Season 3 of 13 Reasons Why is officially available on Netflix today — and tbh, we missed the cast! Of course, while there are plenty of hookups and relationships on the show, a lot of the actors and actresses in the series are actually booed up in real life. Everyone from Dylan Minnette, who plays Clay Jensen, to newcomers Tyler Barnhardt (Charlie Saint) and Bex Taylor-Klaus (Casey) have serious girlfriends — one of them is even engaged! Check out the video to get the scoop on the casts’ real-life relationships.

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