachother and put snot on eachother and they r just plain disgusting and eat like pigs and they are so mean 2 eachother! but they dont rly make fun of me (prolly only becuz me and their leader (whom they now worship like she's a GODDESS) used to be BFF's b4 we got to high school and she totally got too cool for me but she's not mean she just ignores me but its cool cuz im rly glad im not in that clique!!! they think their the coolest ppl in school but all the kids hate them and get so sick of them and yet somehow they r still popular cuz ppl r afraid of them spreding rumors or something. i love my friends and i know out of my friends and them, my friends are the ones who will grow up to be somebody and not just a sl*t! I know who's rly better and thats all that matters is that i know that me and my friends r perfect the way we are and we're not uncool cuz we dont hang out with the "popular" kids.

i luv twilight on April 28, 2009 5:52 PM

well me and my friends call them the "6-clique" and they r so annoying! they're "cool" but they act like idiots! i bet at any normal school anywhere else they would be total freaks. for example they spit on eachother and put snot on eachother and they r just plain disgusting and eat like pigs and they are so mean 2 eachother! but they dont rly make fun of me (prolly only becuz me and their leader (whom they now worship like she's a GODDESS) used to be BFF's b4 we got to high school and she totally got too cool for me but she's not mean she just ignores me but its cool cuz im rly glad im not in that clique!!! they think their the coolest ppl in school but all the kids hate them and get so sick of them and yet somehow they r still popular cuz ppl r afraid of them spreding rumors or something. i love my friends and i know out of my friends and them, my friends are the ones who will grow up to be somebody and not just a sl*t! I know who's rly better and thats all that matters is that i know that me and my friends r perfect the way we are and we're not uncool cuz we dont hang out with the "popular" kids.

I say people should make fun of them trust me these girls like this won't budge unless you do something!

I say people should make fun of them trust me these girls like this won't budge unless you do something! Or SOCK EM IN DA FACE!

I say people should make fun of them trust me these girls like this won't budge unless you do something! Or SOCK EM IN DA FACE!

tell someone it can never hurt

You just have to know that they think that they can take advantage of you, stand up for yourself, or just ignore them because soon they'll see that you're no fun to bother because you don't care. Also, tell the principal and they'll get into serious trouble because no school tolerates bullying.

wow. this seems so easy to me. but i feel bad for others. hopefully they can figure it out soon. all you need to do is ignore it and walk away. if they're being mean forget about it, and your true friends will back you up. fighting is NOT the answer. neither is cursing them out. just forget about it and pretend they never existed in your life. simple as that.

wow. this seems so easy to me. but i feel bad for others. hopefully they can figure it out soon. all you need to do is ignore it and walk away. if they're being mean forget about it, and your true friends will back you up. fighting is NOT the answer. neither is cursing them out. just forget about it and pretend they never existed in your life. simple as that.

JUST IGNORE THEM!!!!!!

When I went to school in East Chicago IN there were these to girls Ester and Beanac . Ester hate me because her boyfriend Carlos loved me . Mean girls are mean because their jelious of you for whatever reason it's their problem not yours even if they make it seem like it's yours.

Olivia Nixon on April 29, 2009 6:15 PM

Just forget about them...if they're being mean to you then they're probabley jealous of you or something. You should know who your real friends are. Don't let someone ruin your day by being mean to you! Sometimes consulting people or confrunting the bully really helps but if that doesn't do anything then tell a parent or a teacher...but try not to make it seem like your tattling because then the bully will know that he/she has gotten to you and they know that they have won!

LAKONJA FREEMAN on April 29, 2009 7:19 PM

I WILL TELL THEM TO LEVE ME A LON

I use to cry all night because of mean girls, but then i figured out that it's my LIFE I won't suck all the fun out of it because of them! Let it go, take aq deep breathe and count to ten... that'll make it better! And I never forget "friends" some and go all the time, but only TRUE ones will stay with you, no matter what!

Anicia Cullen on April 29, 2009 9:28 PM

I dont usually have to deal with the "mean girls" because I hang out with them. Most people who hear about this automaticaly title me with them as a "mean girl." The thing is I hang out with them to try and get them to overcome their problems. I never actually say that to them but when they talk about stuff they do that is bad I try to discourage them and let them know how bad it is to be doing that thing. (aka smoking, drinking, cutting, stealing, bullying....) When they start saying mean things to people I try to tell them things like, "Give her a break she cant help the way she was born." or "It's not her fault her family cant afford to dress nicer." things that will let them see, oh you know what, ur right! I cant beleive I was so mean. I never thought of it that way. Doing things like I do can make a big difference. I have gotten girls to quit doing a lot of "bad things" and to be nicer. One of the best things is to know that I have actually made people realize that suicide is not the way to go. Every time I help someone I feel good about what I am doing to help them and their friends and family. I would do it all a million times over, even with the lables!

Anicia Cullen on April 29, 2009 9:29 PM

I dont usually have to deal with the "mean girls" because I hang out with them. Most people who hear about this automaticaly title me with them as a "mean girl." The thing is I hang out with them to try and get them to overcome their problems. I never actually say that to them but when they talk about stuff they do that is bad I try to discourage them and let them know how bad it is to be doing that thing. (aka smoking, drinking, cutting, stealing, bullying....) When they start saying mean things to people I try to tell them things like, "Give her a break she cant help the way she was born." or "It's not her fault her family cant afford to dress nicer." things that will let them see, oh you know what, ur right! I cant beleive I was so mean. I never thought of it that way. Doing things like I do can make a big difference. I have gotten girls to quit doing a lot of "bad things" and to be nicer. One of the best things is to know that I have actually made people realize that suicide is not the way to go. Every time I help someone I feel good about what I am doing to help them and their friends and family. I would do it all a million times over, even with the lables!

At school, most of the time the girls are mean because they want attention, you have something that they want, or just trying to show off. I'm sure most people go at it the wrong way, like getting them back or becoming the mean girl themselves. What I would do if someone was being mean or harassing me is to just listen to what they have to say and try not to react or even laugh it off. Just be polite to them and don't let your real feeling's get out of control when you have the urge to punch them or get mean back. They want your reaction and when you're nice to them, they're shocked. Eventually, they'll get tired of it or even bored. baha don't make it too obvious though ;)

At school, most of the time the girls are mean because they want attention, you have something that they want, or just trying to show off. I'm sure most people go at it the wrong way, like getting them back or becoming the mean girl themselves. What I would do if someone was being mean or harassing me is to just listen to what they have to say and try not to react or even laugh it off. Just be polite to them and don't let your real feeling's get out of control when you have the urge to punch them or get mean back. They want your reaction and when you're nice to them, they're shocked. Eventually, they'll get tired of it or even bored. baha don't make it too obvious though ;)

At school, most of the time the girls are mean because they want attention, you have something that they want, or just trying to show off. I'm sure most people go at it the wrong way, like getting them back or becoming the mean girl themselves. What I would do if someone was being mean or harassing me is to just listen to what they have to say and try not to react or even laugh it off. Just be polite to them and don't let your real feeling's get out of control when you have the urge to punch them or get mean back. They want your reaction and when you're nice to them, they're shocked. Eventually, they'll get tired of it or even bored. baha don't make it too obvious though ;)

At school, most of the time the girls are mean because they want attention, you have something that they want, or just trying to show off. I'm sure most people go at it the wrong way, like getting them back or becoming the mean girl themselves. What I would do if someone was being mean or harassing me is to just listen to what they have to say and try not to react or even laugh it off. Just be polite to them and don't let your real feeling's get out of control when you have the urge to punch them or get mean back. They want your reaction and when you're nice to them, they're shocked. Eventually, they'll get tired of it or even bored. baha don't make it too obvious though ;)

I love to act! So when I get down or upset about something, for example, when people or mean to me, I use those emotions in my monologues or a character I play in a play or musical. It's best for me not to force my emotions on the other one and plus my acting skills improve! :]

I love to act! So when I get down or upset about something, for example, when people or mean to me, I use those emotions in my monologues or a character I play in a play or musical. It's best for me not to force my emotions on the other one and plus my acting skills improve! :]

I dunno, depends on what they do, sometimes I'll fight back a little or I'll just ignore them and be like whatever I don't care.

I deal with mean girls by getting even. But I do try to have some restraint. If I don't get even I ignore them and talk about them behind there backs to my friends. Even if I don't say something mean about I pretend like I do to make them nervous because that's what they do to other people so it really is just a taste of their own medicine.

I don't let them get to me. Im a veryy upbeat person and so people don't like me because of that. I say their just jealous and if they don't like me then thats just their fault. I don't find myself in any label or whatever, I just find myself fun to be around. If they don't like me then I can't help it. They just need to get over themselves and grow up.

I don't let them get to me. Im a veryy upbeat person and so people don't like me because of that. I say their just jealous and if they don't like me then thats just their fault. I don't find myself in any label or whatever, I just find myself fun to be around. If they don't like me then I can't help it. They just need to get over themselves and grow up.

most people will say to stand up for your self...i've grown up to learn that fighting isnt always the answer. if someone wants to say something to yu they can say it to yur face. yu dnt need to start yelling at them just agree with them. once yu agree with them they have nothing to say. the only reason that they talk about you is because they have nothing else to do with their lives so they want to ruin someone elses. DNT LET THT SOMEONE BE YOU

most people will say to stand up for your self...i've grown up to learn that fighting isnt always the answer. if someone wants to say something to yu they can say it to yur face. yu dnt need to start yelling at them just agree with them. once yu agree with them they have nothing to say. the only reason that they talk about you is because they have nothing else to do with their lives so they want to ruin someone elses. DNT LET THT SOMEONE BE YOU

my friends and i think of da mean girls like clowns cuz they stick there butts out and put on to much make-up!!!!:)they always look at us like we r lil plp but when they saw a bug they screamed

They just want all the attention they can get
if u ignore them they will leave u alone if not then they have nothing better to do with their life and the only way they can get attention is being mean. They dont know how to be nice
dont let them get to you

hope that helps
x

They just want all the attention they can get
if u ignore them they will leave u alone if not then they have nothing better to do with their life and the only way they can get attention is being mean. They dont know how to be nice
dont let them get to you

hope that helps
x

They just want all the attention they can get
if u ignore them they will leave u alone if not then they have nothing better to do with their life and the only way they can get attention is being mean. They dont know how to be nice
dont let them get to you

hope that helps
x

If there is a mean girl in my school (which there is) and she's bothering me i'll tell her off in front of everyone!!!! it always makes people feel power less if you show some type of deffence!!!

I just let them talk who cares what they think like Rhianna says "jus live you life" haha most of them just do it because no one gives them attention or there just jealous of what there not.

theres a lot of mean hateful preps in my school. the best way to deal with them is to just ignore them and try to kill them with kindess. ive done that before it worked for a little while but i am getting out of that school asap so that i can go to a christian school

Mrs.Edward Cullen on May 3, 2009 3:18 PM

I would just be mean back then maybe they would leave you alone.Plus what r they going to do strt a war please just stand up for yourself and they will leave u alone!!!!!

mean people in genarel get embaresd esely so they be mean to act like they dont care

There is this one girl at my school she`s a total brat. She thinks she rules the school.She makes fun of me and my friends
we just tell her to leave us alone.She backed off for about a month, now shes back to her old ways and will not leave us
alone.I think the only reason shes bugging us is because i changed my hair color.My friends think its because there`s
more of us.I don`t know.I just tell her to bug off.

There is this one girl at my school she`s a total brat. She thinks she rules the school.She makes fun of me and my friends
we just tell her to leave us alone.She backed off for about a month, now shes back to her old ways and will not leave us
alone.I think the only reason shes bugging us is because i changed my hair color.My friends think its because there`s
more of us.I don`t know.I just tell her to bug off.

bEyOnCe KnOwElS fAn #1 on May 4, 2009 4:28 AM

I don't really have to deal with the mean girls cuz I hang out with them! There is this one girl Tayla McCardle and she is real mean not to me but to every one else! Once she took a turn on me and I just backfired everything! So then she started telling my friend Hana Cenedy to tell me messages that she wanted to say to me and one of them was the middle finger so I said right back at ya!

Lindsay on May 4, 2009 5:02 PM

I lettum have a piece of me. In words of courae tho. lol.

They are just ppl who have problems and take it out on other ppl who rnt like em.
i just completely ignore them, and if that doesnt work i stand up for myself cuz they shouldnt be treeting otha ppl likke that.

They are just ppl who have problems and take it out on other ppl who rnt like em.
i just completely ignore them, and if that doesnt work i stand up for myself cuz they shouldnt be treeting otha ppl likke that.

They are just ppl who have problems and take it out on other ppl who rnt like em.
i just completely ignore them, and if that doesnt work i stand up for myself cuz they shouldnt be treeting otha ppl likke that.

They are just ppl who have problems and take it out on other ppl who rnt like em.
i just completely ignore them, and if that doesnt work i stand up for myself cuz they shouldnt be treeting otha ppl likke that.

Sometimes for me it is not mean girls it is mean boys.The boys always push me around and make fun of me.Oddly I am smaller then the boys,but I am stronger then them.For the girls they are all like why would you where sneakers and not high heels.I just ignore them and be myself.

just ignore them
i have never had a mean girl expeirece
but i know kinda hiw it feels
and everyone lokes them better cuz their
popular and stuff
but who cares
im not very popular but i bet i have more friends than some of those mean girls out their
my message is :just b urself

just ignore them
i have never had a mean girl expeirece
but i know kinda how it feels
and everyone likes them better cuz their
popular and stuff
but who cares
im not very popular but i bet i have more friends than some of those mean girls out their
my message is :just b urself

destiny on May 5, 2009 6:20 PM

I was always told that mean girls are just jelous people. Or that they are insecure about themselves. We have all been there and witnested mean girls and their catty fights. I think that every girl has been jelous and has been hurt by other jelous girls(wether that is emotionaly or phisicaly). I think to even be a girl you have to understand that there are other girls out there that want compitition. Karma doesnt always come back to them like in the fairy tail movies and books were the evil people get killed or get in prison..sometimes there are girls out there that always get there way around everything. We have to learn to ignore all mean girls. Remember: they are just jelous.

destiny on May 5, 2009 6:21 PM

I was always told that mean girls are just jelous people. Or that they are insecure about themselves. We have all been there and witnested mean girls and their catty fights. I think that every girl has been jelous and has been hurt by other jelous girls(wether that is emotionaly or phisicaly). I think to even be a girl you have to understand that there are other girls out there that want compitition. Karma doesnt always come back to them like in the fairy tail movies and books were the evil people get killed or get in prison..sometimes there are girls out there that always get there way around everything. We have to learn to ignore all mean girls. Remember: they are just jelous.

katelyn on May 5, 2009 7:16 PM

omg theres a really mean girl at my school and she hits me and my friends we hate it and she yells and curses at us so we hit her and curses at her back and she tells and gess what she allmost broke a girls neck by pulling her hair really hard just because the girl shuved in to her

katelyn on May 5, 2009 7:16 PM

omg theres a really mean girl at my school and she hits me and my friends we hate it and she yells and curses at us so we hit her and curses at her back and she tells and gess what she allmost broke a girls neck by pulling her hair really hard just because the girl shuved in to her

the way i deal is come back with something mean and witty. This one girl said ashley the reason i don't like is ur attitude so i said the reason i don't like you is ur face..... she hasn't botherd me sense.

Rachelle on May 5, 2009 9:15 PM

I would defend myself !! Like at school last week the mean girl came up to me and said so how was ur weekend...did you puke all over ur clothes....Oh wait they are ugly so whats the point of puking on them. Then I said '' At least my clothes look better then your face. I mean who would want to talk to that big pimple on ur face. Oh wait the pimple is ur face oops. I guess not all of us can have a pretty face. Oh and dont worry no one has a body like urs who is plastic ok barbie( SHES A BLONDE) and if you have a problem with me i dont care. I dont care if you think stupids things about me because it cant be as half bad as what i think about you. then she walked away really mad !!

MercedesIsDown:DD on May 6, 2009 3:06 AM

i admit some times i can be a mean girl but then i aapologize but girls are going to be mean they have low self estem ignore them and if they threaten to beat you up tell them i dare you to touch me aand stand up for your self or just ignore them

alexandria hernandez texas girl that love jonas brothers on May 6, 2009 5:27 PM

How i deal with mean girls? well its hard to deal with that problem but there is a way you can solve it.its to tell them to stop being mean or just beat them up lol

Stand your ground don't let them walk all over you

I just ignore them,because if you respond to them it will just lead to a fight.

yes all the time on the bus i mean me and my bff people were pulling her hair calling her like ugly and dry skin and hair but i deal with theem to because people talk about me and my family and one night i was out side playing jail break and this one girl tried to beat me up she is like in 7th grade im only in fourth and she is like real tall like two feet taller than me

yes all the time on the bus i mean me and my bff people were pulling her hair calling her like ugly and dry skin and hair but i deal with theem to because people talk about me and my family and one night i was out side playing jail break and this one girl tried to beat me up she is like in 7th grade im only in fourth and she is like real tall like two feet taller than me and my daddy was going to hit her with a crow bar cuz she pushed me and i sprained my ankle

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