Selena Gomez has been linked to every Hollywood heartthrob you can imagine. From Justin Bieber to Orlando Bloom to Charlie Puth – Sel definitely has the cream of the crop to choose from.

But, are these guys really her type?! In a new interview, the "Good For You" singer opened up about what kind of boy she wants to date and why many of them are actually terrified of her. Wait…no freaking way! It might be shocking but Sel actually makes a super valid point and we are totally feeling for her right now.

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She said, "The guys that do have the confidence to hit on me are not necessarily my type, but they think they are because I’m a pop star, I sing songs, do movies, I like to feel sexy and confident on stage. I’d be so stoked with a writer or producer or actor who is low-key, but those kind of guys are terrified of me!"

Selena continued, "For a while my private life was the most talked about thing. Nobody really knows everything and they can only assume. You want to do what you love but all this other stuff overshadows it so it makes it a little harder for people to take me seriously.

I think people would think it’s kind of dumb [to date me]. Nobody would want to throw themselves into that situation where it was so heightened publicly, like, why would they? But I like to have fun, I like to hang out."

Ugh. Of course, celebrities have amazing lives and get to travel and see things that not all of us normal folk can. BUT, Selena brings up a negative side to being in the spotlight that sometimes fans don't always think about.

Even though she may think no one outside the biz would want to date her and the guys in the industry are scared of her, she seems like a really cool chick. We have a feeling when the time is right she'll be able to find her soul mate!

What do you think of everything she said? Let us know in the comments below!

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