What if we told you there were real-life Peter Kavinsky‘s roaming around out there in the world? Your first thought might be that we’re lowkey delusional, and we would understand why. But seriously, there are! And leading lady of To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before, Lana Condor, is proof.

Despite the fact that everyone is shipping the breakout Netflix actress with her on-screen love interest Noah Centineo, she actually has a boyfriend in real life. His name is Anthony De La Torre – and believe it or not, he is just as dreamy and romantic as Peter. And we’re not just talkin’ about his looks here (although he’s pretty easy on the eyes, if we do say so ourselves). Rather, we’re talking about how her real-life bae legit writes her love letters – just like in the movie!

“He writes me love letters, actually! He’s done that since we started dating and I keep them all. We try to keep the spark alive!” Lana revealed in an interview with Us Weekly.

He’s not the only one. She writes them back!

Lana spilled, “When I have a lot of emotion going on, I’ll write. I write letters to my family, my boyfriend, anyone I’m trying to get my point across to. It’s easier for me to express myself.”

The couple has been dating for three years, and it is safe to say they look super happy together. Anthony is a fellow actor too. Not only has he appeared in a couple episodes of 100 Things to Do Before High School, but he also played the young version of Jack Sparrow in Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Men Tell No Tales.

Our hearts are fluttering just thinking about these two!

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