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jbfan172022 on October 11, 2009 9:25 AM

i had a boy friend and we had sex (no condomn) now i am pregnant what do i do i never told my mom. i really love him. he didnt tell anybody either and we r still togather. i am 16

stephaniegelson on October 11, 2009 10:15 PM

I want to be thinner, but I have no time to exercise . What should I do ?

xogenaaaaxo on October 13, 2009 4:59 PM

ok well....i REALLY like this kid...he is 1 yr older than me but im in 8th grade and hes in 7th...all my friends are friends with him...but im not. what do i do? ive tried asking my friends and they get him to talk to me. but i dont know? people say...oh just be yourself...but i don know how to be myself around him. he knows i like him and he likes me....he told my bff he would ask me out if he knew me more............ help

-hopelessly in love

xogenaaaaxo on October 13, 2009 5:01 PM

ok well....i REALLY like this kid...he is 1 yr older than me but im in 8th grade and hes in 7th...all my friends are friends with him...but im not. what do i do? ive tried asking my friends and they get him to talk to me. but i dont know what to say? people say...oh just be yourself...but i dont know how to be myself around him. he knows i like him and he likes me....he told my bff he would ask me out if he knew me more............ help

-hopelessly in love

xogenaaaaxo on October 13, 2009 5:01 PM

k well....i REALLY like this kid...he is 1 yr older than me but im in 8th grade and hes in 7th...all my friends are friends with him...but im not. what do i do? ive tried asking my friends and they get him to talk to me. but i dont know what to say? people say...oh just be yourself...but i dont know how to be myself around him. he knows i like him and he likes me....he told my bff he would ask me out if he knew me more............ help

-hopelessly in love.

(sorry i messed up on the one before (:)

MusicAddict08 on October 13, 2009 5:05 PM

I'm in love with a 9th grader and I'm in 8th grade. I havent decided which high school to go to. Should I go to the same high school as him so maybe I could have a chance with him or should I go to another high school to meet new guys even though I hate meeting new people. HELP!

Ok I feel like I'm so inlove with one of my friends. We've known each other since 6th grade, we're in 8th now. We've had our flirting sweet moments but he doesn't ask me out and then out of no where he treats me like just a friend and has a girlfriend. I miss when we would have those talks about us going out and what's bad/good about us 2gether. How do I get back to those conversations?? And hopefully lead him 2 ask me out??

sl33py loka on October 13, 2009 8:23 PM

okie i like dis one guy but my friend flirts wit him rite in front of me i already told her i like him but after that she started tew flirt wit him n wen every she does n stops she looks @ meh n i jus smile like ime mad. but she doesnt no. so she likes anothter boy n da boy n we have em in our 7th period we sit behind them n she past notes tew da boy i like n not tew da boy she likes!!!!!!! wat do i do????

candygirl13 on October 14, 2009 8:20 PM

Okay, at school, me and my friends have nothing to do when we get to school.Is lik ewere getting bored.Were barely in 7th grade in a new school.We only have time together in th emorning and after school, i have no periods with my friends.So what can we all do so we can have fun at school?

ilovenickjonas_xo on October 16, 2009 2:02 AM

I like this guy in my class and I never told my BFF, and she's been getting flirty around him lately. She's been telling me he's 'so cute' , I want to tell her I like him too, but I don't want it to wreck our friendship, fighting over a boy. What should I do?

I have breasts now and pubic hair but i am to embaresed to tell my mom

is it ok to be friends with ex? he has a girlfriend thats was my friend untill she played dirty and started getting btwn us, so now she's scared that i might do the same to her. i reslly dont think she should be scared because i still love him but i would never do anything to hurt him=>
also i'm already in high and i dont want to start going out with guys yet, but i still have a very big crush on this guy. their's also two guyfriends that want something more than a friendship, and they cant take a hint, but i also dont know how to say no with out been a female dog about it. last time i said no the guy started crying and got my bf suspende
i need help, big time!!!
=>-katty-

I Love you on October 18, 2009 5:08 PM

Ok well I have a boyfriend who im madly in love with i just got my first kiss and we kiss not alot you know, and I kinda like this other boy. but me and my boyfriend got into a BIG fight, and now things are diffrent, and I still really like my close guyfriend. and I dont want to hurt my boyfriend, but I really do like my guyfriend. PLZ can someone help me!! PLEASE!!!

abbielovesjustin on October 22, 2009 2:56 PM

ok so i have this friend who is goin out with this guy but then she went on a frate with her guyfriend and now she likes him?! she came back from the frate and said that she liked him?! what does she do!? (she was too scared to send this in herself so i had to do it for her)

omgitsleanne on October 24, 2009 10:27 AM

ok. I get really bad headaches and sometimes cramps but i haven't gotten my 1st period yet. Is it normal to have headaches and cramps before your 1st period?
Thanks : Leanne, 12, Toronto Canada

ok well this on cUtE guy that goes to my school n i barley see him but he sees me after skool mostly always but i walk with my brother n he sees me alot with my bro i think he thinks his my bf wat should i do???????

so like i said theres this guy i think is really CuTe n i barley see him and he sees me mostly with my bro n after skool too and i think he might think is my bf so wat should i do???

bieberfever96 on November 1, 2009 1:48 PM

Okay, before my period I get really bad cramps. I've tried everything but nothing seems to help!

bieberfever96 on November 1, 2009 1:49 PM

Okay, before my period I get really bad cramps. I've tried everything but nothing seems to help! What can I do to stop cramps from getting this bad?

bieberfever96 on November 1, 2009 1:56 PM

I have a boyfriend, and he's super nice, but now I feel like I'm falling in love with another guy! The problem is, he moved away a few years ago, and now he lives in Oman! I know it's time to move on, but I just can't seem to be able to. HELP!

uknowuwantme on November 3, 2009 3:54 PM

well.......before school started like the weekend before it i had found out that i had lice..... i have gotten it all out and my mother got soo i guess you could say scared and i am a girl and my mother gave me a hair cut and now i have no hair well just alittle and i just found out today that a guy likes me alot but will not ask me out because he is afraid of what his friends will think if he goes out with "the freak that had lice" and i really like him too and i don't know if i should egnore him or still keep on likeing him?
-- someone in need of big help--

goldenret94 on November 11, 2009 7:23 PM

So, I'm a little embarrassed, but I've been getting very tired of it. I have what i guess you could say as stomach fat, and its sooo annoying.I really want to get rid of it? any tips?

rainbow4485 on November 13, 2009 7:00 PM

i'm an 8th grader and i really like this 7th grader in my spanish class, he's shorter than me, but that doesnt bother me. he's a great guy, but i'm not sure if he likes me or not. i've told some of my friends about him and their reaction was "that little shorty?" or "a 7th grader?" it really bugs me.

he's always looking at me, he said i have a nice name and he likes saying my name, and he IM's me on myspace. he also told me to text him. at first, i didnt talk to him, but then one day he messaged me over myspace asking "y dont u talk to me at school?" so we started talking and i like him even more now. he's a skater boy, and im a skater girl. we have a lot in common.

please help me!

i really like this boy and im to shy to talk to him what do i do

need help

OK idk what to do. i like 3 guys! 1 is in my grade(6) 1 is in 7th and 1 is in high school. the 7th grder lives dwn the street from me and mows for me and is soo hot and sweet. the high schooler is soo mysterious and has a 6 pack but if my friend new she would be mad cuz hes her bro. the 6th grdr looks like taylor lautner!! same liquid brown eyes soft black hair and deep voice and i like him alot. idk what to do! help me plz!

loves to sing on November 14, 2009 5:01 AM

I like my friends brother alot!! But he is 3 years older than me. I have told my friend I like him and she's fine with it but I don't know if she's going to tell him or how do I act around him without him guessing I like him!!! PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!

I really like this guy in one of my classes he is a year older then me but I don't know how to talk to him ssone one else on my cheerleading team likes him to and she is a lot bolder then me so I want to get him to ask me out before she asks him how do I get his attention btw he looks like nick j

msz.rachel.bby on November 16, 2009 5:01 PM

I had anal sex with my boyfriend for a long time. And now it hurts to sit and go to the bathroom. It's felt this way for three days. What does this mean? Is this just a side effect or is it something more serious? Help. :)

There's this boy and he's a 7th grader which is one grade below mine (I'm in eighth) but he's 13 the same age as me. I like him soooo much and I just don't know if he likes me too. I mean he always is looking at me. and my friends have told me just to talk to him, but its just not that easy ya' know? and like even my soical studies teacher knows I like him and is always teasing me. I know she's said something about it to him. But I truly like him so much. His eyes, and lucious lips lol.
so HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

daddysprincess on November 17, 2009 9:52 PM

i'm 15.i like this kid in my biology class.we have to share a laptop so we became really good friends.he stares at me alot and will flirt with me everytime he sees me.he'll also walk to my next period class which causes him to be late.also,one of my friends went up to him and asked him who he liked and he said 'well i'm talking to ___ (my name)' i'm not sure if he likes me or not.so what should i do?

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