Nobody really knows what’s going between Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn. The two are dating, but no one has actually seen them together except for that one time in Nashville earlier this year. A new, secretive Tay is upon us, and it’s nothing like we’ve ever seen before. Though as usual, she’s been dropping major hints about her in guy the only way she knows how – through her music.

So of course everyone pretty much assumes her two latest singles, “Gorgeous” and “…Ready For It” are about the actor. It’s safe to say that they might be considering all the secrecy around their relationship, which is here to stay, btw. A source recently told US Weekly that the singer is actually enjoying keeping her love life out of the spotlight – and surprise! They like to relax just like the rest of us, by watching television and staying in. The source dished, “It’s very normal, and no one really knows about it right now. They just work out, watch movies together and invite friends over. Taylor loves to cook and bake for him. They are still taking it slow.”

So fans should pretty much expect to be left in the dark for now, when it comes to the “Bad Blood” singer’s romance. The source continued to dish, “It’s often been Taylor’s M.O. to be seen with a new guy first, have her new single drop and then announce her new album. But this time, she’s kept the guy private. And that’s pretty interesting. She really likes Joe.”

It’s a whole new Taylor, and it looks like fans are totally into it. She’s spilling all the tea fans want to know through those cryptic lyrics, and that usually speaks much louder than anything else she could do. So here’s hoping the next single delves a little deeper into her romance.