As fans know, back in January, the actress publicly announced her open relationship with Mod Sun and Tana Mongeau. Now, she revealed that at first it was difficult, but as a whole, that relationship was a lot of fun.
“Obviously, dating two people at once is a little difficult. I’m just with Ben [Mascolo] now, so I’m not seeing any girl currently,” she told Cosmopolitan. “It’s like, it really depends on finding the right mesh of two people. If it works, you can spend a weekend with two people and you’re all hanging out and having fun…sharing stories up late at night. Kind of having fun acting like children in that way. It’s a really fun experience and I have been able to capture that a couple times, and I just love that idea. I love loving two people at once. I love sharing stories with three people in one room. So, I’m always trying to find ways to make it work because I think it really would make me happy.”
She then went on to explain how she has approached the topic of polyamory during her past relationships. Bella said that if someone told her they’re not into dating two people at once, that’s how she knew it wasn’t her forever person.
“A lot of my partners start out like ‘what?’ and I’m like, ‘Bro, this is who I am,'” she said. “So, you’re either down or you’re not down and I totally understand if you’re not down. At this point in my life, I want to find what makes me the happiest, and that is the mission I am on. If you don’t want to be on that mission with me, then okay, I totally understand. If it will hurt you too much, then we’re not right for each other at this moment in my life because this is what I’m looking for.”
When asked if finding a partner who is down for this type of relationship was difficult, she revealed that after a discussion, most people change their mind and come to love the idea.
“A lot of people are actually down and it totally changes their mind,” she explained. “At first they’re like, gasp, ‘How do you even do that?’ And then we talk it through and they’re like, ‘Wow, that actually sounds kind of beautiful.’
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