Do you gossip or get gossiped ABOUT?

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Gossip is something that everyone does -- but are you someone who gossips or someone who gets gossiped ABOUT? J-14 wants to know all of your gossip stories: have you ever been the victim of bad gossip? Have you ever gotten in trouble with your gossiping? Can someone be too big of a gossip?

Whatever side you're on, we want to hear about it, gossip girls! Comment below and you could be in the mag!

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Tons of gossip goes on in my school. There was one rumor that I was going out with my best guy friend which made things awkward between us casue i went up to him and said "are we going out and and he is like no!!! i was reallly embarrassed

In my school there were these girls and they made a "gossip club" andthey made rumors that i picked my nose and even worse one of the girls was a friend of mine

i will gossip but if its bad then i dont bc i dont want to hurt the persons feelings, but this one rumour went around about me and it said that i was dating by BFF's BF she was mad at me untill i told her ITS NOT TRUE!!!!!

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okay,.....i admit I do gossip,and I know I get ot back also?? I mean what can you do??

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I gossip on the phone i'm not sure about behind their backs me and my friend just talk about boys that we like Well a new girl at school comes up to my dude and says Hi and they both like each other so in the middle of math class she pulls out lip gloss and smacks her lips together later on that day my bf invited her to his house:( :( :@ :@

Unfortuantely, I'm the one who gossips about others, and probably way too much. It usually about celebrities, sometimes about people at school, but not much. I don't like to gossip about the people around me, because I wouldn't want to be gossiped about.

I gossip but like everyone else is talking about it and I just inform my friends on what I heard lol and if I say something its just what I think about one person, my friend is being gossiped about were in year 9 and like all years in the school are gossiping about her and its really horrid but we have decided we are going to let it go past our heads, if you can do that your bigger than the person gossiping about you because they are sad enough to tell everyone your business but this gossiping has really messed up the group of friends we used to sit with and one girl has left the school now too so its really hard.

supermiley01 on November 10, 2009 8:00 PM

me and my best friend do gossip but it nevers is really bad like we only talk about people at school or celebs but we never really gossip to the point where its bad!!!!!!!!!:P

supermiley01 on November 10, 2009 8:01 PM

me and my best friend do gossip but it never is really bad like we only talk about people at school or celebs but we never really gossip to the point where its bad!!!!!!!!!:P

MusicLover48 on November 10, 2009 10:40 PM

Well I do gossip, but only if someone starts gossiping about me. I know people gossip about me because everyone gets gossiped about at one point in life, and I have people who will tell me if that happens. When I find out, I simply spread gossip about the person who started it. Fight fire with fire, as I always say.

paigeypaiger on November 11, 2009 1:13 AM

Okay well when I was in Middle school. One time some how a rumor got around that I like to stalk people. When that rumor got out,everyone would look at me like I was weird,or just stare at me. I was wondering why they were doing that,so I asked my bestfriend,why everyone would stare at me and just look at me like I was weird. She said the boy that you like said that you stalk people. I said "What". Why would he do that I said,she said I don`t know. So I decided to ask him why he said that,he said that cause everytme he would turn around I was there or something,I said yeah that`s because I am in all your classes,are lockers are right next to each others. He said oh you are. I said yes I am. He goes I didn`t know that. I siad whatever. I went back to my friend and said what did I ever see in that boy. She said I don`t know. So after about a week the rumor died down. So I guess everything was ok. That`s my story!!

reggiebushgirl25 on November 11, 2009 12:04 PM

Eight grades tough. I've been the center of all gossip cause girls get insecure and jealous it stinks. Right now the rumor is that this 18 year old got me pregnant and were going to move to Guatemala to help starving penguins when hes 5 years older than me! Its so tough I just stick with my friends and we just laugh it off.

My friend and I gossip a lot! but really bad, though there might have been a couple people we dont like that we gossip about. I dont think any one is gossiping about me ill just have to wait till rumor gets around to find out.

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Chrissy Chik on November 11, 2009 4:23 PM

I get gossiped about. I'm in 9th grade, and there is this stupid little 6th grader on my bus who buddied up with the mean girl in school (who is in 7th grade) They think they are so cool just because they are making fun of a 9th grader... i just roll my eyes cuz i actually think its hilarious. They can say some really mean stuff tho- i just don't let it get to me.

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I gossip with my friiends but like i try not to it just comes out :P. and like i wont realise it until l8r on . :S :P

im not eitheir ill kep yo secret and thats a promise : P

IloveJustinBieber2 on November 12, 2009 9:58 AM

I've Gossiped and ive been gossiped about.and gossip hurts. i've apperently calledd the so called "popular preps" the b word. and then they threand to beat me up and. i've gosspied about this guy a like how much a of a wominizer he can be.
Kels.

i hate being gosspied about if its bad but if its good i love it!!! i also know all the latest gossip!!!

do you know you have fans outside the country? I live in the netherlands, but you can't buy J-14 here I think . =( But this website is awesome!

kendraellsworth on November 13, 2009 1:41 PM

i always gossip about my kinda friend aylee beacause she is mean and always talks about me so y cant i talk about her.:)

PeacexLovexMusicx4 on November 13, 2009 4:42 PM

Everyone is guilty of gossiping at LEAST more then once in their life. Sometimes, some things are just to juicy to not tell anyone!

I'm def both- gossiped about and gossiper. I don't like to gossip anything worse than harmless tho, cauz I've been a victim of CRAZY gossip. Some of it to my face.

Cullen_Lover_Forever on November 13, 2009 6:18 PM

I never gossip, I know it might be hard to believe but I don't. I tend to be the subject of a lot of gossip at my school and most if not all of it is downright hurtful. Girls at this age are catty and just plain mean! I never want to cause someone to feel the way that many of the girls in my school have made me feel.

i am deffently both but i get "gossiped" about by my two bffs and they say it to my face like tues i was talking to my crush and his friend and my bffs started talking about me and i was STANDING RIGHT THERE. they said i was flirting and wew were talking about school it sucked!!! but i also talk about people. i deserved it oh well. i dont really care

maxilove0015 on November 13, 2009 8:40 PM

neither =] because one .. i dont give them anything too talk aboutt .. if i got something too say i will say iht too yur face =] and i dont gossipp .. ihts very childish . like come on ... the way yu talk about that person behind there back .. why cant yu sayy iht in thier face ... =/ and tiernis98 if they are talking about yuh in yur face or behind yur backk that means their not yur BFF's ..=/ .. =]
Signed by Maxine :)

People gossip about my cousin all the time! A bunch of kids at my school were all saying she was Emo and Bi and like crazy stuff! I hate gossip. If you're going to spread stuff tell the truth, not just what you hear from your friends or random people.
!ILUVJUSTINBIEBER

Qtrivera1234 on November 14, 2009 1:24 AM

there was this one gossip about my best frind and my boyfriend were sneaking behind my back and dating im still trying to figure if they did or not

a little bit of both but most of the time its me gossiping but i watch what i say so it doesnt hurt anyones feelings

One time i heard the phone ringing so i ansered it and it was my guy friend.We were telling secrets to each other and i asked him who he likes and he said ME!!!!I was silent for a sec and thats why i don't like to gossip because something might come out of your mouth that your not supposed to say YET!!!Now he's my BF

monkeychunc on November 14, 2009 6:38 PM

I get gossiped about. I sucks.... I try not let it get under my skin but it is realy hard

Corinabobina on November 14, 2009 6:44 PM

there is tons of gossip around my school. I never spread it, but i do like to talk about it, it makes life interesting!

there are tons of gossip at my school.my friends are told this boy i have a huge crush on

FutureMissBieber-x on November 15, 2009 12:20 AM

I Have Never Been Gossipd About, Well Not By People I Know & Care About, I Of Course Gossipd About People, Just About What They Wear & Stuff Like That. But I Try Not To & If I Catch Myself I Just Zip My Lips & Go About My Day.

katybugladybug on November 15, 2009 3:39 AM

I've been gossiped about liking boys.There are twins in my school so everyone thought I liked both.So finally I thought of a smart thing to do. I found the source. It was one of my friends.She was actually a bully she just acted nice. Soon I just ignored it.

jennifersmyth on November 15, 2009 12:45 PM

in my group in school theres so much gossip, like some of the girls cant stop gossiping its crazy. once a rumor went around that i made out with 24 guys at one house party when really it was only 12. some rumors start off small but then as they make there way around the school the story completely changes. i think most girls gossip anyway its normal!

jennifersmyth on November 15, 2009 12:49 PM

in my group in school theres so much gossip. some of the girls gossip non stop its crazy! a rumor once went around about me that i made out with 24 guys at one house party when really i only made out with 12. rumors start off small but as they make there way around a school the story completely changes! i think though its normal for teenage girls to gossip .
Jennifer, Los Angeles

Amanda_Lynne on November 15, 2009 4:16 PM

Honestly, neither. I think the whole "he said, she said" thing is silly. I mean, I do sometimes get into fights, but I never take it too seriously. There are more important things than to constantly talk about people or to worry about what people are sayin about you

Both.I don't start the gossip ,but I do talk about it.I get gossiped about saying I'm pregnant and I'm dating this dude and all that.

both.i've never really started the gossip.but me and my girls are like the most gossiped bout girls in our school.girls start stuff bout me and my boyfriend to its so stupid.

you should'nt gossip beaucse it hurts otherss feeling and brings down their self confidence! if u knw that someone is gossiping about you than you should stand up for yourself and tell them that what their doing is wrong! you can dooo it!!:DDDDD

hey this is anna hermida.i would have to say i dont gossip.i always am getting gossiped ABOUT.like this recent event that had happened in my school were a boy in my grade wanted people to gossip about me so he pretended to be me and called this other boy in my grade asking him out.he said YES.of course he thought it was me not the boy who wanted people to gossip about me.The very next day when i walk in the classroom i sit at my desk and people came and went asking me are you dating sebastian .i said NO.NEVER.WHY WOULD YOU ASK THAT.suddenly at lunch i was shocked every one was talking about it.i was so embarresed,and hurt everyone was making fun of me because of the gossip they heard about me and sebastion dating.WICH OF COURSE IS NOT TRUE.!!!-anna.h

Everybody gossips. It's something that everybody subconsciously does even if they don't realize it. I am definitely not to the type of girl who people consider as the type who gossips, but sometimes I bad-mouth a girl I don't like without even realizing it. It's' ridiculous when someone says they "never gossip". EVERYBODY gossips.

When I was in 8th grade, there were these group of girls who didn't like me because of my appearance. They didn't want me to sit with them at the lunch table and so they started to talk about me in front of everyone and that made me mad and sad at the same time. Then when I got out in the hall ways there were other girls going around saying stuff that I didn't even do. I got so mad that I yelled out so badly my teacher asked me what the problem was. I told her the situation that they were telling rumors about that I didn't wash my hair and that I smelt bad. But I have a dry scalp that makes it look that way. So I went to the councelor's office and told them about the two people that were bullying me and I had chorus with one of them. She comes up and tells me that she didn't do anything when she did, and later the other girl who was suppose to be my friend told me sorry about what she did. I go to West High and they are sophomores and freshmen. Got them to start being nice to me! HAHAHA!!

BiggestJBlover1 on November 18, 2009 6:57 PM

I mean, who doesnt get gossiped about? NO ONE!!! Its just a part of life obviously if u r in middle or high school...I avoide it but hey thats life :(

lots of people tell me apperantly you and your best guy friend are dating and i get mad so i just tell evryone hes dating the ugliest girl in class

OMG_Omg_omg on November 18, 2009 8:10 PM

I think gossiping that everyone does either intentionally or unintentionally. I know that i've heard things and if i thought it was something worth passing on, I would. I also know that I have done something worth talking about and passing on. So, essentially gossiping is a part of our aily lives.

OMG_Omg_omg on November 18, 2009 8:11 PM

I think gossiping that everyone does either intentionally or unintentionally. I know that i've heard things and if i thought it was something worth passing on, I would. I also know that I have done something worth talking about and passing on. So, essentially gossiping is a part of our daily lives.

New Moon Lover01 on November 19, 2009 12:24 AM

Lets see wll all girls gossip and sum time in there life youll get gossiped about so i have to say yea i both gossip and get gossiped about so everybody has been a victim or the one causing the pain to some one else thats just how life is

elephants79 on November 20, 2009 3:58 PM

My sister Emma and her boyfriend kiss in the hallway of my house every day. I tell them to get a room or a life but they never listen. I tell them to grow up and find a hobbie. All they do is make-out. It's digusting! Sorry that I'm gossiping right now.

Nicole, Missouri since I moved about two hours ago. Gotta go unpack.

♥Alley♥ on November 20, 2009 9:59 PM

I get gossiped about...it is tipically because i am an religion (apostolic) that most people aren't. So my religion believes that we (us girls) wear only skirts so i usually and the one being picked on!

both, but only becuase there are these two girls who are evil, backstabing, jelous, nasty, liers who are out to get me, they hate me so much they are always spreading rumours around about me, i get so mad, that when theres a chance for me to gossip about them i take it, KARMA GIRLS!!

Candydrop123 on November 21, 2009 11:01 AM

Well I would have to say me being the person who gets gossiped on because these girls said something about me that is so not true I'm not going to say what they said but it was bad at these only a couple people but the rumor stopped

jaecen_higashi on November 21, 2009 10:01 PM

There's tons of gossip about me in school. But their all lies. I gossip a lot. I try not to though. It's kinda a bad habit to girls.

cheerprincess1234 on November 22, 2009 11:16 AM

thats how my school runs i gossip alot without meaning 2 n im postive theres gossip bout me every 1 does it even the guys its sad but true

I don't care if I'm talked about because that means they are hating on me!

bananapie1998 on November 24, 2009 6:18 PM

I dont care if someone gossips about me cause it means they hate me and like i care!!!!

bieberjustinfan on November 28, 2009 8:51 PM

I have been gossiped about!!!! it was with me and this boy!!!!!!!!!!!

I sometimes gossip, but I barely do. I don't know if people gossip about me. People tell me that it's not good to gossip, but sometimes you have to.

heyy guyss. okay so i tend to gossip alot about some of my bestfriends but you just cant help it sometimes. i also get talked about a lot cause im known to be a "popular". people dont understand that i dont give if im popular cause its not going to get you anywhere in life. ive lost many friends because theyve basically stabbed me in the back big time. i just need to stop caring what people think. any advice?

stephgurlyxoxo on December 1, 2009 6:53 PM

I gossip so much its not even funny but, I also get gossip around the school about me! I find it very annoing and I like wanna scream soo much but what ever.

I get gossiped about in school. Sometimes I care and sometimes I don`t. I try to get the things out of my head , But the things I think about are all those people that gossip about me. I try not to gossip but these things get to me too much that I can handle. I guess trying to get back at them with filthy words isn`t going to help one bit. Let them have fun , I'll be the one laughing when I`m way over their levels. I mean c'mon?
-LadieH.

P.S for the people that have endured the gossips , good job. (: And remember always let it go. It was past no matter what kind of gossip , let it get past you , that was yesterday , as said(

RigerxTorixRawr on December 5, 2009 3:54 PM

i think everyone gets gossiped about now days, but i say if u get gossiped about, you just need to laugh it off, half the time its not even true:)

I ALWAYS get talked about weither I am bad or good. I like to help out a lot & I'm always talking about tryna change the world, so people naturally assume that I think I'm better than them because I talk about stuff like that. & the fact that I have tattoos & facial piercings so people like to talk about that too or even when I show up at a party its always all eyes on me, it's like no ever likes anything i do even if it's good things.

MuahLoveYah on December 11, 2009 7:03 PM

-Gossip Sucks! I Don't Start It, I Dont Get Gossiped On Either...But If Something Does Start...Like Anyone Should Care?!?!

ohhh gossip!!!! i hate gossiping but i get gossiped on all the time by a stupid girly girl with a stupid click. uhhhhh i hate her and her click!!!!

ohhh gossip!!!! i hate gossiping but i get gossiped on all the time by a stupid girly girl with a stupid click. uhhhhh i hate her and her click!!!!

ilovejoeandnickJB on December 13, 2009 1:42 PM

My 'friend' is a bully. she gossips about me to my other friend, and now my best friend ignores me alot and excludes me! Well, i definetly don't gossip, it is just mean!!!!

karlareyna34 on December 14, 2009 4:35 PM

well yea people gossip about me but not much well at least not as much as much as i gossip bout them i gossip alot and yes people have issues but i dnt mind

justinbeiberlover4 on December 14, 2009 6:56 PM

if i hear some thing about my friends and they don't want me to spreed it around i don't. but if i don't really care about it i spreed it around. you have to beware because you might get in trouble though.

justinbeiberlover4 on December 14, 2009 6:59 PM

sometimes i gossip and sometimes i don't. if i do it never about my friends. but you have to beware because you never konw when you might get troble.and its just mean even when they talk about you.

i dont gossip but once somebody gossiped about me one girl in 6th grade said that i am a brat and so is my friend i think shes jealous of my singing.....

MRS.YAPIE 24 on December 17, 2009 2:46 PM

Well see in school im talked about. i have so many haters it dnt make no sence. i have been going to dis school for three years nd every year sumone talks bout me nd they want to fight ova stupid stuff nd i aint for it but i have been talked bout.

my friends talk about people sometimes but nothing major me and my friends most hated people in our grade it seems like we have a lot of haters but we dont let it get to us.. the people that hate us we havent talk about!!!!!

DIMPLEZ 103 on December 24, 2009 4:14 PM

I DNT LIKE GOSSIPING ITZ NOT NICE...ND SOMETIMEZ PPL GOSSIP THE DUMBEST THINGZ!!!!BUT YEA SOME PPL MIGHT GOSSIP ABOUT ME BUT I IGNORE THEM!!!!BACAUSE THEIR NOT WORTH IT!!!!THEY MUST GOSSIP BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO LIFE!!!!

WELL I DO GOSSIP. BUT ITS NOT LIKE I SPREAD ROOMERS BOUT PPL ONLY GOSSIPING. TYRING TO STOP BUT JUST CANT.
WAT CAN I DO TO STOP HELP ME PLZ PPL
:)

(smirk) Both ways! >.

I do!i even have a 'hotGmate' with my friend:)or in long form we called it 'hotGOSSIPmate!I love it!

I do!I even have a 'hotGm8'(hot gossip mate) with my friend,lol!

future MRS.Bieber2 on December 28, 2009 7:53 AM

Im not really a gossiper im not a nasty person or all i only gossip about cleb stuff or things like that. gossiping aint nice esspeilly if its rumors. DONT DO IT OR U SUCK!!!!! jk

My story is their was this girl in my class who used to be my friend i was a new girl so that was all i wanted, we ffriendz until she came to my house she called my sister goth and said my mom was stupid becasue i couldnt have 2 friends over on a weeknight. she gossiped about me to all my friends my other friend didnt really stand up to me than but she does now. Then the other i dont like becames friendz with my friend and stole her a way form me. but knoe its just me and my friend alone not anyone else and that girl will never reuin my life again
(plz dont put this in the magazine)

teddybear311 on December 29, 2009 9:24 PM

In my old skool, i was always picked. But the odd thing is, i was popular!
Everybody started spreading rumours about me
becuz these two girls, Sarah and Naomi
thought that I was taking over them and started spreading rumours about me
I was really sad.....
now, i changed skools
and now it's ok
XD yipeeeeeee~~~~~
I still have hope left :)
it's not fun having rumours about u
so don't gossip about other pplz!
i've been through it and it
really hurts
....

MaggiePopp13 on December 30, 2009 9:35 AM

I have gossiped about someone, I never heard any gossip about me but im sure I have been gossiped about

I was a victim of gossip, but I also still gossip too. once, my guy friend were gossiping to each other in the hallway, and my guy friend whispered in my ear and someone came up from behind us and said, "were you guys just kissing!?" we both screamed no, but it was too late. the person ran to his friends and told everyone that my guy friend and I were going out! we were so embarassed to even talk to each other for a long time, because we were afraid of what someone would think of us. it was so embarassing.

Me get gosspied? lol no rarely happens to me cuz its 2 hard scince they have no shizz to put me down with :P
I gossip well i try not to but ppl just weaken me so i tell them :P

monique.jaelynn on January 1, 2010 1:10 AM

I never been gossiped about and i only get gossipped 2 i dnt repeat it caz it can start things im like a person at school who is never in the middle of anything but someone always throws me in but im never in. but bad gossip should jus get out of the halls and hit the bus

taylor5678 on January 3, 2010 12:51 PM

i'll have to admit that i think most girls both gossip and get gossiped about. because since the girls in y school are really compettitive, i think that if someone gets gossiped about, that they gossip about that other person that's how it works in my school.

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