There’s no denying that Selena Gomez and The Weeknd are perfect for each other. To be honest, even though they are some of the biggest stars in the industry, they seem really normal. The couple goes to dinner, hangs out at music festivals and supports each other in their professional endeavors. Okay yeah, they walk red carpets too. But besides that, Selena and The Weeknd seem to have found their happily ever after.

But, the “Hands to Myself” singer wasn’t always this elated about her love life. Of course, she dated Justin Bieber on and off for years and the relationship was constantly making negative headlines. So, what is the difference between her relationship with The Weeknd versus her relationship with The Weeknd?

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For one thing, she’s older. She has grown, matured and realized what she’s wanted in life. However, there’s more – much more.

A source told E! News, “She is head over heels in love with Abel. This relationship is very different than the one she had with [Justin] Bieber. This love is very mature and she is in a different head space now,” the source said about Selena and The Weeknd. “She has really found who she is and what makes her happy. She loves Abel and he loves her. They have gotten to know each other very well and have learned from their past relationships what they want and don’t want.”

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The source continued, “They both met each other’s families and they all approve.”

And when the couple is apart, they STILL want to be together. “When they are not together. they text and FaceTime and keep connected. They love to just chill and be a pretty normal couple—like go to the movies, order in and watch TV. They seem serious and like this is the real deal.”

We don’t know about you, but this sounds like a world of a difference compared to Selena’s relationship with Justin.

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