Are Your Parents Divorced?

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If your parents are divorced, or you know someone whose parents are divorced, how have you/they dealt with it? Share your stories below!

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yes.... :(

Yes my sisters parents got divorced.

YES. And I'd NEVER seen it coming. They just seemed like such the perfect couple, but..... I guess they werent :(

It took me FOREVER to get over it....then my dad married somebody else!!!!!...and I'm STILL getting over THAT.

brittany on May 14, 2009 4:57 PM

yes but i live with it and i live with my mom and go with my father i have the best of bothe worlds

Christine on May 14, 2009 4:59 PM

Yes... they've been divorced since I was 8 (I'm 15 now), so I'm over it... it's a lot harder on my little brother though. Ever since my dad moved to Argentina, he's having a pretty hard time with it... :(

No, my parents aren't divorced and I think I'm very lucky to have parents who love each other. I have lots of friends who have divorced parents though.

yes, my parents r divorced and ive been waiting for that to happen mylife 2 years was horrible and then my mom fouled for devorce and it got worse and now its better but i live with my mom not my dad and i dont like my dad alot of ppl say i shouldnt say that but ppl dont now wat ive been through and its rough and i wont ever forget

yes, my parents r divorced and ive been waiting for that to happen mylife 2 years was horrible and then my mom fouled for devorce and it got worse and now its better but i live with my mom not my dad and i dont like my dad alot of ppl say i shouldnt say that but ppl dont now wat ive been through and its rough and i wont ever forget and no 1 will pobaly understand my life but i am happy my parernts got a divorced

No and if were to i would probably runaway

no, but i definitley have major sympathy with people who do have divorced parents. even though its a common problem, its stressful and it honestly shouldnt be common at all. you should definitley make sure your feelings are true. almost all my friends have divorced parents. its sad and hard but its also a learning experience.

No, But my best friend's is. When they got a divorce she like shut down on everybody! She tried to run away and live with me. But at the time we were only 11! So I felt really bad for her!!

actuallly yah most of my friends parents are divorced they kinda like it cause they get 2 rooms and LOTS OF MONEY SOMTIMES! X2 allowence! it aint so bad i guess... :P

my parents are divorced and i havent seen my dad in 3 years!!!!!!

yes sadly my parents are divourced! i really hate it, i mean traveling form mom to dad!!!! And my mom's bf is really mean person, he blames me for anything, and even things i didn't do! i really hate that my parents are divourced!

yes sadly my parents are divourced! i really hate it, i mean traveling form mom to dad!!!! And my mom's bf is really mean person, he blames me for anything, and even things i didn't do! i really hate that my parents are divourced!

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dominique on May 14, 2009 7:51 PM

my parents split when i was five. i was hard but it was even harder when they were together.

YES and im kind of happy. it sounds bad but they are happy:) and thats what matters

Yes and im happy. it sounds bad but they are happy and thats what matters

my dad is remarried to someone i can trust and i LOVE my step-sister........Emilyyyyyyyy:]

my mommy is dating a REALLY nice guy who is taking us to flordia this summer

i know it might seen like its the end of the world
;[ TRUST ME it ISNT its the start of a new life and eventually you will be suprised that you love that new life

PEace ANd lOVe

twilight<3er on May 14, 2009 9:11 PM

You know, my parents aren't divorced. And I'm really happy about that. It's really great because they've almost been married for 20 years. It's really cool.

But, I do know some people who have divorced parents, and I feel really sorry for them. It's 3 little kids and they have a split family now. Their Mom is remarried and I think that their Dad is too. I just think it's sad to see families split up like that. It's almost like the kids are being divorced, too, because they have to live with a different Mom or Dad.

Anyway, I just wanted to say, that I feel really sorry for you guys who's parents have been divorced. I know that it must be hard.

But, for those of you who are loving the new guy or woman that your Mom or Dad is dating, that's great. :)

So, I guess that's all I have to say!!!

~twilight :)

No, they arent. THANK GOD!!!!! i dont kno how i would cope w/ it

my parents are just like fighting all the time... and they're disturbing me with all the question such as "am i not perfect enough for him?"... :(

My parents got divorced when I was five. (they told me at a girl scout meeting!) but my friends give me a lot of support, so I'm ok (kinda)

actually...my mom nd dad never got married...they had me when i was young...but then my mom remarried nd had my lil bro nd sis...they seperated then got bak together... nd now this year they got devoirced for good...nd yet they still fight...i still hit...=[ buit since im the oldest i have to be the strongest...

My mom and dad never got married but when they split up it took me fore ever to stop crying my dad was in another town when he told me and i was at my grandmothers i was five when that happened and my dad got married to some one else and lets just say she isn't my favorite

yeah but im fine with it

Mrs. Jasper Hale on May 15, 2009 3:42 PM

No my parents aren't... and I'm lucky that they're not, cause i love them both a lot, and I don' think I would EVER forgive them...

And Twilight


~Twilight~

yes my parents r the divoreced. they got divored b4 i was born and i live with my mom and i really dont lyk my dad bc he lies 2 me sooo much and i ask my mother the truth and wut my mother told me was the truth and dad is such a lier and thats wut i hate about him the most and he has never told me the truth a day in my life and i can never 4give him 4 that

my parents were never married but the kids whos parents are divorced i have major symnpothy

my parents have been divorced since i was three and both of them have just been remaried. it's akward living with my step-parents......

my bbfs parents got divorced.soon enough mine will........................

yeah mine are. the guy was a but anyaway but i was little and didnt think so at the time. So yeah i was a little a depressed but i focused on other things and tried to forget about him. My mom went down on my dad so i started to too so yeah.Now my mom is getting remarried with a better guy.yaaahhhhh

RACHEL N. on May 15, 2009 9:46 PM

No my parents are not divorced....but they fight a lot and I just hate it so much......I am 11 soon to be 12....and if they did get a divorce i would totally run away or hide or cry and cry! people think it is fun to have there parents seperated but most people dont and it is just sad kids or adults or no one should go through that but the main thing is they fight and then make up and they love each other so ya

No. But my 2 best friends parents r gettin a divorce and we were all in a really big fight and I when I found out I fellt sooooooo bad! I realized I was really adding pressure! ANd now I am always there for them! So really a divorce is REALLY A LOT of pressure. :)

yaa my parents got divorced a few months ago now im living with my mom at her friends house until we can finally nove out... its ben really hard but at least we are happier and thats all i ask for.... i really look up to my mom for being as strong as she is and all of the things she has to go through every day if it werent for her i wouldnt be who i am today

Erin Valenten on May 15, 2009 11:05 PM

Yes my parents r devoriced sadly :(. I am living with my mom, n it has been a hard life 4 us. My parents got deviorced when i was 7. It was always hard with me bt since i've been though so much in my life i can pretty much deal with pain. My dad lives in South Carolina so i dont get 2 c him a lot. But hopfully 1 day i will get 2 c him all i want. :)

ISABELLA FAIRCHILD on May 15, 2009 11:24 PM

IM HAPPY MY PARENTS R BECAUSE I DONT LIKE MY DAD :)

no and i am very thankful to have two parents that love me and each other

yup they r but they get along better so its good

yes! my parents divorced when i was like 2 and i dnt really remember what happened but my mom tells me the story. they used to argue but now they are never fighting....but my dad is really funny and sometimes he makes fun of my mom but its still funny!!!lol

well...i never really dealt with it ... i already saw this coming and to be honest i much rather see them seperate and happy than together and miserable.

No. But Im Glad && Imm Truly Sorry For The kids whos parents are divorced

Isabella<3 on May 16, 2009 11:21 AM

No and I am super grateful! I love then with all of my heart and I know they love each other too.

Mrs. Nick Jonas on May 16, 2009 1:32 PM

My parents are divorced, but their still friends, and they just got me tickets to see the JONAS BROTHERS!!!!!!!!! :) Their both awesome!!!!!!!!


yes i did not know that was going to happen but they did not look the best couple. i am only 9 so trying to get over it but i have a little brother and he has no idea what is going on i see my dad thursday, sunday and saterday but i still go to friend's houses for playdates it sad but someday i will getover it

Pst.. heck no! Praise the lord

Nope! They love each other too much to divorce! Like Lauren said,"praise the lord." lol

omg my rents got divorced and my dad got remarried my life sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well actually my parents never really got married. but im glad my mom took me out of the situation i was in. my dad was a druggie and my mom took me a left. now my dad is in jail. i am 13. he has 10-50 years. with no possible bail. now. he wont be at my graduation of high school. its sad.

no:-) and i am soooooooooo glad that thy aren't!!!!! because it will be soooo anoying having a step mom or step dad!!!!!! ugh!!! man i'll hate them and never even give them a try!!!!! i'll make there lifes impossible & misserable!!!!! yeah more missirble than anything!!!!! i don't care if they are the nicest person on earth or the hottest or the richest no one will ever take my orignall dads or moms place!!!! never i tell you NEVER!!!!!

morganne on May 17, 2009 1:15 AM

yes my parents are divorrced but its not that bad because my dad is dating this really nice girl and they are going to get married and my mom is dating this really nice guy so its not that bad after all but i dont really remember them getting divorced cause i was like 4 and i get to see my dad and my mom alot

my parents arent seperated
but they keep getting argueing & always end up seperating, & they always think about getting a divorce, but then end up back together again
its like a cycle
even though i dont like saying it
sometimes i wish they would get divorce just to get it over with, goshhh!

Yea mi parents are divorced but im kinda over it-i wuz 6(im now 12)but my little siz wuz real upset. My dad got all my mums money and dat wuz bad but.....dats life!!!!

So ani1 lik me just be happy dat ur parents stil love u!!

Mizz T x

Genevieve on May 17, 2009 1:05 PM

Yes my parents are divorced they divorced when I was like 1! I have been dealing with pain! I live with my mom and I love her more than my dad! My mom has been there for me when times are rough! But the sade thing is I can never have a father daughter dance or my dad walking me down the Isle. Do this it works!

take ur middle finger and put it on your nose.
2. say the name of someone u like.
3. that person will ask u out or say they love u tomarrow.
4. heres the thing copy and paste to 2 other commet things and u will gt kissed on he nearest frieday1 It works!

yes it realy sucks but i am movin in with my dad 4 a while-text me706-978-8109

yea it really sucks!!!! but its 4 tha best they fought al the friggin time-text me or add me on my space-the name on there is tt

take ur middle finger and put it on your nose.
2. say the name of someone u like.
3. that person will ask u out or say they love u tomarrow.
4. heres the thing copy and paste to 2 other commet things and u will gt kissed on he nearest frieday1 It works!

my parents got divorced when i waz sevn,so im over it, but my oldr bro took it hard

Khadilia on May 17, 2009 3:57 PM

Well, I'm in foster homes, but my parents are still together. I see them every 2 months. They had to put me in it because they don't have a lot of money. My sister is in a different foster home but I can see her at school.

no, my parents rnt divorced, but i am adopted.... rly it isn't so bad... but sometimez it can rly suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ya no... i nevr will meet my real parents, but i nevr rly will want 2 afta what i hav been thru! i know i hav an older sis sumwhere... but i sux tht i won't get 2 meet her ever! i hav always wanted an older sista 2 talk 2 about guyz, skool, and other stuff............but i rly wanna b normal! u guyz out there who liv with ur real parents are really lucky... and u guyz out there whoz parentz r divorced i truly am sry... but it isn't the end of the world, remember- it is a whole new beginning :)

My mom and dad are still together and it is great.Ihave advice for the peoples who parents arnt together don't think that it is your falut cause its not and always rember toghter or not they still love you the same
-Fallon

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Lauren M. on May 17, 2009 7:40 PM

No, my parents aren't divorced..but its some pretty nasty buissness. My aunt and unlce are getting a divorce right now. I feel so bad for my cousins. :(

♥zoe♥ on May 17, 2009 9:57 PM

Im grateful that they aren't, but my grandparents are, and the both live near me. i have to pick who to invite to performances ect. it's very awkward between them,
them compete too. but it would be much harder if it was my parents and i have big sympathy for those who do

Dominique on May 17, 2009 10:45 PM

Lots of my friends' parents are divorced, but I help them get through it. I'm very blessed to have a complete family, but to all the people with no mom/dad I'm SORRY! :(

technically, they aren't. they're separated. but still, its like they are. but what helps me deal with it is my friends. they support me. it does stink tho, i dont like switching houses every monday. but i love em, and its okay as long as they r happy.

mckayla herrick on May 17, 2009 10:52 PM

yes my mom and dad r divorced and the hardest part is when the holidays come up so i make my parents be together on holidays
and when your mom wants u at her house and your dad wants you at his house and you dont know what to do and you end up wanting to go with your dad when you stayed with your mom it sucks

iluvrobpat on May 18, 2009 12:30 AM

my mom and dad were separated but they r not divorce the moved out and i had to go back and forth but now we live in a 3 story house wit a pool and we all live together[i thought they were gonna claw each others face off] but they still fight o and aaliyah arent ur sisters parent ur parents?

Well my parents aren't divorced. But it's kinda similar. My parents were together for 3 years before they had me. My dad was also married when he persued my mother. She rejected him at first, but he was very persistant. He soon got divorced and my mom and dad were happy together until my mom found out she was pregnant with me. Lets just say that the last thing my dad wanted was another child (he had 2 sons already from his previous marriage), let alone a girl. When my mom told my father that she was expected, he started to act different and distant. My mom didn't know what to do, should she get an abortion? How would she support me? My dad even questioned if I was actually his. A month into the pregnancy he asked her "maybe we should get married" and my mother said " I didn't wait all of my life to hear, maybe we should get married" five months later he asked the same way and she refused. When I was born He stayed with us for some weeks and then went back to work.

Long story short, my parents were never married, but the situation of this is almost worst than if your parents were divorced. To know that your parents split up because of you, knowing that you were never wanted. Thats ruff. My mother always tells me that I was a wanted child, but I cannot help but think that I was a MISTAKE CHILD. My dad treats me worst than the homeless man on the street and still says he loves me. Isn't that worse? Have I gotten over it? No. I will always want my mother and father to love each other like they once did. I still want a family. When I spend time with my dad, my mom can hardly stand to be in the same room with him. She says she doesn't hate him, but her actions tell me that she does. I live with my mom. When I look back I think I have the better life though, because if my mom got married to my dad I would life in the next nazi camp. So yeah I guess I have in a way got over it. But I cannot stop wanted the love from my dad that my two brothers got.

Jennifer on May 18, 2009 1:14 PM

yea. My parents are divorced to i hate them being seperated it really sucks....... I hate them being divorced uhhhhhhhhhhhhh it SUCKS though

j14reader. on May 18, 2009 3:50 PM

my parent were never married.
just about all my friends parents are divorce or werent married.
and guys whose fault it usually is
the "MANS"
its horrid. they all leave when THEY make something.idiots

Ellen <3 on May 18, 2009 6:51 PM

Mean. Horrible. Ugly. Annyoing. Yells at you for breathing too loud. Calls you stupid for getting a 101 out of 100 on your math test because you COULD have gottne a 102 out of 100. Thinks you were a mistake. Wishes she never met you. Calls your favorite teacher at 10:45 PM to ask her why you act like a "brat".(I don't, btw.) Terrifying. This is my evil stepmother. She actually makes Cinderella's stepmother seem like the fairy godmother! If my parents never got a divorce then I would never have met Cruella De Vil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

COMMENT BACK IF U READ THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

HECK NOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the only people whose parents get divorced are girls who live in the ghettos!

Ellen H. <3 on May 18, 2009 6:59 PM

Mean. Horrible. Ugly. Annyoing. Yells at you for breathing too loud. Calls you stupid for getting a 101 out of 100 on your math test because you COULD have gottne a 102 out of 100. Thinks you were a mistake. Wishes she never met you. Calls your favorite teacher at 10:45 PM to ask her why you act like a "brat".(I don't, btw.) Terrifying. This is my evil stepmother. She actually makes Cinderella's stepmother seem like the fairy godmother! If my parents never got a divorce then I would never have met Cruella De Vil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

COMMENT BACK IF U READ THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(amy bixler, if u read this i wanna let u kno this is ellen ur cousin!!!! from nyc!!!!!!)

(And, Reilly Morris*, if you read this, yes, this is about your "lovely" mom)

(Evil Stepmother, if you read this, know that I am not sorry!)

(My favorite teacher, if you read this, thanks for helping me learn math, I wasn't good at it till i was in your class! :)

(Real Mom, if you read this, I love you!)

(Gabby, my sister for those of you who didn't know, if you read this, do NOT try stealing my ipod again!!!)

COMMENT BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yah...my parrents got divorced when i was 4. i havnt seen my dad since...so we kinda just deal with it...

no....my parents are not divorced but they fight mostly all the time....any time soon it will happen and i don't know if i am going to survive it even more that i have four brothers and one sister....sooo it is going to be really really tough i just hope that we can be that happy family again=[

No, they would never. Both my parents yell at me JUST because I ask them why and they also do it for no reason!! But my friend's dad did. Well, actually, she got a step-dad.

*~*Raquel*~* on May 18, 2009 9:41 PM

I'm adopted.

anomanous on May 18, 2009 9:44 PM

my parents got divorced when i was 2... everything goes along alright though and its not bad between them... my dad found someone new and so did my mom. they people that they hooked up with might be a little annoying.... but i will always love my parents no matter what happened... :)

welll my parents werent ever married but together for 14 years and my dad just got up and left my mom came home one day and every thing was gone and he left us high and dry so were living with our aunt now cuz of him but pretty soon welll bre getting our own house

Cayleigh on May 19, 2009 12:00 PM

My perents are divorced, and it kinda sux sometimes. they got divorced when i was in kindergarden, so i've kinda got over it. they would always fight, but now they're BFFS, so it's kool. it sux 'cause... 1: when itell someone that my parents are divorced they're like 'oh, I'm so sorry!' and Im like 'yeah, i got over it!' 2: I'm always losing stuff and then in the middle of the night i know were to look at the OTHER house but then i forget. 3: my creepy, violent, evil, second-grade, going-to-go-to-jail-before-high-school, little brother goes EVERYWHERE with me! I know him better than my parents (which is NOT a good thing!)

Brooklynn on May 19, 2009 2:05 PM

My parents arnt divorced but i think it would be better if they were bc they are always fighting and it sucks to live in a house where your parents are always fighting about things like your brothers leagal rites and how my dad is never around. No 1 cares about what i want and its like i dont even matter... its like i dont exist. and sometimes i wish i didnt... :'(

This Is To Olivia: U r being totaly racist!!!! I cannot blieve some1 would be so f*cking racist about something that could ruin a girl/boys life! I hope ur parents seperate so u can realize how bad it really is!

Yea....My friend Andrew's parents are divorced.I feel bad for him becuz sometimes when im over his house his dad comes 2 pick him up and his mom and dad start to argue over nothing....and Andrew tries to be a good friend and he just takes me outside.I can tell he gets emmbaressed when his parents argue in front of me its just not right.

We all know life isn't perfect. Sometimes relationships just don't work out...
My parents have been divorced for almost 7 years. It was very hard in the beginning and it is for anyone and everyone when something bad happens. But as i got older, i realized that everything happens for a reason. Parents separate because they just aren't as compatible as they thought they could be.
Think about this: What if had to sit next to someone you hated sincerly for- forever! It would drive you insane. So if your parents slowly, but suddenly, realize that it isn't going to work... it drives them insane to live together and they get divorced.
Now my parents are WAY happier without each other living seperately. I know i'd rather have two happy parents who aren't together than a house of miserable ones who are together.
Remember this... No matter what challenge is thrown at you; it's happened before to someone else and it will keep happening to others. You can over-come anything that you WANT to over-come. Sure you can stay mad, but do you really want to live like that?

Peace,
Much Love,
Kayla

I dont but one of my guy friends just found out that they are so his mom bought a house in my neighborhood. Im really excited but i dont want to sound mean like i dont care though


Also i have this other friend and her parents are divorced but she has the best of both world's both families make a ton i mean a lawyer and a surgeon make over a million together!

Nope, and tg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! they luv each other too much.......:)

no'p i wish they wont ever

YEs and I have not seen mt dad in a long time

My parents have been divorced for almost 9 years they split up when I was 1 1/2 it wad horrible I am still sad but life isn't perfect like most people think it is!

amberlee on May 19, 2009 7:20 PM

oh you GO BROOKE! that is soooo mean to say. i mean i live in the ghetto and myparents arent divorced. you r sooo racist

Amberlee on May 19, 2009 7:56 PM

Yeah...I live in the ghetto, yet I have a computer. And it's probs a really expensive one! WOW aren't I a little liar! Amberlee isn't even my real name.

princessT on May 19, 2009 8:02 PM

yes! its wierd but i eventually got over it i have a stepdad

Well my parents just got divorced about 2 months ago. I am learning to cope with it, but I guess I have had some time to mentally prepare.
They had been at each other's throats for months.

my parents are divorced and it stinks really bad................................................................................................:(:(

Brittney M on May 19, 2009 11:07 PM

Yes my parents devoriced when i was 6months. I didnt really have to deal with it because my dad never visited. But i think its better that way.

Yeah, my parents divorced when I was 5, and I don't see my dad very often...wel, never.
He hides money from the government, and so our child support isn't so great, and there are times when my mom and I want to have a good cry, but my mom never cries anymore.
It's like she;s made of stone. I have seen her cry once, right befr they got divorced, I walked into my moms room to find her crying. I said "whats wrong mommy?" and she said "Daddy's not coming back."
So yes, it has been hard, and I have sympathy for those who know how it feels.

Love ya,
Jess

To: Olivia on May 18, 2009 6:52 PM

SHUT UP BEOTCH! YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO SAY THAT! GROW UP! JUST WAIT, ONE DAY YOU ARE GONNA GET CALLED SOMETHING THAT IS GONNA BREAK YOUR HEART, BEOTCH, BREAK YOUR HEART.
AND BY THE WAY, I DO NOT LIVE IN THE GHETTOS!

ONCE AGAIN,
BEOTCH!

nicoleeee. on May 20, 2009 8:41 AM

I woke up one night to my mother's sobbing...
it wasn't very expected so i tiptoed out of my bed to see what was the matter. She told me that my father had cheated on her this whole time and that they were to go to court first thing in the morning to get a form for court later on in the year. They would be divorced as soon as court would take them in..

I sobbed as much i my eyes could take, saying that this could not h appen. I mean, after all, what was a family if the parents weren't together? Then I remembered something, what about my little brother? How did he feel about this? He was even more upset than I was.

It's been three years since my father's moved with hie girlfriend and I'm not as miserable as I used to be. I mean, sure, my parents don't live together and I have to move back and forthe a lot but about every two months, I make all four of us, my parents, my brother and I, go to a restaurant. My parents don't always get along but it's a start! :)


My advice to you is to try to make the best of it and look and the bright side, not always the dark side.

well they never got married but they were 2gether 4 about 20 years they split up about a year ago and my dad just recently started dating this nice girl and
I can't stand the guy my mom's with!! he cheated on his wife with my mom!!! his wife and my mom WERE best friends!!
not anymore!!!!!!!

Lets just say if your parents are divorced it sucks.

MY PARENTS ARE NOT DIVORCED BUT MY MOMS TRYED GETTING ONE A COUPLE TIMES BUT THEY JUST GO BACK TOGETHER. :( MY PARENTS FIGHT A LOT LIKE WHEN I WAS 4 OR 5 MY MOM TREW A HAIR DRYER AT HIM. ITS SO HARD LIVING AT MY HOUSE AT NIGHT THEY USSALLY YELL AT EACH OTHER SOMETIMES I JUST WANT TO CRY!

No my parents are not divorced but they were never married and they argue a little but it's a pain with is girlfriend getting in the way and having a child with her also and it's tough. cuz he texted me saying that he would call me on thursday and now it's Wednesday almost a week and he never called me. I've been the one having to call him and when he doesn't answer and i hang up and call him back like a few hours and he picks up that time he always says " oh i saw that you called is everything ok". it irritates me cuz he's always never calling me and he wanted us to meet half-way and i've been doing that and he hasn't but he just came into my life like a couple months ago and he expects me to go up to Oregon and live with him over the summer but i don't want to and i can't stand is girlfriend...

no, but my parents fight so much that i sometimes worry they will get divorced :(

Nope!:)
and i think im very fortunate because alot of my family and friends parents are divorced and im happy i have both of my parents! I love them and i know they love each other

my parents aren't but I can't stand my dad and I wish they were.

TO OLIVIA SHUT DA F*CK UP.I THINK YOU SAY THINGS LIKE THAT CUZ DIPE DOWN YOU DONT REALLY LIKE YOURSELF AND JUST WANT TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL GOOD. BROOKE IS RIGHT I HOPE YOUR PARENTS DO SLIT UP.

TO OLIVIA SHUT DA F*CK UP.I THINK YOU SAY THINGS LIKE THAT CUZ DIPE DOWN YOU DONT REALLY LIKE YOURSELF AND JUST WANT TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL GOOD. BROOKE IS RIGHT I HOPE YOUR PARENTS DO SLIT UP.

it's tough cuz my mom and dad were never married and he left when me and my sister were 3 months old cuz we're twins, but yea he would call like every 5 years and them never call beck like he said he would and now me and my twin are 15 and he just came in our life again because i found his girlfriend's myspace and i started to talk to her and him and he called like 1 time and then he got arrested in December for child support and he had to come and to where we live and go to court and it was really tense around him and we weren't sure if we wanted him back in our lives cuz we weren't sure if we could trust him. Well his girlfriend started messaging me on myspace being really rude and cussing at me and my mom called my dad about it and he told me that i was wrong to tell her my fellings cuz we weren't sure if we wanted him on our lives and and she was telling us that we had to except him in our lives but no i was in the wrong and i wont talk to her anymore and he has a child with her and its really hard cuz when i talk to him on the phone his child always gets in the way and so does his kid. he wants me to spend my summer up in Oregon cuz that's were he lives and i dont want to and he just wont get the point of why i don't want to and how many hours he works it sounds like i would be stuck with his thing he calls a girlfriend all day long. and cuz i dont even know him enough to want to spend my summer with him...

AMBER VEDROS on May 21, 2009 1:31 PM

MY MOM AND DAD WAS 2GETHER 4 12 YEARS AND THEY GOT DIVORSED 4 YEARS AGO. MY MOM IS A TOTALLY DIFFRENT PERSON SHE TAKES ALOT OF STUFF OUT ON ME! I LOVE MY STEP MOM THOUGH. IF YOU LIKE TO SHOP TILL YOU DROP MEET HER SHE IS AWSOME

jenniferakamrscullen on May 21, 2009 4:08 PM

NO they aren't but i wish they were i hate my dad and he is rude a selfish and takes everything out on my mom when its his fault so i hope they get 1

SHUT UP OLIVIA IT COULD HAPPEN 2 ANY 1 (HOPEFULLY IT DOESNT HAPPEN 2 ANY 1 ELSE) AND WHAT DO U KNOW ABOUT THAT KIND OF THING

Nick Jonas' GF on May 21, 2009 5:18 PM

My parents r divorced...i wish my dad wouldnt yell @ my mom so much...they've been divorced since before I was 1...

Catherine on May 21, 2009 9:04 PM

Yeah, my parents are divorced, but I'm happy for that because they are not happy together!!=S

I think it suckkks!!!!!! when your parents get divorced because then you can't see them both when you come home after school. My parents aren't divorced but I have a friend who's are.

eriiiiiii :) on May 21, 2009 9:11 PM

My parents are best friends and legally sperated. People don't always get divorced cuz they fight they just don't luv each other anymore. My parents,like I said are best friends. To sum ppl this seems weird, ino, but its us. And btw olivia, back off cuz a lot of my friends hav dovorced parents and we live in a working class neighborhood. And did u no? Divorce rates r higher in wealthy class citizens then in poor ones, soooooo............don't make assumptions.

yeah my parents have been divorsed a long time ago when i was lil but my dad divorsed my step mom and i was cryin so bad but my dad is happy now as long as my parents are happy im happy but no matter if they get a divorsed or not ur pareant will always love you...:)

no i never want that to happen ever ever ever! and it never has but to those who it has happened too i feel really bad for you and i hope that you can cheer up and get better i feel really bad for people with deaths and divorces and stuff in thier family

yu guys ar dum im sory but yu ar cuz it dsnt take a long time to get over a divorce lik yu say ok, an ya mi parnts ar divorced but it aint hard an i aint tryin to act bitchie

Yes, :'''''( and i had it coming, they split up for awhile then got back together then divorced right after our vacation. But it was my dads decision, and thats what hapend. So, yeah. And to this day they still hate eachother

yes my parents got divorsed when i was 8 (13,14 in a month) my dad told my mom he was seeing some 1 else on cristmas eve that was the worst christmas of my life my mom was crying my lil sister was 5 she had no clue what was happening my mom wass crying and my dadd was at work i wsnt spost to know till after christmas... but thats what happened it was for the best they fought all the time

Kelsey Wahmo on May 22, 2009 1:22 PM

Yes, my parents are divorced. At first it was really hard to deal with because it felt like the end of the world. I really thought that nothing would ever be the same. I even had to move my mom went wild at first. But, now she is married and having a baby. But, i'm dealing with it. I still see my dad every other weekend. I just know they both love me and my sister. And, that's all that matters. Just believe in yourself and pray about it.

my parents got divorced when i was 5 and im now 12 about to be 13 and its been really tough escpically at my dads house...dont like my step mom so much.its really stressful i hate swithching houses and it makes it just that much harder at school .....any way g2g
-peace out-

Kaitlyn-Cullen on May 22, 2009 2:48 PM

Yes :((

My BFF`s parent are divorced since she was 3 and She is adopted she says she dose`int remember any thing about them fighting or any thing like that

MADELINE on May 22, 2009 8:06 PM

Yes, my parent are divorced. I live with my mom and I love it. I have a really good bond with my mother:) I try to have a good relationship with my dad but it is hard because I don't talk to my dad all that often. It's hard sometimes for my mom to be a single parent but I love her for trying and I know that she doesn't mind being a single parent. I like the fact that it is just girls in the house. I love both of my parents dearly:)

yes.... it's been easy cause i live wit my momma but wen it comes 2 my dad it's a whole nother story. I hate it but i love it. It's soooo hard 2 get used 2 being wit my dad but i LOVE being wit my momma.

yes....
and i tierd of hering them fight all the time! like today ohh my god!!! you wont belive it!??!-mickey

my parents split up b4 and it hurt me my mom my brother and my sister deeply.i cried all the time it was on memorial day when they split up.4 months after they got back 2gether,just when we got used 2 him being gone,he came back i still remember that night he came over 2 talk 2 my mom,i left with my big sister and her husband for a while.
we went for a ride so her baby[my niece] could fall asleep, when i came back it looked like he was making his self at home.he moved all of his stuff back into the bedroom
[me and my mom shared a bedroom,we were really close]he moved all my stuff and through it on the ground.it was like he never left us when he came back.i hate my mom for taking him back after he left for someone else.the night he came back i wasn't happy i didn't even want him in my life i sat up the whole night cringing in my room.now he says stuff like ''oh ill leave again''and my mom doesn't even really pay attention to me she spends all her time trying 2 make dad happy so he won't leave again.oh and now she says ''let it go it was the past.''but my mom doesn't get it,every time i think about it,it makes me hurt inside.ps.me my brother my mother and my sister all got closer,now my brother moved out b/c of my dad and my sister and my mom[her step mom]fight all the time.

i sometimes wish he would leave again i was only 11 when this happened now im 12 so its almost been a year but the pains still their this is only half of the story if u want to read all of it go on www.quizzila.com

YES my parents r divorced and i hardly see my dad anymore i hav an older brother he was arrested 2 months ago and ever seance den he only cares about him and i just got left in the dirt

yes.....
i tierd of hr=ering them figth they do it all the time!!! like today omg you wont belive it!!!! god i wish theyed stopped!!!~mickey

my parents split up b4 and it hurt me my mom my brother and my sister deeply.i cried all the time it was on memorial day when they split up.4 months after they got back 2gether,just when we got used 2 him being gone,he came back i still remember that night he came over 2 talk 2 my mom,i left with my big sister and her husband for a while.
we went for a ride so her baby[my niece] could fall asleep, when i came back it looked like he was making his self at home.he moved all of his stuff back into the bedroom
[me and my mom shared a bedroom,we were really close]he moved all my stuff and through it on the ground.it was like he never left us when he came back.i hate my mom for taking him back after he left for someone else.the night he came back i wasn't happy i didn't even want him in my life i sat up the whole night cringing in my room.now he says stuff like ''oh ill leave again''and my mom doesn't even really pay attention to me she spends all her time trying 2 make dad happy so he won't leave again.oh and now she says ''let it go it was the past.''but my mom doesn't get it,every time i think about it,it makes me hurt inside.ps.me my brother my mother and my sister all got closer,now my brother moved out b/c of my dad and my sister and my mom[her step mom]fight all the time.

i sometimes wish he would leave again i was only 11 when this happened now im 12 so its almost been a year but the pains still their this is only half of the story if u want to read all of it go on www.quizzila.com

my parents split up b4 and it hurt me my mom my brother and my sister deeply.i cried all the time it was on memorial day when they split up.4 months after they got back 2gether,just when we got used 2 him being gone,he came back i still remember that night he came over 2 talk 2 my mom,i left with my big sister and her husband for a while.
we went for a ride so her baby[my niece] could fall asleep, when i came back it looked like he was making his self at home.he moved all of his stuff back into the bedroom
[me and my mom shared a bedroom,we were really close]he moved all my stuff and through it on the ground.it was like he never left us when he came back.i hate my mom for taking him back after he left for someone else.the night he came back i wasn't happy i didn't even want him in my life i sat up the whole night cringing in my room.now he says stuff like ''oh ill leave again''and my mom doesn't even really pay attention to me she spends all her time trying 2 make dad happy so he won't leave again.oh and now she says ''let it go it was the past.''but my mom doesn't get it,every time i think about it,it makes me hurt inside.ps.me my brother my mother and my sister all got closer,now my brother moved out b/c of my dad and my sister and my mom[her step mom]fight all the time.

i sometimes wish he would leave again i was only 11 when this happened now im 12 so its almost been a year but the pains still their this is only half of the story if u want to read all of it go on www.quizzila.com

my parents split up b4 and it hurt me my mom my brother and my sister deeply.i cried all the time it was on memorial day when they split up.4 months after they got back 2gether,just when we got used 2 him being gone,he came back i still remember that night he came over 2 talk 2 my mom,i left with my big sister and her husband for a while.
we went for a ride so her baby[my niece] could fall asleep, when i came back it looked like he was making his self at home.he moved all of his stuff back into the bedroom
[me and my mom shared a bedroom,we were really close]he moved all my stuff and through it on the ground.it was like he never left us when he came back.i hate my mom for taking him back after he left for someone else.the night he came back i wasn't happy i didn't even want him in my life i sat up the whole night cringing in my room.now he says stuff like ''oh ill leave again''and my mom doesn't even really pay attention to me she spends all her time trying 2 make dad happy so he won't leave again.oh and now she says ''let it go it was the past.''but my mom doesn't get it,every time i think about it,it makes me hurt inside.ps.me my brother my mother and my sister all got closer,now my brother moved out b/c of my dad and my sister and my mom[her step mom]fight all the time.

i sometimes wish he would leave again i was only 11 when this happened now im 12 so its almost been a year but the pains still their this is only half of the story if u want to read all of it go on www.quizzila.com

No, my parents aren't divorced but they will get there soon if they keep fighting like they are!! I wish they would stop Bcuz i cant live without either of them. I'm only 12 and it is getting pretty rough with them fighting bcuz i have a lot on my mind already. I don't need a divorce in my life. I would be to hard.

I am terribly sorry for those of you who have divorced parents. I wish you the best of luck in life. I may not know you but you are a very special person to have on earth!!

my parents have been divorced forever and i hate going back and fort from my mom to my dad i go to my dad on the weekends and i hate that because then my and my friends cant hang out and i really dont like my step-mom that much she and my dad have 2 boys and she plays favorites with them so i hate that but i love my dad and brothers so thats why i go

lala girl on May 23, 2009 11:10 AM

sadly yes but its alright cuse i always govto colombia then in u.s.a. but how i wish my parents were not divorced ^^
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Lauren=sad on May 23, 2009 12:21 PM

my parents divorced when i was 6.. Im now 13... my mom remarried and i hate the guy along with his evil daughter and my dad has had over 100 girlfriends (not kidding on eharmony and stuff like that though) He almost got married but didn't cuz he cheated on her. Don;t trust anyone I know now besides my BFF Alec and I know why the got a divorce it was a stupid divorce in the first place... Daddy wouldn't hug mommy... sad again....

Lauren=sad on May 23, 2009 12:21 PM

my parents divorced when i was 6.. Im now 13... my mom remarried and i hate the guy along with his evil daughter and my dad has had over 100 girlfriends (not kidding on eharmony and stuff like that though) He almost got married but didn't cuz he cheated on her. Don;t trust anyone I know now besides my BFF Alec and I know why the got a divorce it was a stupid divorce in the first place... Daddy wouldn't hug mommy... sad again....

sadly yes they r but u do not know how much i cried!!! i did NOT c it coming !!!! they told me this year and im 11 yrs old!!!! i hate when stuff like that happens!!

Destiny Chanelle<3 on May 23, 2009 4:45 PM

My parents split when I was in kindergarten. Let me tell you, you don't know the tearshed that happened there. Most nights I cried to mom asking her why my dad choose his other daughter over me and why I wasn't good enough. Divorce is a lot to experience at a young age like that.
My dad got remarried, to this witch we call Roberta, just a year or two after the divorce. My mom just got remarried to an amazing but slightly aggravating man named Bobby. Bobby is great except when it comes to my step sister Taylor. She's a total pain.
But honestly, I am glad they are both remarried. They need others to distract them when I am off causing trouble.

YES, my parents been disagreeing with each other since last oct. and now a piece of news just came to us and its really hard. im still getting ovr it but whoever out there is going through the same thing as me just wanted to let u kno ur not the only one going through this try to let ur feelings out to ur closest friends but make sure they dont spread it to the whole school or if ur to selfconsious write in a diary it works for me

My BestFreind's Parent Got Divoreced about 4 Years ago. They told her one night while i was there staying all night with her. She creid for a long time, and i felt kinda weird, its not like i could say anything to make her feel better. But she became really different, she dressed in mini skirts and high-heels.when she was only in 5th grade. Since her parents got divoreced she had to move schools, and now i never rlly tlk 2 her anymore, cause she acts like a skank and dresses like one too. I rlly miss her, but shes gone now.

flipflop on May 23, 2009 6:41 PM

yup...!but i real;ly actually dont mind because i get more clothes
~twilight freko~

Mary Mikko on May 23, 2009 11:01 PM

My parents are divorced and it has actually ruined my relationship with my dad. My parents have joint custody but my dad is always working and i never see him and we never talk. It has pulled us apart

my parents are divoreced they have beensence i was 8months old i am 11 now my dad lives in ohio and he is in jail i think the only reason i think that is because every time i even talk 2 him he just got out of jail so i guess that is hard 4 me [btw i live in florida] and i have not seen him 4 at least 5 years i live wit my mom she is so cool one thing i hate about my dad is he love my brother and only likes me cause i ama girl and my brother is a boy wen it christmas he will get my brother a brand new bike and me like a deck of cards i guess thats all i wanna say now :]

my mom has gotten married 7 times, and now she has given up on it

Yes sadly my parents are Divorced. When i fould out that they where breaking up i was destoryed! I thought that they where always going to be together then my parents started fighting alot! I got very upset. Now my dad fight's with my mom for everything! i mean everything! My dad just got into a fight with me. i was sooo upset he didn't even help soo i hate him for that. Everytime my mom needs somthing for my sister becuase she hadicap. We have to go court too get it and most of time we don't. Soo please pray for me and my familey. My dad doesn;t even want to pay for child surrport soo we might even loose our house )= if anybody could help thanks it's been really hard for me lately.

all i no is that these ppl hav a difficult time

Even though my parents aren't divorced, almost all my friends are. When you ask to go to a friends house, you almost always have to ask whether your going to their mom's or their dad's. It's almost as common around here to have your parents divorced as it is married! It's ridiculous. I understand if you get divorced, if say, your spouse abuses you, but getting divorced for "irreconcilable differences" like a stupid fight is mental. Think of your family and your kids first. Get a grip on your life!

no, and i'm so glad, my parents have been together for REALLY long and they barely ever argue. but a lot of my friend's have divorced parents and it's so awful. i always feel rly sorry for them.

Yes they are in the process of divorcing.
I never saw it coming because they never told me their problems.
Make sure u have the entire story.

Jennifer on May 24, 2009 4:25 PM

Yeah my parents are divorced. They got divorced when i was 5 and its been 8 years. I live with my mom. My parents don't get along and i really don't like my dad. I haven't seen him in 3 years. He doesn't even try to be around and he lives 15 miles away. My dad is very abusive, that's basically why i don't see him anymore. i miss that side of my family a lot but i can't go back. Some of the memories have have of him make me very sad. Sometimes i wish i could forget them but if i forget i am afraid i will want to go back and i don't want to go back. My mom said that i use to be a really happy person that smiled a lot but when my parents got divorced my smile went away. My mom even told me yesterday that my face is emotionless. I never smile, i hide my feelings behind a blank face and built up anger because i am afraid that if i try and be happy i won't be able to control myself, that i will lose control and i won't be able to stop the tears once they start. i get made fun of because i am such an unhappy person and the people who make fun of me have no idea why i am so unhappy. I think because of my parents divorce i lost my faith and became atheist because everyone says god preforms miracles and there is no miracle out there for me. None of my friends no completely why i am so angry because i can't tell them. I don't have anyone to talk to. i can't talk to my older brother and sister because they don't know what i have been through. When my parents got their divorce my brother and sister took it out on me.When ever they had a bad day they took it out on me. My brother and his friends made up a game called "Who could make Jenna cry first." They never stopped. They still take there problems out on me. I have never done anything to them. I will admit i blamed myself for my parents divorce. A year ago i found out that i was an accident. My mom told me that. She told me that i wasn't suppose to be born, i was a mistake. That made me feel even more responsible for my parents divorce. None of my friends have divorced parents and for a really long time i wanted there parents to get divorced. I wanted there parents to get a divorce like my parents divorce so that i could have someone to talk to that would understand and in fourth grade i finally realized what i was wanting to happen and i couldn't believe how selfish i was being. Now i wouldn't wish it on anybody. Last Easter i realized that maybe i was given that life i have because i can handle it. I think about people in my grade going through what i went through and i can't see them handling it. i see them braking down and not being able to hold themselves together. i even see some committing suicide because the emotional pain is a lot to handle. So really i have to thank my dad. Because of him i am stronger. i honestly think that emotionally i am the strongest person on my grade.

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Having some one to talk to is always helpful. People with divorced parents should know that they are not alone.

Jackie Rasmussen on May 24, 2009 8:33 PM

Nope, but I wish they were. They keep on arguing about all things stupid. Like, if I get a B in science, mom and dad argue about about it. Now that's pathetic! I wish they'd argue about more things like work or whatever

YES,THEY HAVE SINCE I WAS A BABY. IT TURN OUT GOOD. IT BETTER TO HAVE 2 THAN 1 PARENT TO LOVE YOU. MY PARENTS ARE GOOD FRIENDS NOW. IF YOU LOVED YOUR PARENTS YOU MIGHT TRY TO GET THEM AS FRIENDS. DONT YOU THINK????????? SO JUST TRY OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No, but my Dad passed away when I was 6 months old, which I think is even worse. It might sound crazy, but I kind of think people with divorced parents are lucky. I mean, at least you still get to see your Mom and Dad. Alot of people complain about having divorced parents, but they're actually very lucky. It might get hard sometimes, but remember that you'll always have 2 parents that love you.

man, havin ur pparents divorced iz stupid cuz my parents r divorced n my dad doesnt want 2 pay child support n 4 dat hes get custody of me n my lil bro! i mean he doesnt even tell me!i hate 4 dat so tring 2 win court 4 my moms wish me luck!

HoMIe J 4RM LA on May 25, 2009 3:03 PM

man havin divorced parents is hard my parents werent legally married but still its hard cuz my dad wont pay child support 4 US HIS CHILDREN so instead witout tellin me n my lil bro he gets custody n we dont want to live wit him but he doesnt listen. my moms tring 2 win court n me gonna testify wish me luck august kk?

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My parents aren't divorced but my best friend's recently have and it's been really tough on her. All I can really do right now is lend her support and a shoulder to cry on... and she's healing quicker than I thought. You just need to be strong and have hope.

Yeah my parents divorced a little after i was born. it's no big deal, they just realized they was more frustration than love in the relationship. i havent seen or heard from my dad since i was 8. i used to be sad but my stepdad loves me a lot. my mom is happier so i am too.

my cousins rents r. its been a hard 3years for us all.it's just sad. ive been praying they would get back together. i love my cousins and i want them to have a happy family again!!!!

my parents arent divorced...but are split...they've been split up almost all my life...a lot of times its hard, but i think to myself,"i cant do much now, so make the best of it now, and look forward to see each parent soon"...

My parents are divorced. I dealt with it by looking at the plus sides, and i still do! like if they hadn't split up would i have a horse? would i know such brilliant adults( aka my step-parents)?

My parents divorced when I was five on Valentines Day. I cried for weeks, because my dad just packed a suitcase and left while I was at school. My mom said that they divorced because she was tired of him giving all of the attention to me and not my other two sisters. My sisters hated me because I was his favorite. I live with my dad now though, and I visit my mom in the summers, christmas', and spring breaks.

mmmm yeah the best way ive been dealing with my parents getting divorced is not even thinking about it. Concidering both of my parents are doing very different things with their lives trying to make themselves happy. I've been doing the same. Being with my friends and my boyfriend doing things that i like to do ease the stress.

yeah. my parents are divorced.It doesnt bother me though.My mom and dad never really got along.My sister,brother and I are really happy now. we live with my mother and stepdad. My stepdad is awesome!!He helps us when we need it and he does everything a father should do!He doesnt have any kids so he says we are HIS kids!I love my stepdad so much i dont know what i would do if he wasnt there!My dad's girlifriend is an evil witch and i very strongly dislike her.I dont even talk to my real dad.Jermey is all the father figure i need.He is my rock and i am his baby girl.We are really close and i consider him my dad.My mom is happy and so am I.
My step dad is the best and i am happy my mom and real dad got divorced...if they wouldnt have i wouldnt have the worlds BEST dad!My step dad!I love you Jeremy and I am so happy you came into our life!

YES....my parents are divorced! It sucks!! When I was 6 my dad told me he was going to go live with my grandma and grandpa (R.I.P.) for a while..Well me and my older sister went to go see him about once a month...even though we lived in the same town! Then my dad started to date this one girl I really never liked and then he told us that he was going to marry her and now shes my step-mom and I have a beautiful little sister! But before that even happened my mom had gotton married to my step-dad and he already had 3 other kids:2 boys and 1 girl. So were a family of 7 and it was ok for a while. Then the oldest of the three (one of the boys) went to live with his mom. So after he left a few years later the next brother and sister went to live with thier mom also. But my mom and step-dad had 2 other daughters! So now instead having one sister like I did at the beginning I have 4 now!

ok i have called my dad twice and he hasn't called me back and so i decided i'm going to stalk him until he answers and when he decides to answer i am going to blow up on him. he has walked in and out of my life way too many times to count so i'm not letting him do it again and he is so argrivating...my mom thinks that he's hiding talking to me because she thinks his girlfriend will get mad and so he's hiding it behind her back, which is wrong because i'm his daughter and i have a twin but she refuses to talk to him...my father would rather spend time with them... i just feel like crying because of this. i feel like he doesn't love me and that i'm just a door mat for my freaking FATHER

Yes but it wasn't that bad and I'm happy they aren't dating. And they are still great friends and they live right next to each other so I'm happy they make it easy for me! We actually go on FAMILY vacations like twice a year!

My parents got divorced last year they always yell at each other. They say"You are not being a good parent" and the other says "hey! you dont yell at me like that!",
it's sooooo annoying!!!!!!!!!!!! So i try to not lidten to them on the phone.

My parent's are not divorced. But I'm very thankful that they aren't. They've gotten thisclose sometimes but they all get over it.
I have a friend who has divorced parents and she got so upset. Her mom and dad are re-married but she still cries about it all the time. She hasn't gotten over it. I feel very bad for her.

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Yeah, and my mom lives in montanna in a motel while i live with an EVIL step mom and half sister. My dad's never home. I deal with it by listening to my ipod and going for a bike ride.

My parents aren't exactly divorced because they were never married. Still, I was like five when they started fighting at first I wanted to go with my mom untill I relized that she wasn't the most honest person. I got realy mad at her when I got sick at school and theycouldn't get in touch with her. So they called my dad to pick me up, I was so happy because I never got to see him then she called him and told him to bring me back before she called the police. My mom had apperently tried to get full custody of me and I wasn't allowed to be with him!!! Now i'm with my dad but I haven't been able to forgive her.

Yeah, my dad cheated on my mom when I was 12 [ im almost 14 now ]. I dont really like his girlfriend but I try to make the best out of it.

My mom and my dad got divorced when I was really little!! Growing up was tough because I had to choose between going to my mom's or my dad's house!! I only got to see my dad two weekends out of the month!! Then my mom got remarried to my stepdad and I had to adjust to life with 3 parents and my dad is engaged!! I am now 15 and even to this day I still have to choose if I want to go to my dads or stay with my mom some weekends!! All of my friends have both parents still married, so I feel like an outsider and I sometimes have a tough time getting used to things still!!

NO, but some times my dad gets mad at my mom so it's like they are going to get one.
i really HATE when they fight.
so it's like yelling and screaming at the same time.
my sister is really little(5 months old) to be corrent.
so when they start yelling she starts yelling!!!!
but every thing is ok for now. :)

NO, but some times my dad gets mad at my mom so it's like they are going to get one.
i really HATE when they fight.
so it's like yelling and screaming at the same time.
my sister is really little(5 months old) to be corrent.
so when they start yelling she starts yelling!!!!
but every thing is ok for now. :)

no my parents aint divosed there not even married they been knowing each other for like when my dad was 14 {hes 37 now}...yup so they had 2 kids together me and my older sis and there still not married.im 12 and my sis is 15 watch them get married when im like 20 years old.

no my parents are not divorsed and i am very happy they arent cause they have two kids me(12) and my little bro(3) so it wouldnt be fair to my brother but they have been married 16 years and are very happy together. althought they do fight they always get over and we are a big kind of small happy family again

no my parents are not divorsed and i am very happy they arent cause they have two kids me(12) and my little bro(3) so it wouldnt be fair to my brother but they have been married 16 years and are very happy together. althought they do fight they always get over and we are a big kind of small happy family again

no my parents are not divorced and i am very very happy that they arent cause it would not be fair to me and my little brother. but i do feel very sorry for those peeps whose parents are divorced and it must be tough for them, so i am very lucky to have my parents together. and i want to wish those whose parents are divoreced good liick and just be happy and content with your life and enjoy it
- peace out : )

ih tala i am all away fight with my mom

Stephanie Leggett on May 27, 2009 3:53 PM

My parents were never even married. But they did seperate. What happened was I heard my dad say he could never got to work again then he pulled my mom's hair the she left to her dad's a block away while I cried. Now they're both engaged now and I hate my dad's girlfriend to death but I can deal with my mom's boyfriend.I live with my dad monday through friday and with my mom on the weekends. I love them both. They've been seperated since I was 4 and it's really hard even though my parent's still get along. My mom is now pregnant with her bf. My dad has a 3 year old with his gf. She also has a son who he takes care of and a baby girl who is 10 months old who he treats like a daughter. My dad has a daughter in florida who we have never saw (he had her b4 he met my mom) and she's 15 I'm 11. My mom also has a daughter who she had b4 my dad and my mom's aunt adopted her b/c my mom thought she was too young. My mom also had a baby while she was in jail for trespassing who my uncle adopted and now raises we see her a lot.
My mom also has a 15

mileylover on May 27, 2009 6:14 PM

I know a friend that her parents are divirced and my friend didn't even see her father yet!

AshleyJonas<3 on May 27, 2009 9:16 PM

Yes my parents are divorced and even though they see each other once a week to pick me and my sis up, they argue still! It is SOOOOO stressful!

angelina on May 27, 2009 10:41 PM

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angelina on May 27, 2009 11:20 PM

HEY U GUYS DONT CLOSE YOURSELF FROM THE OUTSIDE U KNOW IT IS FOR THE BEST THEY NEED TO BE HAPPY TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

my parents are divorced and i live with my mom. sometimes when i get mad i just call my dad and i feel alot better. but my stepdad is also cool. we get along good. sometimes its weird though because you go to your friends houses and you see a nice happy family but you go home and its split and its weird. but i think it makes you a better person because everything happens for a reason.

My Parents are divorced and I live with it, but I nvr see my dad 'cuz I live with my mom step dad and step sister it's such A drag sometimes I wish my parents couls some how get along...:(

my parent had this huge argument over me being alone with my moms boyfriend and mY LITTLE BABY sister

They split when I was 2. But we're all happier now and my parents are friends. When your parents split, just think about how much less arguing there will be, how much more attention the parent you don't live with gives you

Natasha Tavares on May 28, 2009 3:34 PM

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My parents split when I was two and I don't remember much about when mom and dad were in love. They are friends now but they will never get back together. If your parents split, don't over-react. Sure you can cry but think of the positive: There isn't much shouting, if either parent finds a new lover, you get more presents and the parent you spend less time with will give you more attention coz they miss you!
RESULT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CarterPattinson on May 28, 2009 3:43 PM

yeaa my parents are divorced!!! although there are perks, like two holidays and birthdays and extra vacations, think of the big picture. your parents are split! so the next time your friends complain that you get extra presents, remind them why!!! also, remind them that now you have extra family!! everyone, remember, more people love you now!!

yeah.....my parents are divorced but to everyone it seems like a total disaser ..like the world is coming to an end ....it really isnt i cried for a while and its a littl scary but its no problem......good things come out of it...believe it or not but they do, like twice the vacays, twice the christmas presents,twice the birthday presents its not tht bad a lot of my friends parents are divorced so they really feel the same way i do but yha itll probably leave a scar its pretty suckish and i really hope they dnt get re-married...i love j-14!

No my parents are not divorced.
if any body has to ask some one about any body or thing you can e-mail me at little.bubbles1@hotmail.com
please if you can e-mail me and i might help your problems

Yes, My parents are divorced and i was sad because i thought my step dad was mean. Then i realized If it weren't for their divorce i wouldn't of had these amazing expiriences. I have a wonderful step family on both sides ,and my step mom's sister is pregnant so i will have a little step cousin soon! I hope it's a boy!

isabella on May 28, 2009 9:34 PM

yes. i don't know how just all of a sudden it happend but i live with my mom and on weekends with my dad :(

Yes but I guess i am okay with it cause if they were together they would always fight and you know so atleast they bothe love me!

Yes my parents have been divorced (I don't know sence when... ) My mom finaly told me that she and my father divorced when I was 8 or 9. It turned out that they've been divorced long time ago, they've been pretending to be together, because they did not want to hurt me. That explained alot, no wonder my father rarely came home. I am 11 now. I had to move here from China when I was 9, my mom met another guy that lives here. On the other side, my father is still in China and he had a baby with his new wife. I get to go back to china to visit the rest of my family, cuz i only have my mom here. Thankfully my mom and my father, my father's wife are best friends!!! :) But some how i still feel the pain in my heart, but I will always love my family forever and ever!

MY PARENTS WERENT MARRIED BUT THEY SPLIT MY STEP DAD HAS KNOW ME SINCE I WAS 5 YRS OLD I AM ALREADY 11!!!!YA I MISS MY DAD BUT I KNOW HE WILL ALWAYS LOVES ME MY MOM SAYS JUST FORGET ABOUT HIM BUT I CANT DADDY IF U READ THIS I LOVE U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


PEACE!!!!!! GIRLS STAY TRUE TO YOUR SLEF AND EVERYBODY AROUND U!!!!!!!!!!!!

My parents are in the beggining of a divorce and all my friend's parents are divorced too :(. Alot of children have to go through it and i know it is hard, you have to live life and know its not your fault. It hurts everyone, some people more then others though. If you are having trouble, maybe you should go see a councler, it is perfectly normal to be hurt.

Adiamond on May 29, 2009 9:55 AM

My parents have been divorced since i was six years old. It has been very hard for me and my mom since. My mother was struggling to take care of me and my little brother who at was only one. My mother then married again when I was nine and my brother was four. My mother thought it would be best for us if we had a father figure in our life since our father would not come to see us. Well the after a year she divorced again. Again for the second time we were all alone and no father figure. When I was ten she fell in love with a good friend of hers. They married after dating for two years. Now they have been married for five years. I am hoping this marriage will last for a while. I hope to see my father soon. he now resides in Pennsylvania. Me, my mother, my brother, and my step father now reside in New York. I hope we will stay here because we have moved a lot since my mother and father divorced. I hope no one has to go through everything that has happened to me.

Adiamond on May 29, 2009 9:56 AM

My parents have been divorced since i was six years old. It has been very hard for me and my mom since. My mother was struggling to take care of me and my little brother who at was only one. My mother then married again when I was nine and my brother was four. My mother thought it would be best for us if we had a father figure in our life since our father would not come to see us. Well the after a year she divorced again. Again for the second time we were all alone and no father figure. When I was ten she fell in love with a good friend of hers. They married after dating for two years. Now they have been married for five years. I am hoping this marriage will last for a while. I hope to see my father soon. he now resides in Pennsylvania. Me, my mother, my brother, and my step father now reside in New York. I hope we will stay here because we have moved a lot since my mother and father divorced. I hope no one has to go through everything that has happened to me.

My parents
Divorced when i was about 5 years old
i didnt take it too good
my little brother was only about 5 months
when they did that
Amg it hurt ahahha
xD
But atleast i get 2 rooms xD

my mom and my dad got a divorce and i go see them both each one love me the same way

Twilighter on May 29, 2009 2:37 PM

yes my parents are devorsed my dad is now suffering from deppresion and my mom is re-marring and i am usally in the middle of it.u need to make sure that u know ur not alone and tht its NEVER ur falt. there are two things u need to do if ur really sad

1.Talk to them
2.Relax and saty true to ur self

hope i helped and ps:Team Jacob

take ur middle finger and put it on your nose.
2. say the name of someone u like.
3. that person will ask u out or say they love u tomarrow.
4. heres the thing copy and paste to 2 other commet things and u will gt kissed on he nearest frieday1 It works!

my parents divored when i was seven years old then my dad died and my mom got married to this stupid guy and i hate him

my parents divored when i was seven years old then my dad died and my mom got married to this stupid guy and i hate him

my grandparents are and they lived in the same house and now they live in different states. I cant even bring up the other grandparent or they will blow up. its hard kinda

no!!!!!!! = )

No ,
my parents are not divorce but they fight alot
soi dont kno wahst going to happen
PS:Sry for all the people whose parents got divorce

Kaely Urias on May 29, 2009 8:07 PM

My parents are divoreced and have been for about 4 years. It was really hard for me to get over and it's still hard to this very day. It hought everything was ok and yet it happened. Its really hard to live with, but it gows on you. Now, my dad is getting married to another woman and I'm happy(sort of). Sometimes things can get crazy and there are days where all i do is cry, but I'm learning how to deal with it.

my parents have been divorced for like three years and it still hurts i was deppresed for a really really really really infiniti long time and i just i have been happy for like one week and it just feels good to be me again i just hope that they work it out it has been hard :}

Cheyenne on May 29, 2009 8:30 PM

yeppers they are...im someone who believes that everything happens for a reason and i got over it,,they faught ALOT and it was kinda scary..i was only 7 and it really sucked but it forced me to grow up and i did..it was one of the better things that has happened to me...It forced me to grow up and now im way more mature than kids my age and sometimes they dont get it but because i am i get to hang out with the adults and they treat me like one too...sometimes it takes your world crashing down around you to see exactly what your made of...i learned to live with what comes my way and what happens happens!

My parents are divorced since i'm three and that have never been a problem for me.Now i'm fifteen and last year I started to think how it would be having my parents together...My conclusion was that sometimes it's good having them separate but other times it'd be good having both I love the most always next to me!

My rents are divorced and the way I deal with it is through not talking about it.

Brittany on May 30, 2009 10:11 AM

Well mine are divorced,since i was 3. And last year's halloween my dad was dropping me off at my moms with my sis and best friend. My dad was talking about the day before when my step dad told my dad to shut up in the phone,when we were there my dad got out of the car and started a whole big fight with my step dad bro and sis,my mom in front of my bff and sis. He left but came back with his dad {my gramps} who brought a gun. Then my step dads sis is a cop,and she called for back up and my dad was pressed with charges.

yes..my BFF's parents are divorced...she's living with her dad..and her stepmom...
Her dad is a pilot and her stepmom is extremely mean with her and makes her do all of the chores, get her stepsister and stepbrother ready for school and give them their showers and feed them...her father stays around for very little time...and her stepmother acts so sweet in front of her dad, she tried telling him, but he never believed her...so the poor girl has to live her miserable life like this everyday :(

no! but JON AND KATE MIGHT BE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! there relationship is terrible!!!!!!!!!!!

NO. and i am so greatful because alot of my friends parents are divorced and it is really sad.

Alessandra on May 30, 2009 6:52 PM

Yes. My parents have been divorced ever since I was six. I was sad for a while, but I truly felt sorry for my younger sisters who were four and one. Now, being older I'm actually happt they're divorced because they can actually be civil with eachother and be friends.:)

CC Babii!!! on May 30, 2009 7:40 PM

omg!!!!!! yes my mom an dad have been over for quit sum time!!!!! now i have a step-dad an my real dad is on drugs an lives with his mom it hurts sum times but i have to stick it through an my mom has kids with my step-dad an when i look at them im like man they sure are lucky look at em` soo oh well!!!!!! but if you think youh gots it bad take a few steps back an a few deep breaths an think about whats goin in sumbodies life that is worst!!!!! i luv youh all!!! 8)

Priscilla on May 30, 2009 7:50 PM

No, my parents are not divorced but my friends parents almost got divorced.Me and my best friend have been through everything together and when she found out that her parents were getting a divorce,she told me and we totally freaked and stressed about it for weeks.All we could think about was what happens if she moves and i never see her again.Then i remembered that my Aunt was a marriage counselor so i called her up one day and said "Hey why don't we send your parents to my Aunt,shes a marriage counselor" and she agreed! Her parents went there and talked everything out and they stayed together! To this day I thank my Aunt for keeping my Best Friends family together and not letting her move!

My friends parents are divorced and she loves it! Whenever her mom buys her something, her dad will buy her something better. She has EVERYTHING she wants!

mrs.jonas on May 31, 2009 8:32 AM

no my 2 best friends parents r not either. but 2 of my freinds parents r divorced and they seem happy. 1 of them has alot of sibs and shes kinda happy bout that.

Yes my parents are divorced, and I hate it! It kind of happened like this my mom's mother was in the hospital and my mom was always up there and never home to take care of me, So my dad was well really mad and they fought over me and now they're divorced this happened at Christmas time!!! My mom got to keep me and I go from Hardin to Caseyvillie every weekend..........................So that's my story!
Thanks for reading this if you do!

My friends parents are divorced and for all of you people out there.. I recomenned this to you.
Stay and a family/friends house for a couple of nights
and that way your parents have some privacy to sort things out.

Yes... My parents are divorced and its sucs even thop I'm pretty much ova it! I go to my dads and all summer long I miss my friends from my moms during the summer tho cuz he lives 5 and half hours away! My sisterstill really misses my dad tho

Bai-Leigh on May 31, 2009 3:23 PM

Yes my parents are divorced.
At first it was a really tough experience to go through. Kids are not used to having there parents not live in the same house, I have to admit it hurt for a long time. The best thing to do is to go to a group for divorced children. I have to admit that really helped.
At first I blamed my dad and myself for my parents divorce. I was very angry all the time and I was very difficult to live with. I was very young at the time though, I was only 4. I remember alot of it though, which isnt always a good thing. The groups really helped though. I would reccomend going to one, at any age. It doesnt mean your messed up or need help. Believe me. Its just a support group.
I would just like to say to any of the parents who might be reading this out there! Im sure there wont be very many but just a message.
Dont fight with your Ex husband over property and other things. Dont try to get everything for yourself, let your lawyers sort it all out. This will just hurt your children, they will think about boys or girls and treat them the way you treat your Ex Husband or Ex wife. Its not good for your children. I understand how that must sound from a 14 year old girl but ive seen what it does to children and its very painful to see someone do that to people you love.
Just keep in mind what I have said.
There's my story!!
God Bless to everyone who has divorced parents !!
It gets better, I promise. It might not seem like it but it will. If your having trouble maybe try going to a group like I sugested. You will get through it.
Stay Strong Everyone!!


yes.....:( but now i have a step mom

my parent got divorced wen i was still lil like 3 or 4 but the way we get over it is 1 summer here with mom christmas with dad in cali just alternate you chose who u want to be btw i have a step mom im not kool wit

samantha on May 31, 2009 9:08 PM

my partens are not ilgally divorcded buti really want to live with my mom .she helps me with my homework.ilove her thats y i this to my mom.also another reason i what to live with my mom is because my grandpa has cancer, my grandma has diabetes.i just want the world to live in peace and for everyone to reunite and every child to live there dream and wish for what ever they want . also i dont think its fair that childern have to choose a parent or a parent to choosefor the child.and i think i speak for every child

My Mom an Dad divorced when i was 8 or 7 and i havent talked to my dad in forever

It was hard because my parents got divorced when i was five so i had no idea what was going on. In first grade i went to a counsuler. That made it a lot easier! The good thing was a country girl moved to the country! Remember 1 good thing always come out of 1 bad thing

Well Kinda...
They told me that they weren't getting along and MIGHT be getting divorced! We ( My brouther and I ) Cried and then my dad told me to pray so i did....
And well it helped.
That was about 2 years ago. They get along great now...
I just don't know how God does it.

Well Kinda...
They told me that they weren't getting along and MIGHT be getting divorced! We ( My brouther and I ) Cried and then my dad told me to pray so i did....
And well it helped.
That was about 2 years ago. They get along great now...
I just don't know how God does it.

Yes.......my mom and dad are divorced
My mom was cheatin on my dad and did it 5 yrs before too

He found out in september 2008!! My mom and dad were married 13 years and how could my mom be married to a wonderful person like my dad and 5 kids and just abandon us all like that!!!
I see my mom now every other weekend
That isnt enough time to see your parents is it?
I never thought that it woud happen 13 awesome years and it just happened like that!!
Idk wat to do
i dont want to say i hate my mom but i aint that far from it!!! i dont love my mom the way i used to!!

no but 4 those of you guys whose parents are..just hang in there

no. my parents are not divorced and i know my moom and my dad that he will never get divorce and im sorry for everyone who hates that there parents are divorsed.....

no. my parents are not divorced and i know my moom and my dad that he will never get divorce and im sorry for everyone who hates that there parents are divorsed.....

Lalalaura on June 2, 2009 7:17 PM

my parents got divored when i was 4, so i cried A LOT. its hard because i sometimes miss when we were all one happy family living together in one big house, but its kinda cool having 2 houses. i try to think of good things about my parent's being divorced, even if there aren't many.

Lalalaura on June 2, 2009 7:17 PM

my parents got divored when i was 4, so i cried A LOT. its hard because i sometimes miss when we were all one happy family living together in one big house, but its kinda cool having 2 houses. i try to think of good things about my parent's being divorced, even if there aren't many.

Lalalaura on June 2, 2009 7:18 PM

my parents got divored when i was 4, so i cried A LOT. its hard because i sometimes miss when we were all one happy family living together in one big house, but its kinda cool having 2 houses. i try to think of good things about my parent's being divorced, even if there aren't many.

yep.... mi biological parents have been divorced sinc i was in the first grade, i have had the chance to get to know my father but i haven't taken advantage of it because i don't want to build a relationship i kno won't last but now mi mom is happily remarried and im happy 4 her n i like mi step dad

My parents split when I was 3 or 4. ( I'm 14)
I dont really remember them together but I how it can hurt someone. My best friends parents are thinking about spliting and she thinks it's the end of the world. I will feel that way but you'll just have to pick yourself up and depend on others. If your parents fight in font on you, walk to another room. If your parennts stop and ask we're going tell them that you cant handle them fighting and you want to get away from this. Your parents will feel bad but they should for fighting in fount of your eyes. They shouldn't yell in another room so you cant see them but you can hear them. Ask your parents to seat down and talk calm. Once your parents know how you feel about it they should be able to not yell but to be able to get each other's point across.

My parents split when I was 3 or 4. ( I'm 14)
I dont really remember them together but I how it can hurt someone. My best friends parents are thinking about spliting and she thinks it's the end of the world. I will feel that way but you'll just have to pick yourself up and depend on others. If your parents fight in font on you, walk to another room. If your parennts stop and ask we're going tell them that you cant handle them fighting and you want to get away from this. Your parents will feel bad but they should for fighting in fount of your eyes. They shouldn't yell in another room so you cant see them but you can hear them. Ask your parents to seat down and talk calm. Once your parents know how you feel about it they should be able to not yell but to be able to get each other's point across.

samantha on June 3, 2009 9:13 PM

no but i wish they were becauze i think it would be fun lol..........

samantha on June 3, 2009 9:13 PM

no but i wish they were becauze i think it would be fun lol..........

olivia i dont live in the ghetto i lve in the country and dont talk about that some people are dealing with this rite now and ur making fun of them. ur lucky i can control my urge to punch someone

nicki***:) on June 4, 2009 10:45 AM

no. but my parents sure do act like there in a divorice,sometimes i wish they would, so they would quit fighting and crying.It just hurts more:((((

no and im glad

Jordan Gregory on June 4, 2009 1:21 PM

i have had devorced parent fo over 6 years and i am 13..
it rly suck's b/c they still fight just like they did back then...
somethimes it just never gets better!!

KirstyMcD on June 4, 2009 1:29 PM

I am 12 now and my parents split when i was like 2 or 3 so i dont remember anything, im just used to going to my dads every other weekend and every friday and a week or 2 with my dad in the summer hols. \i live with my mum and sometimes miss my dad

Marie Chazler on June 4, 2009 3:42 PM

I know people whose parents are divorced, and it totally sucks. Mine were close to that and I was totally stressed, so I read this book, "It's Not the End of the World" by Judy Blume. It's a great book about this subject (not so great a subject), and it'll let you know you're not alone.

YES MY PARENTS ARE DIVOCED AND I HATE IT MY DAD IS REMARRIED AND I HATE MY STEP MOM I THINK SHE IS OUT TO GET ME I KNOW I SHOULDNT SDAY THIS BUT I JUST WANT HER TO GET OUT OF MY LIFE SHE CHANGED MY DAD AHD ALL HE EVER DOES IS LISTEN TO HER AND ON TIME I HAD TO GO OFF ON HER CAUSE SHE THINKS SHE IS MY MAMMA AND I HAD TO SHOW HER THAT SHE AINT AND EVER SINCE THEN SHE AINT SIAD AINT SAID ONE THING TO ME AND I NWENT OFF ON HER A MONTH AGO.

♥minni♥ on June 4, 2009 5:09 PM

my parents have been divorced since before i could walk. sometimes its hard because they epect you 2 have a favorite but on the other hand u get double of everything. its hard when divorce when youre soo young because youll never know what it was like 2 have both of your parents together

♥minni♥ on June 4, 2009 5:14 PM

my parents have been seperated since i was born. it was hard for me when i found my dad was married and my mom was still single. i finally got over that but ill never know it will be like to have both of my parents together.

Samantha on June 4, 2009 8:16 PM

My parents got divorced last year (June 22nd)
Yea i know the date ,hat's how much it hurt me.
I cried just about every night.
I couldn't look at pics of my "old" life.
No more Sundays where i woke up to mom's pancakes
and Dad talking about something in the news.
They say you get closer your parents after a divorce.
Just Lies.
Im really distant with my mom, because i hate her stupid boyfriend. She says I'm just not used to the
situation, afterall my parents were married 15 years.
But it's not that I jsut get a really bad feeling about him, but when i tell my mom does she care, NO.
i don't really get to see my dad that much anymore
but he's getting place of his own soon(lives with my grandparents) I'll get to see him more then.
I still cry sometimes, especailly when my mom took down the wedding photos.

But i think im gonna get used to it someday.
Well, if my mom dumps her horrible boyfriend.

Ya they are, and the sad thing is that they always promised me and my brother they never would divorce and even tho my parents are still friends I keep finding out stuff about both my parent that i dont wanna hear like my mom told me about all this stuff my dad did or does and my dad does the same.

My parents have been split for I think 12 years now. I am 14 and its really starting to hit me, well the emothions. some days its hard, but some times you think this happened for a reason. The only thing that keeps me smiling each day is to think that they both still love me and will always love me for me. I have had my ups and downs with both parents, but I'm moving on to the next chapter of my life and hopefuly leaving this past behind.

Yes. It was hard when my parents got divorced. I was only seven and i never really see my dad alot. It has been a while since they divorced. I rarely see my dad. Ever since they divorced i spent more time with my mom and we get along better. In the long run....it made me closer to my mom more then ever!

Yeah my parents are divorsed,
Its okay i guess. When my parents were together though there waz alot of fighting and argueing. There still is agrueing but its not as bad as before. I'm happier now because both of them have moved on, and they both seem happy now.

my parents are divorced but they are still really good friends even after mom married again

My parents aren't divorced but my cousins are! She is kinda sad about it sometimes! She sometimes cries before summer because everyone is like what are you doing over summer and people answer well my dad is taking me wherever oh my dad is so stupid well he's just being a dad! It makes her kinda sad hearing about that! She goes to the same school as me and she is in the same class! My 2nd boyfriends parents are divorced but he never talks about it.

My parents aren't divorced but my cousins are! She is kinda sad about it sometimes! She sometimes cries before summer because everyone is like what are you doing over summer and people answer well my dad is taking me wherever oh my dad is so stupid well he's just being a dad! It makes her kinda sad hearing about that! She goes to the same school as me and she is in the same class! My 2nd boyfriends parents are divorced but he never talks about it.

My parents aren't divorced but my cousins are! She is kinda sad about it sometimes! She sometimes cries before summer because everyone is like what are you doing over summer and people answer well my dad is taking me wherever oh my dad is so stupid well he's just being a dad! It makes her kinda sad hearing about that! She goes to the same school as me and she is in the same class! My 2nd boyfriends parents are divorced but he never talks about it.

Not mine, but my cousin's parents got divorced. She doesn't talk about it much, so I'm not sure how she dealt with it, but she hass a 3 year old sister and I'm just wondering, "Does she even know what the heck is going on?" I mean does her sister think this is what happens to all families? The thought makes me sad.

my parents are divorced! my parents divorced when i was 2. i had an older sister who was 7 when my parents divorced. its hard not seeing my dad very often. and sometimes i wish they would get back together, but my parents both remarried!

:x CaMi :x on June 8, 2009 3:29 PM

Yes, I grew up with my parent divorce. It was not EASY life. So I have to live w/ my mom and dad each week. It was too hard for my brother and sister I have 2 and 2 brother who have parent divorce and one brother has WONDERFUL life than us bec he live with mom and dad not me and other brother and sister. My mom live in Philadelphia, Pa and my dad live in Wisconsin. I live with my dad for 3 years.

rachel keller on June 9, 2009 4:40 PM

nnnnnnooooooo they arevery happy together 12 years and still going strong! :)

rachel keller on June 9, 2009 4:41 PM

nnnnnnooooooo they are very happy together 12 years and still going strong! :)

donyaphsm on June 9, 2009 5:58 PM

my parents r divorced
i hate it
life is so dificult
well gotta live with it

donyaphsm on June 9, 2009 6:00 PM

my parents r divorced
i hate it
life is so dificult
well gotta live with it
oh this is my message back to pandi
im her cousin her parent r not divorced
but my sister who is turning 4 in july understands

donyaphsm on June 9, 2009 6:02 PM

my parents r divorced
i hate it
life is so dificult
well gotta live with it
oh this is my message back to pandi
im her cousin her parent r not divorced
but my sister who is turning 4 in july understands

donyaphsm on June 9, 2009 6:06 PM

my parents got divoreced like for a year not its ok im living with it i have a sis who is turning 4 in july well
its ok

Yes, they've been divorced for about three years now. It's gotten easier over time, but it was pretty hard in the beginning. I wasn't aloud to spend the night at my dad's for a couple of months and he had to start over from scratch. Everythings going easier now, but I can honestly say that I probably wouldn't want them to get back together. They talk more now than they did before and that why I probably wouldn't want anything to change from how it is now.

katie rich on June 9, 2009 8:00 PM

yes my parents are divourced but it is very hard for me because my mom always causes lots of plomblems so i lve with my dad and grandparents and aunt, but it will still be hard for me to get over
it dont really htink i ever will

yes my parents have been divorced twice when i was 2 and when i was 6

.germie. on June 9, 2009 11:24 PM

yes. sadly my parents are divorced. i live with my mom in puerto rico while my dad lives in orlando. i have a half-brother from my dad's side. when they got divorced i was about 5.

Shelbster on June 10, 2009 1:49 AM

my parents r not divorced and im thankful 4 that!

Yes my parents are divorced!!


I was only 6 and my sister was 8 :(

My parents are divorced.


It was kinda Hard at first knowing that he was not there anymore to play with me and stuff. But i was happier with my mom not hearing all the fighting going on while sitting in the corner of my bedroom crying. My sister and me used to bite our nails and be very scared of everything but now that my dad is no longer in the picture we have stopped doing all of that, even though i don't like my moms boyfriend I Know he is better then my Dad.

Violet Blake. on June 10, 2009 2:13 PM

No.
people in my family, & in my parents group of friend just don't get divorced.
it's about status.
If your single your not as important. & you don't have as much money.
the women don't have to work.
wether they are happy or not.
it's just the way things go.

my parents are divorced. at first it was really hard to grasp the idea but after a while i guess i just got comfortable knowing that my parents are better off seperated. although my dad did marry another lady and they now have a child together, my mom has stayed single and i enjoy the time and love that she gives us. i am so happy i live with her and not my dad because i am a girl and it would be hard to tell my dad things that girls go through.

no, and i am very lucky they're together. also very thankful

Yup, My parents broke up when I was 8 years old.
I always knew it was going to happen because everyonce in a while my mom and dad would get into a big fight and my mom would move me and brother out for a while, we would live in a different apartment then after a while my mom and dad got back together so we moved back. I moved out my my house a couple of times because of that. So when they really broke I left it would last not that long because it never lasts long. When my mom told that they were never getting together. I was totally broken. I had to move away from my best friend in the end of summer so from August to September I was packing, moving and then unpacking then I started at a new school.
Then after a couple of months my mom started dating someone new, I was again broken because if she started dating then it was truly over between my parents.
Now I am 14 and I am not so broken anymore. I am still very little sad but both my parents are very happy this way.
There is a detail in this story that is a big part of why they broke up and why they never got together.
but itès a sercet that I never told and I am going to keep it that way.

Krista

ya my parents are divorced. it happened when i was like maby 7 and i am 14 now so it has been a long time to get use to it. if you need advice, just know it is not your fault they are getting divorced and that everything will be okay! the worst part for me is not having all my clothes at one house!!! :D haha

ya my parents are divorced. it happened when i was like maby 7 and i am 14 now so it has been a long time to get use to it. if you need advice, just know it is not your fault they are getting divorced and that everything will be okay! the worst part for me is not having all my clothes at one house!!! :D haha

my parents are divorced and my mom dates a pot head and my dad is engaged to this woman i really like but i still dont know how to deal with it

no... but it seems like it theyare always arguing and my dad says they should get a divorce

My parents divorced when I was two and there was a lot of fighting. I don't remember it but my mom told me that and that is apparently why I cringe at any loud noise. Apparently that kinda thing just settles in you and you don't know why but it happens. The divorce is going to be EXTREMELY stressful on your parents and they may become irritable and instead of letting that impact you just surround yourself with friends that you can trust and you know will always be there for you.

--If you are close with your parents you should talk with them about it. But for people like me who would just see no point in having a heart to heart, keep a journal so you can vent in there instead of venting to someone else because that may overwhelm them.

Hope that helped!!!

When my parents divorced I was just two so, I can't say I can remember a time when they were together, but that doesn't make it any easier. A lot of times if your mom says one thing, your dad says another. I'm not saying that it will be like that for all parents, if your divorced parents get along, counts your blessings. Mine don't. I cope by remembering that if they were together I would hear constant fighting and be in a bad home. Sometimes when kids want thier parents to be together, they don't remember that the fighting comes with it. Keep on open mind and loves both sides.. :)

-Taylor.

Ashley*tears* on June 13, 2009 11:41 AM

yes mi parenrs r divorced and have been for a lil over 2 yrs. it sucks because i hav 2 see mi dad even if i dont want 2. he has a record of sexual abusin my older sis and shes my half sis so shes not even his daghter! i feel all the pain and tears in divorce 2 those others out there. its hard!

i lived in ohio and when i turned 3 years old they had the divorce my mom moved to florida and left my dad at ohio by himself i went with my mom to flroida my dad came to florida cause he missed me . So every Sunday and sometimes saturday and friday i go to his house my mom has a new husband now and my dad has a girl friend.

this is how i dealt with it i went in my room i took a deep breath and calm i got over it a few years but i pray too god that they could be togeth again but at least i still have them my loving parents

My parents have been divorced since I was 6.. So I dont really think about it. But I have a great stepmom that I have known forever. So I just act like it neve happened. :) I still go to visit my mother though so she isn't totally out of my life.

well my parents ahve been divorced since I was 3 (in am 12) and they have never really foght and I still do not know y they divorced!

TWILIGHTROXMYSOX on June 14, 2009 10:10 PM

MY PARENTS GOT DIVORCED WHEN I WAS 6 AND THEN I REALLY DIDNT KNOW WHAT WAS HAPPENING BUT SOME HOW WORKED OUT: I LIVED WITH MY MOM AND SPENT THE WEEKEND WITH MY DAD EVERY OTHER WEEKEND!
BUT THE SAD THING IS MY DAD PASSED AWAY 3 YEARS L8ER AND HE WAS SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED THE NEXT YEAR. SO HIS FIONCE WAS WITH ANOTHER MAN RIGHT AFTER HE DIED AND FOUND OUT THAT SHE WAS PRG A FEW DAYS L8ER.

BUT 4 MY MOM SHE MARRIED A NICE MAN 2 YEARS AGO AND I HAVE A HALF BROTHER THAT IS 5 THAT IS HIS! I LOVE HIM ( MY BRO) VERY MUCH AND I AM HAPPY THAT MY MOM IS HAPPY!

I AM 13 NOW AND I AM MISSIN MY DAD BUT LOVIN EVERYDAY I AM WITH MY MOM!!

♥ YA ALL!

YES TO BAD FOR ME

yeah, my parents are divorced and have been for as long as i could remember. sometimes it hurts but other times its cool because i really dont remember what happend!

Yes, they are. You just have to remember that it's not your fault and that love doesn't always work.

yes... i just go on and on about it . I LOVE IT ! My b-day is on th 18th this month and i get better stuff & parties ! I LOVE IT !!!!

yes... i just go on and on about it . I LOVE IT ! My b-day is on th 18th this month and i get better stuff & parties ! I LOVE IT !!!!

princcess on June 15, 2009 5:31 PM

yes my parents divorced and made me be the super girl i cried but i held up my whole family i mean dad
abusive sister other sis and brother lawl........... i was 9 then

No... but i know it's coming because they fight about EVERYTHING!!! And mom is always mimicking him when he talks and stands him up when they have date nights and she has something before it!!!! Sometimes i wish they would just break- up. I know that sounds bad but things just get so tense and stressful at my house.

YES ..................... it was shocking and i didn't see it coming but it was sad at first but you get use to it and try to find a loop hole and have fun some how

:] Peace

my mom and sisters dad are divorced. my mom divorced my dad when i was 2 weeks old. the one thing i hate the most about divorces is probably everyone saying that ur gonna get more presents holidays.....u dont. at least not me. the only thing i got more of was crying,depression,and shingles(the advanced stage of chicken pox-adults are usually the ones who get-that are caused by stress----YUCK!they hurt really bad!>>> my mom is not really support though

Uh.. no. they got seperated. But my dad died :'(

My parents got divorced a little while after my third birthday (about 11 years ago.) But since my parents got divorced when I was so young, i only remember them being apart. But when your parents are divorced it's kind f annoying because you have to get two of everything, one for each house, or else it might not feel like home.

yes. my parents have been divorce. i remember when i was 4 years old and how my mom was arguing with my dad and i locked myself in the bathroom and i was crying so much. i hated it. then i remember finding scissors and i cut some of my hair. idk why but i did. but that was when i used to live in florida but now i live in ny

Morgan Bourque on June 17, 2009 4:21 PM

i have divorced parents and its not fun.When i was like 5 i remember seeing my mom in the kitchen in the morning i went in my parents' bedroom and my dad wasn't there and his stuff wasn't either. I asked her if he was gone and she said yes. I was torn apart at 5 years old. I still love my dad even though he isnt with my mom. At first it is really hard but then you have to think would you rather your parents be together and fighting all the time or have them apart and be with people they can be happy with. I'm 14 now and things are better just keep the faith and don't be selfish.

lyrixloverr on June 18, 2009 5:28 PM

My parents are divorced && this little thing happened when i was like 1 or 2 so i don't remember much of when it was happening [almost 16 right now]. I do know that now i have a lot of problems with it right now - i go to boston almost every holiday because my dad lives there && he has a wife && stuff now. Its tough because i don't really like my step parents & siblings because they are different then me && were grown up in a different sort of way. i guess i have always lived with just me & my mom and have eaten straight out of the ice cream carton while they have always had specific portions of ice cream in a small little dish. i like to think im like other kids and this bothers them as much as it does me - along with the fact that they dont get along with eachother when they are in the same room. it can be a big burden & get really difficult on the kid.

yes and its so unfair that i have to travel to my mom to dad. :( my mom has changed a LOT and i dont like it i like my old life!!!!!!!!!!!!! i wish i have a time machine i am so misserable!!!!!!! why me
:(

Logan C. Abigail on June 18, 2009 7:59 PM

YA what a mess my "real" dad does not even talk 2 me. I feel fine i have people who love me 2 take care of me.

Logan C. Abigail on June 18, 2009 8:01 PM

Ya my "real" dad dosent even talk 2 me . Im fine about it i have people who love me 2 take care of me.

Logan C. Abigail on June 18, 2009 8:02 PM

Ya my "real" dad dosent even talk 2 me . Im fine about it i have people who love me 2 take care of me.

my parents have been divorced since I was in third grade && it's been really hard 2 understand why they did

MY parent r divorced since 2007 I live w my mom

MY parent r divorced since 2007 I live w my mom it very hard i met my real dad :((((((!!!!!!!!! why do they have to get divorced why is our fault they got in divorced we still love them my mom was never marry but now she is marry to a very nice man he like a real dad 2 me but i hate when they agrue and fight 2 it will sux very very very bad ;(((((((( ;0000000

Elise Schmitt on June 19, 2009 5:07 PM

My parents got a divorce when I was just 2 years old. Honestly I know it was my fault and it really sucks living with this guilt everyday. My parents got a divorce because they were not ready for another baby(I was an accident) Now I am 14 and my scheduale is so messed up! I go to my fathers house everyother week. I hate going to my fathers house for 7 days because we never really connected. He wanted to give me up for adoption when I was born but my mother wanted to keep me. Can you imagine seeing someone every other week who you knew did not want you!? Well, it stinks..it really really stinks! The one thing that really sucks about your parents getting a divorce when you are little is you miss a ton of expierences. I don't care if I have 2 bedrooms and double the amount of birthday and Christmas preasents. If I could have one thing for Christmas it would be to wake up, eat breakfast with my mother AND father and open up preasents and spend time together as a FAMILY, unfortunatly I will never have that experiance. I also think it totally stinks that divorce rates are going up, nearly 50% of marriages end in divorce! That is terrible!

my parents got a divorce when i was 7 it was the saddest thing i ever saw it was 2 days after thanks giving and i was young but old enough to no what was going on... all i saw was my parents fighting and i thought it was about me..something i did..but i was wrong it was them... all i could remember was my mom wanted to move but my dad didnt want me away from him..he was on his knees begging her for me to stay in town.. he said."shann is the only thing i got. i love her if i dont have her i have no other way to live". now today my life is soo different my mom is dating other guys and my dad is happy but his life changed....i no deep deep deep down they still have some love for each other but the only thing ik they both love is me....

yeah am actually going through my parents divorce right now. it really does suck knowing your mom doesnt love your dad anymore but its my dads fault he caused this all my mom wanted to do is to work this out. i really admire my mom for standing up for herself and for me.since am the oldest one am 15 i have to be strong for my sis and my brothers.somedays it really hits me and i start thinking why does this have to happend to my family? but am learning to accept it one step at a time.i think that its better off my parents divorcing even though i really really want them to stay together because they always used to argue and my life was more miserable then it is right now. so am slowly getting over.would i ever forgive my dad for whats he made me go through? no. for all those whose parents are divorce just stay strong. :)

love,
val

Cassandra on June 21, 2009 11:32 AM

My mom is so nice and sweet and she does everything to help me and my two older sisters. We were so happpy together but than one day my mom decided to let all three of us spen a month with my real dad. So we ended up spending like a month and a half there. When we came back home we meet this guy named Mike. out of nowhere they just started kissing. I was so mad. then he started living woth us then they got married.He was nice at first. Now he stulkes us where ever we go he tells my mom that he loves her but he lives with his girlfriend. Now i HATE him. he has brote nothing but bad, mean and cruel to my family. I can't stand him. he doesn't help my mom with the bills but he wants to sleep with her. I do not like him. I HAD ENOUGH OF HIM!!!!!!!!!!

well sort of my parents are getting the big "D" i dont no how i will live. my whole life will change. i have 2 dogs but i cant keep them any more...:( ill miss them soooo much how can people live when the no that there pearents dont love eachother any more.

I AM SO MAD!!!!!

No, my parents arent divorced, but honestly I wish they were. They fight all the time! It's so annoying!

my parents were never married i live with my dad after my mom had told me that i was only supposed to be a one nite stand in austin texas! 9 mo later there came me! well mommy im sorry for ruining your life honestly

no they arent divorced but sometimes i wish they were, yes that sounds horrible but they fight ALL the time and im the one in the middlke pushing the moff of each other, yea its not just yelling, there are fists involved.(and police) ... but i wish they would handle it like my friends parents who are split up at the moment but the kids never even knew they were fighting.... ughhhhhh

i don't have a dad my mom didnt even get married

i don't have a dad my mom didn't even get married

sadly, my parents are divorced and my dad has a girlfriend, i dont like her much. but as long as he's happy, i guess its ok. I'm 14 almost 15. This women my dad always brings around, shes so rude and annoying. I dont understand how my dad deals with her. I miss my mom so much.. ): I hardly get to see her.

My parent's divorced when I was three(I'm eleven now).I didn't know what was going on I just knew I had two homes now. I lived with my Mom and we moved everywhere.I live with my dad now and have a step-mom.I'm grateful to have my two parents.A lot of people think you must have the hardest life ever but at least I have two parents.Even though they are divorced I see them and couldn't imagine not having them at all.I'm not writing this for people to feel bad for me I'm writing it for people to notice that kids who have divorced parents still have everything at least they arnt together and misereble.

~Caitlin~

Yea my parents are divorced!!!And I was 5 when they were divorced.And Im 9 already!Cant belive it!

My parents got divorced when I was 6 (Im 13 now) My mom and dad live an hour apart from each other and I switch between their houses every other day it gets sooo hard and confusing. Since I was 6 Ive had 1 step dad, 6 step moms, 4 step sisters, 4 step brothers, a half sister, and a half brother. My life is so hard and confusing and I wish I could live in one house and only have one family...

Martha jane on June 28, 2009 1:00 AM

Yeah, my parents got divorced lasy year. (im 12 now) i saw it coming for a long time but really affected my grades for a while. I live with my mom and I really am starting feel disconnected fom my dad. Mainly because my dad has two stepsons now and i feel really left out i mean theyre nice and all, but i miss my old life and old family i wish this never had happened

yes, but you know whats weird, we acctuallygota say in it and that made me feellike both of my parents really did care for me :)

yes, but you know whats weird, we acctually got a say in it and that made me feel like both of my parents really did care for me :)

Yes,my parents got divorced when i was 5.I am 10 now...But i didnt expect it and im still getting over it. I am glad and im not. i am glad because my mom and her new husband ( my stepdad) had a baby and she is now my sister and i love her and if it wasnt for my parents getting divorced then i wouldnt have her =)

Yes,my parents got divorced when i was 5.I am 10 now...But i didnt expect it and im still getting over it. I am glad and im not. i am glad because my mom and her new husband ( my stepdad) had a baby and she is now my sister and i love her and if it wasnt for my parents getting divorced then i wouldnt have her =)

Yes,my parents got divorced when i was 5.I am 10 now...But i didnt expect it and im still getting over it. I am glad and im not. i am glad because my mom and her new husband ( my stepdad) had a baby and she is now my sister and i love her and if it wasnt for my parents getting divorced then i wouldnt have her =)

Klarissa on July 1, 2009 11:06 AM

Yes my parents are divorced sadly :( .
I remember them telling me too it's all clear to me.
It took me awhile to get over it. My grades steeped loooow. Ive dealt with going to a councilor, talking to them about it. I even think to myself 'hey if they were fighting before then I see why they did this. If they're happier apart then OK'. Its not easy but you have to find a way to deal with. Its different though having 2 houses, 2 Beds, 2 TV's. Also on Holiday's its even hard...sorta but I deal with it. This is my 3rd year my parents are divorced so Im use to everything...

Klarissa on July 1, 2009 11:07 AM

Yes my parents are divorced sadly :( .
I remember them telling me too it's all clear to me.
It took me awhile to get over it. My grades steeped loooow. Ive dealt with going to a councilor, talking to them about it. I even think to myself 'hey if they were fighting before then I see why they did this. If they're happier apart then OK'. Its not easy but you have to find a way to deal with. Its different though having 2 houses, 2 Beds, 2 TV's. Also on Holiday's its even hard...sorta but I deal with it. This is my 3rd year my parents are divorced so Im use to everything...

Yea , but when i found out i didnt want it to happened, but ever since it did i got used to it. When i went to go over my cousins house and her mom said i didnt talk and thought that happened cuz of my paRENTS, BUT NOW IM FINE.as long as i get to see my parents im fine with them being divored it for the best i guess

Cheyenne on July 3, 2009 2:58 AM

My parents are divorcing right now and i am in the middle of it. My dad doesn't want to pay child support or almony. We'll he doesn't want to have anything to do with me. I don't like my father because when he would get drunk he would just go crazy and the sad thing about is that on my birthday he has sex with another women in is 18 wheeler truck. My father was never there for me or never wanted to be there for me. I am stuck in the middle of this divorce but i can stop that by not talking to my father and i hope to god that my father does not get visitation right because he has a DUI. I have never loved my father and never will love my father. I hope this was helpful. My God be with you and help you through the time that you are going through. Thanks once again. Bye!!!!

Kiley Shaye(: on July 3, 2009 10:24 PM

nope, they were never married, they just had me and i geuss decided it just wasn't right, but they LOVE mee(: tee hee;

Yes... my parents were divorced since i was 5 or 6 years old but, i got used to it. I live with my mother. My dad visits me 4 times a week!

cristiana on July 4, 2009 11:44 PM

i delt with it my thinkin some kids dont even have parents and i had alot of family and friends to support me

yes . but its not a big thing for me. im now living with my mom . and i already had 2 fosters dads. and ive 3 siblings. all half sisters. i live at my mom,s other house alone. the fact that i never felt love from my real dad hurts. but im just thankful i hve the best mom she loves me so much that i would never look for a father's love again.

---wanna know more about my story?? mail me at kim_arandia@yahoo.com

luckly no :)

mes.chacecrawford on July 6, 2009 9:31 AM

no, my parents r not, but 2 of my friends parents r and i feel very very very bad for them. my one friend her dad lives in her basement. my other friend has to see her dad on the weekends. i feel bad for them

My parents have been divorced a year now. Its been really hard for me and my sister. My dad recently made the decision to move to Georgia which will take a tole on both of us. But without my friends there to help me get through it all i dont know wher id be.

My parents got a divorce when I was three years old. Even though I get to see him and my stepmom every other weekend I feel like it has destroyed a good realationship we could have had. Because of the divorce I don't feel like my dad and I have a good connection with eachother. If he would have stayed with my mom we might have a closer relationship.

no. i consider myself very lucky to have parents that still love each other.

im 15 and my parents have been married for 17 years nearly 18. but most of my friends' parents are divorced... :(

avian :^)...:^( on July 7, 2009 6:39 PM

when my parents got divorced i was only 2 year old n i did not know what was goin on , i just knew that daddy was leavin.....i still remember the suite case at the ....i will never 4get that :`(
but when i was 7 my mom got remarryto my new dad n im more happier than ever .....what made me so happy is seeing her smile insteadof crying n see her struggle thru the bad n the good .....its hard for any child to go thru any divorce ...trust me

Yes, my parents are divorced. They've been ever since I was a baby. Now my mom's married and my dad's engaged. But this divorce was different then anyone else's, but I'm not going into details

Yes, my parents are divorced. They've been ever since I was a baby. Now my mom's married and my dad's engaged. But this divorce was different then anyone else's, but I'm not going into details

No. I think I am very lucky to have parents that love each other. My friend's parents are all together too. All my friends have two parents and so do I. That makes me happy.

Yeah my parents are divorced. But they act the best of friends, for me. I know it has nothing to do with me so it was never really my battle to fight. But i cant say im GLAD they got a divorce but everything happens for a reason. And i wouldn't have the cute and amazing little sister I have now! And i can't change the past! Just had to learn to live with what i've got! And i've got THREE awesome parents who love with all their hearts!

megan gabrielle reece on July 7, 2009 10:37 PM

yes they are,but for the better bcause when i was 2 they hit eachother and didnt pay attntion to me (not to sound conceited or anything).but now they like talk and act like they are friends and it wierds me and my step mom out oh and i dont like it also cuz my step dad hurts me

Anonymous on July 8, 2009 8:05 AM

My grandparents are divorced, but it was for the right reason. It wasn't a fight, but they were just unhappy living together. Money was tight in the house and my grandpa worked all day and all night, while my grandma didn't do anything but chat with her other boyfriend. My mom was 17 when they divorced, but she tells me it's even better without her mom in her life. My grandpa quickly re-married, and I love my step-grandma very much and so do my parents. She's more like a grandma to me than my real one.

eDwArD cUlLeN lOvEr on July 8, 2009 1:02 PM

yeah my parents r divorced. :C
wen dey first got divorced my father didn't WANT 2 c me so my mom took him 2 court and da judge said he HAD 2 c me every other weekend wether he wanted 2 or not after dat i was cing him everyothr weekend then he started lying sayin he had 2 work or he was outta town {da only reason i knw dat iz cuz 1ce he said he was outta town my mom went 2 wallmart and cen him and HIZ new famile} now i dnt c him at all i haven't cen my real dad in over 3 or 4 years but all i can say iz it sucked at first but i EVENTUALLY get over it and like my momma sayz it hiz fault if he dnt wanna c u hez missin out


N0 BUT I WISH THEY WERE THEY FUSS ALOT AND MY M0M D0ESNT TREAT MY DAD RIGHT BUT EVERYB0DY I KNO GOT DIVORCED PARENTS EVEN MY G0D MOM IS DIVORCED I DONT EVEN THINK SHE WAS MARRIED

yes my parents r divosed but my mom has an awesome boyfriend thats going 2 take us 2 silverwood theme park in idaho next summer!!!

yes my parents r divosed but my mom has an awesome boyfriend thats going 2 take us 2 silverwood theme park in idaho next summer!!!

My parents aren't divorced!!!! YAY! I am living A great life! I love my fam no matter what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)))))))))))))
HAPPY!

yes my parents got divorced when i was about 7 or 8 yrs old (im 12 now) i really didnt know what was happening at the time but now that im older i kinda understand but i do miss them being together. :(

my parents arent devorced but somtimes i wish that they were because how they act together but some of my friends have divorced parents but they just come over my house and its like my parents are their parents

Lilly Lautner on July 8, 2009 9:30 PM

Yes. And you know what the weird thing is? You can say this is a lie if you want I don't care, because I know it's real. One night before I even had a clue about it I woke up in the middle of the night crying because I had a dream where my mom told me they were getting a divorce. The first time she actually told me, I remembered the dream but didn't say anything.

Lilly Lautner on July 8, 2009 9:31 PM

Yes. And you know what the weird thing is? You can say this is a lie if you want I don't care, because I know it's real. One night before I even had a clue about it I woke up in the middle of the night crying because I had a dream where my mom told me they were getting a divorce. The first time she actually told me, I remembered the dream but didn't say anything.

Lilly Lautner on July 8, 2009 9:31 PM

Yes. And you know what the weird thing is? You can say this is a lie if you want I don't care, because I know it's real. One night before I even had a clue about it I woke up in the middle of the night crying because I had a dream where my mom told me they were getting a divorce. The first time she actually told me, I remembered the dream but didn't say anything.

yess my parents did get divorced and it was hard going throught that at the time and still at times. and having to move to a new town and going to a new school was so differnet and plus getting used new things.

Amara Richey on July 9, 2009 4:37 PM

Yes. My parents have been divorced ever since i was born. Actually im still trying to get over it completely. I cant stand having to familys. But i love my new step mom and step dad. They are both very nice! But i would rather have my parents together. I dont like them fighting over my weekends! Its my life i should choose where and when i want to go! Its my weekends! Well thanks for listening i guess....

the kid with divorced parents... theres a shock!! on July 9, 2009 4:38 PM

my parents are divorced.

to olivia: what the heck is ur problem?! u know what, i lived in a pretty nice neighborhood, went to a good school, had wonderful neighbors, and u know what? my parents got DIVORCED. u need to learn to b a little more sensitive to other people, and think b4 u say something so STUPID. I did NOT live in the 'ghettos' and during WWI ghettos were fenced off neighborhoods. so u just sound like an idiot. mkay?

i am 14 now, my mom filed for divorce when i was 8, but my dad swore he could change, and my mom gave him another chance. but he didnt. finally, my mom couldnt take it anymore and they divorced. i am lucky, i guess, compared to other divorce kids. i dont NOT see my dad, i see him too much. i am afraid my mom and him will get back together, cuz they dont act divorced. it annoys me, cuz now that i dont live with him i see how bad my dad is for my mom. he lost his house, and hasnt even tried to find an apartment or anything. it makes me mad. i am happy my parents r divorced. i got tired of getting home from church and having to drive around to different bars to find my dad, cuz he wasnt there. my dad was gonna blow off a concert of mine cuz he was gonna go drink with his 'buddies' my dad has a girlfriend, even tho he yells at us when we say shes his girlfriend. i keep watching him try to get my mom back, and some day im afraid he will. he is bad for all of us. and he wont let my mom move on. he sdays if she gets a bf he will beat him up. my dad always comes over to our apartment and locks my mom and him together in her room, and i'm afraid someday he will say the right stuff to her when i am not listening, and they will get back together. i try to help take care of my mom, and i want her to get remarried. i want another chance to have a dad. one that takes care of me and my family.

the kid with divorced parents... theres a shock!! on July 9, 2009 4:39 PM

my parents are divorced.

to olivia: what the heck is ur problem?! u know what, i lived in a pretty nice neighborhood, went to a good school, had wonderful neighbors, and u know what? my parents got DIVORCED. u need to learn to b a little more sensitive to other people, and think b4 u say something so STUPID. I did NOT live in the 'ghettos' and during WWI ghettos were fenced off neighborhoods. so u just sound like an idiot. mkay?

i am 14 now, my mom filed for divorce when i was 8, but my dad swore he could change, and my mom gave him another chance. but he didnt. finally, my mom couldnt take it anymore and they divorced. i am lucky, i guess, compared to other divorce kids. i dont NOT see my dad, i see him too much. i am afraid my mom and him will get back together, cuz they dont act divorced. it annoys me, cuz now that i dont live with him i see how bad my dad is for my mom. he lost his house, and hasnt even tried to find an apartment or anything. it makes me mad. i am happy my parents r divorced. i got tired of getting home from church and having to drive around to different bars to find my dad, cuz he wasnt there. my dad was gonna blow off a concert of mine cuz he was gonna go drink with his 'buddies' my dad has a girlfriend, even tho he yells at us when we say shes his girlfriend. i keep watching him try to get my mom back, and some day im afraid he will. he is bad for all of us. and he wont let my mom move on. he sdays if she gets a bf he will beat him up. my dad always comes over to our apartment and locks my mom and him together in her room, and i'm afraid someday he will say the right stuff to her when i am not listening, and they will get back together. i try to help take care of my mom, and i want her to get remarried. i want another chance to have a dad. one that takes care of me and my family.

the kid with divorced parents... theres a shock!! on July 9, 2009 4:39 PM

my parents are divorced.

to olivia: what the heck is ur problem?! u know what, i lived in a pretty nice neighborhood, went to a good school, had wonderful neighbors, and u know what? my parents got DIVORCED. u need to learn to b a little more sensitive to other people, and think b4 u say something so STUPID. I did NOT live in the 'ghettos' and during WWI ghettos were fenced off neighborhoods. so u just sound like an idiot. mkay?

i am 14 now, my mom filed for divorce when i was 8, but my dad swore he could change, and my mom gave him another chance. but he didnt. finally, my mom couldnt take it anymore and they divorced. i am lucky, i guess, compared to other divorce kids. i dont NOT see my dad, i see him too much. i am afraid my mom and him will get back together, cuz they dont act divorced. it annoys me, cuz now that i dont live with him i see how bad my dad is for my mom. he lost his house, and hasnt even tried to find an apartment or anything. it makes me mad. i am happy my parents r divorced. i got tired of getting home from church and having to drive around to different bars to find my dad, cuz he wasnt there. my dad was gonna blow off a concert of mine cuz he was gonna go drink with his 'buddies' my dad has a girlfriend, even tho he yells at us when we say shes his girlfriend. i keep watching him try to get my mom back, and some day im afraid he will. he is bad for all of us. and he wont let my mom move on. he sdays if she gets a bf he will beat him up. my dad always comes over to our apartment and locks my mom and him together in her room, and i'm afraid someday he will say the right stuff to her when i am not listening, and they will get back together. i try to help take care of my mom, and i want her to get remarried. i want another chance to have a dad. one that takes care of me and my family.

the kid with divorced parents... theres a shock!! on July 9, 2009 4:40 PM

my parents are divorced.

to olivia: what the heck is ur problem?! u know what, i lived in a pretty nice neighborhood, went to a good school, had wonderful neighbors, and u know what? my parents got DIVORCED. u need to learn to b a little more sensitive to other people, and think b4 u say something so STUPID. I did NOT live in the 'ghettos' and during WWI ghettos were fenced off neighborhoods. so u just sound like an idiot. mkay?

i am 14 now, my mom filed for divorce when i was 8, but my dad swore he could change, and my mom gave him another chance. but he didnt. finally, my mom couldnt take it anymore and they divorced. i am lucky, i guess, compared to other divorce kids. i dont NOT see my dad, i see him too much. i am afraid my mom and him will get back together, cuz they dont act divorced. it annoys me, cuz now that i dont live with him i see how bad my dad is for my mom. he lost his house, and hasnt even tried to find an apartment or anything. it makes me mad. i am happy my parents r divorced. i got tired of getting home from church and having to drive around to different bars to find my dad, cuz he wasnt there. my dad was gonna blow off a concert of mine cuz he was gonna go drink with his 'buddies' my dad has a girlfriend, even tho he yells at us when we say shes his girlfriend. i keep watching him try to get my mom back, and some day im afraid he will. he is bad for all of us. and he wont let my mom move on. he sdays if she gets a bf he will beat him up. my dad always comes over to our apartment and locks my mom and him together in her room, and i'm afraid someday he will say the right stuff to her when i am not listening, and they will get back together. i try to help take care of my mom, and i want her to get remarried. i want another chance to have a dad. one that takes care of me and my family.

the kid with divorced parents... theres a shock!! on July 9, 2009 4:40 PM

my parents are divorced.

to olivia: what the heck is ur problem?! u know what, i lived in a pretty nice neighborhood, went to a good school, had wonderful neighbors, and u know what? my parents got DIVORCED. u need to learn to b a little more sensitive to other people, and think b4 u say something so STUPID. I did NOT live in the 'ghettos' and during WWI ghettos were fenced off neighborhoods. so u just sound like an idiot. mkay?

i am 14 now, my mom filed for divorce when i was 8, but my dad swore he could change, and my mom gave him another chance. but he didnt. finally, my mom couldnt take it anymore and they divorced. i am lucky, i guess, compared to other divorce kids. i dont NOT see my dad, i see him too much. i am afraid my mom and him will get back together, cuz they dont act divorced. it annoys me, cuz now that i dont live with him i see how bad my dad is for my mom. he lost his house, and hasnt even tried to find an apartment or anything. it makes me mad. i am happy my parents r divorced. i got tired of getting home from church and having to drive around to different bars to find my dad, cuz he wasnt there. my dad was gonna blow off a concert of mine cuz he was gonna go drink with his 'buddies' my dad has a girlfriend, even tho he yells at us when we say shes his girlfriend. i keep watching him try to get my mom back, and some day im afraid he will. he is bad for all of us. and he wont let my mom move on. he sdays if she gets a bf he will beat him up. my dad always comes over to our apartment and locks my mom and him together in her room, and i'm afraid someday he will say the right stuff to her when i am not listening, and they will get back together. i try to help take care of my mom, and i want her to get remarried. i want another chance to have a dad. one that takes care of me and my family.

the kid with divorced parents... theres a shock!! on July 9, 2009 4:40 PM

my parents are divorced.

to olivia: what the heck is ur problem?! u know what, i lived in a pretty nice neighborhood, went to a good school, had wonderful neighbors, and u know what? my parents got DIVORCED. u need to learn to b a little more sensitive to other people, and think b4 u say something so STUPID. I did NOT live in the 'ghettos' and during WWI ghettos were fenced off neighborhoods. so u just sound like an idiot. mkay?

i am 14 now, my mom filed for divorce when i was 8, but my dad swore he could change, and my mom gave him another chance. but he didnt. finally, my mom couldnt take it anymore and they divorced. i am lucky, i guess, compared to other divorce kids. i dont NOT see my dad, i see him too much. i am afraid my mom and him will get back together, cuz they dont act divorced. it annoys me, cuz now that i dont live with him i see how bad my dad is for my mom. he lost his house, and hasnt even tried to find an apartment or anything. it makes me mad. i am happy my parents r divorced. i got tired of getting home from church and having to drive around to different bars to find my dad, cuz he wasnt there. my dad was gonna blow off a concert of mine cuz he was gonna go drink with his 'buddies' my dad has a girlfriend, even tho he yells at us when we say shes his girlfriend. i keep watching him try to get my mom back, and some day im afraid he will. he is bad for all of us. and he wont let my mom move on. he sdays if she gets a bf he will beat him up. my dad always comes over to our apartment and locks my mom and him together in her room, and i'm afraid someday he will say the right stuff to her when i am not listening, and they will get back together. i try to help take care of my mom, and i want her to get remarried. i want another chance to have a dad. one that takes care of me and my family.

yeah, my parents been since i was 3. i used to hate it but now im fine with it in some ways, i hate that i dont get to see my dad as much i want.. but i get to see him once a week! thats a good thing, right???

yeah, my parents been since i was 3. i used to hate it but now im fine with it in some ways, i hate that i dont get to see my dad as much i want.. but i get to see him once a week! thats a good thing, right???

No, my parents arent divorced. Sometimes they act as if they were.Yet I know some people with divorced parents, my good friend being one of them. I dealt with it by just yelling at her. She was turning..worse than emo? Annoying, so I would just hit her occasionaly. I still dont regret it.

I pretend to like my dad,sister,and step mom I really don't like them at all...my mom plans to remarrie in like a year or 2 I have a step dad and 3 annoying step brothers a 9 year old,a 6 year,and a 4 year they fight with me all the time and they fight with each other a-lot too I also try to type stuff to other people or to type something like this and they try to read over my shoulder its sucks ok well bye.

I was younger when my parents had split, they finalized their divorce when my mother remarried, and let me tell you, my step father isn't the best on earth, I'm counting down the days till I move forever. Sadly my dad ended up with the disease that is at large on his side of the family. But before he had it my dad was my best friend. My mom did, -and still completely does-, dedicate all her time and attention to my new "daddy" and completely ignores me, but my dad never did/does, even his girlfriends in the past treated me like their own daughter. You really do sometimes find out the special bonds you hold with your parents when they go through a divorce, although I hope not many have to, its tough, but you gotta be strong and hope for the best.

So my mom had me when she was 18 so she wasn't quite ready for me or anything. She was always out drinking and partying while my dad was home and working and taking care of me. That whole time my mom had numorous boyfriends. She was married to my dad while dating these other fellows... One Christmas she actually snuck out and we hadn't seen her till 2 days later... And the first week of my life, I had no mom, well I did but she wasn't ever home... Then I was diagnosed with a disease called Chrones... That was prolly the best and the worst time of my life... Now my mom and dad are both remarried. I like my step-dad but he spends all the money on his model planes... My step-mom on the otherhand I don't like at all... She is very strict but she and my dad are happy and they can actually pay their bills... I live with my mom because my step-mom and I fight too much and I was afraid that soon or later she would leave my dad... My step-dad was a heavy drinker and him and my mom fight constantly but stay together because they cant live alone because of money... He was very very very abusive toward my mom... It got very intense and why she didn't leave way back then the \world will never know... Well I think you might be sick of my whole life story but before i end this I haveto tell you my main idol to help me through the divorse... EMINEM... If you listen to his actual words, its ery helpful and inspirational... Try it sometime secifically the song Beautiful... My parents divorsed when I was 7 and I am now 14 so as you can see anyone can get through it with the help of other family and idols... You can get through anything if you try.

ya my parents did...... and it was a for a good reason but it killed me inside, i never get to see my dad.but the good news is,my mom got married again and my stepfather is amazing!!!!!

ya my parents did...... and it was a for a good reason but it killed me inside, i never get to see my dad.but the good news is,my mom got married again and my stepfather is amazing!!!!!

ya,they did it was for a good reason. It killed me inside but im over it.my mom got remaried and my stepfather is amazing!!!!!

yes but i got over it :(

yeah but i was really young so i don't have such a hard time with it

Madisonjonas on July 11, 2009 4:17 AM

So, yea my parents are not together anymore. The story is that they got married at eighteen and were together for 20 years and one day he came home and just left.... He is married now and I havn't talked to him in 5 months. After all this time it's still not better. We used to go hunting and do everything together and now it's all changed. I was twelve when it happend and im fifteen now and i've grown up and relized alot of things from it. So for everyone who is going through all this now, hang in there and never blam yourself. God bless :)

My freinds parents r divorced but idk if shes delt with it

Kimberly on July 11, 2009 9:56 PM

PLEASE REEAAAAD!!!!
yes my parents are divorced... it happened when i was i think 5? people say it doesn't matter if it happens when your young cause its not like you knew what was going on. Guess again, i may have been 5 but i knew what had happened. i was hurtful, painful, and tramatizing. there was a point where i would call my father asking when he would come home, he would say dont you get it? im not. bye. then, there was custody battles, child support, new wife, new father, new brothers and sisters, the updates i had to tell me friends. my life is basically like the movie "Big girls dont cry, THEY GET EVEN! its pretty messed up. i hated my childhood its sad to say, i dont remember many good things. i stopped talking to people in school. i got very quiet. with all the friends i have now, they dont remember me as a child even though i was always in their class since kindergarten.i missed getting picked up by my dad from school, i missed talking to him. we did not talk for about 3 years because i was so upset. now things are changing, i've gotten older so i now understand why this whole thing happened. i've gone a long way. but in the long run i've gotten stronger, older, wiser, and my physical appearance has changed because i wasn't depressed anymore. i play sports,outgoing, funny, bright, and popular. dont give up, dont stop talking to you father/mother, be as optimistic as you can be at school and at home...because if you dont... you'll waste half of your life... and regret it... My name is Kimberly and i am 13. this IS my story...

its not to hard somtimes its better if your parents arent togather cuase if they dont want to be togather they shouldnt have to be.

im 13 years old now n my parents got divorced when i was 1 r 2 years old n the last time i saw my dad waz when i waz 9. i waz pretty sad when my mom told me but then later on when she told me why i started 2 understand. U c the prob iz dat my dad waz cheating on my mom when they were married so i dont mind them being divorced i actualy agree wit my mom 4 getting divorced.

karlapattinson on July 13, 2009 2:08 AM

Yes my parents are divorced since I was 3 or something,but I think is better because like the fact that I don't get to see them fight and I'm happy living with my mom and my brothers and I think having no dad make me a strong and responsible person because my dad wasn't that's why he kind of left us,but having a single mom that does everything she can for you is better and I'm really lucky because I have that kind of mom.

karlapattinson on July 13, 2009 2:09 AM

Yes my parents are divorced since I was 3 or something,but I think is better because like the fact that I don't get to see them fight and I'm happy living with my mom and my brothers and I think having no dad make me a strong and responsible person because my dad wasn't that's why he kind of left us,but having a single mom that does everything she can for you is better and I'm really lucky because I have that kind of mom.

yes my parents r devoriced they hav been 4 9yrs! nd i still havent seen my dad since i was lik 2yrs old! nd i dont lik my dad..i no thts not good/nice to say but i hav a reason 2 say it...nd i hav been through alot! im just wishin tht my parents would some day get bak together but idt tht will happen now..tht my mom remarried nd i dont lik him either,he is to mean! all he does is play wit his playstation or watch tv nd he spits tobacco! thts sooo nasty! nd they fight sooooo much its lik it nevr ends! i hate it nd they say tht there solmates or wat evr but i no there not!

Yes, my parents divorced when I was only 3 and I took it ok because I wasnt really old enough to understand what had happened until I was older. We would visit our dad every other weekend, but then it became so boring when we were with him i just decided to stay home every weekend as did my big brother. But my other brother (still older than me younger than the other brother) continued to visit reguarly. Years later when i was around 9 my father died. I was very upset and very angry of how people claimed I did not love my father because we were not close but that was no where near the truth. I loved him with all my heart and I cryed every night after that and sometimed I still do. A short time after, my mom remarried to a longtime bf for about 5 years. I was crushed, but i had a good reason. I mean my dad just died and she was marrying some man who apparently wasnt suitable for any of us because they seperated after a few months together. They are still married (living in 2 different houses) So I guess were up to date now. Sometimes I think how things would be if my parents were still together or how it was before they split. Its hard to believe I can remember that long ago but its easy to remember the best days of my life.:) my heart goes out to all those who have had to go through a divorce of someone they love i know its hard.

Yes, my parents divorced when I was only 3 and I took it ok because I wasnt really old enough to understand what had happened until I was older. We would visit our dad every other weekend, but then it became so boring when we were with him i just decided to stay home every weekend as did my big brother. But my other brother (still older than me younger than the other brother) continued to visit reguarly. Years later when i was around 9 my father died. I was very upset and very angry of how people claimed I did not love my father because we were not close but that was no where near the truth. I loved him with all my heart and I cryed every night after that and sometimed I still do. A short time after, my mom remarried to a longtime bf for about 5 years. I was crushed, but i had a good reason. I mean my dad just died and she was marrying some man who apparently wasnt suitable for any of us because they seperated after a few months together. They are still married (living in 2 different houses) So I guess were up to date now. Sometimes I think how things would be if my parents were still together or how it was before they split. Its hard to believe I can remember that long ago but its easy to remember the best days of my life.:) my heart goes out to all those who have had to go through a divorce of someone they love i know its hard.

Ya my parents got divorced when I was about 4.At the time i never really understood it, but now I do and sometimes I get real emotional but my friend and I can connect real good since her parents are divorced too.
And she actually had her parents divorce at the age of 2!

Yes my parents are divorced. It's hard but I spend four nights a week at my mom's house and three nights a week at my dad's apartment so I don't miss them when I'm not with them because I know I'm going to see them soon. I have a cat at my dad's because my mom is allergic. My mom remarried to a great man and now I have a lot more family.

I feel bad for all the people who's parents split and they don't see one of their parents. It's ok guys - it will get better!!!

Yes my parents are divorced. It's hard but I spend four nights a week at my mom's house and three nights a week at my dad's apartment so I don't miss them when I'm not with them because I know I'm going to see them soon. I have a cat at my dad's because my mom is allergic. My mom remarried to a great man and now I have a lot more family.

I feel bad for all the people who's parents split and they don't see one of their parents. It's ok guys - it will get better!!!

Yes my parents are divorced. It's hard but I spend four nights a week at my mom's house and three nights a week at my dad's apartment so I don't miss them when I'm not with them because I know I'm going to see them soon. I have a cat at my dad's because my mom is allergic. My mom remarried to a great man and now I have a lot more family.

I feel bad for all the people who's parents split and they don't see one of their parents. It's ok guys - it will get better!!!

Yes my parents are divorced. It's hard but I spend four nights a week at my mom's house and three nights a week at my dad's apartment so I don't miss them when I'm not with them because I know I'm going to see them soon. I have a cat at my dad's because my mom is allergic. My mom remarried to a great man and now I have a lot more family.

I feel bad for all the people who's parents split and they don't see one of their parents. It's ok guys - it will get better!!!

Valerie Payan on July 13, 2009 5:59 PM

YES!! and i hate it!! They have been divorced since i started school!! i hate living like this. i can really see how demi lovato feels like.

Yeah my mom and dad are divorced. They got divorced when i was about 5, and at the time it was devastating. After years of thinking about it and being confused as to why they felt like it was better, i realized that it was in fact better. My parents are now happily separated and im also happy that they are separated too. i used to come home to the yelling and screaming, and was told to go to my room, i hated it. Now i dont have to come home to that, and i realized that it was never my fault.

Yeah my mom and dad are divorced. They got divorced when i was about 5, and at the time it was devastating. After years of thinking about it and being confused as to why they felt like it was better, i realized that it was in fact better. My parents are now happily separated and im also happy that they are separated too. i used to come home to the yelling and screaming, and was told to go to my room, i hated it. Now i dont have to come home to that, and i realized that it was never my fault.

Yeah my mom and dad are divorced. They got divorced when i was about 5, and at the time it was devastating. After years of thinking about it and being confused as to why they felt like it was better, i realized that it was in fact better. My parents are now happily separated and im also happy that they are separated too. i used to come home to the yelling and screaming, and was told to go to my room, i hated it. Now i dont have to come home to that, and i realized that it was never my fault.

Analisa Astogorga A.K.A Annie on July 13, 2009 7:24 PM

Yes I do actually. My Aunt has been there for me along with my 4 other's and just like anyother, she's married and is the oldest. She is always praying and i know she went back to school. She was there when I sang at weddings or other party's. When my mom married a man, when i found out i have a real dad. For everything. She was the first to get married in my moms family and the first to get divorced. Her husband never cared for anyone in the faily. He yelled at my cousin's, his son's, and worked all the time. Ever since they got into a divorce, it tore my heart out. My older cousin, 2 yeras older than me and who feel's like a brother, has dated many girls to fill the hole in his heart. He has got onto so many bad things that my parent's feel i should keep my distance. He cares for me. When I have a bad day he comes for me. When I sing at places, he's there. When I cry he's there. To never be able to see him, make's me want to die. I have him by my side but when he says that he would never leave me for his girlfriends show's that i'm his favorite girl and will always be. He helped me write my songs, he sings my lullabye's. I might be a teenager, but he's my cousin who cares. My brother. His dad hates me no matter what and never gave us chance's to show how we feel. The hole in my heart can NOT be replaced by a boyfriend but by my lullabye he sing's to me.
-missinthatcoverforthathole

Rachel Partys on July 14, 2009 12:42 AM

yes. my parents are divorced. they got divorced when i was in 4th grade. and my parents time is 50/50. the weirdist thing is im probably 1 of the only ppl who think this but i actually like my parents beter having them divorced! if i got to chose if i could have them divorced or not i would difenetly have them devorsed! heres why:
1. my mom is soo much more happier
2. my moms bf is really kool!
3. my mom is a lot nicer.
4. i kind of like having 2 houses, you get pets!
5. i get to hang out with my friends more. (usually)
6. u get too holidays, so like twice as many presents
7. U GET 2 THANKSGIVINGS!!!!
8. my parents NEVER did anything like watching movies or anything like that together before it.
9. they are sooo many more but i dont want to keep listing
right away (in 4th gr.) i was sooo sad about it i was balling when my mom told me, but now its better than it used to be! it changed my life sooo much. but it a really good way that i love now.
this is how u deal with it:the major thing is u have to know its not ur(the kids) fault!!!
another good way is usually at ur school they have little groups that u can take about like family change and that and then u can relate to other ppl. and a lot of my friends had family change too. like some of them, their parents havent gotten married and others their parents got divorced too. its really eaisy to realate with others that had the same things, or even close situations. so if u just fid someone to talk to about it its really eaisy to handle!!!!!!!
the bad part is just having to listen to ur parents to like "bag" on each other sometimes. but i mostly like it beter then my life was before they got divorced.
oh and if its really hard for u, u can go to school concerlers. (u get to get out of class :))

rachel partys on July 14, 2009 12:45 AM

i mostly just feel bad for ppl whos parents get divorced when they were like 1. or for ppls whoes parents didnt get married. or when ppl like didnt get to see one of their parents for like their hole life

No, my parents aren't divorced and I'm happy about that. Fiew!

No, my parents aren't divorced and I'm happy about that. Fiew! Otherwise life would be so complicated for me.

No, my parents aren't divorced and I'm happy about that. Fiew! Otherwise life would be so complicated for me.

My parents divorced when I was 4 years old. Every night they would come home fighting and screaming at each other. I wanted to help so every time they fought, I would blow this little kiddie whistle I had. It broke their hearts, so they devorced just for me :'). But I'm not depressed at all because my dad found a wounderfull woman and I no longer have to listen to them fighting. :)

yes my parents are divorced..but now a days mostly everybodys are. its not to hard for me because my parents get along perfect with each other..im one of the lucky ones.

yes my parents are divorced..but now a days mostly everybodys are. its not to hard for me because my parents get along perfect with each other..im one of the lucky ones.

Mrs. Nick Jonas on July 14, 2009 10:14 PM

Yes...i wish they werent!!!! they put on faces for EVERYBODY :(

Mrs. Nick Jonas on July 14, 2009 10:14 PM

Yes...i wish they werent!!!! they put on faces for EVERYBODY :(

NOPE!!! :)

Cutie_Pie12 on August 11, 2009 12:29 AM

Yes, I wish they did not, but now they are not fighting and screaming.

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My parents where married for 25 years and then my dad decided to leave my mom when I was only 9. During the time they were divorcing my mom got into an accident and my sister went flying out of the car. My sister was in a col-ma for almost a week and then she woke up. Since my mom was in the hospital I had to stay with my dad. :(

justinfanfrompgh on February 20, 2010 2:21 PM

My parents are devorced but heres the thing, my dads moms work got moved to were we live so my dad and his mom are both living with my mom nd its so weird. Also i wanted them to get a devorce in the first place.

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