Out of all the Pretty Little Liars stars, Tammin Sursok who’s best known for playing Jenna on the show, has kept a relatively low profile. That’s a given considering she’s happily married and mother to a sweet little girl. Though recently the actress had fans worried when she penned an emotional letter on social media, explaining how she’s dealing with a heartbreaking loss in her life.

Sharing a picture of herself looking out into the sunset, Tammin wrote on Instagram, “It’s been hard for me to be on social media this week. We have been going through something as a family and it’s hard to mask what we are feeling. I always want to be authentic with you. Last week was the first time I’ve experienced loss. That’s as much as I’m going to say right now but I do want to write about what we have been through at some point to help anyone who is also going through it.”

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It’s been hard for me to be on social media this week. We have been going through something as a family and it’s hard to mask what we are feeling. I always want to be authentic with you. Last week was the first time I’ve experienced loss. That’s as much as I’m going to say right now but I do want to write about what we have been through at some point to help anyone who is also going through it. The holiday season is beautiful but sometimes you hurt and it’s messy and confusing and irritating. You become angry and you don’t know at who to be angry. You realize that your anger just stems from pain. So if you are hurting this holiday season, for any reason, know I’m with you and I see you. And the only way out is through. Together we got this ❤️

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“The holiday season is beautiful but sometimes you hurt and it’s messy and confusing and irritating. You become angry and you don’t know at who to be angry. You realize that your anger just stems from pain. So if you are hurting this holiday season, for any reason, know I’m with you and I see you. And the only way out is through. Together we got this ❤️,” she continued to write.

Though she didn’t go into specifics about what exactly happened, our hearts certainly go out to her and her family. Dealing with loss is never easy, and with the holiday season right around the corner, we can only imagine just how difficult this has been for her and her loved ones. We certainly wish them nothing but the best, and hope they are able to overcome this challenge together. Surely her letter has helped thousands who are going through the exact same thing.

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