Did you realize that Lorde is in a very serious relationship? While the 17-year-old singer has become world famous, her photographer boyfriend James K. Lowe prefers to keep a pretty low profile. In a new blog post, he describes what it's like dating a pop star who's thousands of miles away on tour — and it sounds just as complicated as you might think.

"I’ve experienced being a target of the tabloids, finding moments I thought I was in safe hands splattered all over the internet, being pushed and shoved, or watching others get pushed and shoved by paparazzi just to get what they think they’re entitled to," James writes.

But being in the public eyes has not been all bad.

"I've had the privilege to sit on an aircraft for 12 hours, cramped, exhausted but happy," he admits. "I've been able to tell tales of the many amazing people I've met along the way… People who seem to scramble the words within your brain and the only thing you end up doing is blurting out ‘HILSKDFLKWELK.'"

"More importantly, I’ve found a little inspiration from new faces," James continues. "People I look up to. People whose work I admire so much. For all of this I have to thank the one I look up to the most. Who I admire the most. Who still fills the little voids I try to avoid."

Are you glad Lorde has found someone who looks up to her so much? Do you think it would be hard to date a celebrity? Sound off in the comments!

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