Thursday, February 21, was Joe Alwyn‘s 28th birthday, and in honor of the big day, we decided it’s time to recap his and Taylor Swift‘s adorable relationship. The two have been dating since May of 2017, and fans of the iconic couple know that they’re pretty hush-hush when it comes to their romance. They do their best not to be photographed together and rarely talk about each other in interviews, so it’s been a struggle for us Jaylor shippers, TBH.

But although they’re pretty private, the couple has been caught packing on the PDA a few times over the years. Not to mention that they’ve been spotted supporting each other’s work numerous times — Taylor has attended her beau’s movie premieres, while Joe was caught singing along to the “Look What You Made Me Do” crooner at a few of her shows. And every time we get a glimpse of the super secret relationship, the internet pretty much loses it.

That’s why we went ahead and rounded up all of their adorable moments. Scroll through our gallery to see a complete timeline of Joe and Taylor’s relationship.

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