As much as we all want Lana Condor and Noah Centineo to be together IRL, the actress recently explained that it’s unfortunately never going to happen. And that’s because she’s actually madly in love with her boyfriend, Anthony De La Torre! In case you didn’t know, the couple has been together for more than three years, and their love story is honestly just as cute as Peter Kavinsky and Lara Jean Covey’s.

OK, we know what you’re thinking — there’s no way that’s possible. But Lana and her BF are seriously the cutest. From constantly gushing over her man in interviews, to sharing their adorable PDA-filled pics on Instagram, they’re out there proving that true love really does exist outside of the movies.

But who exactly is the To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before actress’ man, you ask? How did they meet? What’s their relationship like? We’ve got you covered, guys. We’ve gone ahead and rounded up everything we know about Anthony and his relationship with the star, so prepare to have your hearts melted.

Scroll through our gallery for all the details on Lana’s relationship with her boyfriend Anthony.

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