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i had a boy friend and we had sex (no condomn) now i am pregnant what do i do i never told my mom. i really love him. he didnt tell anybody either and we r still togather. i am 16
I want to be thinner, but I have no time to exercise . What should I do ?
ok well....i REALLY like this kid...he is 1 yr older than me but im in 8th grade and hes in 7th...all my friends are friends with him...but im not. what do i do? ive tried asking my friends and they get him to talk to me. but i dont know? people say...oh just be yourself...but i don know how to be myself around him. he knows i like him and he likes me....he told my bff he would ask me out if he knew me more............ help
-hopelessly in love
ok well....i REALLY like this kid...he is 1 yr older than me but im in 8th grade and hes in 7th...all my friends are friends with him...but im not. what do i do? ive tried asking my friends and they get him to talk to me. but i dont know what to say? people say...oh just be yourself...but i dont know how to be myself around him. he knows i like him and he likes me....he told my bff he would ask me out if he knew me more............ help
-hopelessly in love
k well....i REALLY like this kid...he is 1 yr older than me but im in 8th grade and hes in 7th...all my friends are friends with him...but im not. what do i do? ive tried asking my friends and they get him to talk to me. but i dont know what to say? people say...oh just be yourself...but i dont know how to be myself around him. he knows i like him and he likes me....he told my bff he would ask me out if he knew me more............ help
-hopelessly in love.
(sorry i messed up on the one before (:)
I'm in love with a 9th grader and I'm in 8th grade. I havent decided which high school to go to. Should I go to the same high school as him so maybe I could have a chance with him or should I go to another high school to meet new guys even though I hate meeting new people. HELP!
Ok I feel like I'm so inlove with one of my friends. We've known each other since 6th grade, we're in 8th now. We've had our flirting sweet moments but he doesn't ask me out and then out of no where he treats me like just a friend and has a girlfriend. I miss when we would have those talks about us going out and what's bad/good about us 2gether. How do I get back to those conversations?? And hopefully lead him 2 ask me out??
okie i like dis one guy but my friend flirts wit him rite in front of me i already told her i like him but after that she started tew flirt wit him n wen every she does n stops she looks @ meh n i jus smile like ime mad. but she doesnt no. so she likes anothter boy n da boy n we have em in our 7th period we sit behind them n she past notes tew da boy i like n not tew da boy she likes!!!!!!! wat do i do????
Okay, at school, me and my friends have nothing to do when we get to school.Is lik ewere getting bored.Were barely in 7th grade in a new school.We only have time together in th emorning and after school, i have no periods with my friends.So what can we all do so we can have fun at school?
I like this guy in my class and I never told my BFF, and she's been getting flirty around him lately. She's been telling me he's 'so cute' , I want to tell her I like him too, but I don't want it to wreck our friendship, fighting over a boy. What should I do?
I have breasts now and pubic hair but i am to embaresed to tell my mom
is it ok to be friends with ex? he has a girlfriend thats was my friend untill she played dirty and started getting btwn us, so now she's scared that i might do the same to her. i reslly dont think she should be scared because i still love him but i would never do anything to hurt him=>
also i'm already in high and i dont want to start going out with guys yet, but i still have a very big crush on this guy. their's also two guyfriends that want something more than a friendship, and they cant take a hint, but i also dont know how to say no with out been a female dog about it. last time i said no the guy started crying and got my bf suspende
i need help, big time!!!
=>-katty-
Ok well I have a boyfriend who im madly in love with i just got my first kiss and we kiss not alot you know, and I kinda like this other boy. but me and my boyfriend got into a BIG fight, and now things are diffrent, and I still really like my close guyfriend. and I dont want to hurt my boyfriend, but I really do like my guyfriend. PLZ can someone help me!! PLEASE!!!
ok so i have this friend who is goin out with this guy but then she went on a frate with her guyfriend and now she likes him?! she came back from the frate and said that she liked him?! what does she do!? (she was too scared to send this in herself so i had to do it for her)
ok. I get really bad headaches and sometimes cramps but i haven't gotten my 1st period yet. Is it normal to have headaches and cramps before your 1st period?
Thanks : Leanne, 12, Toronto Canada
ok well this on cUtE guy that goes to my school n i barley see him but he sees me after skool mostly always but i walk with my brother n he sees me alot with my bro i think he thinks his my bf wat should i do???????
so like i said theres this guy i think is really CuTe n i barley see him and he sees me mostly with my bro n after skool too and i think he might think is my bf so wat should i do???
Okay, before my period I get really bad cramps. I've tried everything but nothing seems to help!
Okay, before my period I get really bad cramps. I've tried everything but nothing seems to help! What can I do to stop cramps from getting this bad?
I have a boyfriend, and he's super nice, but now I feel like I'm falling in love with another guy! The problem is, he moved away a few years ago, and now he lives in Oman! I know it's time to move on, but I just can't seem to be able to. HELP!
well.......before school started like the weekend before it i had found out that i had lice..... i have gotten it all out and my mother got soo i guess you could say scared and i am a girl and my mother gave me a hair cut and now i have no hair well just alittle and i just found out today that a guy likes me alot but will not ask me out because he is afraid of what his friends will think if he goes out with "the freak that had lice" and i really like him too and i don't know if i should egnore him or still keep on likeing him?
-- someone in need of big help--
So, I'm a little embarrassed, but I've been getting very tired of it. I have what i guess you could say as stomach fat, and its sooo annoying.I really want to get rid of it? any tips?
i'm an 8th grader and i really like this 7th grader in my spanish class, he's shorter than me, but that doesnt bother me. he's a great guy, but i'm not sure if he likes me or not. i've told some of my friends about him and their reaction was "that little shorty?" or "a 7th grader?" it really bugs me.
he's always looking at me, he said i have a nice name and he likes saying my name, and he IM's me on myspace. he also told me to text him. at first, i didnt talk to him, but then one day he messaged me over myspace asking "y dont u talk to me at school?" so we started talking and i like him even more now. he's a skater boy, and im a skater girl. we have a lot in common.
please help me!
i really like this boy and im to shy to talk to him what do i do
need help
OK idk what to do. i like 3 guys! 1 is in my grade(6) 1 is in 7th and 1 is in high school. the 7th grder lives dwn the street from me and mows for me and is soo hot and sweet. the high schooler is soo mysterious and has a 6 pack but if my friend new she would be mad cuz hes her bro. the 6th grdr looks like taylor lautner!! same liquid brown eyes soft black hair and deep voice and i like him alot. idk what to do! help me plz!
I like my friends brother alot!! But he is 3 years older than me. I have told my friend I like him and she's fine with it but I don't know if she's going to tell him or how do I act around him without him guessing I like him!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!
I really like this guy in one of my classes he is a year older then me but I don't know how to talk to him ssone one else on my cheerleading team likes him to and she is a lot bolder then me so I want to get him to ask me out before she asks him how do I get his attention btw he looks like nick j
I had anal sex with my boyfriend for a long time. And now it hurts to sit and go to the bathroom. It's felt this way for three days. What does this mean? Is this just a side effect or is it something more serious? Help. :)
There's this boy and he's a 7th grader which is one grade below mine (I'm in eighth) but he's 13 the same age as me. I like him soooo much and I just don't know if he likes me too. I mean he always is looking at me. and my friends have told me just to talk to him, but its just not that easy ya' know? and like even my soical studies teacher knows I like him and is always teasing me. I know she's said something about it to him. But I truly like him so much. His eyes, and lucious lips lol.
so HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
i'm 15.i like this kid in my biology class.we have to share a laptop so we became really good friends.he stares at me alot and will flirt with me everytime he sees me.he'll also walk to my next period class which causes him to be late.also,one of my friends went up to him and asked him who he liked and he said 'well i'm talking to ___ (my name)' i'm not sure if he likes me or not.so what should i do?
I was born at 10lbs 8ounz and since then ive been big my whole life, im in grade 8 and i weigh 173 lbs, i dont have many friends, and guys just dont like me, ive tried eating healthier but i end up pigging out. Next year i start highschool and i want to have a boyfriend and more friends, please help me, ive tryed everything, now what should i do?
im really skinny im twelve and weigh 95 pouns and im 5 4 and a half and i got my period so im still not getting chubbier
OK so their is this boy i like and one day me and my friend were writing notes for people.And she slipped one in my bag and it had the guy that i like names on so i gave it to him. I didn't know what is was so anyway. He read it to his friends at lunch and they were calling me "Love note girl" And every time i talk to my friend and she is right next to the boy i like and he tells me i am save by his locker!!!!!!! And i cry still when people say that! WHAT DO I DO!!!!!! HELP!!!!! :>/
i have a friend that i think is going through depression she is 14 and feels like she is worthless and that nobody likes here except for my other friend and i. we dont no what do. she and her mom dont comunicat well i think that might b what it is but im not sure. PLEASE HELP i dont want her to hurt herself!!!
Hillywood on;
you have to be understanding and listen to your friend because she is obviously going through a hard time. dont judge her for it and just help as much as you can.
Ive always wanted to be an actress and I take acting classes. I really want to act in a movie or show or anything! But whenever I look online for auditions they cost money but my mom doesn't want to spend money unless its a sure thing and you cant know until you try. But I cant blame her. My family is very supporting but I need advice or help because acting is my dream and I would do anything to get there!
i think taylor and taylor should go out there so cute togeter
wat up ppl
antonia loves spenser 4 ever hahahahahahahaha lol :] and ray ray hear...B)
i want to be a famous singer in my teen years and i'm in my teen years and I've tried but my mom wont let me. so what do I do?
i lik this freshman at skol but im a shophmor and he turns 15 dis month and my 15 waz almost 4 months ago.and he haz a grl wat shuld i do??????????? hiz lik my bff.i dnt knw wat 2 do. ):
me amd this guy i have known scince first grade likes me like a girlfriend and i like him but he is my bff .if we break up it might hurt our friendshib wat 2 do ?
im in love with someone who dated me on and off for 4 months and he cheated on me three times! but i keep going back to him, beause i truly think i love him, i stay up all night crying over him...im i doing the right thing?
Me and my cousin whants to know if u like games and can u come to Houston and meet us one day? and we would like to know what do u look for in girls?
I am 12 and REALLY skinny. I only weigh 62 pounds. All my friends weigh like 100. I am also only 4'8". I don't understand why I am so much smaller than all my friends. I eat enough, too.
OKAY... SOOO THERE'S THESE 2 GUYS THAT LIKE MEEE... THEY ARE BOTH MY REALLY GUD FRENZZZ. BUT I LIK ONE OF THEM. AND MI OTHER GUY FRIEND FOUND OUT AND HE BARELY TALKS TO ME NOW... ITS LIKE HE AVOIDS ME.. AND THR WORSE PART IS THEY ALREADY HAD BEEF BETWEEN EACH OTHER. SOO NOW EVERYONE AT SKOOL IS SAYING IM THE REASON THEY GOT BEEF. HERES THE BIGGER PROBLEM... THEY ARE LIKE THE HOTTEST GUYS AT SKOOL AND I'M LOSING A LOT OF FRENZZZ CUZZ THEY LIKE DEM. AND NOW PEOPLE WANT TO FIGHT ME. WE DID AMEDIATION WIT DHE PEER COUNSLING TEACHER... IT DID HELP BUT BARELY... TO TELL YUUU THE TRUTH I JUST WANT ALL THIS DRAMA TO STOP. WHAT SHOULD I DO???
Alright, latley, I've been feeling REALLY excluded from my friends. They always seem to be laughing behind my back and totally ignoring me. I'd ask them what the matter was, but they are the kind of people who either say "nothing." or "You know what you did!" and it still continues. I understand that people grow up and leave each other, but these guys have been my friends for 9 years! They act like thery're mad at me or don't want to be my friends anymore but I don't know what I did. WHAT DO I DO?! I don't want to end up by myself : (
I'm rly young 4 my age nd im in 6th grade but i way 107 lbs! Im like 2 yrs younger than all my freinds (i skipped a grade) but im much taller.....am i supposed to b this tall? ami supposed to weigh this much? I'm like 5'3, in 6th grade, 11 yrs old nd weigh 107 lbs....this is normal rite?
meeh and mii best friend like tha same boy and he kissed me twice and she only knos about one of them and he tld meeh he wants to go out bt he doesnt want to hurt her feelings so we tried the friends wit benefits thing just kissing tho and today he was bout to ask her out i need a lot of help im confused and dont kno wat to do plz give me some advice anyone who reads this thx
I have a boyfriend that I don't like and I like this guy that has is taken too. I know that he doesn't like his girlfriend and she doesnt like him. I think he likes me but I'm not sure what do I do? If you read this tell me what you think!!
i have this best friend and ive new him 4 a long time and i think im begening to like him, cuse when im with him he makes me feel speacial:) but he has a girlfriend and he seems preaty seireouse:( so evan if i asked him there would be a problem:( he allways hugs me and every thing. what should i do?
ask him out dont be shy!
welll my old best guy FRIENDDDD (not boyfriend jst friend) likes this girl named cj and ever since the 2nd grade i have liked my friend and idk wat to do cause he always comes to me wit probs and i am in love wit him and he knows that but he doesnt like me bak anymore. by anymore welll we used to like get together every weekend and welll not exactly have sex but close to it
ohh and if u want to give me advice email me at iski133@aol.com k thanks
Is it wrong to like a guy that is younger than u cuz i feel it could be embrassing cuz my sisters r like always telling me that i like this guy who is 2 years younger than me and btw i'm 15 right now.
I'm 14. I've NEVER had a boyfriend. I really want one. I don't even think any guys like me. What should I do? I'm not going to change who I am but I'm tired of waiting! Help!
I really like this boy and we are really good friends and sometimes he acts like he likes and the next day we don't even talk. I'm not the type of person that goes out with boys all the time like most 8th grade girls.Should I tell him I like him or Should i just keep it on the DL?
Kay sorry but this is gonna be sorta long.
Last year I had the BIGGEST crush on two guys. But my friend got one of them together with one of my best friends and she was happy so I just forgot about him, but I still liked him a bit but I never told anyone. So then my friend who got the other guy and my best together wanted me and the OTHER guy I like together. But then I didn't want her to know that I liked him so I kept on saying "Oh, I don't think we'd make a good couple." And then in the end she was just like you guys wouldn't be good together. But then she was just like oh i think you should go out with this other guy, but I really hated him because he was sooo mean and yeah. But she insisted that he changed. So I just took a chance and went for him. He started acting sweetly and I started falling for him. We started passing notes, and then actually talking. But then I got in trouble by my parents SOO many times because of him (I'm not supposed to be dating) and when I told him HE LAUGHED. And he didn't even apologize. Even my former crushes cared. Even people who I thought hated me cared. And then he started to make fun of me behind my back with his friends. For example, we had a presentation and he laughed and said that we SUCKED. He makes fun of me whenever I have a pimple. And this year, my friends CAUGHT HIM putting his hand down his ex's shirt and actually feeling her...And he sat on her and rubbed his....on her. She even tried to stop him. But they finally got him away from her. I keep on thinking that I'm over him but I STILL like him, even through all of that. PLEASE HELP.
Mmk so, I am newbie at this period thing... I had my period December 6th. My mom told me you get it on the same day as you did when you first had it. Is that true...?!? Cause I didn't get it and January 6th passed o.o and I'm wondering whyyy I'm confused. =S oh yeah and can you get preggers if some guys pee goes in your vajj?!? Help I'm gon confused Dx reply please
Mmk so, I am newbie at this period thing... I had my period December 6th. My mom told me you get it on the same day as you did when you first had it. Is that true...?!? Cause I didn't get it and January 6th passed o.o and I'm wondering whyyy I'm confused. =S oh yeah and can you get preggers if some guys pee goes in your vajj?!? Help I'm gon confused Dx reply please
i hit puberty 2 years ago and i still havnt gotten my period.is something wrong with me,when should i get my period?
I like this guy,and everyone knows.They figured out because how i act around him...i dont be myself!
how do i act around my crush?How do i know if he likes me back?